RE: Where is everyone? Hows is everyone feeling?

[Guest guest]

I am doing OK.. Had a nice Thanksgiving... Tried not to eat to much but was

not very successful. I especially have to start being careful because like

most of us my physical activity has slowed way down and I am starting to have

cholesterol issues...

But, I still cannot complain. my pain levels were not too bad over the

holidays.. The really only bad day was when I had to go in and have another MRI

on

my neck Saturday.. The other days were all pretty manageable..

I hope everyone else had at least a good day or two..

: )

Tom

In a message dated 12/1/2008 10:55:47 A.M. Mountain Standard Time,

woody1014@... writes:

report in you guys, and let us know how you are all doing and feeling?

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My nerves seem to be suffering some..My right hand gets numb a lot but

recently I have been getting numbness in both of my feet.. Probably from lower

back along with the meds..

Thanks for caring..

: )

Tom

In a message dated 12/1/2008 12:40:46 P.M. Mountain Standard Time,

woody1014@... writes:

Tell us the results when you find them out. Or did you find out

already? I remember looking at my xrays, the chiro stood there and

his mouth hung open, bad reverse curve. But you know my neck doesnt

hurt at all. It manifests itself in my face. Its really stiff and

tight tho.But it hurts my ears. It also does weird neuro things at

times. You ever have any neurological problems coming from your neck

Tom? cindy

>

> I am doing OK.. Had a nice Thanksgiving. I am doing OK.. Had a nice

but was

> not very successful. I especially have to start being careful

because like

> most of us my physical activity has slowed way down and I am

starting to have

> cholesterol issues...

> But, I still cannot complain. my pain levels were not too bad over

the

> holidays.. The really only bad day was when I had to go in and have

another MRI on

> my neck Saturday.. The other days were all pretty manageable..

> I hope everyone else had at least a good day or two..

> : )

> Tom

>

>

> In a message dated 12/1/2008 10:55:47 A.M. Mountain Standard Time,

> woody1014@.. woody101

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Tell us the results when you find them out. Or did you find out

already? I remember looking at my xrays, the chiro stood there and

his mouth hung open, bad reverse curve. But you know my neck doesnt

hurt at all. It manifests itself in my face. Its really stiff and

tight tho.But it hurts my ears. It also does weird neuro things at

times. You ever have any neurological problems coming from your neck

Tom? cindy

>

> I am doing OK.. Had a nice Thanksgiving... Tried not to eat to much

but was

> not very successful. I especially have to start being careful

because like

> most of us my physical activity has slowed way down and I am

starting to have

> cholesterol issues...

> But, I still cannot complain. my pain levels were not too bad over

the

> holidays.. The really only bad day was when I had to go in and have

another MRI on

> my neck Saturday.. The other days were all pretty manageable..

> I hope everyone else had at least a good day or two..

> : )

> Tom

>

>

> In a message dated 12/1/2008 10:55:47 A.M. Mountain Standard Time,

> woody1014@... writes:

>

>

>

>

> report in you guys, and let us know how you are all doing and

feeling?

> cindy

>

>

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[Guest guest]

I'm in bed unfortunately awake at 4:05am. I did catch some ZZZ's

from 12:30am until 1:30am. As far as how I'm doing My shoulder blade

area has been hurting much more than normal and constantly. I also

have several other sharp pain points along my spine. On top of that

I'm having a bad time with depression. All I want to do is

sleep. It's my one escape from pain both mental and physical. I

don't want to be a downer, it's just the case for me. If I push

myself out the door I can rise to the occasion for an hour or two,

but then the pain kicks in and I want to head back to my

recliner. Then I get angry because I am wasting the life I've been

given. I have good moments, but they don't last or turn into the

action I want them to be. One of the reasons my pain may be worse is

I'm taking the minimum amount of my pain pills. I've had such a bad

problem with constipation I fear taking the higher end of my

allowable pain meds. That with using miralax, fiber pills, and stool

softeners has provided some relief. The miralax makes me feel bloated

which is uncomfortable, but at least it is tasteless. Friday is my

birthday. My wife and I are going to try to get away for 2 night, so

I'm hoping that goes well. We just want to be together, which is a

good thing, when I see so many spouses who don't want to be

together! Well that's my report. Wish it was sunnier, Dave in Reading, PA

[Guest guest]

I'm in bed unfortunately awake at 4:05am. I did catch some ZZZ's

from 12:30am until 1:30am. As far as how I'm doing My shoulder blade

area has been hurting much more than normal and constantly. I also

have several other sharp pain points along my spine. On top of that

I'm having a bad time with depression. All I want to do is

sleep. It's my one escape from pain both mental and physical. I

don't want to be a downer, it's just the case for me. If I push

myself out the door I can rise to the occasion for an hour or two,

but then the pain kicks in and I want to head back to my

recliner. Then I get angry because I am wasting the life I've been

given. I have good moments, but they don't last or turn into the

action I want them to be. One of the reasons my pain may be worse is

I'm taking the minimum amount of my pain pills. I've had such a bad

problem with constipation I fear taking the higher end of my

allowable pain meds. That with using miralax, fiber pills, and stool

softeners has provided some relief. The miralax makes me feel bloated

which is uncomfortable, but at least it is tasteless. Friday is my

birthday. My wife and I are going to try to get away for 2 night, so

I'm hoping that goes well. We just want to be together, which is a

good thing, when I see so many spouses who don't want to be

together! Well that's my report. Wish it was sunnier, Dave in Reading, PA

[Guest guest]

Dave

Have you tried anti depressives?

I have heard good things about Cymbalta and Abilify ?

Depression is not that hard to treat-- there are groups and private therapies

available too. I speak from long term experience ---- not trying to sound

snobby. I lived it for years off and on but I have overcome so much tragedy.

Scale pay is offered and if getting SSI you can have a good reduction.

I get it through my SSI and after finding my best friend dead and needing neck

surgery myself I am happy to report after a 4 months of PTSD therapy work for my

dark depressions and not being able to live in my own home, I am back!!!!!!!!

In my prayers, Annie

A poet is, after all, to see

From: Dave Cruikshank <d.cruikshank@...>

Subject: Re: Where is everyone? Hows is everyone feeling?

neck pain

Date: Thursday, December 4, 2008, 4:19 AM

I'm in bed unfortunately awake at 4:05am. I did catch some ZZZ's

from 12:30am until 1:30am. As far as how I'm doing My shoulder blade

area has been hurting much more than normal and constantly. I also

have several other sharp pain points along my spine. On top of that

I'm having a bad time with depression. All I want to do is

sleep. It's my one escape from pain both mental and physical. I

don't want to be a downer, it's just the case for me. If I push

myself out the door I can rise to the occasion for an hour or two,

but then the pain kicks in and I want to head back to my

recliner. Then I get angry because I am wasting the life I've been

given. I have good moments, but they don't last or turn into the

action I want them to be. One of the reasons my pain may be worse is

I'm taking the minimum amount of my pain pills. I've had such a bad

problem with constipation I fear taking the higher end of my

allowable pain meds. That with using miralax, fiber pills, and stool

softeners has provided some relief. The miralax makes me feel bloated

which is uncomfortable, but at least it is tasteless. Friday is my

birthday. My wife and I are going to try to get away for 2 night, so

I'm hoping that goes well. We just want to be together, which is a

good thing, when I see so many spouses who don't want to be

together! Well that's my report. Wish it was sunnier, Dave in Reading, PA

------------------------------------

[Guest guest]

Dave

Have you tried anti depressives?

I have heard good things about Cymbalta and Abilify ?

Depression is not that hard to treat-- there are groups and private therapies

available too. I speak from long term experience ---- not trying to sound

snobby. I lived it for years off and on but I have overcome so much tragedy.

Scale pay is offered and if getting SSI you can have a good reduction.

I get it through my SSI and after finding my best friend dead and needing neck

surgery myself I am happy to report after a 4 months of PTSD therapy work for my

dark depressions and not being able to live in my own home, I am back!!!!!!!!

In my prayers, Annie

A poet is, after all, to see

From: Dave Cruikshank <d.cruikshank@...>

Subject: Re: Where is everyone? Hows is everyone feeling?

neck pain

Date: Thursday, December 4, 2008, 4:19 AM

I'm in bed unfortunately awake at 4:05am. I did catch some ZZZ's

from 12:30am until 1:30am. As far as how I'm doing My shoulder blade

area has been hurting much more than normal and constantly. I also

have several other sharp pain points along my spine. On top of that

I'm having a bad time with depression. All I want to do is

sleep. It's my one escape from pain both mental and physical. I

don't want to be a downer, it's just the case for me. If I push

myself out the door I can rise to the occasion for an hour or two,

but then the pain kicks in and I want to head back to my

recliner. Then I get angry because I am wasting the life I've been

given. I have good moments, but they don't last or turn into the

action I want them to be. One of the reasons my pain may be worse is

I'm taking the minimum amount of my pain pills. I've had such a bad

problem with constipation I fear taking the higher end of my

allowable pain meds. That with using miralax, fiber pills, and stool

softeners has provided some relief. The miralax makes me feel bloated

which is uncomfortable, but at least it is tasteless. Friday is my

birthday. My wife and I are going to try to get away for 2 night, so

I'm hoping that goes well. We just want to be together, which is a

good thing, when I see so many spouses who don't want to be

together! Well that's my report. Wish it was sunnier, Dave in Reading, PA

------------------------------------

[Guest guest]

I feel like a poor kibitzer to this group.  I don't have so far the seriousness

of problem described here, but I do have to deal with an ongoing nagging back

problem.  It flares up when I have to do too much bending and reaching in the

course of my job.  What would you all say is best pain relief for pain in middle

of back?  Are these arthritis rubs I am seeing so expensive in the pharmacies

worth it or are they just like the cheaper pain relief rubs?

Thanks for the input.

Terry

[Guest guest]

I feel like a poor kibitzer to this group.  I don't have so far the seriousness

of problem described here, but I do have to deal with an ongoing nagging back

problem.  It flares up when I have to do too much bending and reaching in the

course of my job.  What would you all say is best pain relief for pain in middle

of back?  Are these arthritis rubs I am seeing so expensive in the pharmacies

worth it or are they just like the cheaper pain relief rubs?

Thanks for the input.

Terry

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone! Hope you all had a great thanksgiving and I've been

thinking of all of you as I was struggling through trying to play host

for a dinner. I was in so much pain from making it that I couldn't

enjoy eating it, but...I made it through another holiday ~ Hooray!

I'm still doing the same, still trying to push myself a little bit

harder everyday to see what's on the other side of the hump...but I

haven't made it far enough to see that yet. I'll let ya know if...when

I get there ( trying to think positive! ) Because of this my pain has

definately increased and I am trying to just deal with it. I really

don't want to get more facet joint/facet nerve joint injections done,

besides for them hurting they don't do very much to help and thinking

long term it's just not that good for ya.

I do have a Q for anyone out there taking Lyrica, my doc recently

increased my dose so I'm taking a double dose at bedtime, it's been

about a month now and I have noticed (which could be totally unrelated

but worth asking) that my knees and my ankles have been

painful...that's a new one for me. I'm used to sciatic in both legs

from the L5-Sl (herniated, desiccated, degenerative)...Hmmm, could that

be it? Does the L5-S1 make the knees and ankles hurt too??

Anybody have any input on this? I'd appreciate it, it's driving me a

bit nuts!

Thanks!!

(Special 'Shout out' to and Annie!! Hey Girls!!)

Debbie C.

>

> report in you guys, and let us know how you are all doing and

feeling?

> cindy

>

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone! Hope you all had a great thanksgiving and I've been

thinking of all of you as I was struggling through trying to play host

for a dinner. I was in so much pain from making it that I couldn't

enjoy eating it, but...I made it through another holiday ~ Hooray!

I'm still doing the same, still trying to push myself a little bit

harder everyday to see what's on the other side of the hump...but I

haven't made it far enough to see that yet. I'll let ya know if...when

I get there ( trying to think positive! ) Because of this my pain has

definately increased and I am trying to just deal with it. I really

don't want to get more facet joint/facet nerve joint injections done,

besides for them hurting they don't do very much to help and thinking

long term it's just not that good for ya.

I do have a Q for anyone out there taking Lyrica, my doc recently

increased my dose so I'm taking a double dose at bedtime, it's been

about a month now and I have noticed (which could be totally unrelated

but worth asking) that my knees and my ankles have been

painful...that's a new one for me. I'm used to sciatic in both legs

from the L5-Sl (herniated, desiccated, degenerative)...Hmmm, could that

be it? Does the L5-S1 make the knees and ankles hurt too??

Anybody have any input on this? I'd appreciate it, it's driving me a

bit nuts!

Thanks!!

(Special 'Shout out' to and Annie!! Hey Girls!!)

Debbie C.

>

> report in you guys, and let us know how you are all doing and

feeling?

> cindy

>

[Guest guest]

At 12:15 PM 12/4/2008, you wrote:

>I feel like a poor kibitzer to this group. I don't have so far the

>seriousness of problem described here, but I do have to deal with an

>ongoing nagging back problem. It flares up when I have to do too

>much bending and reaching in the course of my job. What would you

>all say is best pain relief for pain in middle of back? Are these

>arthritis rubs I am seeing so expensive in the pharmacies worth it

>or are they just like the cheaper pain relief rubs?

>Thanks for the input.

>Terry

Terry for me Ice gell packs wrapped in a towel in contact with the

pain area works wonders. Of course you can't do this while working

or moving, unless you secure it with an Ace bandage. I have secured

them in my back brace before and been active. I also did use

Capcasian creme with some success. Ice works because generally the

pain comes from inflamed muscles, nerves, joints, disks, etc. When I

do use rubs I always use the store brand equivalent. Read the

ingredients, generally they are made in the same factory, just

labeled differently but at a much lower price. Dave

[Guest guest]

At 12:15 PM 12/4/2008, you wrote:

>I feel like a poor kibitzer to this group. I don't have so far the

>seriousness of problem described here, but I do have to deal with an

>ongoing nagging back problem. It flares up when I have to do too

>much bending and reaching in the course of my job. What would you

>all say is best pain relief for pain in middle of back? Are these

>arthritis rubs I am seeing so expensive in the pharmacies worth it

>or are they just like the cheaper pain relief rubs?

>Thanks for the input.

>Terry

Terry for me Ice gell packs wrapped in a towel in contact with the

pain area works wonders. Of course you can't do this while working

or moving, unless you secure it with an Ace bandage. I have secured

them in my back brace before and been active. I also did use

Capcasian creme with some success. Ice works because generally the

pain comes from inflamed muscles, nerves, joints, disks, etc. When I

do use rubs I always use the store brand equivalent. Read the

ingredients, generally they are made in the same factory, just

labeled differently but at a much lower price. Dave

[Guest guest]

hmmmm..I take Lyrica (2 at night) and I have noticed some knee pain at night

also.

: (

Tom

In a message dated 12/4/2008 12:48:05 P.M. Mountain Standard Time,

debbiecarlomagno@... writes:

Hi everyone! Hope you all had a great thanksgiving and I've been

thinking of all of you as I was struggling through trying to play host

for a dinner. I was in so much pain from making it that I couldn't

enjoy eating it, but...I made it through another holiday ~ Hooray!

I'm still doing the same, still trying to push myself a little bit

harder everyday to see what's on the other side of the hump...but I

haven't made it far enough to see that yet. I'll let ya know if...when

I get there ( trying to think positive! ) Because of this my pain has

definately increased and I am trying to just deal with it. I really

don't want to get more facet joint/facet nerve joint injections done,

besides for them hurting they don't do very much to help and thinking

long term it's just not that good for ya.

I do have a Q for anyone out there taking Lyrica, my doc recently

increased my dose so I'm taking a double dose at bedtime, it's been

about a month now and I have noticed (which could be totally unrelated

but worth asking) that my knees and my ankles have been

painful...that'painful...that'<WBR>s a new one for me. I'm used to sciat

from the L5-Sl (herniated, desiccated, degenerative)from the L5-Sl (herniate

be it? Does the L5-S1 make the knees and ankles hurt too??

Anybody have any input on this? I'd appreciate it, it's driving me a

bit nuts!

Thanks!!

(Special 'Shout out' to and Annie!! Hey Girls!!)

Debbie C.

>

> report in you guys, and let us know how you are all doing and

feeling?

> cindy

>

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[Guest guest]

hmmmm..I take Lyrica (2 at night) and I have noticed some knee pain at night

also.

: (

Tom

In a message dated 12/4/2008 12:48:05 P.M. Mountain Standard Time,

debbiecarlomagno@... writes:

Hi everyone! Hope you all had a great thanksgiving and I've been

thinking of all of you as I was struggling through trying to play host

for a dinner. I was in so much pain from making it that I couldn't

enjoy eating it, but...I made it through another holiday ~ Hooray!

I'm still doing the same, still trying to push myself a little bit

harder everyday to see what's on the other side of the hump...but I

haven't made it far enough to see that yet. I'll let ya know if...when

I get there ( trying to think positive! ) Because of this my pain has

definately increased and I am trying to just deal with it. I really

don't want to get more facet joint/facet nerve joint injections done,

besides for them hurting they don't do very much to help and thinking

long term it's just not that good for ya.

I do have a Q for anyone out there taking Lyrica, my doc recently

increased my dose so I'm taking a double dose at bedtime, it's been

about a month now and I have noticed (which could be totally unrelated

but worth asking) that my knees and my ankles have been

painful...that'painful...that'<WBR>s a new one for me. I'm used to sciat

from the L5-Sl (herniated, desiccated, degenerative)from the L5-Sl (herniate

be it? Does the L5-S1 make the knees and ankles hurt too??

Anybody have any input on this? I'd appreciate it, it's driving me a

bit nuts!

Thanks!!

(Special 'Shout out' to and Annie!! Hey Girls!!)

Debbie C.

>

> report in you guys, and let us know how you are all doing and

feeling?

> cindy

>

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[Guest guest]

Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very angry and

depressed. My daughter and her husband are having serious problems, I'm scared

for her safety, her husband is seriously depressed, and I'm supposed to be going

to visit them next week for 3 weeks. He's probably going to lose his job, they

have 2 children, one with autism. I am furious with him, my back is spasming, my

ulcer is flaring up, we haven't spent thousands trying to help them out, they

have temporarily lost their health insurance, so her husband can't even go for

help even if he wanted to. She lives in Seattle, I live in Vegas in a 2 bedroom

apt. She has no car, no money, we have maxed out our credit trying to help them.

This has to be the worst year ever. I have to be strong to be there for her,

she's worried I'm going to get sick. She has really no one to turn to.

I pray everyone else is doing better.

 

Jeannie

________________________________

[Guest guest]

Maybe it would be better is she came to Vegas???

Let the husband have some down time to reflect on what is happening to them..

Tom

In a message dated 12/8/2008 2:21:02 A.M. Mountain Standard Time,

jeannieboo1@... writes:

Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very angry and

depressed. My daughter and her husband are having serious problems, I'm

scared for her safety, her husband is seriously depressed, and I'm supposed to

be

going to visit them next week for 3 weeks. He's probably going to lose his

job, they have 2 children, one with autism. I am furious with him, my back is

spasming, my ulcer is flaring up, we haven't spent thousands trying to help

them out, they have temporarily lost their health insurance, so her husband

can't even go for help even if he wanted to. She lives in Seattle, I live in

Vegas in a 2 bedroom apt. She has no car, no money, we have maxed out our

credit trying to help them. This has to be the worst year ever. I have to be

strong to be there for her, she's worried I'm going to get sick. She has really

no

one to turn to.

I pray everyone else is doing better.

Jeannie

________________________________

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[Guest guest]

Wow, that is a lot on your plate--

Perhaps some of the  stress could be relieved if you politely say 'no "

It is the hardest thing to do( with family) and we all hate to say no but there

comes a time when our health should  be a factor in keeping our sanity.

If people hang guilt over your head for not " helping " , so be it, but you can

only do so much for others then it is up to them to carry on.

When enabling is depriving you of your own health/finances then

it can become dangerous.

There is nothing wrong with saying no.

Take care, Annie

A poet is, after all, to see

From: Abbott <jeannieboo1@...>

Subject: Re: Where is everyone? Hows is everyone feeling?

neck pain

Date: Monday, December 8, 2008, 4:20 AM

Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very angry and

depressed. My daughter and her husband are having serious problems, I'm

scared for her safety, her husband is seriously depressed, and I'm supposed

to be going to visit them next week for 3 weeks. He's probably going to lose

his job, they have 2 children, one with autism. I am furious with him, my back

is spasming, my ulcer is flaring up, we haven't spent thousands trying to

help them out, they have temporarily lost their health insurance, so her

husband can't even go for help even if he wanted to. She lives in Seattle, I

live in Vegas in a 2 bedroom apt. She has no car, no money, we have maxed out

our credit trying to help them. This has to be the worst year ever. I have to be

strong to be there for her, she's worried I'm going to get sick. She has

really no one to turn to.

I pray everyone else is doing better.

 

Jeannie

________________________________

[Guest guest]

Jeannie,

I just wanted to let you know that you son in law irregardless of health

insurance..if he is suicidal and shows up an an emergency room they have to

provide treatment. Just make sure that the hospital he goes to does in fact

have psychiatric care.

Deb RN

From: neck pain

[mailto:neck pain ] On Behalf Of Ann Wood Fuller

Sent: Monday, December 08, 2008 4:51 AM

neck pain

Subject: Re: Where is everyone? Hows is everyone

feeling?

Wow, that is a lot on your plate--

Perhaps some of the stress could be relieved if you politely say 'no "

It is the hardest thing to do( with family) and we all hate to say no but

there comes a time when our health should be a factor in keeping our

sanity.

If people hang guilt over your head for not " helping " , so be it, but you can

only do so much for others then it is up to them to carry on.

When enabling is depriving you of your own health/finances then it can

become dangerous.

There is nothing wrong with saying no.

Take care, Annie

A poet is, after all, to see

From: Abbott <jeannieboo1@... <mailto:jeannieboo1%40> >

Subject: Re: Where is everyone? Hows is everyone

feeling?

neck pain

<mailto:neck pain%40>

Date: Monday, December 8, 2008, 4:20 AM

Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very angry and

depressed. My daughter and her husband are having serious problems, I'm

scared for her safety, her husband is seriously depressed, and I'm supposed

to be going to visit them next week for 3 weeks. He's probably going to lose

his job, they have 2 children, one with autism. I am furious with him, my

back

is spasming, my ulcer is flaring up, we haven't spent thousands trying to

help them out, they have temporarily lost their health insurance, so her

husband can't even go for help even if he wanted to. She lives in Seattle, I

live in Vegas in a 2 bedroom apt. She has no car, no money, we have maxed

out

our credit trying to help them. This has to be the worst year ever. I have

to be

strong to be there for her, she's worried I'm going to get sick. She has

really no one to turn to.

I pray everyone else is doing better.

Jeannie

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[Guest guest]

At 04:20 AM 12/8/2008, you wrote:

>Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very

>angry and depressed.

>

>Jeannie

Jeannie, I'm sorry to hear this. I agree with the others who replied

and said you may have to just say know. You are in pain everyday and

I'm sure your income is limited by your condition. You are not in a

position to be a caregiver. You shouldn't especially in your

condition and in this economy put yourself in deep debt. I think the

advice of have your daughter move to Vegas may be a great idea. I'm

not sure why you are scared for your daughters safety but if her

husband is a threat to others and himself maybe he should check into

a hospital. Even with no insurance they have to treat him. If they

are that tight on money they should also be eligible for State or

County assistance. Foodstamps, cash assistance, and medicaid. I

know I received all three when we were at our worst

financially. They should look into this. I may be reading into this

wrong but is your daughter worried you will become ill because then

you will no longer be able to help them? That seems rather self

centered and not truly caring about your well being. I apologize

if I'm misunderstanding your post or the relationship you have with

your daughter. Dave

[Guest guest]

At 04:20 AM 12/8/2008, you wrote:

>Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very

>angry and depressed.

>

>Jeannie

Jeannie, I'm sorry to hear this. I agree with the others who replied

and said you may have to just say know. You are in pain everyday and

I'm sure your income is limited by your condition. You are not in a

position to be a caregiver. You shouldn't especially in your

condition and in this economy put yourself in deep debt. I think the

advice of have your daughter move to Vegas may be a great idea. I'm

not sure why you are scared for your daughters safety but if her

husband is a threat to others and himself maybe he should check into

a hospital. Even with no insurance they have to treat him. If they

are that tight on money they should also be eligible for State or

County assistance. Foodstamps, cash assistance, and medicaid. I

know I received all three when we were at our worst

financially. They should look into this. I may be reading into this

wrong but is your daughter worried you will become ill because then

you will no longer be able to help them? That seems rather self

centered and not truly caring about your well being. I apologize

if I'm misunderstanding your post or the relationship you have with

your daughter. Dave

[Guest guest]

At 04:20 AM 12/8/2008, you wrote:

>Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very

>angry and depressed.

>

>Jeannie

Jeannie, I'm sorry to hear this. I agree with the others who replied

and said you may have to just say know. You are in pain everyday and

I'm sure your income is limited by your condition. You are not in a

position to be a caregiver. You shouldn't especially in your

condition and in this economy put yourself in deep debt. I think the

advice of have your daughter move to Vegas may be a great idea. I'm

not sure why you are scared for your daughters safety but if her

husband is a threat to others and himself maybe he should check into

a hospital. Even with no insurance they have to treat him. If they

are that tight on money they should also be eligible for State or

County assistance. Foodstamps, cash assistance, and medicaid. I

know I received all three when we were at our worst

financially. They should look into this. I may be reading into this

wrong but is your daughter worried you will become ill because then

you will no longer be able to help them? That seems rather self

centered and not truly caring about your well being. I apologize

if I'm misunderstanding your post or the relationship you have with

your daughter. Dave

[Guest guest]

At 04:20 AM 12/8/2008, you wrote:

>Personally, because of all the stress I'm going through, I am very

>angry and depressed.

>

>Jeannie

Jeannie, I'm sorry to hear this. I agree with the others who replied

and said you may have to just say know. You are in pain everyday and

I'm sure your income is limited by your condition. You are not in a

position to be a caregiver. You shouldn't especially in your

condition and in this economy put yourself in deep debt. I think the

advice of have your daughter move to Vegas may be a great idea. I'm

not sure why you are scared for your daughters safety but if her

husband is a threat to others and himself maybe he should check into

a hospital. Even with no insurance they have to treat him. If they

are that tight on money they should also be eligible for State or

County assistance. Foodstamps, cash assistance, and medicaid. I

know I received all three when we were at our worst

financially. They should look into this. I may be reading into this

wrong but is your daughter worried you will become ill because then

you will no longer be able to help them? That seems rather self

centered and not truly caring about your well being. I apologize

if I'm misunderstanding your post or the relationship you have with

your daughter. Dave