Guest guest Posted July 28, 2003 Report Share Posted July 28, 2003 Colleen,I am so sorry to hear that on top of all the other stuff you have to deal with, you are suffering through this marriage issue as well. That makes it all the more tougher, and I know that it happens to many women. We really need our men to be compassionate and understanding, but sometimes it is just very hard for them. I am really sorry and I hope that he has been able to communicate with you and at least let you know that he will be there, and that he wants to reconcile. I have a blended family, too, and yes, it can be hard. But there's always hope as long as we keep our eyes on the one above who is our source of strength, and who can give us the peace to keep going forward. God wants us to reconcile and have healthy relationships, even through thick and thin, and my husband and I have found it is those trials that have brought us closer. I will pray that your husband will see this as a chance to turn and face his feelings rather than to keep running from them. How are YOU doing? It sounds like you've had some great successes with your doctors...and I am so happy about that! But I know that the personal issues are stressful, and when you are trying to heal, stress can prevent healing. I know that for a fact! I hope you are able to take time for YOU, to be calmed, pampered, soothed, to relax and meditate on the good things of life. I'll keep you in my prayers. Patty ----- Original Message ----- From: cricket5641000 Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2003 6:08 AM Subject: I need some prays now. Good morning. Its about 5:30 here and I can't sleep. My husband of almost two years left the house a week ago today. We knew from the beginning that blending two family's would be hard. I have three teenagers and has a 12 and 9 year old. It seems from the time we got married crap was thrown at us. First it was my ex and lately it has been his. My ex is an alacholic and almost died in a car acciedent, was layed up for over 6 months. His has started gambleing again and has been abondeding the children, so we would never know when we droped them off with her if she would stay home or leave them alone all night and go to the casnio's. On top of all of this I got sick from those dam implants. I am not the same women he married. Before implants and marriage, I was super women. I had a great buisness and more energy than my children. I loved to go out, I loved to ski, I loved working out and I had many friends. Its has been so differn't since I got sick. It is all I could do to take care of the children and myself. And to get through the stress's of the ex's.just said that he needed to get away to sort things out. So he took his children and is staying at a friends house.I guess he didn't hear the part in the wedding vows "in sickness and in health. for better or worse"He is a good man, just not a very strong one. This whole thing is killing all the kids, and me. I want him to come home. My children want him home, his children want to come home.Could you all pray for God to give him the courage to come home and get through this together.He is a runner, has been his whole life. If he runs away now, he will keep running from things that are hard forever.Lady's crazy as it sounds, we all love him and want him home.Those dam implants not only took away my health, they are now taking away my husband.Please pray for us.Thankyou!Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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