Re: Gloria's Brother

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I am so sorry Gloria.  At the very least he is no longer in any pain and he didn't have to suffer for months on end.  He is at peace now..  I know that was your baby brother and  your whole family has been thru so much....  Stick together.. you need each other..  not like that family you married into... those people...  well, they are not worth the gum on the bottom of  your shoe my friend.  They just aren't.  I hope you can find some peace and comfort....  

Hugs,Teri On Wed, Jan 26, 2011 at 9:57 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote:

 

Hi GangBefore I go any further with today's posts, I gotta tell you all - my baby brother passed away this morning!!!

It was only 18 days ago that we learned that he was seriously terminal!  He was only 51 yrs old, had 3 beautiful daughters that love him to pieces and many, many friends.  He was the real funny one in the family.  He had that ability to crack a joke about any and everything.  He could do voices so well, that you had to make sure that you were watching him or you'd honestly think someone else was speaking.

Life just sucks sometimes!!!  After I got that news this morning, I also learned that even some of my husband's cousins are passing around misinformation about our relationship.  Don't they get it??  There are far

more important things in life than fusing over my marriage.  I just don't want to be an anymore.  I quit!  I just can't get as sick as they are, that's for sure.Gloria

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TeriJust right now, the peace is starting. Your words alone make me feel better. Really, I just wish that I didn't have to go out of my door anymore. It hurts too much.

I am so sorry Gloria. At the very least he is no longer in any pain and he didn't have to suffer for months on end. He is at peace now.. I know that was your baby brother and your whole family has been thru so much.... Stick together.. you need each other.. not like that family you married into... those people... well, they are not worth the gum on the bottom of your shoe my friend. They just aren't. I hope you can find some peace and comfort....

Hugs,Teri

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Gloria,

Sorry to hear that your brother passed. He's not suffering any longer.You can

take solice in that. I prayed every night as I lay in bed, that God would take

him into his loving embrace and help him to pass on peacefully.

You're right, life does suck sometimes. Just know each and everyone of us are

with you in spirit and we all love you.

Debbie

>

> Hi Gang

>

> Before I go any further with today's posts, I gotta tell you all - my baby

> brother passed away this morning!!!

>

> It was only 18 days ago that we learned that he was seriously terminal! He

was

> only 51 yrs old, had 3 beautiful daughters that love him to pieces and many,

> many friends. He was the real funny one in the family. He had that ability

to

> crack a joke about any and everything. He could do voices so well, that you

had

> to make sure that you were watching him or you'd honestly think someone else

was

> speaking.

>

> Life just sucks sometimes!!! After I got that news this morning, I also

learned

> that even some of my husband's cousins are passing around misinformation about

> our relationship. Don't they get it?? There are far more important things in

> life than fusing over my marriage. I just don't want to be an anymore.

I

> quit! I just can't get as sick as they are, that's for sure.

>

> Gloria

>

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Thanks so much DebbieThe whole family is grateful that he passed in his sleep and with all 3 daughters right beside him. Plus, we are grateful that he didn't have to go on any longer and suffer more.Funny, I added a comment to his Blog last evening, telling him it was time to go to sleep now. Of course, I absolutely doubt that he read it; but, he did go in his sleep.Gloria

Gloria,

Sorry to hear that your brother passed. He's not suffering any longer.You can take solice in that. I prayed every night as I lay in bed, that God would take him into his loving embrace and help him to pass on peacefully.

You're right, life does suck sometimes. Just know each and everyone of us are with you in spirit and we all love you.

Debbie

>

> Hi Gang

>

> Before I go any further with today's posts, I gotta tell you all - my baby

> brother passed away this morning!!!

>

> It was only 18 days ago that we learned that he was seriously terminal! He was

> only 51 yrs old, had 3 beautiful daughters that love him to pieces and many,

> many friends. He was the real funny one in the family. He had that ability to

> crack a joke about any and everything. He could do voices so well, that you had

> to make sure that you were watching him or you'd honestly think someone else was

> speaking.

>

> Life just sucks sometimes!!! After I got that news this morning, I also learned

> that even some of my husband's cousins are passing around misinformation about

> our relationship. Don't they get it?? There are far more important things in

> life than fusing over my marriage. I just don't want to be an anymore. I

> quit! I just can't get as sick as they are, that's for sure.

>

> Gloria

>

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I understand...  do what you need to do sweetie.. and I am here if and when you need me...  know that.Hugs,TeriOn Wed, Jan 26, 2011 at 10:26 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote:

 

TeriJust right now, the peace is starting.  Your words alone make me feel better.  Really, I just wish that I didn't have to go out of my door anymore.  It hurts too much.

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RodI love the way that you see this!! My spirituality will kick back in, as soon as I can comprehend just a little of the loss.Both of my parents are still living (together). So, you can imagine the horrible pain they are feeling!! It's not supposed to happen this way. Plus, my whole family tries not to bring anymore stress to our Mother; because of my illness.Thank You for the HugsGloria

So sorry to hear of his passing, Gloria. My dad passed away in his sleep at 83, and it seemed like such a nice way to go. I, however, want to be awake and smiling, looking forward to what's next and the journey!

Wishing you many hugs and warm thoughts in this painful loss.

Rod

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Thank You, CherylIt sure is whole new experience that we have to learn something from. Not sure what this is yet; but, I just know we have to learn something.Actually, it's hitting my son very hard!! First thing he had to try to do, was incorporate the fact that the only father he ever knew and his mother split after so many years. Shon learned such good things from his step-father, that he's had a rough time realizing that the man himself lost all pride last year. Then, that father passes away so suddenly!! Now it's his uncle and they live in the same city. He feels guilty that he didn't try harder to visit him. I've been encouraging him to contact my brother's three

daughters and his cousins. I have told him several times now, that he doesn't have to feel guilty about anything. Simply that it is hard to incorporate all the news and how we learn to live with it.Already, since my husband's death, Shon has suddenly realized that it falls on him to know what is going on with my health. Although we have always been close, lately it feels a little too close some evenings. I'll be sitting here checking the emails and sure enough, he pops up on MSN with the same question, as the evening before. "How are you feeling?" But, of course, I have to let him do this. At his age now, he certainly should know that my health has not been all that great.Gloria

Gloria I am so sorry for your loss, you are always here for me I wish I could do something for you. I will pray for you and your family.

Huggsss

Cheryl

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Hi Gloria,I am so sorry to hear about this.I am sending my love and support, if I can help out in any way, please let me know!Sending big hugs and lots of love,nyOn Jan 26, 2011, at 6:16 PM, Christ wrote:

Hi Gloria

I am so sorry to hear about your little brother passing on.

He is in good hands now, and doesnt have to deal with his bodys illness any longer.

I am sending you, your Mom, and his 3 daughters tons of love, comfort, and everything good.

Hug your Mom for me please, when you see her next.

I am here if you need me.

love

don in ks

From: Gloria <gadamscan@...>Subject: [ ] Gloria's Brother"Hep C Web Warriors" < >Date: Wednesday, January 26, 2011, 9:57 PM

Hi GangBefore I go any further with today's posts, I gotta tell you all - my baby brother passed away this morning!!!It was only 18 days ago that we learned that he was seriously terminal! He was only 51 yrs old, had 3 beautiful daughters that love him to pieces and many, many friends. He was the real funny one in the family. He had that ability to crack a joke about any and everything. He could do voices so well, that you had to make sure that you were watching him or you'd honestly think someone else was speaking.Life just sucks sometimes!!! After I got that news this morning, I also learned that even some of my husband's cousins are passing around misinformation about our relationship. Don't they get it?? There are far more important things in life than fusing over my marriage. I just don't want to be an anymore. I quit! I just can't get as sick as they are,

that's for sure.Gloria