Re: Gloria/Teri I must be feeling better.

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Hey I have seen em Teri. Rick and I went Toy hauler hunting once and found several. They were cool.

I hate house cleaning also. lol. My husband grouches about it but he works 8 hours a day and I work 13 -15 hours a day so why should it be my desinated job alone? He says house keeping is a womans job.

I am not so scared now of being alone. I probably prefer to be. I have been living like a hermit for years and years. I like my computer and my friends in my computer I get along well with that. I have been pretty much a loner for ever. My husband the same. So we are pretty well matched on that. We work alright together. If we could get his moms ideas out of his head. He is a mommas boy. I just decided after all this crap with that little girl getting a crush on Rick I am happier worrying aobut myself. I am not going to let it get me that down. I just got scared when I got to right before I went in the hospital with pnemonia and I took the dogs out and I could not breath. Felt as if my right lung was quitting on me or deflating or something. It was painful too. Well while I was out there I almost took a nose dive off the top steps of our porch. So scared myself. The car ride to town was fun too. I was not driving well at all. I swear I drove like I

was drunk or something. I could not even help it. Not sure why. Nothing was right. Then at hospital walking in almost collasped before I could get to the first chair I saw. I was not so okay. I was glad from their they come to me asked what I was there for seeing I was carrying xrays they got me a wheelchair and got me registaired. Anyway I barely made it to the hospital. I wasn't sure if I parked in a place I could park in. I forgot to lock my car. My car got tossed. Fun stuff. My husband just told me he is just glad I am okay and he was pretty scared. He visited me every day I was there. He moved back home and took care of the dogs and bird while I was gone. He is still here. I got him to go to the doc himself. He has the flu. He showed me he will step up and help some. Maybe not to all my wishes and whims but he will do good. I told him I wasn't hiring that girl afterall due to her inability to cook anything. That was one of the main things I wanted

her here for. I cook everything for Rick homemade from scratch so he has a couple of casseroles for the week. She can't do anything but frozen pizza tv dinners very simple things to her liking only. That won't get it here. I would rather feed Rick tv dinners except when I feel good enough to cook than have her wasting money paying her to heat a pizza I can't eat and he won't eat. He works at a pizza plant. They serve the guys pizza for lunch every single day. He don't want pizza.

Okay done with my ranting. I am starting to get my mind back I guess. Last night I started cleaning. That is scary. I must be feeling better if I can start venting and stuff. I missed everyone while I was gone.

HUUUUUUGGGGGGGGSSSSSSS Cinder

You have a DOOR to your UPSTAIRS? Gloria... I am so confused. How do you get a second floor in a travel trailor?

Laughing my butt off over here!

When I was on treatment I rarely ventured out of my bedroom.. during the times that I felt pretty decent (which was rare but did happen at least for a few hours each week) I would make sure my room was dusted and tidy. Hubs kept the bathroom clean... that was the only time he ever kept the bathroom clean actually... He knew I couldn't do it and needed it clean when I'd wander in there thinking I was gonna be throwing up for hours. There is nothing worse than having to barf in a nasty bathroom! The rest of the house.. they actually kept it fairly well picked up. I think they knew if I walked out into another room and saw a mess I'd try to start cleaning. They didn't want that.

Hugs,Teri

On Fri, Jan 28, 2011 at 8:38 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote:

The story about the 22 yr. old is kinda funny!! I've had it happen and the only thing I don't like about it, is that the female pretends a relationship with you, when all the while she thinks she has a hope of your man. LOL I've always believed in any relationship I was in, if the guy was going to sleep around on me, then best I find out early in the partnership. I put up with being slapped, punched, hair pulling, verbal and emotional abuse. But, I never had to worry about them having a wondering eye. So, the little girl just needs to grow up some.However, , I truly believe that you will be fine on tx. In both of my runs at treatment, I would be able to let the animals out if I tried. But, while I was doing the 1st, my Mother would either spend the Friday night with me or she would come on a Sat. to check up on how I

was. What she usually found was me all cozy in bed, the TV blaring, the dog up close to me, as well as both cats.Really, stock up on a few of those frozen dinners, lots of yogurt and anything else that is easy to get down and doesn't take much work. The housework is absolutely taboo!! If you are going to try to work, then for sure you won't be doing housework. But, you know what?? It didn't bother me one iota. I did have a housekeeper; but, he wasn't really great about the corners etc. At least my floors were pretty clean and the biggest thing - my bathroom was clean. I have one of those things about the bathroom being clean.Gloria

Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 11:46 PM

When I did treatment the first time, my husband worked away from home a lot!!! Unfortunately, on the 2nd round, he was right there. In my case, that turned out to be the worst thing that could have happened. Do I wish that I had never done treatment and still had my husband?? NOPE not for a second. He truly was a jackass to me, period. In fact, he's still a jackass to me!!! Dying without a will. Geez!!! I'll tell you, if I could magically wish him back from the ashes, I'd use a baseball bat to hit him up the side of the head.When he

was away during the first treatment, my mother would come over every Friday night that I did my shot. You know, never once did she actually see me do the shot; but, she felt better that I was not alone. However, I actually had no problem with being alone on the Sat. or Sun. That way, I could just stay in bed and was not concerned about anyone.Gloria

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On Sat, Jan 29, 2011 at 11:46 AM, Cinder <datagrey (DOT) Holy crap you DROVE YOURSELF to the hospital?  You are lucky you made it there in one piece!  Jeez woman!  Don't be doing that stuff.  Sounds like you have everything where you need it to be to start tx.  I don't think you'll need any help kid.  I did it without help.  I was able to let the dog out when she needed it although most of the time she wouldn't get off the bed when I was feeling real bad.  They kinda know.  If Rick comes home every night you'd be fine.  If he  can just be home the night of your shot and the few right after I think you'd be okay.  

Right now, just get yourself healthy again.  It's going to take some time to recover from this and please don't go back to work too soon. It will just make you relapse.  You have to be well before you can start treatment too...  

Hugs,Tericom> wrote:

 

Two floor RV's

Hey I have seen em Teri. Rick and I went Toy hauler hunting once and found several. They were cool.

I hate house cleaning also. lol. My husband grouches about it but he works 8 hours a day and I work 13 -15 hours a day so why should it be my desinated job alone? He says house keeping is a womans job.

I am not so scared now of being alone. I probably prefer to be. I have been living like a hermit for years and years. I like my computer and my friends in my computer I get along well with that. I have been pretty much a loner for ever. My husband the same. So we are pretty well matched on that. We work alright together. If we could get his moms ideas out of his head. He is a mommas boy. I just decided after all this crap with that little girl getting a crush on Rick I am happier worrying aobut myself. I am not going to let it get me that down. I just got scared when I got to right before I went in the hospital with pnemonia and I took the dogs out and I could not breath. Felt as if my right lung was quitting on me or deflating or something. It was painful too. Well while I was out there I almost took a nose dive off the top steps of our porch. So scared myself. The car ride to town was fun too. I was not driving well at all. I swear I drove like I

was drunk or something. I could not even help it. Not sure why. Nothing was right. Then at hospital walking in almost collasped before I could get to the first chair I saw. I was not so okay. I was glad from their they come to me asked what I was there for seeing I was carrying xrays they got me a wheelchair and got me registaired. Anyway I barely made it to the hospital. I wasn't sure if I parked in a place I could park in. I forgot to lock my car. My car got tossed. Fun stuff. My husband just told me he is just glad I am okay and he was pretty scared. He visited me every day I was there. He moved back home and took care of the dogs and bird while I was gone. He is still here. I got him to go to the doc himself. He has the flu. He showed me he will step up and help some. Maybe not to all my wishes and whims but he will do good. I told him I wasn't hiring that girl afterall due to her inability to cook anything. That was one of the main things I wanted

her here for. I cook everything for Rick homemade from scratch so he has a couple of casseroles for the week. She can't do anything but frozen pizza  tv dinners very simple things to her liking only. That won't get it here. I would rather feed Rick tv dinners except when I feel good enough to cook than have her wasting money paying her to heat a pizza I can't eat and he won't eat. He works at a pizza plant. They serve the guys pizza for lunch every single day. He don't want pizza.

Okay done with my ranting. I am starting to get my mind back I guess. Last night I started cleaning. That is scary. I must be feeling better if I can start venting and stuff. I missed everyone while I was gone.

HUUUUUUGGGGGGGGSSSSSSS Cinder

 

You have a DOOR to your UPSTAIRS?  Gloria...  I am so confused.  How do you get a second floor in a travel trailor?

Laughing my butt off over here!

 

When I was on treatment I rarely ventured out of my bedroom..  during the times that I felt pretty decent (which was rare but did happen at least for a few hours each week) I would make sure my room was dusted and tidy.  Hubs kept the bathroom clean...  that was the only time he ever kept the bathroom clean actually...  He knew I couldn't do it and needed it clean when I'd wander in there thinking I was gonna be throwing up for hours.  There is nothing worse than having to barf in a nasty bathroom!  The rest of the house.. they actually kept it fairly well picked up.  I think they knew if I walked out into another room and saw a mess I'd try to start cleaning.  They didn't want that. 

Hugs,Teri

On Fri, Jan 28, 2011 at 8:38 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote:

 

The story about the 22 yr. old is kinda funny!!  I've had it happen and the only thing I don't like about it, is that the female pretends a relationship with you, when all the while she thinks she has a hope of your man.  LOL  I've always believed in any relationship I was in, if the guy was going to sleep around on me, then best I find out early in the partnership.  I put up with being slapped, punched, hair pulling, verbal and emotional abuse.  But, I never had to worry about them having a wondering eye.  So, the little girl just needs to grow up some.

However, , I truly believe that you will be fine on tx.  In both of my runs at treatment, I would be able to let the animals out if I tried.  But, while I was doing the 1st, my Mother would either spend the Friday night with me or she would come on a Sat. to check up on how I

was.  What she usually found was me all cozy in bed, the TV blaring, the dog up close to me, as well as both cats.Really, stock up on a few of those frozen dinners, lots of yogurt and anything else that is easy to get down and doesn't take much work.  The housework is absolutely taboo!!  If you are going to try to work, then for sure you won't be doing housework.  But, you know what??  It didn't bother me one iota.  I did have a housekeeper; but, he wasn't really great about the corners etc.  At least my floors were pretty clean and the biggest thing - my bathroom was clean.  I have one of those things about the bathroom being clean.

Gloria

 

 

Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 11:46 PM

 

When I did treatment the first time, my husband worked away from home a lot!!!  Unfortunately, on the 2nd round, he was right there.  In my case, that turned out to be the worst thing that could have happened. 

Do I wish that I had never done treatment and still had my husband??  NOPE not for a second.  He truly was a jackass to me, period.  In fact, he's still a jackass to me!!!  Dying without a will.  Geez!!!  I'll tell you, if I could magically wish him back from the ashes, I'd use a baseball bat to hit him up the side of the head.

When he

was away during the first treatment, my mother would come over every Friday night that I did my shot.  You know, never once did she actually see me do the shot; but, she felt better that I was not alone.  However, I actually had no problem with being alone on the Sat. or Sun.  That way, I could just stay in bed and was not concerned about anyone.

Gloria

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CinderRight off the start, I'd be up in your hubby's face - how dare he suggest it's woman's work in this day and age. Take a look at just what you wrote yourself! He works 8 hours while you work 13 - 15?? Hello!! Then he wants you to come home and keep a pretty little house?? I told my husband really early in the relationship,that if he was looking for the happy little homemaker, I'm not it and he'd better keep looking. Honestly, I don't think there is anything wrong with defining your relationship preferences and see the truth. If say the man does picture himself with the type of woman who enjoys that, then fill your boots. What's really bad, is being together for years and

suddenly he wants to change you (happened in mine).

Two floor RV's

Hey I have seen em Teri. Rick and I went Toy hauler hunting once and found several. They were cool.

I hate house cleaning also. lol. My husband grouches about it but he works 8 hours a day and I work 13 -15 hours a day so why should it be my desinated job alone? He says house keeping is a womans job.

I am not so scared now of being alone. I probably prefer to be. I have been living like a hermit for years and years. I like my computer and my friends in my computer I get along well with that. I have been pretty much a loner for ever. My husband the same. So we are pretty well matched on that. We work alright together. If we could get his moms ideas out of his head. He is a mommas boy. I just decided after all this crap with that little girl getting a crush on Rick I am happier worrying aobut myself. I am not going to let it get me that down. I just got scared when I got to right before I went in the hospital with pnemonia and I took the dogs out and I could not breath. Felt as if my right lung was quitting on me or deflating or something. It was painful too. Well while I was out there I almost took a nose dive off the top steps of our porch. So scared myself. The car ride to town was fun too. I was not driving well at all. I swear I drove like I

was drunk or something. I could not even help it. Not sure why. Nothing was right. Then at hospital walking in almost collasped before I could get to the first chair I saw. I was not so okay. I was glad from their they come to me asked what I was there for seeing I was carrying xrays they got me a wheelchair and got me registaired. Anyway I barely made it to the hospital. I wasn't sure if I parked in a place I could park in. I forgot to lock my car. My car got tossed. Fun stuff. My husband just told me he is just glad I am okay and he was pretty scared. He visited me every day I was there. He moved back home and took care of the dogs and bird while I was gone. He is still here. I got him to go to the doc himself. He has the flu. He showed me he will step up and help some. Maybe not to all my wishes and whims but he will do good. I told him I wasn't hiring that girl afterall due to her inability to cook anything. That was one of the main things I wanted

her here for. I cook everything for Rick homemade from scratch so he has a couple of casseroles for the week. She can't do anything but frozen pizza tv dinners very simple things to her liking only. That won't get it here. I would rather feed Rick tv dinners except when I feel good enough to cook than have her wasting money paying her to heat a pizza I can't eat and he won't eat. He works at a pizza plant. They serve the guys pizza for lunch every single day. He don't want pizza.

Okay done with my ranting. I am starting to get my mind back I guess. Last night I started cleaning. That is scary. I must be feeling better if I can start venting and stuff. I missed everyone while I was gone.

HUUUUUUGGGGGGGGSSSSSSS Cinder

You have a DOOR to your UPSTAIRS? Gloria... I am so confused. How do you get a second floor in a travel trailor?

Laughing my butt off over here!

When I was on treatment I rarely ventured out of my bedroom.. during the times that I felt pretty decent (which was rare but did happen at least for a few hours each week) I would make sure my room was dusted and tidy. Hubs kept the bathroom clean... that was the only time he ever kept the bathroom clean actually... He knew I couldn't do it and needed it clean when I'd wander in there thinking I was gonna be throwing up for hours. There is nothing worse than having to barf in a nasty bathroom! The rest of the house.. they actually kept it fairly well picked up. I think they knew if I walked out into another room and saw a mess I'd try to start cleaning. They didn't want that.

Hugs,Teri

On Fri, Jan 28, 2011 at 8:38 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote:

The story about the 22 yr. old is kinda funny!! I've had it happen and the only thing I don't like about it, is that the female pretends a relationship with you, when all the while she thinks she has a hope of your man. LOL I've always believed in any relationship I was in, if the guy was going to sleep around on me, then best I find out early in the partnership. I put up with being slapped, punched, hair pulling, verbal and emotional abuse. But, I never had to worry about them having a wondering eye. So, the little girl just needs to grow up some.However, , I truly believe that you will be fine on tx. In both of my runs at treatment, I would be able to let the animals out if I tried. But, while I was doing the 1st, my Mother would either spend the Friday night with me or she would come on a Sat. to check up on how I

was. What she usually found was me all cozy in bed, the TV blaring, the dog up close to me, as well as both cats.Really, stock up on a few of those frozen dinners, lots of yogurt and anything else that is easy to get down and doesn't take much work. The housework is absolutely taboo!! If you are going to try to work, then for sure you won't be doing housework. But, you know what?? It didn't bother me one iota. I did have a housekeeper; but, he wasn't really great about the corners etc. At least my floors were pretty clean and the biggest thing - my bathroom was clean. I have one of those things about the bathroom being clean.Gloria

Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 11:46 PM

When I did treatment the first time, my husband worked away from home a lot!!! Unfortunately, on the 2nd round, he was right there. In my case, that turned out to be the worst thing that could have happened. Do I wish that I had never done treatment and still had my husband?? NOPE not for a second. He truly was a jackass to me, period. In fact, he's still a jackass to me!!! Dying without a will. Geez!!! I'll tell you, if I could magically wish him back from the ashes, I'd use a baseball bat to hit him up the side of the

head.When he

was away during the first treatment, my mother would come over every Friday night that I did my shot. You know, never once did she actually see me do the shot; but, she felt better that I was not alone. However, I actually had no problem with being alone on the Sat. or Sun. That way, I could just stay in bed and was not concerned about anyone.Gloria