Guest guest Posted November 27, 2002 Report Share Posted November 27, 2002 Hey there Daryl you don't really need to be apologetic to the group, to us you did not do anything wrong, I feel badly by what happened but I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL having been there myself. I cannot imagine why e got so upset, maybe she misunderstood, regardless, if you want to apologize to her that is up to you, but to this group, you did not do anything wrong at all that is how I am sure most of us feel. You are ill, you are under stress, on heavy pain meds, and your sick sick sick with toxins, how on earth can anyone even hold you responsible for not articulating your words the way they want you to? I don;t know, I am surely disappointed by this, but in the end, we are all here for you 100% and the group will stand by you. As for Dr Huang, frankly I am a bit disappointed in her reaction to you wanting to hear that you were making the right choice, this is exactly why I recommend Feng so much, she told me many times that I would get better, that I was doing the right things, etc! YOu need to hear that and yes, in my opinion you need to be comforted by the PS who is removing your implants, maybe for some that is not an issue, or need, but for me it was and obviously you too, and I understand why you would not be so gung ho to run out to Denver if the PS is not making it seem like a good choice, who wants a surgeon like that. I don't really question her integrity as a surgeon but I do question her stance on implants. Anyhow you are in a bad spot now as far as what surgeon to chose, it will most likely be impossible to find one who will take the stance that implants cause illness, so you will most likely have to just find one that will do the job right, if you must stay local that means that will take everything out (scar capsule implant etc) and do the best possible job he can. Maybe you can find a female PS who will be more sensitive to your needs. Regardless what happens we are all pulling for you and praying for you and will be hoping things turn out right, in the end there is usually a reason for everything that happens. I am not sure what that is now, but it will make itself known soon. On that note I need to get my self ready to go to work. Hang in there, it does get better, I have almost NO signs of any problems anymore, cept some little foot pains, I mean I am 99.9% cured, and have come so far, and really am happy with my health now, where before everyday seemed like it was going to be my last. Don't give up and MOST OF ALL DO NOT APOLOGIZE FOR TAKING UP TIME HERE! THAT IS BS. You are not taking up time, you are what this group is about , please, don't stop sharing and coming here, we want to help. blessings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2002 Report Share Posted November 28, 2002 Again, two sides to every story. Haung's office has tried to be helpful and it's wrong to paint an inaccurate picture.I'm the first to critize a doc who's an asshole. The only thing Huang's office did that I feel was uncool is to charge MORE for self pay--that is lame. That's what this all comes down to. Instead of paying 6,500 it's 8,000. As for Feng, she's good--no doubt, but she does'nt call folks before surgery(or consultations ) either--she never called or I. Huang did call darly twice. Evidently it was not good enough for her and THAT'S OK if that's how you feel--but let's just be truthful here. Both stories should be heard before rending judgement. It's sad to see it was not appiled here. -Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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