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HI all,

I have been thinking alot recently about the topic in question of having

kids etc.

I have spent most of my life with the belief that although I would love kids

it would not be fair to bring them into a world that causes them to suffer

and go through the hardships that we have all had to face. Thats not to say

I really feel I have suffered any, as I truly believe I am very fortunate,

though there is the odd day when it gets you down.

I guess I was always against the issue from a society point of view, ie

society going oh isn't that sweet etc. I have had the same view on

relationships and taken the stance that I may always be alone but I will

never be lonely, due to having many friends. I was always of the opinion

that I never wanted to enter into a relationship with another short statured

person as it was what society would think was sweet and they were not part

of my every day life and I did not want to enter into a relationship with an

average size person as I did not think it was fair to them. I have always

been shot down in flames for this with comments like if someone loved you

etc. But I guess I have never let it get that far.

I have now come to a point in my life when I believe that I should stop

letting my mind do all the thinking and start acting from the heart. In

otherwords go with the flow. If that means a relationship with a short

statured person that I am compatible with or an average size person then so

be it, but not stop it. If it also means kids then let it happen.

We all have so much to offer and much love to give. Anyone should not be

denied the chance to give and receive love.

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