Suggestions?

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, in Central California! welcome!

You wrote:

>Have any of you read OCD, New Help for the Family by

> Herbert L. Gravitz? I wrote to him and he called me. We

> spent an hour on the phone and he acknowledged the severe

> toll OCD takes on a family. I was in tears after talking

> to him. Finally, a doctor who really understood what we

>were going through. He suggested we be much more aggressive

> in finding help.

I have met and corresponded with Dr. Gravitz. He is a kind and compassionate

man. I, too, was impressed with the time that he gave me to discuss our

difficult situation. I highly recommend his book to pass around the family

as a way of educating at a understandable level! He is right about being

more assertive when finding help.

An expression I like to use is: Be an Educated Consumer. This means that

you need to research, ask questions, to be prepared and knowledgeable about

ocd and its treatment. This gives you the power to recognize the correct or

incorrect answer. Find out about free services and what is available through

insurance. Look for studies being done that you can get involved in, etc. I

once left a message saying: " I'm looking for a cbt who knows how to conduct

erp for ocd. If you understand this message, call me back! " Pharmacists are

also recourses for ocd meds, so if you need a consult when the doc's office

is closed, try the pharmacy!

>>>>1)How do you help someone who doesn't want help?

Denial is a big part of our ocd'ers. Sometimes challenging the thought or

action can help.

For example: He says he wants to bang 3 times and you challenge him to not

bang! he says he can bang if he wants to - ask him to prove that his

thoughts arent making him do it!

The expressions we use to talk back to the ocd thoughts are: Boss it Back;

Its not me its my OCD; Who's in charge - you or ocd? Any expression that

helps to externalize the ocd thoughts from the person. Many children name

their ocd to keep it separate from themselves.

>>>>2)Have any of you gone to UCLA for help? What do you think?

THe UCLA program is very good and VERY expensive. Before you commit to it,

look into a university psych. dept. or hospitals that are closer. There is

an Alphabet Soup Centre in LA (sorry, I dont know the number) but can be

contacted through Obsessive-Compulsive and Spectrum Disorder Association

http://www.ocsda.org/ I think.

Take care!! wendy in canada

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Hi Clare: It sounds as if your sone could be living

in my house some of the time! My son is 7, but he

often will exhibit similar behaviour as your Gragory!

Things are tempered a bit for him with Prozac. He

also has pretty severe AD/HD and meds have only done a

little for him until we recerntly switched him to

Concerta(12 hr. methylfenidate). He behaves better

and is not as nasty when this med is working. My son

ha had a few tics, but not enough to warrant taking

him off stimulants. I have read extensively on

medication issues and it is my understanding that

stimulants are not to be used in Tourettes

patients..the OC Foundation has a great information on

its web site concerning meds. (www.ocfoundation.org).

they also have information on PANDAS which is a strep

induced form of OCD, symptoms are a bit different than

the traditional OCDbut can include tics and mood

lability. It might be worth your while to look into

these things if you haven't already done so. Sorry

about UCLA - I am on the east coast!

--- Noland <can@...> wrote:

> Hello fellow parents,

> I haven't been writing because I can barely find

> time to even read all the postings but I want to

> thank everyone for being here. Lots of valuable

> information. I have some questions. Our son is 10

> and was diagnosed with OCD and Tourettes about 2

> years ago. Of course, I realize now that I should

> have noticed long before all of the symptoms. We

> adopted him from Korea and I thought his odd

> behavioral quirks had to do with adoption issues. He

> often has very oppositional behavior especially if

> we ask him to do something. He thinks we are

> constantly bossing him around. Of course, he is only

> asked to do the same things that his 3 sisters are

> asked to do, you know, normal help-around-the-house

> stuff. He can be extremely disrespectful and is

> causes our home to be in turmoil. At other times, he

> is the sweetest boy imaginable.

> He is taking luvox and has a clonodine patch.

> Medications have helped but he needs to start

> " bossing back " his OCD. He doesn't want to. He just

> wants us to leave him alone. I think his psycologist

> is far too casual. When I speak to him about how

> difficult it is and ask what can I do, I just get

> " life is sure tough for . " Well, life is

> tough on the rest of the family, too, especially for

> our youngest daughter who seems to get the full

> brunt of 's anger. He thinks she is

> contaminated. I need to protect the girls from

> emotional damage as well as help . We are in

> a rural area and it is hard to find help.

> Have any of you read OCD, New Help for the Family by

> Herbert L. Gravitz? I wrote to him and he called me.

> We spent an hour on the phone and he acknowledged

> the severe toll OCD takes on a family. I was in

> tears after talking to him. Finally, a doctor who

> really understood what we were going through. He

> suggested we be much more aggressive in finding

> help.

> So, here are some questions:

> 1)How do you help someone who doesn't want help? I

> notice that many of the writers on this list have

> children really working on " bossing back " the OCD.

> 2)Have any of you gone to UCLA for help? What do you

> think? It would be a 4 hour drive for me with a kid

> who doesn't want to go but I'll do it if I can find

> someone to help.

> 3)The psycologist has suggested ritalin. I have been

> reading with interest some of your comments about

> using this drug. I would appreciate any more

> comments you can make.

> Sorry about this lengthy post. Thank you for being

> there. I keep all of you close in prayer.

> in central California

> can@...

>

>

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[Guest guest]

,

You've made a great decision to start the BFL program. Isn't it

great to have the extra energy?!

Here are a few suggestions for some of your meals:

Myoplex Ready to Drink Shakes

Myoplex Meal replacement bars

Can of tuna and some fruit or yogurt

Cottage cheese and fruit

I eat 3 of my meals at work, and take a variety of the above to

work with me in an insulated lunch bag to use as 2 of my meals there.

Good luck on the BFL program and in school. Keep us posted with

your goals and your progress.

Kathy

> Hi all,

>

> Well, i started the program about a week ago, and I feel great,

> especially after exercise! However, one problem I have is that I

> don't have time to eat 6 meals a day . . . I'm in college right

now,

> and blenders aren't allowed in the dorms, so I can't make those

> Myoplex shakes. Any suggestions on what I should do?

>

>

[Guest guest]

,

Buy a hand blender from Wal-mart. It's around $10 and a cinch to clean up. You can do it in the sink in your room. Also, buy some bars to eat between classes. You MUST eat every 2 1/2 to 3 hours. The bars will help you during the day.

Good luck!

Sara

Well, i started the program about a week ago, and I feel great, especially after exercise! However, one problem I have is that I don't have time to eat 6 meals a day . . . I'm in college right now, and blenders aren't allowed in the dorms, so I can't make those Myoplex shakes. Any suggestions on what I should do?

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 3/22/01 10:32:52 PM Eastern Standard Time, endymion@...

writes:

<< I'm in college right now,

and blenders aren't allowed in the dorms, >>

It is because they ban plug in appliances for fire safety reasons? Is there

a dorm " kitchen " where you would be allowed to take a blender? You'd need to

clean it up there anyway so that might work. That's how things were in my

dorm at UF years ago. We could cook/use appliances in the kitchen area but

not in our rooms.

[Guest guest]

, Welcome!

Lets imagine you have a condition that requires you to eat six meals a day

or you will die. Think hard. How can I make it happen? It may not appear

that way now, but good health is your long term number 1 priority and now is

the time to address it and keep yourself in peak shape, otherwise you will

die earlier than you could have lived and possibly avoid many debilitating

conditions along the way.

We can give suggestions but only you can make it happen. Carbs are easily

transportable, so it comes down to protein. If you have refrigeration

available it's easy. If not, turbo shaker bottles can be bought for protein

powder and water. You'll need to select a mixable protein powder or you'll

get clumps. But hey I've even seen a guy at my gym pour a scoop directly

into his mouth and wash it down with water. May be a bit difficult but

he's making it work. I use meal replacement bars. You can get them in many

forms. EAS has a low carb bar that you can combine with a piece of fruit.

I believe it's World Wide that has Pure Protein bars and Labrada has a Lean

Body Bar that's about 31-33 g. of protein and 15 of carbs. Just tried their

Blueberry Cheesecake flavor this morning and it rocks! Then of course there

is Myoplex Lite and Myoplex Deluxe bars. Met-Rx has a group of bars as well

that has decent stats. They are definitely cheaper over the internet unless

you hit a mega sale somewhere. Typically 40% off the single bar price is

available by the box.

All the Best! Kit

[Guest guest]

, Welcome!

Lets imagine you have a condition that requires you to eat six meals a day

or you will die. Think hard. How can I make it happen? It may not appear

that way now, but good health is your long term number 1 priority and now is

the time to address it and keep yourself in peak shape, otherwise you will

die earlier than you could have lived and possibly avoid many debilitating

conditions along the way.

We can give suggestions but only you can make it happen. Carbs are easily

transportable, so it comes down to protein. If you have refrigeration

available it's easy. If not, turbo shaker bottles can be bought for protein

powder and water. You'll need to select a mixable protein powder or you'll

get clumps. But hey I've even seen a guy at my gym pour a scoop directly

into his mouth and wash it down with water. May be a bit difficult but

he's making it work. I use meal replacement bars. You can get them in many

forms. EAS has a low carb bar that you can combine with a piece of fruit.

I believe it's World Wide that has Pure Protein bars and Labrada has a Lean

Body Bar that's about 31-33 g. of protein and 15 of carbs. Just tried their

Blueberry Cheesecake flavor this morning and it rocks! Then of course there

is Myoplex Lite and Myoplex Deluxe bars. Met-Rx has a group of bars as well

that has decent stats. They are definitely cheaper over the internet unless

you hit a mega sale somewhere. Typically 40% off the single bar price is

available by the box.

All the Best! Kit

[Guest guest]

Hi !

Welcome to BFL and to the group! I really like Kit's perspective on

if you *had* to eat 6 meals per day because of a life-threatening

condition, you would find a way to do it.

I have a few suggestions of my own that help me to get in all six

meals. Try to find the individual serving cans of tuna, they come in

3 oz. sizes and have a pop-top. They only have about 20 g protein so

it may be a little lower than you need for each meal, but they don't

need refrigeration and they are super convenient.

On the protein bar issue, I like to order from www.netrition.com

because they offer single bars for sale. A little more expensive

than buying the box, but at least you can find out which ones you

like, which is a lot less expensive than buying a whole box and

finding out you can't choke them down! I like the EAS Simply Protein

bars, Labrada Lean Body bars, and Designer Protein Better Body bars.

Also, straight protein powder mixes pretty easily in a plain shaker

bottle. The best ones I have tried for mixability are EAS Precision

Protein and Next Nutrition Designer Protein. Just add cold milk or

juice to get your carb portion.

Jen B.

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Dear ,

Hey, you're in Binghampton -- I'm in Albany! Not too far away from each other. :-) Well, I always seem to have trouble getting my soaps out of their molds. I usually stick them into the freezer for a while, and then they usually pop right out. Have you tried that yet? Maybe the humid weather does affect them somehow, I don't know. Makes sense. What soaping projects are you working on right now? Good luck!

nne :-)

[Guest guest]

I tugged, pried, yanked, and beat soap out of the mold today myself. I ruined both ends and marred up the sides of the soap. It HAS to be the weather. I've never had THIS much trouble. I finally got it free after putting it in the freezer for a few minutes and ran a knife around all sides.

Terri

Suggestions?

I cannot get my soap out of the molds. Is this humid weather affecting anyone like this? Used these molds before but decided to try this hard bar recipe so it would slip out of the molds more easily (as it was suggested).

Any experience with this or do I just have to wait (it has been a week).

Thanks.

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I had it in the freezer for about 45 minutes at one point. No luck. I even had my husband give it a shove. It's a vegan recipe with added cocoa butter and castor oil. I used titanium dioxide and some white mica to pretty it up with a fragrance oil from Brambleberry called Sleeping Angels. It is for a wholesale sale at a victorian decorated lunch place here in Binghamton. It is 100% humidity again today. I even sliced around the sides of one bar but cringed at ruining it (it's amazing how you become attached to each bar:)) I guess I'll wait a few more days since you had some unusual challenges too/

Suggestions?

I cannot get my soap out of the molds. Is this humid weather affecting anyone like this? Used these molds before but decided to try this hard bar recipe so it would slip out of the molds more easily (as it was suggested).

Any experience with this or do I just have to wait (it has been a week).

Thanks.

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nne,

I had it in the freezer for about 45 minutes at one point. No luck. I even had my husband give it a shove. It's a vegan recipe with added cocoa butter and castor oil. I used titanium dioxide and some white mica to pretty it up with a fragrance oil from Brambleberry called Sleeping Angels. It is for a wholesale sale at a victorian decorated lunch place here in Binghamton. It is 100% humidity again today. I even sliced around the sides of one bar but cringed at ruining it (it's amazing how you become attached to each bar:)) I guess I'll wait a few more days since you had some unusual challenges too.

Just did two shows in June - one in Marcellus and one in Parish. Currently making a batch of neem soap and lotion for a neighbor's daughter. First time at that. Any pointers?

RE: Suggestions?

Dear ,

Hey, you're in Binghampton -- I'm in Albany! Not too far away from each other. :-) Well, I always seem to have trouble getting my soaps out of their molds. I usually stick them into the freezer for a while, and then they usually pop right out. Have you tried that yet? Maybe the humid weather does affect them somehow, I don't know. Makes sense. What soaping projects are you working on right now? Good luck!

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On Fri, 22 Jun 2001 07:10:03 -0400 " Gelnett "

<angelicglow@...>

> - AngelicGlow Homemade Soaps, Binghamton

Hi, ! I'm in Vestal!! Roxanne of Gentle Lake. What kind of soaps

do you do? The only thing I could suggest is putting them in the freezer

for a while and then dipping the mold in very hot water for a moment.

That's usually worked for me whenever I've had trouble getting anything

out of the molds. HTH

Isn't this weather something? I'm really beginning to feel pretty soggy.

;^O rox

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Hi there,

I've seen your soaps around. They are wonderful. I stay about 90% with

vegan, organic herb, essential oil soaps. Don't do molds alot but someone

asked for them. Finally left them in the freezer overnight and they popped

out this morning.

Nice weather today huh? We should network sometime. Let me know.

Re: Suggestions?

> On Fri, 22 Jun 2001 07:10:03 -0400 " Gelnett "

> <angelicglow@...>

> > - AngelicGlow Homemade Soaps, Binghamton

>

> Hi, ! I'm in Vestal!! Roxanne of Gentle Lake. What kind of soaps

> do you do? The only thing I could suggest is putting them in the freezer

> for a while and then dipping the mold in very hot water for a moment.

> That's usually worked for me whenever I've had trouble getting anything

> out of the molds. HTH

>

> Isn't this weather something? I'm really beginning to feel pretty soggy.

> ;^O rox

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Sun, 24 Jun 2001 09:42:20 -0400 " Gelnett " <angelicglow@...>

writes:

< I've seen your soaps around. They are wonderful.

Thanks!

< I stay about 90% with

< vegan, organic herb, essential oil soaps. Don't do molds alot but

someone

< asked for them.

Sounds like we're doing pretty much the same thing! I swear I'm not

going to do molds anymore....people look at them and say " oh, how

pretty, " then puick up a bar to buy it! Go figure! Molds are too much

extra work if that's the case!

< Finally left them in the freezer overnight and they popped

< out this morning.

GLad to hear it!

< Nice weather today huh?

Sure better than it has been! Even a little sun poking through.....

< We should network sometime. Let me know.

Yes, we should. I'll give you a holler off list.......... :^) rox

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Congratulations are your upcoming graduation.

Living on your own can and will be a challenge. Managing money has

and always will be a challenge also.

I think though if you plan all your meals and stick to it you should

be fine. Getting set up will cost but in the long run it will pay

off.

You can do it.

Jill (Alaska)

> Hey I am going to be going to graduate school in the fall. I have

> been living with my parents and have had it pretty easy so far. I

> am going to be living on my own though. Any suggestions for

> managing my money and still be on BFL. My brother tells me this is

> the most difficult area to manage your money. Eating healthy can

be

> expensive.

>

>

[Guest guest]

Congratulations are your upcoming graduation.

Living on your own can and will be a challenge. Managing money has

and always will be a challenge also.

I think though if you plan all your meals and stick to it you should

be fine. Getting set up will cost but in the long run it will pay

off.

You can do it.

Jill (Alaska)

> Hey I am going to be going to graduate school in the fall. I have

> been living with my parents and have had it pretty easy so far. I

> am going to be living on my own though. Any suggestions for

> managing my money and still be on BFL. My brother tells me this is

> the most difficult area to manage your money. Eating healthy can

be

> expensive.

>

>

[Guest guest]

,

Stick with real food, it is almost always much cheeper than

replacements. Also, give up the supplements, you can do this with

out them. Your protein choices are going to be more limited, so get

creative with the spices. Do what you can to make meals as exciting

as possible.

Frozen veggies are not as good as fresh, but are always cheeper.

Look for a farmers market near where you will be and you might be

able to get cheeper produce there.

Spring for a Sam's Club/Costco/Price Club (which ever you have near

you) memebership now, while you have the money. Lots of things are

cheeper there (2# of cottage cheese is $3.86 at Sam's!)

Shop the sale flyers, and be prepared to stock up when things are

cheep.

Can't think of anything else right now, but I'm sure you'll get more

advise.

Alys

[Guest guest]

You can't get much cheaper than eggs or tuna. These are also both

very high quality protein sources, so stock up. Sweet potatoes are a

high quality carb source and they are cheap too. As has already been

said, the expensive part of BFL is supplement buying. You don't have

to.

It might be a good idea to spring for a few bars to stash in your

purse though because there's going to come a time when you are going

to be faced with the hungries and have no alternative except an oreo

six pack from the vending machine or the pizza delivery man. The bar

will save you.

Stasia

[Guest guest]

Well, I'm horrible at managing money but right now hubby and I are

living on one income and I'm still doing BFL. I don't use any

supplements, except protein powder and flax oil. Other than that I

eat all real foods. I shop for sales. Go through all your grocery

market ads, etc. and I determine my meals from there. Oatmeal and

potatoes are great carb sources and very very inexpensive. Then I buy

whatever lean meat is on sale and when it is on sale, I try to stock

up if we have extra money. Veggies and fruits again, I eat what is on

sale or I go to a local Farmers Market and get some bargains. If you

have Costco or Sams, they often have good prices, but check first. If

you live in an area that has Aldi's I have heard they are great,

SuperWalmarts also are supposed to have great prices. Sometimes I use

frozen veggies or fruit if it is on sale also. And if you have a 99

cent store, they often carry tuna although I'm not sure if it is

light or not. If you have a Safeway in your area, they are almost

always having buy 1 18 count carton of eggs, get 1 free. I use the

whites and the dogs get the yolks and we're both happy They often

also have frozen chicken breasts or tenders, buy 1 get 1 free.

Colleen

> Hey I am going to be going to graduate school in the fall. I have

> been living with my parents and have had it pretty easy so far. I

> am going to be living on my own though. Any suggestions for

> managing my money and still be on BFL. My brother tells me this is

> the most difficult area to manage your money. Eating healthy can

be

> expensive.

>

>

[Guest guest]

Welcome, Issac:

Powder blends are usually a floral scent with vanilla and musk added. A

typical " baby powder " scent can be made from equal amounts of rose fragrance

oil and vanilla f.o. with just a touch of musk f.o.

But by all means experiment! Try using violet, jasmine, lilac, ylang or

orange blossom in place of rose.

Once you have your blend, you can make a more complex fragrance by combining

it with nuances of amber, tonka or sandalwood, and touches of lavender,

heliotrope, carnation or lily of the valley, to name a few.

If this is any help, I finally was able (after quite a few attempts) to

comprise a scent that reminded me of " Love's Baby Soft " , a scent that was

popular in the 70's:

Baby Soft Blend

4 drops lilac f.o.

1 drop lavender e.o.

Mix and set aside. This is your Top Note.

Separately, combine:

2 drops heliotrope f.o.

1 drop rose f.o.

1 drop lily of the valley f.o.

1 drop carnation f.o.

Mix and set aside. This is your Middle Note.

Separately, combine:

2 drops vanilla f.o.

2 drops musk f.o.

1 drop tonka bean f.o.

Mix and set aside. This is your Base Note.

Combine 3 drops of the blended Top Note, 2 drops of the blended Middle Note

and 1 drop of the blended Base Note in a separate bottle. Once you have

decided on your blend, convert " drops " into " parts " , which can then be

converted into larger quantities: milliliters, teaspoons, ounces, etc. Just

be sure to keep it consistent throughout the recipe.

I hope this helps...good luck! :-)

Cat

> I am new to this group and I think I have found a group of like

> minded people who are also passionately obsessed with fragrances.

> I am curious about what fragrances are blended together to make the

> smell that we all know as " Baby Powder " ? To be specific I would

> specify " s " . I would like to make a sachet, potpourri or

> possibly a perfume based on this fragrance. Once accomplished, I

> would like to use this fragrance as a stepping stone to another body

> fragrance with a theme of " innocence/childhood " .Any help would be

> appreciated.

> Issac Perrier

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>

> I seem to have reoccuring UTI & Candida symptoms. I do some tapping

and get some relief and even some insight, emotional release, etc.

But it still is hanging on. I have been going through some very

challenging, stressful times w/my teenage daughter, moving,

understanding myself in personal relationships, and not quite sure

what the new chapter in my career is yet (sold my business) and I know

all that is probably contributing - but there is something more.

Hi ,

I went through the list of feelings associated with Urinary Problems,

Bladder, Kidneys, Yeast and Candida in the Feelings Buried Alive Never

Die... book, by Karol Truman, and have listed those (and kidney and

bladder ones) below. Perhaps something there will trigger things for

you. I use that book a lot in conjunction with EFT to clear issues.

I have had remarkable success in clearing UTIs.

Urinary Problems:

Putting blame on others for your problems

Allowing another to irritate you

Bladder Problems:

Repression of sexual feelings

Inharmonious male and female emotional relationship

Sexual identify going unexpressed

Unable to release things or ideas no longer needed

Feels over concerned with survialfl issues (money, job, health)

Lack of order or obsession with order

Kidney Problems:

Extension of bladder but more severe

Insensitive to situations where caring and concerning should be exhibited

Trying to control life

Being over-judgmental

Feeling emotional confusion

Deep subconscious resentments toward people and experiences of the past

Unfounded criticism of others

Represssed emotions

Yeast:

Deep and unresolved resentments

Lakc of sself love

Inability to claim one's own power

Unable to love and support the self

Unable to accept the self

Not recognizing own needs

Candida:

Resentment multiplying inside

Inability to claim one's own power

Unresolved negative feelings molding into the body

Continually blaming others on a subconscious level

Kat

[Guest guest]

Hello,

GNC carries a " treatment program " for Candida that you might also want

to try. I'm sure it will also have instructions and suggestions on how

to keep the yeast build up from returning by eliminating and/or

reducing various products/chemicals from your everyday diet too. If

you don't happen to have a GNC or like them, I'm sure you could check

with any local Health Food Store for this also. Good Luck, Kathleen

>

> >

> > I seem to have reoccuring UTI & Candida symptoms. I do some

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

<< I seem to have reoccuring UTI & Candida

symptoms. I do some tapping and get some relief and even some insight, emotional

release, etc. But it still is hanging on. I have been going through some very

challenging, stressful times w/my teenage daughter, moving, understanding

myself in personal relationships, and not quite sure what the new chapter in my

career is yet (sold my business) and I know all that is probably contributing -

but there is something more.

This morning I muscle tested and discovered I am " not

willing " to release the symptoms. Any suggestions on " reversal "

about something like this? Or how to get to why I am holding on to this and to

let go. Any assistance is very appreciated!>>

Please check out messages number 15145 and 15155 on our list

regarding Candida. It’ll save me having to write it out over again:

One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques/message/15145

One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques/message/15155

Re, UTI emotionally, if you take a look at the Balancing

Meridians Emotionally exercise in the PIVOT manual, page 51, you will see that

a) the bladder relates (+ve) to being in charge of your life

vs. (-ve) feeling that others control you

....and a connected meridian - the kidney meridian - is

about (+ve) I love to be alive vs. (-ve) I'm afraid to be alive.

See if these apply to you and EFT them and any other related

emotions/memories/traumas.

1. What helps in the PR is to do rub the sore spot and/or

karate chop spot.

2. It also helps to do the 9-gamut, tapping the gamut spot

on the back of the hand.

3. It helps to do the 9-gamut tapping the K-27 (kidney

meridian) - collar-bone spot.

4. It helps to put in your 3-circuits (Page 31 PIVOT Manual)

5. In addition, if you have cross-over coordination reversals,

it helps to do the cross crawl (page 30 PIVOT Manual) and another cross-over

coordination exercise that I teach my clients in which they do 15 bilateral - 15

unilateral - followed by another 15 bilateral crossovers. (I usually teach this

in a session).

5. If nothing is working at all, you may have entities, in

which case, it helps to take some Rescue Remedy, and smudge yourself, the room

and the house with sage, and with due intention, send away the entities....calling

in your Higher Self or any Beings of Light you are comfortable with.

6. Worst case scenario, you may have an attachment, in which

case, it's helpful to get someone else to support you....It can be cleared with

TAT, or with the support of someone who knows how to do it.

7. In addition, there are particular herbs that are

beneficial for UTI. Are you seeing a naturopath or nutritionist?

If you’d like any further support you can write to me

onlist or offlist.

I hope that supports you somewhat. Let me know if you’d

like a copy of the Manual.

Warmly,

Dayu

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Water, I love you. Water,

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“__________, I thank, love and respect you.”

Tap your EFT acupoints

along with it and see what happens!

“Whether

you believe that you can do something or not,

you're right.”

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[Guest guest]

,

This might be too late and might not be specific enough but my line when

teachers say it isn't " fair " is the tired line that " fair isn't everyone getting

the same thing, it is everyone getting what they need " . She is in that class

because they are her peers in age not in cognitive ability. She should not be

compared to them in ability. Just as we don't evaluate the tumbling moves in

gym class to the Olympic athletes but rather to what an individual should be

expected to achieve.

good luck,

Karyn

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