Re: my husband sabotaged me!/ need to vent

[Guest guest]

Take a deep breath. You'll be just fine. You're allowed an occasional cheat

anyways. I don't know how to post the link about this here but Bee will. I

would cut your husband some slack on this. I'm sure he didn't purposely put

the sauce on to mess up your diet. Hey, at least he cooked dinner! lol! Do you

know how many women would envy you? Congrats on 5 months on the program.

Tammy

In a message dated 12/18/2008 4:02:29 A.M. Central Standard Time,

holidaymommie@... writes:

So in addition to needing to vent, I am wondering if there is

anything I can do to erase this- or do I basically have to start

over? Was the first 5 months all for nothing? I'm so bummed. 5

months and never once did I *cheat*- I feel so betrayed!

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[Guest guest]

>

> My husband often makes dinner while I'm at the gym and then leaves

> some out for me (while he goes upstairs to get the children ready for

> bed) if it is something I can have. So the other night when I got

> home I saw some chicken on the counter and quickly chopped it up and

> added it to my vegetable soup- didnt even think anything of it.

Today I woke up and felt a bit of a vaginal yeast issue which is

> surprising since I have been on the diet for over 5 months.

+++Hi Sara I don't believe you got vaginal yeast from the chicken that

had a small amount of sugar. More than likely your body is " retracing "

previous episodes you've had with yeast in the past, which is according

to Hering's Law of Cure:

http://www.healingnaturallybybee.com/articles/menu1_1_2.php

jBee

[Guest guest]

> Take a deep breath. You'll be just fine. You're allowed an

occasional cheat

> >

> Tammy

An occassional treat has been the cause of complete relapses for me

each and everytime I've slipped up. It then takes me about 5 weeks

or more to start feeling human again. Even mild cheats. The next

day will usually result in my body once again attempting to assert

itself against what I've done which can result in the typical mind

fog and headaches and the same set of symptoms I have to go through

to once again gain the improvement I had been gaining prior to the

cheat. Ongoing healing is one thing and I do continue to get " some "

symptoms from that, but I note the difference between that and the

total relapses I've experienced.

The symptoms are not simply another stage of healing. I know them

well by now and it's only occured AFTER cheating. The length of time

it takes to improve is very long. The stages of healing to gain that

improvement are unpleasant. To have to endure the same cycle of

symptoms again to get back to the health I had been gaining prior to

cheating is enough to make me want to tear my hair out.

The cheats responsible for this have been pretty mild. Coffee is one

of them. Consuming cream is another or even a piece of fruit or some

potatoe chips. This is how suseptible some of us are. I cannot

speak for others who maybe able to handle the occassional cheat, but

I can speak for myself and perhaps those more suseptible. I can

imagine sweetened sauce would likely produce the same results in me,

since everything else has.

Adam.