Hello~*~* I could use some advise!!!! Newbie here~*~

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HellO All~* I am 27y/o with two kids DS7 and DD6. Both PGs I had

Kidney Stones. The first one I passed when I was PG after being on

Demerol for a month and spending some time in the hospital. The

second PG the stones were too big to pass. And also spent time in

the hospital. In the end I had i think it's called lithotripsy. And

they told me it was pregnancy induced calicum build up. Also had

lots of Kidney Infections when PG. After the lithotripsy I never had

problems with my kidneys until this month I ended up in the hospital

with a Kidney Infection. I was told after the lithotripsy that I had

a few gall stones and nothing was said or done after that...I

actually kind of forgot about it. Well when I was in the hospital

this time I had a Cat scan and all they could see was my kidney was

severly enlarged due to infection. Spent a few days in there. Well

next someone came in and gave me a ultrasound. Next thing I was

eating my lunch(first food I was able to eat in days) and some DR

came in took my lunch from me and said I am taking your gall bladder

we are going to get you preped for surgery. I said No your not. He

said yes I am...not your not..yes I am...about 15 min of arguing

with me he finally left after punching the wall and telling me I was

going to die if I didn't get it taken out today. Oh yeah I was also

arguing that I could do it a different day. I was like Thursday

would work for me. He said the wall around the kidney was thick

which could mean infection. Anyways...that was all before I talked

to my DR to let me know what was going on. Sorry this is getting

long...Well my Dr came in and said i really needed to do this and to

get my hubsand on the phone. I said well at least can I have a 2nd

oppinion? Well Dr#2 came in and said With my kidney infection even

if my gall bladder was infected...He would wait 6 weeks to have the

infection from my kidney cleared up(which I had no signs that it was

my gall bladder all the symtoms came up as it was my kidney

infection). He wasn't pushing it he just said it would need to come

out eventually but when is up to me. Shold do it in 6 weeks.I have

been stressing out about this I thought getting it out was my ONLY

option. Been looking around and I can't find the answers I am

looking for. I would love all suggestions on alternatives! I only

had one silly reason for not wanting it out at that time is because

one person told me they couldn't eat with out having diareah. And it

was the biggest mistake they ever made. Really they can be passed?

Here is a Stupid question??? Uhhh....when it's passed does it go

through the uhhhh pee or poop??? SOrry this is so long and I kind of

rambled I should be in bed right now but I can't get this out of my

mind. Thanks in Advance~! Laurie