Guest guest Posted October 24, 2001 Report Share Posted October 24, 2001 OOOPS! youngun' among us :X > hello people IM 16 i dunno if i should be reading sum of this! > > Love Always > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2001 Report Share Posted October 24, 2001 hi all im sure any one of you ladies could electrify anyone of us guys. but just think, two zaps together. as the father on " EVERYBODY LOVES RAYMOND " says. " HOLY CRAP " BOB IN PA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 You are fun. I love your sense of humor. You and Bill and Bob make me laugh Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 Sue just get up there and keep on talking girl I am right behind you. These young ones could probably teach us a thing or two. My youngest is now 26 God I am old my oldest just turned 35. I am not old I am just overripe. Thats it I llike that over ripe Crazy Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 Sharon..... > You know how those Air Force guys are. And what about Bob and Al, and > a few > of the others that have replied. Maybe we could start a special > website. > Men that are shocked for life, or shocked beyond belief. I'm sure between the two of us (and the other ladies on this list).... we could shock these boys a lot worse than their zappers have! Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 Sharon.... > Is anyone in here a dog lover. I need a shoulder as by 8 month old > wire fox > terrier pup may have to be put to sleep. Congrats on the coming grandbaby. I'm so sorry about your puppy. What is wrong, that she has to leave us at such a young age? I will light a candle for her little doggie soul, as she travels over the Bridge. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 I dare ya! Al Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 .... > hello people IM 16 i dunno if i should be reading sum of this! Oh course you should, my dear. BTW, my own 16-yr.-old daughter reads my mail over my shoulder.... and often goes 'EEEEWWWWWwwww!' Eventually, you'll be okay with the fact that even when yer all old and decrepit like us, you'll still like sexy stuff, flirting, boys/girls (depending on your own gender), a nice 'snuggle' in the middle of the night..... EEEEWWWW!!!!! Ancient but not dead yet Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 hah i know i was just jk i hear worst then this on a normal day at school.. Love Always Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 13, 2004 Report Share Posted May 13, 2004 Howdy, I left my husband of 24 years, 6 years ago. After that I was " scared " of spending the rest of my life alone.....One of the major reasons that I left my ex, was the fact that " I felt alone all the time " . Two years after I divorced, at age 49, I met the man of my dreams! I had always " known " deep in my heart. that there " had " to be someone out there who would love me for " me " ...and I've now been with him for almost five years. We met on the internet----through Matchmaker, of all places. From day one, I knew that the rest of my life would change. He loves me and accepts me for who I am. He accepts me with all of my " warts " , so to speak, and loves both the good and bad. He has been there through the worst of exacerbations, and pushes me to do all that I can....accepting the brunt of what I cannot..... Even if I had not met my " soulmate " , I had decided that living " alone " by myself, was better than living " alone' with someone else. Many of the handicap-sites have matchmaking and places to meet others who are accepting of your limitations. Don't give up hope! Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2004 Report Share Posted September 16, 2004 My son has Asperger Syndrome. Though there is not enough information about this disorder nation and world wide, people are becoming more aware with each passing day. There are always treatments and therapies and strategies to help with social and emotional deficits. Though the social/emotional immaturity and difficulties will always be there, I have seen success with my son when he is made aware of his rude, condescending, etc. behaviors. We have family therapy every week to work out these problems in the hopes that he can have as much success in his personal and professional life as his abilities will allow. My experience is that family therapy is working because: though his Asperger's is behind his behaviors, therapy gives him insight and recognition in how he is perceived and he is willing to work via techniques and strategies to overcome these issues. There is always going to be something, but just chucking it up to Asperger seems like an explanation that is shortchanging his ability to be the best person he can be in spite of his social disorder. Good luck with your daughter. Ann <ole_crone@...> wrote: We have the same problem here off an on here. My child is finally realizing that the person who keeps dumping them is the person with a problem. Also, as the mother of sons who have had the same experiences I can see it from both sides. The most important thing to remember is that you are not in the relationship, they are. I've been there from both ends - the dumper and the dumpee through my children and as the dumpee on my own. I was dumped regularly by the same boy throughout high school and college. It was almost like clockwork. Every summer, he'd dump me - every fall he'd want me back. I'd cry and carry on but eventually I'd feel better. Then I'd go through the whole thing all over again. The summer we graduated from high school was different. We had a great time that year. At the end of every weekend date, he'd walk down our hall and rewind the cuckoo clock. Then he left to go to college and dumped me on Thanksgiving (told me he'd replaced me and showed me a picture of a cartoon hippo). That was the hardest time. One day the following March there was a knock on the door and there he was. Saying nothing, he walked in the house, down the hall and rewound the cuckoo clock. We married the following December. We've been married now for almost 32 years. Why did he do it? Lots of reasons - parent pressure (we'd been together since junior high, they wanted him to go to college and meet other people. When he told them we were getting married my mil's reaction was 'You're making a big mistake."), scared of me and my neediness (I was very possessive - I'd make sure we were always together, we even shared lockers. He'd often tell me too much of a good thing is bad.), scared of his feelings (He says looking back on it, he knows he wanted me from the time we met in junior high - but also knew that was odd. Besides he also wanted me in ways his dad had told him he shouldn't want a girl until he was married.), lastly he is slightly Aspie. To this day, he can hurt me easily with thoughtless remarks and actions. Until he discovered something called "Asperger's Syndrome" he wondered why he acted the way he did. Now we have an explanation. I spent most of my young life chasing him and losing him. If he looked willing, I'd chase him again and hold on until he'd get up enough nerve to back away. I scared him and now - years later, as a mother, I can see how and why. My oldest son is just like his father. Every girlfriend he has ever had pursued him and not the other way around. Looking back on them all, they were also probably a little AS as well. He loved being pursued until he felt trapped, then he'd back off. He could be downright nasty about it but mostly he'd start by ignoring them - hoping they would just go away. We've had girls crying, begging, constantly calling - turning into what I call 'fatal attractions' until it got to the point where he gave up on girls. We even had one call one night with an offer of sex if he'd only go out with her again (he was 15 and she was 14). He married his older secretary last summer - I think because she didn't act like that. He never developed any compassion for their plight. His brain doesn't have that automatically wired into it. However, I've seen him sit around and cry for girlfriends who did the same thing to him but he doesn't seem to put the two together. I just chalk it up to aspergers. Our kids have a saying now - "Men are scum" It is just something we use to imply - we feel your pain and you are not alone. It seems to help lighten it up a bit. But I do know how frustrating the depression can be and the feeling of helplessness a parent gets when they can't make it better for their child. Hopefully, things will calm down there soon. Ann Do you ?vote. - Register online to vote today! P. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2008 Report Share Posted December 16, 2008 I certainly wouldn't. Dating Recent divorced,do u tell u have hep c right away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2008 Report Share Posted December 16, 2008 I certainly wouldn't. Dating Recent divorced,do u tell u have hep c right away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 22, 2009 Report Share Posted February 22, 2009 This is not a dating site. There are other places for that. Hello? Moderators? Bill On Sun, Feb 22, 2009 at 3:47 PM, newknoxvillebrad <newknoxvillebrad@...> wrote: > looking for romance with a little lady - i am a big guy and i drive > truck from illinois to east coast. any ladies want to travel - not > looking for one night stands - email me at newknoxvillebrad@... > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 22, 2009 Report Share Posted February 22, 2009 one of the moderators had a " missclick " and approved a message that should not have gone thru. please accept apologies for her error. Thank you. Whims and Adelaide, co-moderators *** illusions can only be afforded by the very rich... and children *** _____ From: dwarfism [mailto:dwarfism ] On Behalf Of Bill Bradford Sent: Sunday, February 22, 2009 10:53 PM newknoxvillebrad Cc: dwarfism Subject: Re: dating This is not a dating site. There are other places for that. Hello? Moderators? Bill On Sun, Feb 22, 2009 at 3:47 PM, newknoxvillebrad <newknoxvillebrad@ <mailto:newknoxvillebrad%40> > wrote: > looking for romance with a little lady - i am a big guy and i drive > truck from illinois to east coast. any ladies want to travel - not > looking for one night stands - email me at newknoxvillebrad@ <mailto:newknoxvillebrad%40> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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