Guest guest Posted May 4, 2002 Report Share Posted May 4, 2002 I have a sister who has been on anti-depressants for years and she said she lost her sex drive within a month of starting on them. I mentioned it to my doctor once, and he said that many if not all depressants have a tendency of decressing sexual desire. I don't know if that is fact or not. Seems strange that an anti-depressant that helps your brain create the neuro transmitters needed to prevent depression would deprive us of sexual desire.... Hmmm....life is full of inconsistencies, isn't it? Tatezi > As for the libido....well, I felt so bad I wasn't interested in sex > much. I, too, blamed it on the anti-depressants. -- " It is in the shelter of each other that the people live. " ~Irish proverb~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2002 Report Share Posted May 4, 2002 I have a sister who has been on anti-depressants for years and she said she lost her sex drive within a month of starting on them. I mentioned it to my doctor once, and he said that many if not all depressants have a tendency of decressing sexual desire. I don't know if that is fact or not. Seems strange that an anti-depressant that helps your brain create the neuro transmitters needed to prevent depression would deprive us of sexual desire.... Hmmm....life is full of inconsistencies, isn't it? Tatezi > As for the libido....well, I felt so bad I wasn't interested in sex > much. I, too, blamed it on the anti-depressants. -- " It is in the shelter of each other that the people live. " ~Irish proverb~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2002 Report Share Posted May 4, 2002 --- Tatezi <tatezi@...> wrote: he said that many if not all depressants > have > a tendency of decressing sexual desire. I don't know if that is > fact or > not. Yes, it's true. Almost all affect it to some degree or another, but not in everyone. It is a common side effect though. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2002 Report Share Posted May 4, 2002 --- Tatezi <tatezi@...> wrote: he said that many if not all depressants > have > a tendency of decressing sexual desire. I don't know if that is > fact or > not. Yes, it's true. Almost all affect it to some degree or another, but not in everyone. It is a common side effect though. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2002 Report Share Posted May 10, 2002 In a message dated 5/4/2002 4:52:13 PM Eastern Daylight Time, tatezi@... writes: > I have a sister who has been on anti-depressants for years and she said > she lost her sex drive within a month of starting on them. I mentioned > it to my doctor once, and he said that many if not all depressants have > a tendency of decressing sexual desire. I don't know if that is fact or > not. Seems strange that an anti-depressant that helps your brain create > the neuro transmitters needed to prevent depression would deprive us of > sexual desire.... > > Hmmm....life is full of inconsistencies, isn't it? > Well, I've never taken an anti-depressant. I just felt like death warmed over. It didn't stop me, but I certainly wasn't " up to snuff " . Of course the Ribavirin caused me to become instantly post menopausal. So much for " going through the change " . Anne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2002 Report Share Posted May 10, 2002 In a message dated 5/4/2002 4:52:13 PM Eastern Daylight Time, tatezi@... writes: > I have a sister who has been on anti-depressants for years and she said > she lost her sex drive within a month of starting on them. I mentioned > it to my doctor once, and he said that many if not all depressants have > a tendency of decressing sexual desire. I don't know if that is fact or > not. Seems strange that an anti-depressant that helps your brain create > the neuro transmitters needed to prevent depression would deprive us of > sexual desire.... > > Hmmm....life is full of inconsistencies, isn't it? > Well, I've never taken an anti-depressant. I just felt like death warmed over. It didn't stop me, but I certainly wasn't " up to snuff " . Of course the Ribavirin caused me to become instantly post menopausal. So much for " going through the change " . Anne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Testesterone- too much? BUT look at the whole ball game of what is involved in excess testostrestone- try to locate the imbalanced organ or emotion- have fun- and when you have unravelled send me the inverse program!!!! Dr Kelsey PhD, N.D. Imune- Vice Chancellor info@...www.imune.netF: +44 870 460 1138T: +44 121 243 6318 libido Hi All,I have had a strange request by a 35 year old male. Hewants to know if there is anything he can do or taketo decrease his libido, as his wife's libido doesn'tnearly match his. This is causing huge problems withinthe marriage.Any and all suggestions would be welcome.Thanks__________________________________________________________Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.518 / Virus Database: 269.21.7/1322 - Release Date: 3/9/2008 12:17 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Rather than following a path of eliminating or reducing inconvenience, perhaps your client would consider a tantric practice, allowing his libido to be a guide and a gift to him in increasing inner awareness and self-mastery. Increased sensitivity and a deeper interest in the arts of love may also act as a stimulus to his wife's libido, currently out of sync with his. There are many texts both ancient and modern for him to study, and teachers as well depending on where they live. Vida libido Hi All, I have had a strange request by a 35 year old male. He wants to know if there is anything he can do or take to decrease his libido, as his wife's libido doesn't nearly match his. This is causing huge problems within the marriage. Any and all suggestions would be welcome. Thanks __________________________________________________________ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Supercharge your AIM. Get the AIM toolbar for your browser. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Hello , > I have had a strange request by a 35 year old male. He> wants to know if there is anything he can do or take> to decrease his libido, as his wife's libido doesn't> nearly match his. This is causing huge problems within> the marriage. Throwing himself on his sword, how gallant, but possibly the problem's his wife's libido and not his. Recent studies have shown that as high as 43% of American women suffer varying degrees of frigidity. Although some illnesses and spinal blockages can be the cause, long held destructive and crippling beliefs about female sexuality are the main culprits. An honest and intimate analysis of both their thoughts about sex seems a good place to start. If I were working with this situation I'd be foremost interested in the wife's feelings about sexual intercourse - is she inhibited? Does she like sex? How does she feel about her body? Does she think she's sexy? What does she fanaticize while having sex? What beliefs does she have concerning erotic women in general, and herself specifically. What turns her off, what turns her on?... (does her husband? - if not, why not)? What sort of lover is he, for her? What sort of lover does she think she is, for him? Does she perceive lust as something "down and dirty"; does she have the freedom to express herself erotically, or is she trapped in that evil "whore" syndrome of old? If his wife might rather have her libido enhanced than his decreased, SCIO has many marvelous electrometric "Love Potions". You could design an elixir specifically for her. Seems to me, her desire or not to help remedy the problem would be a vital key. Also important to know the husband's feelings about sex - important for him and her both to know. What sort of lover does he think he is? What does he fanaticize about during sex? This is an extremely difficult question for most folks to answer, but few things are more important than honest communication. Without that, IMO, the sex act is just an act. Possibly they can find fanaticizes they both like, and play them out together. Could be fun trying. A couple I know solved a very similar problem with chains and leather and a few toys. Best Wishes, Sandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Hello , > I have had a strange request by a 35 year old male. He> wants to know if there is anything he can do or take> to decrease his libido, as his wife's libido doesn't> nearly match his. This is causing huge problems within> the marriage. Throwing himself on his sword, how gallant, but possibly the problem's his wife's libido and not his. Recent studies have shown that as high as 43% of American women suffer varying degrees of frigidity. Although some illnesses and spinal blockages can be the cause, long held destructive and crippling beliefs about female sexuality are the main culprits. An honest and intimate analysis of both their thoughts about sex seems a good place to start. If I were working with this situation I'd be foremost interested in the wife's feelings about sexual intercourse - is she inhibited? Does she like sex? How does she feel about her body? Does she think she's sexy? What does she fanaticize while having sex? What beliefs does she have concerning erotic women in general, and herself specifically. What turns her off, what turns her on?... (does her husband? - if not, why not)? What sort of lover is he, for her? What sort of lover does she think she is, for him? Does she perceive lust as something "down and dirty"; does she have the freedom to express herself erotically, or is she trapped in that evil "whore" syndrome of old? If she might rather have her libido enhanced than her husband's decreased, SCIO has many marvelous electrometric "Love Potions". You could design an elixir specifically for her. Seems to me, her desire or not to help remedy the problem would be a vital key. Also important to know the husband's feelings about sex - important for him and her both to know. What sort of lover does he think he is? What does he fanaticize about during sex? This is an extremely difficult question for most folks to answer, but few things are more important than honest communication. Without that, IMO, the sex act is just an act. Possibly they can find fanaticizes they both like, and play them out together. Could be fun trying. A couple I know solved a very similar problem with chains and leather and a few toys. Best Wishes, Sandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 The Healing Rods cause symbiosism between the two. In bio rhythms do the partner fusion. Bye Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2008 Report Share Posted March 11, 2008 In addition to the Fuse Consciousness button in bio rhythms you could also work on her lower chakra, check her VARHOPE scores, use Trivector therapy, stimulate kundalini in flower essences, stimulate lower chakra release in Therapies. Check in harmonic compatibility to seek her blockages. It is not a good idea to try and suppress HIS kundalini/sex as it is a basic life flow and very important not only to HIS well-being but you would not want to create emotional and physical blockages that would denigrate his very existence on the earth. Thank you, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Hi , (Forgive me, I don’t have the original message anymore, I am assuming I am responding to , I hope I am correct!) I have some HGDR info for you here: 50% of the population is what we refer to in the field of hypnotherapy as having a “physical sexuality” vs. an “emotional sexuality”. In HGDR Core Foundations, we introduced the idea of “emotional” and “physical” suggestibility: In the final phase 4 of those courses, we introduce the sexuality picture. “Suggestibility” and “Sexuality” determination is something in hypnotherapy we try to understand as soon as we can with a client. As you will recall, the terms are misnomers really, as “emotional” suggestibility folks appear more “head first”, “physical” appear more “heart first”. It all has to do with left brain or right brain dominance, and can carry over into the physiology of thought process through the body (which, in a sense, is what the term “sexuality” refers to here). I can almost guarantee you that your male client is a “physical sexual”, which has similarities to the “physical suggestible” in that they place a great deal of expression through the body. Physicals, as we call them, take in a thought, and experience a physical sensation before they experience or can identify the emotion at work. Sometimes they have a physical reaction to an emotion before they even can identify what, exactly, they are even “feeling” emotionally, and often wonder “what hit them” afterwards. Emotionals, on the other hand, experience the emotion and process it mentally before the physical sensation. These 2 types of behaviors (emo and phys, non gender based: it doesn’t matter which gender you are) are almost always married to each other, as opposites attract. They have different ways of releasing sexual energy: when an “emo” (most likely the wife in this case) releases sexual energy, they release all of it at once and then take a few days to build it back up again; when a “physical” releases sexual energy, being more “heart first” and relationship oriented, they only release part of their sexual energy to remain ever available in an immediate sense for the next available sexual encounter (because their first priority is relationships whereas the emo’s place career first). This can cause them to have a build up of “subconsciously preserved and available” sexual energy that never gets fully released, and they therefore have physical stress from it, and a seemingly high libido because they need the full release, which they often do not get, as sexually active or aggressive as they may appear. Part of the hypnotherapy mind/body process for these folks is to reduce stress in a way that allows them subconscious permission to release more sexual energy with each encounter. This is usually not their natural subconscious inclination, so they usually have to “learn” through intention, or suggestion, to do this. You can do this through electro hypnosis, plus through educating him on this fact. This can be supported with stress reduction in the body, and the first program that I would suggest for him is the lower chakra release. I know it sounds “counter” to what this man is asking for, but a larger sexual energy release would help him feel more satisfied, and give his sexual energy system more time “between encounters” to build up, as is the process that occurs in his wife. Emo’s usually have 3 day sexual energy cycles. He can learn to wait for 2 days after sex with his wife before he approaches her again. In the “piggyback” field in scalar, you can work with a suggestion that “I release more sexual energy during orgasms now in a way now that allows me to release my stored sexual energy fully, and now comfortably allow the time between sexual encounters for it to build up again”. The next thing I would do with him is support his upper cognitive brain through such programs as “stimulate intelligence”, “stimulate memory”, and “open mind therapy”. The reason for this is because his sexual reactions or levels are seemingly automatic to him, or seem like something he can’t control, they might be causing the lower brain and limbic system to react. Cognitive thought process has it’s place, and it can help him feel more grounded and in control. You can also zap with “cephalo-sd” from the matrix, Bill’s formula for intelligent brain function. I would also consider brainwaves and harmonic training. And you know what I always like to do: drag and drop a libido item into the yellow hold tray on the matrix, or type in “excess libido” there, and click emotions and test the item against emotions. If some of the more active emotions, such as “aggression”, react, then rectify them and invert them. Testing “excess libido” against flower essences and rectifying those may also provide a clue. I would let him know (if not warn him!) that at first, he may seem to have more libido, but in training himself to release more each time will put him more “on par” with his wife and with similar rhythms. The fact that he is bringing himself in for the behavior modification, vs sending the wife in to have more libido, is a clue that this gentleman is willing to work at the relationship and is a good sign~ he makes a very good candidate for the work. This is the approach that Dr. Kappas used for over 40 years, and it has a very high success rate. I would also suggest the book “E & P: Relationship Strategies” by Dr. Kappas for him to read, as this book explains the process outlined above in more detail. Let us know how it goes, Gage From: qxci-english [mailto:qxci-english ] On Behalf Of Angel Health Sent: Monday, March 10, 2008 7:26 PM qxci-english Subject: Re: libido The Healing Rods cause symbiosism between the two. In bio rhythms do the partner fusion. Bye Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 One more thought on biofeedback technique here: I would also, after testing “excess libido” against the emotions, identify one (or do this with each one), and because the “physicals” place emotions in their body, follow it through to homotoxicology from the main matrix: For example, highlight a reactive emotion on the matrix with your cursor, click “expand name”, click “okay’ on the popup, and at the bottom of the main matrix on the lower right, click “click to see tissue connection on homotoxicology”, and see if the sexual system, nerves/brain or adrenals are reacting… Then click on an organ system and click “continue to test nosodes/isodes on a particular organ”, then clear a couple of the emotional items that react. You can repeat this process for the “click to see the chiropractic connection”, and reduce the stress on the spinal vertebrae sarcodes that react, keeping in mind that you must click “expand name” again from the emotion in order to get these buttons to pop up each time. Hope that helps, Gage From: Gage Tarrant [mailto:gage@...] Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 9:43 AM 'qxci-english ' Subject: RE: libido Hi , (Forgive me, I don’t have the original message anymore, I am assuming I am responding to , I hope I am correct!) I have some HGDR info for you here: 50% of the population is what we refer to in the field of hypnotherapy as having a “physical sexuality” vs. an “emotional sexuality”. In HGDR Core Foundations, we introduced the idea of “emotional” and “physical” suggestibility: In the final phase 4 of those courses, we introduce the sexuality picture. “Suggestibility” and “Sexuality” determination is something in hypnotherapy we try to understand as soon as we can with a client. As you will recall, the terms are misnomers really, as “emotional” suggestibility folks appear more “head first”, “physical” appear more “heart first”. It all has to do with left brain or right brain dominance, and can carry over into the physiology of thought process through the body (which, in a sense, is what the term “sexuality” refers to here). I can almost guarantee you that your male client is a “physical sexual”, which has similarities to the “physical suggestible” in that they place a great deal of expression through the body. Physicals, as we call them, take in a thought, and experience a physical sensation before they experience or can identify the emotion at work. Sometimes they have a physical reaction to an emotion before they even can identify what, exactly, they are even “feeling” emotionally, and often wonder “what hit them” afterwards. Emotionals, on the other hand, experience the emotion and process it mentally before the physical sensation. These 2 types of behaviors (emo and phys, non gender based: it doesn’t matter which gender you are) are almost always married to each other, as opposites attract. They have different ways of releasing sexual energy: when an “emo” (most likely the wife in this case) releases sexual energy, they release all of it at once and then take a few days to build it back up again; when a “physical” releases sexual energy, being more “heart first” and relationship oriented, they only release part of their sexual energy to remain ever available in an immediate sense for the next available sexual encounter (because their first priority is relationships whereas the emo’s place career first). This can cause them to have a build up of “subconsciously preserved and available” sexual energy that never gets fully released, and they therefore have physical stress from it, and a seemingly high libido because they need the full release, which they often do not get, as sexually active or aggressive as they may appear. Part of the hypnotherapy mind/body process for these folks is to reduce stress in a way that allows them subconscious permission to release more sexual energy with each encounter. This is usually not their natural subconscious inclination, so they usually have to “learn” through intention, or suggestion, to do this. You can do this through electro hypnosis, plus through educating him on this fact. This can be supported with stress reduction in the body, and the first program that I would suggest for him is the lower chakra release. I know it sounds “counter” to what this man is asking for, but a larger sexual energy release would help him feel more satisfied, and give his sexual energy system more time “between encounters” to build up, as is the process that occurs in his wife. Emo’s usually have 3 day sexual energy cycles. He can learn to wait for 2 days after sex with his wife before he approaches her again. In the “piggyback” field in scalar, you can work with a suggestion that “I release more sexual energy during orgasms now in a way now that allows me to release my stored sexual energy fully, and now comfortably allow the time between sexual encounters for it to build up again”. The next thing I would do with him is support his upper cognitive brain through such programs as “stimulate intelligence”, “stimulate memory”, and “open mind therapy”. The reason for this is because his sexual reactions or levels are seemingly automatic to him, or seem like something he can’t control, they might be causing the lower brain and limbic system to react. Cognitive thought process has it’s place, and it can help him feel more grounded and in control. You can also zap with “cephalo-sd” from the matrix, Bill’s formula for intelligent brain function. I would also consider brainwaves and harmonic training. And you know what I always like to do: drag and drop a libido item into the yellow hold tray on the matrix, or type in “excess libido” there, and click emotions and test the item against emotions. If some of the more active emotions, such as “aggression”, react, then rectify them and invert them. Testing “excess libido” against flower essences and rectifying those may also provide a clue. I would let him know (if not warn him!) that at first, he may seem to have more libido, but in training himself to release more each time will put him more “on par” with his wife and with similar rhythms. The fact that he is bringing himself in for the behavior modification, vs sending the wife in to have more libido, is a clue that this gentleman is willing to work at the relationship and is a good sign~ he makes a very good candidate for the work. This is the approach that Dr. Kappas used for over 40 years, and it has a very high success rate. I would also suggest the book “E & P: Relationship Strategies” by Dr. Kappas for him to read, as this book explains the process outlined above in more detail. Let us know how it goes, Gage From: qxci-english [mailto:qxci-english ] On Behalf Of Angel Health Sent: Monday, March 10, 2008 7:26 PM qxci-english Subject: Re: libido The Healing Rods cause symbiosism between the two. In bio rhythms do the partner fusion. 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Guest guest Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 LOL!! Methinks I detect a touch of the 'green monster'? But thanks for the advice ! --- Kelsey <john@...> wrote: > Testesterone- too much? > BUT > look at the whole ball game of what is involved in > excess testostrestone- try to locate the imbalanced > organ or emotion- have fun- and when you have > unravelled send me the inverse program!!!! > > > > > > Dr Kelsey PhD, N.D. > > Imune- Vice Chancellor > > info@... > www.imune.net > F: +44 870 460 1138 > T: +44 121 243 6318 > libido > > > Hi All, > > I have had a strange request by a 35 year old > male. He > wants to know if there is anything he can do or > take > to decrease his libido, as his wife's libido > doesn't > nearly match his. This is causing huge problems > within > the marriage. > > Any and all suggestions would be welcome. > > Thanks > > > > __________________________________________________________ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG. > Version: 7.5.518 / Virus Database: 269.21.7/1322 - > Release Date: 3/9/2008 12:17 > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. http://tools.search./newsearch/category.php?category=shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 The yogis say kundalini is the life force itself, why would anyone want to suppress it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 I found this explanation of why he may have such a high libido (or normal), absolutely fascinating, thank you Gage. Bye Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 Hey guys...let's not overlook the emotions and intimacy connections here. If the wife isn't feeling loved, respected, etc, etc, etc it may be part of the issue. I worked with the hypnotherapy aspect of this with one couple a few years ago, and they began a new honeymoon after 30 years of marriage and the wife blossomed. The anger, frustrations, all the emotions involved with not getting what one wants, passive-aggression, feeling pressured, etc can be looked at with both partners if they are willing to both be worked on. Carol 512-809-9516 libido> > > Hi All,> > I have had a strange request by a 35 year old> male. He> wants to know if there is anything he can do or> take> to decrease his libido, as his wife's libido> doesn't> nearly match his. This is causing huge problems> within> the marriage.> > Any and all suggestions would be welcome.> > Thanks> > > >____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _> Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.>http://mobile. / ;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR 8HDtDypao8Wcj9tA cJ> > > > > > > >------------ --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- -> > > No virus found in this incoming message.> Checked by AVG. > Version: 7.5.518 / Virus Database: 269.21.7/1322 -> Release Date: 3/9/2008 12:17> ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. http://tools. search.. com/newsearch/ category. php?category= shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2008 Report Share Posted March 14, 2008 WOW Gage - as always - spot on!! Wonderful advice thank you sooooo much. You literally described my client and his wife there! I will certainly be implementing this! Thanks again!! --- Gage Tarrant <gage@...> wrote: > One more thought on biofeedback technique here: I > would also, after testing > “excess libido” against the emotions, identify one > (or do this with each > one), and because the “physicals” place emotions in > their body, follow it > through to homotoxicology from the main matrix: > > > > For example, highlight a reactive emotion on the > matrix with your cursor, > click “expand name”, click “okay’ on the popup, and > at the bottom of the > main matrix on the lower right, click “click to see > tissue connection on > homotoxicology”, and see if the sexual system, > nerves/brain or adrenals are > reacting… Then click on an organ system and click > “continue to test > nosodes/isodes on a particular organ”, then clear a > couple of the emotional > items that react. You can repeat this process for > the “click to see the > chiropractic connection”, and reduce the stress on > the spinal vertebrae > sarcodes that react, keeping in mind that you must > click “expand name” again > from the emotion in order to get these buttons to > pop up each time. > > > > Hope that helps, > > > > Gage > > > > _____ > > From: Gage Tarrant [mailto:gage@...] > Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 9:43 AM > 'qxci-english ' > Subject: RE: libido > > > > Hi , > > > > (Forgive me, I don’t have the original message > anymore, I am assuming I am > responding to , I hope I am correct!) > > > > I have some HGDR info for you here: 50% of the > population is what we refer > to in the field of hypnotherapy as having a > “physical sexuality” vs. an > “emotional sexuality”. In HGDR Core Foundations, we > introduced the idea of > “emotional” and “physical” suggestibility: In the > final phase 4 of those > courses, we introduce the sexuality picture. > “Suggestibility” and > “Sexuality” determination is something in > hypnotherapy we try to understand > as soon as we can with a client. As you will recall, > the terms are misnomers > really, as “emotional” suggestibility folks appear > more “head first”, > “physical” appear more “heart first”. It all has to > do with left brain or > right brain dominance, and can carry over into the > physiology of thought > process through the body (which, in a sense, is what > the term “sexuality” > refers to here). > > > > I can almost guarantee you that your male client is > a “physical sexual”, > which has similarities to the “physical suggestible” > in that they place a > great deal of expression through the body. > Physicals, as we call them, take > in a thought, and experience a physical sensation > before they experience or > can identify the emotion at work. Sometimes they > have a physical reaction > to an emotion before they even can identify what, > exactly, they are even > “feeling” emotionally, and often wonder “what hit > them” afterwards. > Emotionals, on the other hand, experience the > emotion and process it > mentally before the physical sensation. These 2 > types of behaviors (emo and > phys, non gender based: it doesn’t matter which > gender you are) are almost > always married to each other, as opposites attract. > They have different > ways of releasing sexual energy: when an “emo” > (most likely the wife in > this case) releases sexual energy, they release all > of it at once and then > take a few days to build it back up again; when a > “physical” releases sexual > energy, being more “heart first” and relationship > oriented, they only > release part of their sexual energy to remain ever > available in an immediate > sense for the next available sexual encounter > (because their first priority > is relationships whereas the emo’s place career > first). > > > > This can cause them to have a build up of > “subconsciously preserved and > available” sexual energy that never gets fully > released, and they therefore > have physical stress from it, and a seemingly high > libido because they need > the full release, which they often do not get, as > sexually active or > aggressive as they may appear. > > > > Part of the hypnotherapy mind/body process for these > folks is to reduce > stress in a way that allows them subconscious > permission to release more > sexual energy with each encounter. This is usually > not their natural > subconscious inclination, so they usually have to > “learn” through intention, > or suggestion, to do this. You can do this through > electro hypnosis, plus > through educating him on this fact. This can be > supported with stress > reduction in the body, and the first program that I > would suggest for him is > the lower chakra release. I know it sounds “counter” > to what this man is > asking for, but a larger sexual energy release would > help him feel more > satisfied, and give his sexual energy system more > time “between encounters” > to build up, as is the process that occurs in his > wife. Emo’s usually have > 3 day sexual energy cycles. He can learn to wait > for 2 days after sex with > his wife before he approaches her again. In the > “piggyback” field in > scalar, you can work with a suggestion that “I > release more sexual energy > during orgasms now in a way now that allows me to > release my stored sexual > energy fully, and now comfortably allow the time > between sexual encounters > for it to build up again”. > > > > The next thing I would do with him is support his > upper cognitive brain > through such programs as “stimulate intelligence”, > “stimulate memory”, and > “open mind therapy”. The reason for this is because > his sexual reactions or > levels are seemingly automatic to him, or seem like > something he can’t > control, they might be causing the lower brain and > limbic system to react. > Cognitive thought process has it’s place, and it can > help him feel more > grounded and in control. You can also zap with > “cephalo-sd” from the > matrix, Bill’s formula for intelligent brain > function. I would also > consider brainwaves and harmonic training. > > > > And you know what I always like to do: drag and > drop a libido item into the > yellow hold tray on the matrix, or type in “excess > libido” there, and click > emotions and test the item against emotions. If > some of the more active > emotions, such as “aggression”, react, then rectify > them and invert them. > === message truncated === ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Never miss a thing. Make your home page. http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2008 Report Share Posted March 21, 2008 Excellent, glad it fits: but I would educate him on the priniciple of “non suppression of symptoms”… I know he’s asking for less libido, but the more he suppresses it the more frustrated he becomes. I would warn him that after a lower chakra release, his libido might seem to be actually *more* as he is learning to release more sexual energy and learning to allow it to build up more gradually. I hope that helps, and then maybe you can get the “emo” wife in and increase hers a little more (same thing: lower chakra release), so that they can start matching each other’s cycles. However, in hypnotherapy we always start with the “physical” (in this case the man) first because they are always coming in for relationships issues (their first priority usually), and that’s the one we have to start with, plus they are willing to do the work for the sake of the relationship. From: qxci-english [mailto:qxci-english ] On Behalf Of yvonne walker Sent: Friday, March 14, 2008 2:03 AM qxci-english Subject: Re: FW: libido WOW Gage - as always - spot on!! Wonderful advice thank you sooooo much. You literally described my client and his wife there! I will certainly be implementing this! Thanks again!! --- Gage Tarrant <gagexplornet> wrote: > One more thought on biofeedback technique here: I > would also, after testing > “excess libido” against the emotions, identify one > (or do this with each > one), and because the “physicals” place emotions in > their body, follow it > through to homotoxicology from the main matrix: > > > > For example, highlight a reactive emotion on the > matrix with your cursor, > click “expand name”, click “okay’ on the popup, and > at the bottom of the > main matrix on the lower right, click “click to see > tissue connection on > homotoxicology”, and see if the sexual system, > nerves/brain or adrenals are > reacting… Then click on an organ system and click > “continue to test > nosodes/isodes on a particular organ”, then clear a > couple of the emotional > items that react. You can repeat this process for > the “click to see the > chiropractic connection”, and reduce the stress on > the spinal vertebrae > sarcodes that react, keeping in mind that you must > click “expand name” again > from the emotion in order to get these buttons to > pop up each time. > > > > Hope that helps, > > > > Gage > > > > _____ > > From: Gage Tarrant [mailto:gagexplornet] > Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 9:43 AM > 'qxci-english ' > Subject: RE: libido > > > > Hi , > > > > (Forgive me, I don’t have the original message > anymore, I am assuming I am > responding to , I hope I am correct!) > > > > I have some HGDR info for you here: 50% of the > population is what we refer > to in the field of hypnotherapy as having a > “physical sexuality” vs. an > “emotional sexuality”. In HGDR Core Foundations, we > introduced the idea of > “emotional” and “physical” suggestibility: In the > final phase 4 of those > courses, we introduce the sexuality picture. > “Suggestibility” and > “Sexuality” determination is something in > hypnotherapy we try to understand > as soon as we can with a client. As you will recall, > the terms are misnomers > really, as “emotional” suggestibility folks appear > more “head first”, > “physical” appear more “heart first”. It all has to > do with left brain or > right brain dominance, and can carry over into the > physiology of thought > process through the body (which, in a sense, is what > the term “sexuality” > refers to here). > > > > I can almost guarantee you that your male client is > a “physical sexual”, > which has similarities to the “physical suggestible” > in that they place a > great deal of expression through the body. > Physicals, as we call them, take > in a thought, and experience a physical sensation > before they experience or > can identify the emotion at work. Sometimes they > have a physical reaction > to an emotion before they even can identify what, > exactly, they are even > “feeling” emotionally, and often wonder “what hit > them” afterwards. > Emotionals, on the other hand, experience the > emotion and process it > mentally before the physical sensation. These 2 > types of behaviors (emo and > phys, non gender based: it doesn’t matter which > gender you are) are almost > always married to each other, as opposites attract. > They have different > ways of releasing sexual energy: when an “emo” > (most likely the wife in > this case) releases sexual energy, they release all > of it at once and then > take a few days to build it back up again; when a > “physical” releases sexual > energy, being more “heart first” and relationship > oriented, they only > release part of their sexual energy to remain ever > available in an immediate > sense for the next available sexual encounter > (because their first priority > is relationships whereas the emo’s place career > first). > > > > This can cause them to have a build up of > “subconsciously preserved and > available” sexual energy that never gets fully > released, and they therefore > have physical stress from it, and a seemingly high > libido because they need > the full release, which they often do not get, as > sexually active or > aggressive as they may appear. > > > > Part of the hypnotherapy mind/body process for these > folks is to reduce > stress in a way that allows them subconscious > permission to release more > sexual energy with each encounter. This is usually > not their natural > subconscious inclination, so they usually have to > “learn” through intention, > or suggestion, to do this. You can do this through > electro hypnosis, plus > through educating him on this fact. This can be > supported with stress > reduction in the body, and the first program that I > would suggest for him is > the lower chakra release. I know it sounds “counter” > to what this man is > asking for, but a larger sexual energy release would > help him feel more > satisfied, and give his sexual energy system more > time “between encounters” > to build up, as is the process that occurs in his > wife. Emo’s usually have > 3 day sexual energy cycles. He can learn to wait > for 2 days after sex with > his wife before he approaches her again. In the > “piggyback” field in > scalar, you can work with a suggestion that “I > release more sexual energy > during orgasms now in a way now that allows me to > release my stored sexual > energy fully, and now comfortably allow the time > between sexual encounters > for it to build up again”. > > > > The next thing I would do with him is support his > upper cognitive brain > through such programs as “stimulate intelligence”, > “stimulate memory”, and > “open mind therapy”. The reason for this is because > his sexual reactions or > levels are seemingly automatic to him, or seem like > something he can’t > control, they might be causing the lower brain and > limbic system to react. > Cognitive thought process has it’s place, and it can > help him feel more > grounded and in control. You can also zap with > “cephalo-sd” from the > matrix, Bill’s formula for intelligent brain > function. I would also > consider brainwaves and harmonic training. > > > > And you know what I always like to do: drag and > drop a libido item into the > yellow hold tray on the matrix, or type in “excess > libido” there, and click > emotions and test the item against emotions. If > some of the more active > emotions, such as “aggression”, react, then rectify > them and invert them. > === message truncated === __________________________________________________________ Never miss a thing. Make your home page. http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2008 Report Share Posted May 22, 2008 Libido,Libido, God do I miss my libido. Any other suggestions will be GREATLY appreciated.Thanks, T Re: beck users: have u noticed this? I use the wrist godzilla for prostate, the usual constriction effect of age. Works for me on that, but the libido, not really. That seems to do as it pleases, what's new there, huh? bG > > It was probably a secondary affect. I know the device has done a lot for my > prostate, and that's linked. > > Bernie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2008 Report Share Posted May 22, 2008 Hi tom, You can read all about libido and how to get it back. Its a health issue really and nothing to do with age. http://www.totalityofbeing.com/FramelessAHealthArticles.htm All the electricity in the world isnt going to fix things that require certain nutrients in the body. Although bob beck did say he had great success with his libido as his hair grew back from doing be. Take care, V > Libido,Libido, God do I miss my libido. Any other suggestions will be GREATLY appreciated.Thanks, T > Re: beck users: have u noticed this? > I use the wrist godzilla for prostate, the usual constriction effect of > age. Works for me on that, but the libido, not really. That seems to > do as it pleases, what's new there, huh? > bG > >> It was probably a secondary affect. I know the device has done a lot > for my >> prostate, and that's linked. >> Bernie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2008 Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 Sorry I'm so late addressing this but we have been on a cruise to Alaska. Several years ago my libido was down the drain. Not only that I couldn't obtain an erection of sufficient firmness to support intercourse. As part of a program my alternative Dr. put me on testosterone cream applied once a day to a hairless area like the inside of the leg, inside of the arm, sides of the torso all on alternate days so as to not plug up the pores. That brought back the desire, in spades, but I was still not achieving firm erections. I buy some of my herbs from Herbal Healer Academy (no I have no business interests period!). They have a product called " Super X " consisting of several herbs. This stuff is amazing. Two or three capsules, depending on your weight several hours before bed time and the result is totally delightful. Just like an 18 year old and very durable, I mean you don't loose the erection easily " durable " . And even more amazing the effect lasts several days. My wife and I have a whole new love life. I'm 76 years old. I'm not posting the link but you can find it by doing a Google search on Herbal Healer Academy. Read the testimonials, I can verify any one of them from my personal experience. Jackmill Re: beck users: have u noticed this? I use the wrist godzilla for prostate, the usual constriction effect of age. Works for me on that, but the libido, not really. That seems to do as it pleases, what's new there, huh? bG > > It was probably a secondary affect. I know the device has done a lot for my > prostate, and that's linked. > > Bernie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2008 Report Share Posted May 31, 2008 Hi Jack, http://www.docsprefer.com/ Take care, V > Sorry I'm so late addressing this but we have been on a cruise to Alaska. > Several years ago my libido was down the drain. Not only that I > couldn't obtain an erection of sufficient firmness to support intercourse. > As part of a program my alternative Dr. put me on testosterone > cream applied once a day to a hairless area like the inside of the > leg, inside of the arm, sides of the torso all on alternate days so > as to not plug up the pores. That brought back the desire, in > spades, but I was still not achieving firm erections. > I buy some of my herbs from Herbal Healer Academy (no I have no > business interests period!). They have a product called " Super X " > consisting of several herbs. This stuff is amazing. Two or three > capsules, depending on your weight several hours before bed time and > the result is totally delightful. Just like an 18 year old and very > durable, I mean you don't loose the erection easily " durable " . And > even more amazing the effect lasts several days. My wife and I have > a whole new love life. I'm 76 years old. > I'm not posting the link but you can find it by doing a Google > search on Herbal Healer Academy. Read the testimonials, I can > verify any one of them from my personal experience. > Jackmill > Re: beck users: have u noticed this? > I use the wrist godzilla for prostate, the usual constriction effect of > age. Works for me on that, but the libido, not really. That seems to > do as it pleases, what's new there, huh? > bG > > > > > It was probably a secondary affect. I know the device has done a lot > for my > > prostate, and that's linked. > > > > Bernie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2008 Report Share Posted May 31, 2008 Thanks for all this info, I´m also in need of some boost in this area, I had some extensive surgery in last november, hernia, and after that my erections have diminished. After looking around, the pricing seemed best at http://www.holisticperspective.net/ $35 there, some charge up to $65. Thought this info might be useful. J_S On Sat, May 31, 2008 at 9:42 PM, V <lights@...> wrote: > Hi Jack, > > http://www.docsprefer.com/ > > Take care, > V > >> Sorry I'm so late addressing this but we have been on a cruise to Alaska. > >> Several years ago my libido was down the drain. Not only that I >> couldn't obtain an erection of sufficient firmness to support intercourse. > >> As part of a program my alternative Dr. put me on testosterone >> cream applied once a day to a hairless area like the inside of the >> leg, inside of the arm, sides of the torso all on alternate days so >> as to not plug up the pores. That brought back the desire, in >> spades, but I was still not achieving firm erections. > >> I buy some of my herbs from Herbal Healer Academy (no I have no >> business interests period!). They have a product called " Super X " >> consisting of several herbs. This stuff is amazing. Two or three >> capsules, depending on your weight several hours before bed time and >> the result is totally delightful. Just like an 18 year old and very >> durable, I mean you don't loose the erection easily " durable " . And >> even more amazing the effect lasts several days. My wife and I have >> a whole new love life. I'm 76 years old. > >> I'm not posting the link but you can find it by doing a Google >> search on Herbal Healer Academy. Read the testimonials, I can >> verify any one of them from my personal experience. > >> Jackmill >> Re: beck users: have u noticed this? > >> I use the wrist godzilla for prostate, the usual constriction effect of >> age. Works for me on that, but the libido, not really. That seems to >> do as it pleases, what's new there, huh? > >> bG >> >> > >> > It was probably a secondary affect. I know the device has done a lot >> for my >> > prostate, and that's linked. >> > >> > Bernie > >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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