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>, They are SO adorable!

>I do see why everyone thinks and are the twins.Does Nicala

look you or your husband??

Well...hmmm....Some people say she looks like me and others say my husband.

She definitely gets the blond from my husband. The blue eyes are from me.

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hello M my name is Marlayna just checked my mail before going to bed. You

have not thought of the Courage you have as well as your love you feel to

take the steps to do what was best for your child to take all current meds

away and start a new sowith the hope he can have a more happier and less

confused life calmness he does not know You did what a loving caring parent

does thats whatever it takes how ever you have to get medical treatment for

him you DID You will get through this. maybe your medical condition has

saved your son by your take charge and whatever it takes you are doing just

that write any time Love and Prayers Marlayna

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Dear one, I am saddened to hear how emotionally low you are just now. I wish

I could hold you and we could cry together.

I do not see you as a failure sweet one. You have been brave and done what

you could. What more could you have done?

It is not your fault that you are sick. You are not responsible for that. If

you had your choice I am sure you would be well!!

It is not your fault that your son has needs - that is how he was born. You

have done the most courageous and brave thing - you have taken the steps so

you and your son get the assistance you need.

That must have been a very difficult decision to have made.

It is not failing as a parent. It is actually being the best parent you

could me. You have recognised that he needed help and you got that for him.

You took responsibility and did something about it in the best interests of

your child - and you. That is being a good parent. A caring parent. Miles

away from failure.

You are not a fuck up - you are a brave woman who is living in a hellish

situation and was faced with one of the most difficult choices a mother has

to make. Be proud of yourself . A fuck up of a parent would have

just slapped the kid back, sworn at him, locked him in a room somewhere -

that's even if they were even around to notice. A caring parent looks after

their child's needs. That is what you did. You are a caring parent

- one of the good guys.

Why would your church think you a failure? Aren't these people suppose to

support their congregation?? And they have no right to judge you - let them

walk in your shoes - bet they could not cope with an hour of what you have

to live with daily.

You must be so worried about him, and about you all at once. Being alone

with illness is devastating. Hang in there sweet one - we are here - and you

write as much as you need.

If you need someone to phone you and talk to you just say ok. I am sure

there is always someone here at the other end of the emails who are more

then happy to call if you need them.

Please be gentle on yourself. And there is no need to apologise - ever. We

are all in this together. I am so glad you wrote to us. Although we cannot

be physically there to hug you and comfort you we are here to love and

support you - always.

Remember you did what was best. That is always the hardest choice.

Love you - hang in there ok.

with love

Aisha.

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,

I want you to know that I went through a lot of what you

are describing! I've been hit by my 10 yr old, too, and

he's like 120lbs! Awful strong, too!

What I want you to know, is he is probably angry because

kids don't know illness is just bad luck, he may think he

did something bad to desreve this. I recommend visiting

him often just to tell him you love him, and that you only

live waiting for his return. He will reject you many

times, because he can't believe you at first, But if you

insist no matter how nasty he is, he will realize you are

serious! I think you should take all the abuse he gives

out, just to show him you are willing to take it! in that

way, his need to be abusive will die out, and he will

realize you love him! he probably doesn't believe it at

this point. BTW, for others who read this, this doesn't

work with abusive husbands! Only with sons and ds! Make

sure to tell him how you feel each and every time he's

abusive, either verbally or whatever, without ever ponting

a finger at him. Just describe what he did and describe

how you feel. And say 'I love you' a thousand times!

I knew that my son was angry because I had gone away and

left him with my mom and aunt (and stepdad and cousin, and

a couple of maids). He was SO ANGRY! I just let him hit me

a couple of times, then began to express my real feelings

to him, about how I felt useless and left him because I

thought he'd be better off without me. he now makes a real

effort, although he is still very physically agressive and

insults me some times, he is very good with others and

says " forgive me, I was out of control, and I didn't mean

it. " i'm glad to say he only loses it about once a month

now, and only lasts a few seconds.

he is doing quite well now. I think because I spoke to him

without any cover ups.

BTW, i still think Ritalin and all that crap is quite

useless, they're just cover ups. Psychiatric medication

should only be used on people who see bugs and aliens

eating the walls! But, for the aggressiveness, I know

something that works: PAXIL, but don't use it more than 16

weeks no matter what the doctors say!

I don't believe in 'taking charge' either if that involves

outsiders (courts and the like). I love you works best.

Perhaps you'd like to read SUMMERHILL by A.S. neill.

vanessa

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Dearest ne,

"I don't usually do this but I've had it!!! I'm TIRED!!!!! Tired of laundry, tired of dishes, tired of no money, tired of not feeling good, tired, tired tired tired!!!!!! My hepatitis is in a flareup & the fatigue is unreal, but do you think I can sleep? NO!!! Here I sit, exhausted, the kids will be up at 7 am & I CAN'T SLEEP! Maybe I need to take another Zoloft."

Gwydion is on Zoloft, and we found that he slept alot better when he switched taking the tablet from the usual time in the morning, to when he went to bed. This might help you sleep? If you still are not resting well please talk to your Dr as sleep deprevation is nasty. *hug* Real sorry to hear you are in a flare of that damn hepatitis. If I can help just say.

Love Aisha.

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Yes ne it is very tiring when you are out of remission and

you can not sleep. You can rant all you want I'm usually up untill

between 2-4am as I don't sleep very well either. The girls will be

up between 7 and 9. In another two and a half weeks it will be 7am

every week day because of school. You take care...

hugs Helen

> I don't usually do this but I've had it!!! I'm TIRED!!!!! Tired

of

> laundry, tired of dishes, tired of no money, tired of not feeling

good,

> tired, tired tired tired!!!!!! My hepatitis is in a flareup & the

fatigue

> is unreal, but do you think I can sleep? NO!!! Here I sit,

exhausted, the

> kids will be up at 7 am & I CAN'T SLEEP! Maybe I need to take

another

> Zoloft. ne

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good luck and let us know how you do!

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Date: Wed, 01 Feb 2006 16:40:25 -0000

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DENISE,

You're in our thoughts! Prayers, hugs & love. Good luck.

Joy

-- My turn

Well... tomorrow is my turn to go under the knife and get the first ofmy knees replaced. I am starting on the right, seems to give me themost greif. So, thank you all for posting SO much information, I feelwell prepared for what is about to happen. I am not sure as to when Iwill be able to post again. My hope is my father will bring me hislaptop at some point next week so I can check in and let you greatpeople know how it all went. So, wish me luck and keep a littleprayer for that sweet chubby girl in Arizona. God Bless!

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well made it. pain was horrible but i m DJUUSING.

hOPE YOU MADE IT TOO! I WILL TRY TO POST LATE

R.

DENISE

--- Critrkrazy@... wrote:

> , tomorrow is my day also. I'll be thinking

> of you. It's also

> Groundhog Day so if we see our shadow?

>

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well made it. pain was horrible but i m DJUUSING.

hOPE YOU MADE IT TOO! I WILL TRY TO POST LATE

R.

DENISE

--- Critrkrazy@... wrote:

> , tomorrow is my day also. I'll be thinking

> of you. It's also

> Groundhog Day so if we see our shadow?

>

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Hi ,

I'm glad your ok each day the pain will be less but take pain pills as needed they will help. Well I wish you a speedy recovery :-) Glad to hear from you.

Susie

-------------- Original message -------------- From: Mallin <theskweez2001@...> well made it. pain was horrible but i m DJUUSING. hOPE YOU MADE IT TOO! I WILL TRY TO POST LATER.DENISE--- Critrkrazy@... wrote:> , tomorrow is my day also. I'll be thinking> of you. It's also > Groundhog Day so if we see our shadow? > __________________________________________________

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In a message dated 2/1/2006 10:45:42 A.M. Central Standard Time, theskweez2001@... writes:

Well... tomorrow is my turn to go under the knife and get the first ofmy knees replaced. I am starting on the right, seems to give me themost greif. So, thank you all for posting SO much information, I feelwell prepared for what is about to happen. I am not sure as to when Iwill be able to post again. My hope is my father will bring me hislaptop at some point next week so I can check in and let you greatpeople know how it all went. So, wish me luck and keep a littleprayer for that sweet chubby girl in Arizona. God Bless!

Hey , this is , Feb 2 TKR. I can get on the computer a bit until my leg starts throbbing too much. Hope you are doing well.

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Hello my partner in knee pain! I am doing

ok, living with my folks for a while, using a walker

and started home therapy. I am rarely up for sitting

at the computer either. It is hard to stretch out my

leg and the muscles and can barely lift my leg on its

own still so weak. I hope you are doing well, and

lets keep in touch!

Best wishes for a painfree day

--- Critrkrazy@... wrote:

>

> In a message dated 2/1/2006 10:45:42 A.M. Central

> Standard Time,

> theskweez2001@... writes:

>

> Well... tomorrow is my turn to go under the knife

> and get the first of

> my knees replaced. I am starting on the right,

> seems to give me the

> most greif. So, thank you all for posting SO much

> information, I feel

> well prepared for what is about to happen. I am

> not sure as to when I

> will be able to post again. My hope is my father

> will bring me his

> laptop at some point next week so I can check in

> and let you great

> people know how it all went. So, wish me luck and

> keep a little

> prayer for that sweet chubby girl in Arizona.

>

> God Bless!

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Hey , this is , Feb 2 TKR. I can get

> on the computer a bit

> until my leg starts throbbing too much. Hope you

> are doing well.

>

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Try taking a full spectrin Enyme and bromelain.The bromelain will help with gas.

From: iampeacewalker <iampeacewalker@...> Sent: Wed, March 24, 2010 11:10:22 AMSubject: [] My TurnDear HH Family,I am asking for prayers and healing energy.I got out of the hospital yesterday Diagnosed as viral gastral intestinal flu.In a great deal of pain as cramps from intestines to solar plexus.Finally got a poached egg down at 1:30 this morning.It worked so well I had one more for lunch.Its the only thing I am keeping down and once stomache has food in it..I actually feel better.However this also causes more gas and more pain.A week of bed rest is prescribed along with Reglan and BentylWhich I will not take...these will do more damage than

good.I cant beleive they actually prescribe this poison still.So please prayers and any healing energy you may feel is appropriate.Blessings,Peacie------------------------------------Humanity Healing,Healing the heart of Humanity,one soul at the time. <center>I GoodSearch & GoodShop for Humanity Healing Foundation.Raise money for Humanity Healing Foundation and Projects just by searching the Internet with GoodSearch.com(powered by ), or shopping online with GoodShop.com <*>To download our new ToolBar http://.OurOrganizationToolbar.com <*>www..net<*>©2006-2009 Humanity Healing FAIR USE NOTICE: This page may contains copyrighted material the use of which has not been specifically authorized by the copyright owner. This website

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Dear Peace :

Prayers of Love, Light and Healing to your Beloved Body...especially your

intestines. May they experience Peace and a Calmness. Grace and Ease to you, my

sister,

Blessings of Healing,

Lynn Manyfires

--- In , " iampeacewalker " <iampeacewalker@...>

wrote:

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> Dear HH Family,

> I am asking for prayers and healing energy.

> I got out of the hospital yesterday

> Diagnosed as viral gastral intestinal flu.

> In a great deal of pain as cramps from intestines to solar plexus.

> Finally got a poached egg down at 1:30 this morning.

> It worked so well I had one more for lunch.

> Its the only thing I am keeping down and once stomache has food in it..I

actually feel better.

> However this also causes more gas and more pain.

> A week of bed rest is prescribed along with Reglan and Bentyl

> Which I will not take...these will do more damage than good.

> I cant beleive they actually prescribe this poison still.

> So please prayers and any healing energy you may feel is appropriate.

> Blessings,

> Peacie

>

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Prayers coming your way. Hope you feel better soon.

Love, Light, Peace and Joy,Cheryl AnneVisit me at: http://www.myspace.com/senegalady"You're just jealous because the voices only talk to me :>)" Be courteous - use the Bcc method for multiple emails and deleteother people's addresses before forwarding emailsMACGNHNPCC Lynch Syndrome Do you know what Lynch Syndrome is? Raise the Red Flag Hereditary Cancer....Know the risk, Change the Outcome, Join the Movement

In a message dated 3/24/2010 1:19:53 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, iampeacewalker@... writes:

Dear HH Family,I am asking for prayers and healing energy.I got out of the hospital yesterday Diagnosed as viral gastral intestinal flu.In a great deal of pain as cramps from intestines to solar plexus.Finally got a poached egg down at 1:30 this morning.It worked so well I had one more for lunch.Its the only thing I am keeping down and once stomache has food in it..I actually feel better.However this also causes more gas and more pain.A week of bed rest is prescribed along with Reglan and BentylWhich I will not take...these will do more damage than good.I cant beleive they actually prescribe this poison still.So please prayers and any healing energy you may feel is appropriate.Blessings,Peacie------------------------------------Humanity Healing,Healing the heart of Humanity,one soul at the time. <center>I GoodSearch & GoodShop for Humanity Healing Foundation.Raise money for Humanity Healing Foundation and Projects just by searching the Internet with GoodSearch.com(powered by ), or shopping online with GoodShop.com <*>To download our new ToolBar http://.OurOrganizationToolbar.com <*>www..net<*>©2006-2009 Humanity Healing FAIR USE NOTICE: This page may contains copyrighted material the use of which has not been specifically authorized by the copyright owner. This website distributes this material without profit to those who have expressed a prior interest in receiving the included information for research and educational purposes. We believe this constitutes a fair use of any such copyrighted material as provided for in 17 U.S.C § 107.~ Confidentiality Advisory ~This information is privileged and confidential and is intended only for the person or entity to which it is addressed.Any review, retransmission, dissemination or other use of this information(including attachments)by persons or entities other than the intended recipient is prohibited.If you are not the intended recipient, please delete the information fromyour system and contact the sender.<**>

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