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So happy she had a good time and felt great!!!  I will watch for pictures on FB

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Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and wanted

to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to

go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous

for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with

them. She said she felt safer with the second group. I think I felt quite a

bit of relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since grade

school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came to pick up her cell

phone which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we

talked for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She was so

beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful. My heart swells

as I think about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a few months ago

before Enbrel and she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also, a

few months back she would have gone to prom in pain. This was wonderful.

Today, she did not get up for Sunday School but she did go to worship service

with us. Four of my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early with a cookout

and Easter Egg hunt and had a

great time. Jaye is napping now but I would if I could too. Next

weekend we are headed back to Kansas City to see the rheumy and the

opthamologist for her check up. We will have my grandson with us and we

are going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an Easter Bunny

hopping around. Then on either Saturday night or Sunday morning we will let

Gabe go back to his mom's. I am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased

with Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling in

one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein med's yet it has only been

four months of doing this good and I am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust

our rheumy and will go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are hoping that it is

not seizure related but have ruled out nearly every thing else. Could be just

that she is exhausted, or if she is

over tired she could be having break through seizures. GRRRR, one thing

settles and another rears its head. But today after a long night she did not

have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not have to worry about it any

more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of school left for us here and then she can sleep later

to eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change last month.

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Oh Beth I am not sure I will get to post pictures on Facebook. She has not

given me permission to do that. I got into trouble for posting the ones of her

that I did when she just tried on the dress. I got a lecture from her about

safety and she does not feel that it is appropriate to post pictures of children

on facebook. She does not even have a facebook page of her own and has

determined that I should not post her picture there unless I ask her permission.

She was not demanding but she said that she felt that she should have a say in

whether or not her photos are posted or not. She is certainly growing up. She

gave me some things to think about in our discusssion. I think she will let me

post a picture on this site but not sure. Jaye is a fairly private

person and so I have to honor her wishes at this point. But I did tell her that

the photo would be e-mailed to a couple of aunts and uncles in other states and

to one Uncle in Japan that want to see her. There has been so much of her life

that she had no control over, specifically her health that I can not take this

away from her. I hope she does not tell me that I can not chat with you all

about her.

Veri & Jaye 17 poly

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Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and wanted

to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to

go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous for

some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with

them. She said she felt safer with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit

of relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since grade school.

I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came to pick up her cell phone

which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked

for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She was so beautiful.

She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful. My heart swells as I think

about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel

and she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also, a few months back

she would have gone to prom in pain. This was wonderful. Today, she did not get

up for Sunday School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of my five

children and four of my grandchildren were at church with us this morning as

well. We celebrated Easter a week early with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and

had a

great time. Jaye is napping now but I would if I could too. Next weekend

we are headed back to Kansas City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for

her check up. We will have my grandson with us and we are going to go up

on Saturday and search for a mall that has an Easter Bunny hopping around. Then

on either Saturday night or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his

mom's. I am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with Jaye's

progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling in one ankle and knee I

think. I am not ready to wein med's yet it has only been four months of doing

this good and I am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of headaches and we are not

sure what it is caused from. We are hoping that it is not seizure related but

have ruled out nearly every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

if she is

over tired she could be having break through seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles

and another rears its head. But today after a long night she did not have a

headache so maybe it is over adn we will not have to worry about it any more.

Only 5 1/2 weeks of school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change last month.

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Veri that makes me smile and brings tears to my eyes at the same time!

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On Apr 17, 2011, at 5:53 PM, veristroud@... wrote:

>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and

wanted to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2

a.m. to go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous for

some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with them. She said she felt safer with the second group. I

think I felt quite a bit of relief because the girl driving after prom we have

known since grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came to

pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came in

the house and we talked for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time.

She was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful. My heart

swells as I think about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a few months

ago before Enbrel and she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain. This was wonderful.

Today, she did not get up for Sunday School but she did go to worship service

with us. Four of my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early with a cookout

and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time. Jaye is napping now but I would

if I could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas City to see the rheumy

and the opthamologist for her check up. We will have my grandson with us

and we are going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an Easter

Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night or Sunday morning we will

let Gabe go back to his mom's. I am confident that the rheumy will be very

pleased with Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor

swelling in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein med's yet it has

only been four months of doing this good and I am not ready to rock the boat.

But I trust our rheumy and will go with his wishes. Jaye has been having

alot of headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are hoping that

it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly every thing else. Could be

just that she is exhausted, or if she is over tired she could be having break

through seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and another rears its head. But today

after a long night she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will

not have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of school left for us here

and then she can sleep later to eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since

the time change last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

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On Apr 17, 2011, at 6:11 PM, veristroud@... wrote:

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> Oh Beth I am not sure I will get to post pictures on Facebook. She has not

given me permission to do that. I got into trouble for posting the ones of her

that I did when she just tried on the dress. I got a lecture from her about

safety and she does not feel that it is appropriate to post pictures of children

on facebook. She does not even have a facebook page of her own and has

determined that I should not post her picture there unless I ask her permission.

She was not demanding but she said that she felt that she should have a say in

whether or not her photos are posted or not. She is certainly growing up. She

gave me some things to think about in our discusssion. I think she will let me

post a picture on this site but not sure. Jaye is a fairly private person

and so I have to honor her wishes at this point. But I did tell her that the

photo would be e-mailed to a couple of aunts and uncles in other states and to

one Uncle in Japan that want to see her. There has been so much of her life that

she had no control over, specifically her health that I can not take this away

from her. I hope she does not tell me that I can not chat with you all about

her.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly

>

> Re: Jaye Update & Prom

>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and

wanted to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2

a.m. to go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous for

some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with

> them. She said she felt safer with the second group. I think I felt quite a

bit of relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since grade

school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came to pick up her cell

phone which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we

talked for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She was so

beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful. My heart swells as

I think about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a few months ago before

Enbrel and she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also, a few

months back she would have gone to prom in pain. This was wonderful. Today, she

did not get up for Sunday School but she did go to worship service with us. Four

of my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church with us this

morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early with a cookout and Easter Egg

hunt and had a

> great time. Jaye is napping now but I would if I could too. Next

weekend we are headed back to Kansas City to see the rheumy and the

opthamologist for her check up. We will have my grandson with us and we

are going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an Easter Bunny

hopping around. Then on either Saturday night or Sunday morning we will let Gabe

go back to his mom's. I am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling in one

ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein med's yet it has only been four

months of doing this good and I am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our

rheumy and will go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are hoping that it is

not seizure related but have ruled out nearly every thing else. Could be just

that she is exhausted, or if she is

> over tired she could be having break through seizures. GRRRR, one thing

settles and another rears its head. But today after a long night she did not

have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not have to worry about it any

more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of school left for us here and then she can sleep later

to eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

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>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and

wanted to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2

a.m. to go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous for

some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with

> them. She said she felt safer with the second group. I think I felt quite a

bit of relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since grade

school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came to pick up her cell

phone which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we

talked for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She was so

beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful. My heart swells as

I think about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a few months ago before

Enbrel and she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also, a few

months back she would have gone to prom in pain. This was wonderful. Today, she

did not get up for Sunday School but she did go to worship service with us. Four

of my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church with us this

morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early with a cookout and Easter Egg

hunt and had a

> great time. Jaye is napping now but I would if I could too. Next

weekend we are headed back to Kansas City to see the rheumy and the

opthamologist for her check up. We will have my grandson with us and we

are going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an Easter Bunny

hopping around. Then on either Saturday night or Sunday morning we will let Gabe

go back to his mom's. I am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling in one

ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein med's yet it has only been four

months of doing this good and I am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our

rheumy and will go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are hoping that it is

not seizure related but have ruled out nearly every thing else. Could be just

that she is exhausted, or if she is

> over tired she could be having break through seizures. GRRRR, one thing

settles and another rears its head. But today after a long night she did not

have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not have to worry about it any

more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of school left for us here and then she can sleep later

to eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

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Veri,

Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

Jaye Update & Prom

>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> them. She said she felt safer

> with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> if she is over tired she could be having break through

> seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> another rears its head. But today after a long night

> she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

>

>

>

>

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Veri,

You are a good mother and your daughter is a fine, young woman. And I can't

believe you have 4 grandchildren. I am going to be dang old before I get to be

one. Dang it! ( n,22, systemic- graduating in two months, but going

on to grad school)

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On Apr 17, 2011, at 5:17 PM, and Schulz <snooksmama@...>

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> Veri,

> Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

>

>

> Jaye Update & Prom

>

>

> >

> > Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> > She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> > NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> > into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> > all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> > interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> > girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> > had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> > The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> > nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> > part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> > needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> > phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> > relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> > different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> > changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> > them. She said she felt safer

> > with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> > relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> > grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> > she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> > me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> > probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> > was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> > beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> > choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> > she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> > a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> > This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> > School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> > my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> > with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> > with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> > Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> > could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> > City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> > up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> > going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> > Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> > or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> > am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> > Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> > in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> > med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> > am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> > go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> > headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> > hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> > every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> > if she is over tired she could be having break through

> > seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> > another rears its head. But today after a long night

> > she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> > have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> > school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> > eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> > last month.

> >

> > Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Thanks . After talking to Jaye I am certain now of why I did not

feel comfortable with the first group of kids she was with last night. When

let me know she had changed groups and the reason was that she felt safer

with the second group of kids I thought, well I have taught her something. She

said she did not feel right with that group once they got headed to wichita and

then was told later that the guy they were with is a " pot head " . Jaye

has a zero tolerance for the druggie group of kids. I have told her so many

times that any time she feels like she is not safe or even uncomfortable to " get

out " . To call me or a friend to help her and to let me know where she is. She

did the right thing last night. She has shown so much maturity in the last 48

hours I am not sure if I can handle much more.

Veri & Jaye 17 poly

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Veri,

Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

Jaye Update & Prom

>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> them. She said she felt safer

> with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> if she is over tired she could be having break through

> seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> another rears its head. But today after a long night

> she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

>

>

>

>

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So awesome. Jaye has a good head on her shoulders. And a great mom to

back her up!!

Jaye Update & Prom

>

>

> >

> > Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> > She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I

> said

> > NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> > into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective

> and

> > all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> > interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> > girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> > had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> > The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> > nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> > part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if

> she

> > needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use

> their

> > phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> > relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> > different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she

> had

> > changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> > them. She said she felt safer

> > with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> > relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> > grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> > she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> > me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> > probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> > was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> > beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> > choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel

> and

> > she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> > a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> > This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> > School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> > my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> > with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week

> early

> > with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> > Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> > could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> > City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> > up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> > going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> > Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> > or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> > am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> > Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> > in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> > med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and

> I

> > am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> > go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> > headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> > hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out

> nearly

> > every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> > if she is over tired she could be having break through

> > seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> > another rears its head. But today after a long night

> > she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will

> not

> > have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> > school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> > eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time

> change

> > last month.

> >

> > Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

> >

> >

> >

> >

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,

I actually have six grandchildren. My oldest grandson will be 13 on Friday, he

tried to convince us today was his birthday but we told him that we are smarter

then we look. The next one is 11, then 6, 3, 2 & 8 months. The youngest was

not here because I will not get to see him for at least 18 years since he was

given up for adoption, but in my heart I have to still count him. The other

five were here all afternoon and we had a wonderful time. The six year old is a

girl and the others are all boys. Some people will tell me that I actually only

have one grandchild because the others belong to my two step daughters that I am

actually not even related to anymore since I divorced their dad. But, i was

their mom for 18 years and I will always be their Grammy. Maybe not legally but

the heart matters more then law when it comes to family feelings.

Veri

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Veri,

You are a good mother and your daughter is a fine, young woman. And I can't

believe you have 4 grandchildren. I am going to be dang old before I get to be

one. Dang it! ( n,22, systemic- graduating in two months, but going

on to grad school)

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On Apr 17, 2011, at 5:17 PM, and Schulz <snooksmama@...>

wrote:

> Veri,

> Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

>

>

> Jaye Update & Prom

>

>

> >

> > Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> > She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> > NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> > into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> > all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> > interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> > girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> > had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> > The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> > nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> > part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> > needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> > phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> > relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> > different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> > changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> > them. She said she felt safer

> > with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> > relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> > grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> > she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> > me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> > probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> > was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> > beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> > choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> > she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> > a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> > This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> > School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> > my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> > with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> > with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> > Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> > could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> > City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> > up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> > going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> > Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> > or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> > am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> > Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> > in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> > med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> > am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> > go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> > headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> > hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> > every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> > if she is over tired she could be having break through

> > seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> > another rears its head. But today after a long night

> > she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> > have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> > school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> > eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> > last month.

> >

> > Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

> >

> >

> >

> >

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You sound like an awesome grandma, too.

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On Apr 17, 2011, at 5:36 PM, veristroud@... wrote:

>

> ,

>

> I actually have six grandchildren. My oldest grandson will be 13 on Friday, he

tried to convince us today was his birthday but we told him that we are smarter

then we look. The next one is 11, then 6, 3, 2 & 8 months. The youngest was not

here because I will not get to see him for at least 18 years since he was given

up for adoption, but in my heart I have to still count him. The other five were

here all afternoon and we had a wonderful time. The six year old is a girl and

the others are all boys. Some people will tell me that I actually only have one

grandchild because the others belong to my two step daughters that I am actually

not even related to anymore since I divorced their dad. But, i was their mom for

18 years and I will always be their Grammy. Maybe not legally but the heart

matters more then law when it comes to family feelings.

>

> Veri

>

> Re: Jaye Update & Prom

>

> Veri,

> You are a good mother and your daughter is a fine, young woman. And I can't

believe you have 4 grandchildren. I am going to be dang old before I get to be

one. Dang it! ( n,22, systemic- graduating in two months, but going

on to grad school)

>

> Sent from my iPhone

>

> On Apr 17, 2011, at 5:17 PM, and Schulz <snooksmama@...>

wrote:

>

> > Veri,

> > Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

> >

> >

> > Jaye Update & Prom

> >

> >

> > >

> > > Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> > > She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> > > NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> > > into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> > > all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> > > interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> > > girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> > > had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> > > The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> > > nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> > > part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> > > needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> > > phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> > > relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> > > different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> > > changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> > > them. She said she felt safer

> > > with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> > > relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> > > grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> > > she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> > > me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> > > probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> > > was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> > > beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> > > choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> > > she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> > > a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> > > This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> > > School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> > > my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> > > with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> > > with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> > > Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> > > could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> > > City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> > > up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> > > going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> > > Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> > > or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> > > am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> > > Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> > > in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> > > med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> > > am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> > > go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> > > headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> > > hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> > > every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> > > if she is over tired she could be having break through

> > > seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> > > another rears its head. But today after a long night

> > > she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> > > have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> > > school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> > > eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> > > last month.

> > >

> > > Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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Well not to brag, but I think I am a pretty good Grammy. I love to spoil them

and wish I had more time to spend with them. My kids have never been able to

spend much time with their grandparents. My parents lived in Wyoming so a 12

hour drive until 2002 when they moved to Paraguay which is about a 24 hour

flight, and mucho mucho bucks trip away. Their fathers mom lives here in the

same town and they see her at least two maybe three times a year, so I want to

be a grandma to my grandbabies like I had when I was growing up. I got to spend

whole summers with my grandparents and was probably considered slave labor in

their garden all summer and loved every minute of it. My kids are closer to my

parents who are so far away then they are to the grandma that lives here, sad so

very sad. My parents will move back to the states in September of 2012 and we

are hopign they will live within three or four hours from here if not less. My

kids will be adults but they will still be a part of their lives.

Veri

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>

> Veri,

> You are a good mother and your daughter is a fine, young woman. And I can't

believe you have 4 grandchildren. I am going to be dang old before I get to be

one. Dang it! ( n,22, systemic- graduating in two months, but going

on to grad school)

>

> Sent from my iPhone

>

> On Apr 17, 2011, at 5:17 PM, and Schulz <snooksmama@...>

wrote:

>

> > Veri,

> > Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

> >

> >

> > Jaye Update & Prom

> >

> >

> > >

> > > Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> > > She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> > > NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> > > into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> > > all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> > > interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> > > girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> > > had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> > > The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> > > nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> > > part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> > > needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> > > phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> > > relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> > > different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> > > changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> > > them. She said she felt safer

> > > with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> > > relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> > > grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> > > she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> > > me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> > > probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> > > was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> > > beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> > > choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> > > she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> > > a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> > > This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> > > School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> > > my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> > > with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> > > with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> > > Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> > > could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> > > City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> > > up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> > > going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> > > Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> > > or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> > > am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> > > Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> > > in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> > > med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> > > am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> > > go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> > > headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> > > hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> > > every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> > > if she is over tired she could be having break through

> > > seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> > > another rears its head. But today after a long night

> > > she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> > > have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> > > school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> > > eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> > > last month.

> > >

> > > Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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Go Jaye, Party like it's your birthday :) Just take each day,week, month

at a time. Don't even think about tapering anything quite yet.Let that gal of

yours enjoy life as a teen! Happy,healthy,beautiful and most of all fully

mobile....

Becki and 12 Systemic onset

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From: " veristroud@... " <veristroud@...>

Sent: Sun, April 17, 2011 5:53:00 PM

Subject: Jaye Update & Prom

Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and wanted

to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to

go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous

for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with them. She said she felt safer with the second group.

I think I felt quite a bit of relief because the girl driving after prom we have

known since grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came

to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came

in the house and we talked for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful

time. She was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful.

My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a

few months ago before Enbrel and she would have been totally out of it the day

after. Also, a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain. This was

wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday School but she did go to

worship service with us. Four of my five children and four of my grandchildren

were at church with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time. Jaye is napping

now but I would if I could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas City

to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check up. We will have

my grandson with us and we are going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall

that has an Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night or

Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I am confident that the

rheumy will be very pleased with Jaye's progress. At our last visit she

had only minor swelling in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I am not ready to

rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will go with his wishes. Jaye

has been having alot of headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We

are hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly every thing

else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or if she is over tired she could be

having break through seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and another rears its

head. But today after a long night she did not have a headache so maybe it is

over adn we will not have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

school left for us here and then she can sleep later to eliminate the tired. She

has not adjusted since the time change last month.

Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

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You have done a great job raising your daughter and should be VERY proud.

's 15 yr old sister Shelby is like that.I am very proud of her as well. She

has a very strong belief about people that use drugs that I will not mention

here.AJ has a great head on her sholders and I know you are so proud of her but

you know it comes from the breeding and the motherly love and guidance. I want

some pictures of your beauty queen.

Becki and

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From: " veristroud@... " <veristroud@...>

Sent: Sun, April 17, 2011 7:30:03 PM

Subject: Re: Jaye Update & Prom

Thanks . After talking to Jaye I am certain now of why I did not

feel comfortable with the first group of kids she was with last night. When

let me know she had changed groups and the reason was that she felt safer

with the second group of kids I thought, well I have taught her something. She

said she did not feel right with that group once they got headed to wichita and

then was told later that the guy they were with is a " pot head " . Jaye

has a zero tolerance for the druggie group of kids. I have told her so many

times that any time she feels like she is not safe or even uncomfortable to " get

out " . To call me or a friend to help her and to let me know where she is. She

did the right thing last night. She has shown so much maturity in the last 48

hours I am not sure if I can handle much more.

Veri & Jaye 17 poly

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Veri,

Sitting here with tears of happiness for you and Jaye!!

Jaye Update & Prom

>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night.

> She called and wanted to stay out all night and of course I said

> NO. But I did give her til 2 a.m. to go with friends back

> into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over protective and

> all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the

> interstate for dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one

> girl I knew a little bit about and two girls and a guy that I

> had never met before. Needless to say i was worried.

> The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit

> nervous for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst

> part was that Jaye left without her cell phone, so if she

> needed somethign she had to depend on someone else to use their

> phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

> relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a

> different friend of hers phone and Jaye said that she had

> changed groups to hang out with and wanted to go to IHOP with

> them. She said she felt safer

> with the second group. I think I felt quite a bit of

> relief because the girl driving after prom we have known since

> grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless

> she came to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke

> me up at 2 a.m. when she came in the house and we talked for

> probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful time. She

> was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt

> beautiful. My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly

> choke up as I think back just a few months ago before Enbrel and

> she would have been totally out of it the day after. Also,

> a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain.

> This was wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday

> School but she did go to worship service with us. Four of

> my five children and four of my grandchildren were at church

> with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

> with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time.

> Jaye is napping now but I would if I

> could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas

> City to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check

> up. We will have my grandson with us and we are

> going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall that has an

> Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night

> or Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I

> am confident that the rheumy will be very pleased with

> Jaye's progress. At our last visit she had only minor swelling

> in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

> med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I

> am not ready to rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will

> go with his wishes. Jaye has been having alot of

> headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We are

> hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly

> every thing else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or

> if she is over tired she could be having break through

> seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and

> another rears its head. But today after a long night

> she did not have a headache so maybe it is over adn we will not

> have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

> school left for us here and then she can sleep later to

> eliminate the tired. She has not adjusted since the time change

> last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

>

>

>

>

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So glad enjoyed her prom! What a special night, Michele ( 23,

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Veri,

So thrilled to hear about Jaye's Prom! How exciting!

>

>

> Well, Jaye had an awesome time at prom last night. She called and

wanted to stay out all night and of course I said NO. But I did give her til 2

a.m. to go with friends back into Wichita to IHOP. I know that I am a bit over

protective and all. She went into Wichita only 30 miles down the interstate for

dinner at the Olive Garden before prom with one girl I knew a little bit about

and two girls and a guy that I had never met before. Needless to say i was

worried. The girl driving and the one guy in the group made me a bit nervous

for some reason, I was not sure why. The worst part was that Jaye left

without her cell phone, so if she needed somethign she had to depend on someone

else to use their phone. They made it back to town for prom and I was a bit

relieved. Shortly after prom started I got a text from a different friend of

hers phone and Jaye said that she had changed groups to hang out with and

wanted to go to IHOP with them. She said she felt safer with the second group.

I think I felt quite a bit of relief because the girl driving after prom we have

known since grade school. I told her she could not go to IHOP unless she came

to pick up her cell phone which she did. She woke me up at 2 a.m. when she came

in the house and we talked for probably about 30 minutes. She had a wonderful

time. She was so beautiful. She had no aches or pains and she felt beautiful.

My heart swells as I think about it, I nearly choke up as I think back just a

few months ago before Enbrel and she would have been totally out of it the day

after. Also, a few months back she would have gone to prom in pain. This was

wonderful. Today, she did not get up for Sunday School but she did go to

worship service with us. Four of my five children and four of my grandchildren

were at church with us this morning as well. We celebrated Easter a week early

with a cookout and Easter Egg hunt and had a great time. Jaye is napping

now but I would if I could too. Next weekend we are headed back to Kansas City

to see the rheumy and the opthamologist for her check up. We will have

my grandson with us and we are going to go up on Saturday and search for a mall

that has an Easter Bunny hopping around. Then on either Saturday night or

Sunday morning we will let Gabe go back to his mom's. I am confident that the

rheumy will be very pleased with Jaye's progress. At our last visit she

had only minor swelling in one ankle and knee I think. I am not ready to wein

med's yet it has only been four months of doing this good and I am not ready to

rock the boat. But I trust our rheumy and will go with his wishes. Jaye

has been having alot of headaches and we are not sure what it is caused from. We

are hoping that it is not seizure related but have ruled out nearly every thing

else. Could be just that she is exhausted, or if she is over tired she could be

having break through seizures. GRRRR, one thing settles and another rears its

head. But today after a long night she did not have a headache so maybe it is

over adn we will not have to worry about it any more. Only 5 1/2 weeks of

school left for us here and then she can sleep later to eliminate the tired. She

has not adjusted since the time change last month.

>

> Veri & Jaye 17 poly & Post Prom Exhaustion

>

>

>

>

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