Guest guest Posted December 8, 2000 Report Share Posted December 8, 2000 Have I missed something? Why does not feel welcome here? darling, you are very welcome here. Did somebody say something? Please stay as a asks. This is a wonderful group. Sincerely, Jeannette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2000 Report Share Posted December 8, 2000 , I'm sorry that you feel you are not welcome here. I'm sure that no one meant to make you feel that way. If I did I'm sorry. I'm really bad about reading all of my mail and then thinking I'll go back and answer one, then I get side tracked and forget to answer. I'm trying to answer as I read so I want have that problem. Please reconsider and stay with us. I have read your post and enjoyed them. Tery - FL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2000 Report Share Posted December 8, 2000 , i to hope you don't leave the group. my house has been like most everyone elses. jesse has been in a flare for over a month now and has been sick with upper respertory problems and ear infections that are making me lose his balance and he keeps falling on top of the flu that the two youngest ones have. with the holidays coming and trying to maintain some sort of structure in the house has been almost impossible. it seems that most everyone in the group has been having the same kinds of problems. this is a bad time of year cause everyone is trying to do everything and with the flu and cold season here everyone is just a bit weaker. i don't think anyone would intentionally hurt your feelings. this is one place that everyone is caring and undersanding. i truley hope you stay with us. shelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2000 Report Share Posted December 8, 2000 I'm sorry you feel that way, . I honestly don't think that you were being purposely overlooked just because you are new. We have almost 180 members in this group. Of course, not everyone posts on a regular basis, but it has been increasingly difficult for everyone to keep everyone else straight. It's also a busy time right now and people aren't online as much as usual. Under other circumstances, you might be getting more feedback. I wish you would give us another chance! Sincerely, ----- Original Message ----- From: " " <dat2352@...> < egroups> Sent: Friday, December 08, 2000 9:39 AM Subject: [ ] leaving > I am not a stick in the mud, actually I am very friendly but I have felt less than welcome here. I dove right into the discussions, introduced myself and asked questions but I have felt very little support. You seem like really nice people to each other from what I read but the only ones who have really communicated with me in any way are other new people. I am on several other-other topics of interest to me and I was welcomed readily. I have learned allot here by reading others mail but I don't get any feelings of welcome so I will be going. Thanks for information and I have bookmarked websites mentioned but I need more than you can give me. Bye! > Temple > Kuddle Kritters Farm > Chelmsford, MA > dat2352@... > http://www.homestead.com/kuddlekrittersfarm/index.html > http://www/homestead.com/kuddlekraft/index.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2000 Report Share Posted December 8, 2000 , I wish you would reconsider. I have not been online as much as usual because of many things going on with my family's health and the holidays. Our other moderator, who is usually very chatty has had back surgery and other health problems, that keeps her offline. Many of us have been having difficulties this past month. I am truly sorry you feel that you are not welcome here. That is far from the truth. I've enjoyed reading your posts and am looking forward to getting to know you. Unfortunately my life at home doesn't seem to let me be at my computer as often as I'd like. I really hope you will stay with us. a ----- Original Message ----- From: <dat2352@...> < egroups> Sent: Friday, December 08, 2000 10:39 AM Subject: [ ] leaving > I am not a stick in the mud, actually I am very friendly but I have felt less than welcome here. I dove right into the discussions, introduced myself and asked questions but I have felt very little support. You seem like really nice people to each other from what I read but the only ones who have really communicated with me in any way are other new people. I am on several other-other topics of interest to me and I was welcomed readily. I have learned allot here by reading others mail but I don't get any feelings of welcome so I will be going. Thanks for information and I have bookmarked websites mentioned but I need more than you can give me. Bye! > Temple > Kuddle Kritters Farm > Chelmsford, MA > dat2352@... > http://www.homestead.com/kuddlekrittersfarm/index.html > http://www/homestead.com/kuddlekraft/index.html > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2000 Report Share Posted December 8, 2000 I agree and I am fairly new to this group. I hope noone said anything to make you feel that way. That is not the intent or my experience of this group. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2003 Report Share Posted February 13, 2003 I just want to say that I felt that a few people were really mean to me, when all I did was state my opinion, despite the fact that I have been on this site for a long time, and have done my best to help others, the fact is that I do have a very strong opinion with regards to saline implants of all type. Because I don't feel that it is wise or right to give any one the impression that a smooth implant is safe or that they cannot get just as sick from them, everyone, esp Dr Kolb has decided to turn on me. However, I have done much soul searching and realized that it is time for me to move on away from this issue and get on with life, now that my illness is pretty much gone, I have lots of life to live. I feel bad that I need to leave the group, but I don't feel that I will be missed anyhow and the fact is that just because I disagree with Dr Kolb on this issue does not make me mean or a bad person. I have a right to my own feelings on this subject. I also happen to know that there are certain PS's out there who are trying to do fat transfers and that is legal to do this, and that there are some sucess with it. Hopefully someday this will be improved and implants will be pushed aside for a natural method of enlarging breasts. In the meantime i hope everyone here will be healthy and happy and know that despite having my own opinion I think that I have always tried to help others throughout this whole issue and tried to be nice and supportive. It is time for me to move on from all this. take care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2003 Report Share Posted February 14, 2003 I am so sorry. This letter was intended to be a personal reply to Kathy, not meant for the group. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2003 Report Share Posted February 15, 2003 Patty, I had a wonderful "hearts" day, I hope you did too. What did you do? Our house will be closed on next week, we have been in the process of building it for over 9 months now, Arggg! Anyway, I am glad it will come to and end, and we can stop living out of all these god forsaken boxes! Anyhow, we have a jucuzzi in our master bath, and tonight, we took our little guy Tyler over ther (we have the keys but cant move in yet) and filled up the tub, and I watched my husband and him take a bath in what seemed like a an endless pool to him. It was realy a beautiful moment, snow was falling in the window behind them (good thing the neighbors arent in, they would have gotten a eye full!) being Valentine's Day, and to watch them both, to be alive to hear the water, and see his wet smile, and sloppy kisses just realy made me thank God that I am sill here surviving Although, I stopped feeling like a victim a long time ago, tonight was the first time in a long time, that I truly felt blessed. Blessed with family, and people who love me, and blessed to see the white snow falling in slow motion. It was like God was pulling it out of his bag, and sprinkling it everywhere. Anyway, just thought I 'd share that, I know its not about Breast Implants, but tonight, I realized I have come a long way to realy see my blessings. Love you guys, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2003 Report Share Posted February 15, 2003 Of course, I am upset about leaving the group, as I have valued her participation very much, and she has been a great help to me when I have needed a break from the group as well. I just wanted to let all of you know that has said that if any of you want to write her privately about anything or have questions, she would still be open to receiving private emails from any of you. Please feel free to continue communicating with her if you wish. She just needs a break from this group right now and I can understand that. It can be a very volative issue, always has been and always will be, unfortunately. As Dr. Bernard Patten has said, breast implants are Bad for those who made them Bad for those who put them in Bad for those who got them in And bad for those who did research on them. And on it goes.....I hope everyone has had a very nice and love filled Valentine's Day. I did absolutely!~ I feel very blessed. I hope you all do too. Love, Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2010 Report Share Posted August 26, 2010 Angel, I've been deleting all of the posts except for a couple. I don't feel well and can't handle the extraneous garbage either. I voiced my suspicions about it, but it still goes on. Just go no mail until it lightens up. Barth www.presenting.net/sbs/sbs.html SUBMIT YOUR DOCTOR: www.presenting.net/sbs/molddoctors.html --- nac> The amount of non-relevant posts in the last month is beyond my level of tolerance. nac> Since the moderators are letting non-relevant posts like 'ok', welcome back' et al, is turning this into a chatroom environment rather than one of 'discussion'. All I have done is hit the delete nac> button when seeing posts from Sickbuildings. nac> I've met some great people online and in person from the group. nac> I'll rely upon my friends/associates to forward to me posts that they think are relevant that might be put up on the NTEF's website. I am sure the important posts will be cross posted to nac> ACCHEMIC which will keep me in the 'information' loop. nac> Take care. nac> Angel nac> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 2010 Report Share Posted August 27, 2010 Sorry about that... Robin > > > > I think Sharon got my point. Im confused with what you are saying. i was sarcastically responding after someone complained (accused) about their " suspicions " and had explained them in an earlier post. I was being sarcastic and I have pretty much been in the depths of despair lately as this has been pretty traumatizing. Then people are making statements like some of the new folks are plants of some sort? ( I was sarcastically repeating the accusation since no moderators or anyone else addressed it.. ). > > > > Robin > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 2010 Report Share Posted August 27, 2010 Robin, there seems to be problems here lately with people reading things into posts that are not there, and not reading replies to their own posts. sometimes it's better just to let things roll off your back. people have good days and bad days, sometimes it comes out in the posts. sometimes just thinking about how that person may be haveing a bad day helps to overlook flaws. when you think about how bad you fell, just remembers others are felling the same way. I dont recall anyone posting about newbees being trolls, must have missed it. if someones just saying they cant keep up with posts, theres to many posts, posts are going into subjects that are not relavent to the WDB issues,than maybe just try to understand that that is what they are saying,nothing more. > > > > > > I think Sharon got my point. Im confused with what you are saying. i was sarcastically responding after someone complained (accused) about their " suspicions " and had explained them in an earlier post. I was being sarcastic and I have pretty much been in the depths of despair lately as this has been pretty traumatizing. Then people are making statements like some of the new folks are plants of some sort? ( I was sarcastically repeating the accusation since no moderators or anyone else addressed it.. ). > > > > > > Robin > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 2010 Report Share Posted August 27, 2010 Very interesting. One of my suspicions is that very soon we will see a very detailed article gleaned from this list - perhaps even a book! Barth www.presenting.net/sbs/sbs.html SUBMIT YOUR DOCTOR: www.presenting.net/sbs/molddoctors.html --- K> Thank you Jackie, K> Also, please inform Barb and I through email. Your names will remain anonymous. K> Thank you K> KC K> >> <SNIP> >> >> > I'll rely upon my friends/associates to forward to me posts that they think are relevant that might be put up on the NTEF's website. I am sure the important posts will be cross posted to >> ACCHEMIC which will keep me in the 'information' loop. >> > >> > Take care. >> > >> > Angel >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 2010 Report Share Posted August 27, 2010 Please, please get your names straight. I did NOT write the post you are referring to! Barth www.presenting.net/sbs/sbs.html SUBMIT YOUR DOCTOR: www.presenting.net/sbs/molddoctors.html --- C> Robin: C> I am really sad to read this. Newbie's deserve to be welcomed and treated with the up-most respect. There is no need for such paranoia. I am just shocked that this is the sort of welcomed they C> get. C> : C> Just go on digest and not get individual e-mails. I am sure the mods will be glad to show you how to do this. If a group is giving me too much mail, I either go on digest or no mail or read from C> the group's website. I don't go and gripe over a few off topic messages. Lighten up and allow us all to enjoy our group and to be able to welcome new members or welcome back old members. I don't C> see welcoming someone as garbage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 2010 Report Share Posted August 27, 2010 ARGH! Just re-visited my " inbox " and discovered the loving, supportive message in response to this thread. O.K.: Once I know better, I do better. I believe this is one lesson I need to learn, especially in this group. As I once advocated a " pass " for emotional reactions, I should have provided that to the folks who said hurtful things. Sorry for my over-reaction and my hyper-sensitivity. I promise to post when I recognize that one of my symptoms, perseverating over what used to be comments I could dismiss or ignore, has risen its head. New tool for Sally's maneuvering this illness:  Don't react right after reading a post but allow yourself, Sally, a certain amount of time to drop the boiling point and to reflect and think. Over-reaction seems to be a way of life sometimes for me these days. Apologies for the diatribe, lovely group folks. Good thoughts to all, sally ________________________________ From: osisposis <jeaninem660@...> Sent: Fri, August 27, 2010 6:34:51 PM Subject: [] Re: Leaving  Robin, there seems to be problems here lately with people reading things into posts that are not there, and not reading replies to their own posts. sometimes it's better just to let things roll off your back. people have good days and bad days, sometimes it comes out in the posts. sometimes just thinking about how that person may be haveing a bad day helps to overlook flaws. when you think about how bad you fell, just remembers others are felling the same way. I dont recall anyone posting about newbees being trolls, must have missed it. if someones just saying they cant keep up with posts, theres to many posts, posts are going into subjects that are not relavent to the WDB issues,than maybe just try to understand that that is what they are saying,nothing more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2010 Report Share Posted August 28, 2010 I got your name from that post. I guess it was a bad 'copy and paste' job someone did. > > Please, please get your names straight. I did NOT write the post you > are referring to! > > Barth > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2010 Report Share Posted August 28, 2010 Thanks for clarifying that. I wouldn't want to hurt anyone who is hurting already from mold illness. Barth www.presenting.net/sbs/sbs.html SUBMIT YOUR DOCTOR: www.presenting.net/sbs/molddoctors.html --- j> I got your name from that post. I guess it was a bad 'copy and paste' job someone did. j> >> >> Please, please get your names straight. I did NOT write the post you >> are referring to! >> >> Barth >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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