Smart girl

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I am glad to hear that you have decided not to go through with this

surgery. I can understand that you feel bad about your breast. I have

a couple of suggestions which may or may not be an option for you ,

but I think if you have some tissue that is just mishapen and saggy

you could opt for a breast lift or tightening procedure which will

improve the shape and sag of your breasts. Even small breasts can

benefit from this. I too was very embarassed by my pre implant

breasts. I now am very small but I am not embarrased to undress in

front of my husband. They are perky and the scars are almost

invisible. I do wish they were bigger. Have you considered trying

some herbal enhancement pills? I can tell you that there are really

some women growing there own tissue too with herbals. In fact I know

of a site dedicate to this, and those women are like us, they don't

want implants. So these are a few things to think of. You may also

want to talk to Dr Feng in Ohio, she is having succes with fat

injections to fill out parts of the breast, the gains are small but

may be all you need. I think that there are always options other than

implants.

good luck

keep us posted

In , " ltiedeken " <ltrn449@a...> wrote:

> I have always wanted implants, but I thought they were not safe.

> Over the last few years, they have become so common you feel as if

> you are an outsider if you dont have implants! Everyone talks of

how

> safe they are, and I found so little resourses reporting their

> complications (even my own doctors). I just figured all the kinks

> were worked out and the saline implants are now safe. I did so

much

> research stating no connection between implants and illness before

> stumbling upon this website. I know in my heart that I was

actually

> looking for negative information because I knew that cutting open

> your chest muscles and putting large silicone objects in it just

did

> not sound safe!! But If they weren't safe, I thought I would have

> heard so much about them. I thought I was just being paranoid.

> I cannot believe so many women are suffering, and everyone is

> ignoring this information. It makes me so angry (its still a mans

> world, I guess). I thank you all because, knowing all of you are

out

> there, and knowing your stories , I am finding it hard to go

through

> with the surgery. I dont want to harm my body and my family. I

> will probably be depressed because when I thought I was having

> surgery I kept imagining how my bras, bathing suits, and bedroom

> confidence would improve(even though Ive been married for 15 years,

I

> don't dress or change in front of my husband because I feel too

self

> conscious.)

> Thank you, and I hope more women get the information and support

that

> you all gave me before they make their decision.

> Gratefully,

> from Jersey