Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Dabda Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Trudy, I'm sorry your VL is back up. That's a hard pill to swallow, so to speak. Debbie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 The 5 stages do not come in any order either!!! Dabda Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Trudy, I'm sorry your VL is back up. That's a hard pill to swallow, so to speak. Debbie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 They are supposed to..... Sometimes you can be in more than one stage at once but you have to end at acceptance.On Sat, Mar 5, 2011 at 9:33 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote: The 5 stages do not come in any order either!!! Dabda Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Trudy, I'm sorry your VL is back up. That's a hard pill to swallow, so to speak. Debbie -- Teri Gottlieb MOVE ON. It's just a chapter in the past, but don't close the book. Just turn the page. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 Ya, I'm still in there, perhaps with the anger still, with the husband.Even though we were separated didn't mean that I didn't have feelings. A lot of you know that I had not understood his change of behaviour that caused the break up. 21 years together, still leaves a big hole. Plus, I no longer have any hope that I will understand how cruel he had become.I wake up sometimes, in the early morning and listen to see if I can hear him. Dumb huh!! They are supposed to..... Sometimes you can be in more than one stage at once but you have to end at acceptance.On Sat, Mar 5, 2011 at 9:33 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote: The 5 stages do not come in any order either!!! Dabda Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Trudy, I'm sorry your VL is back up. That's a hard pill to swallow, so to speak. Debbie -- Teri Gottlieb MOVE ON. It's just a chapter in the past, but don't close the book. Just turn the page. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 Gloria it can take anywhere from 2 days to 2 years to get thru all those stages. Every one and every circumstance is different. And I know you still had feelings for your husband. It's going to take awhile... and no, it's not dumb thinking you might hear him. It's normal. Hang in there sweetie.. this too shall pass.Hugs,TeriOn Sat, Mar 5, 2011 at 10:57 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote: Ya, I'm still in there, perhaps with the anger still, with the husband.Even though we were separated didn't mean that I didn't have feelings. A lot of you know that I had not understood his change of behaviour that caused the break up. 21 years together, still leaves a big hole. Plus, I no longer have any hope that I will understand how cruel he had become. I wake up sometimes, in the early morning and listen to see if I can hear him. Dumb huh!! Reply to sender | Reply to group | Reply via web post | Start a New Topic Messages in this topic (4) Recent Activity: New Members 4 New Links 39 Visit Your Group Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 Actually Trudy you can be in more than one stage at once... kinda coming out of one and going into the other... I like the idea of talking with your doctor before treatment starts about rescue drugs and transfusion therapy. I had 2 transfusions and took rescue drugs as well and I can tell you that after those transfusions I felt GREAT. Everything was easier til I got anemic again! But the transfusions helped big time and the rescue drugs, those were started with me after the second transfusion and they did help a lot. Get the doc on board with that before you start and you've got half the battle won. Hugs,TeriOn Sun, Mar 6, 2011 at 2:02 AM, trudykinsey@... <trudykinsey@...> wrote: What sucks is I was in Acceptance. Just going with the flow. But every body thought I was depressed. Nope, just so ungodly weak. And accepting each day, each shot. Im going to have Dr sign his name that he WILL give me rescue drugs or transfusions if I get like that again! " A well-behaved woman never made history " Mae Westhttp://facebook.com/people/andTrudy-Kinsey/1340460877 On Mar 5, 2011, at 9:33 PM, Gloria <gadamscan@...> wrote: The 5 stages do not come in any order either!!! Dabda Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Trudy, I'm sorry your VL is back up. That's a hard pill to swallow, so to speak. Debbie -- Teri Gottlieb MOVE ON. It's just a chapter in the past, but don't close the book. Just turn the page. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 Good thinking, Trudy!!! What sucks is I was in Acceptance. Just going with the flow. But every body thought I was depressed. Nope, just so ungodly weak. And accepting each day, each shot. Im going to have Dr sign his name that he WILL give me rescue drugs or transfusions if I get like that again!" A well-behaved woman never made history " Mae Westhttp://facebook.com/people/andTrudy-Kinsey/1340460877 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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