About letting go.....

[Guest guest]

Often times in life we grow attatched to things that make us feel

safe, secure and happy.

Sometimes situations and relationships don't work out and we often

wind up loosing people we love. I have had to learn to accept and

deal with losses and learning to let go of things that I never

dreamed I would.

Sometimes I can and have been hard headed and it took me a long time

to accept that things are as they are.

Now I am much more happy and have learned to accept things as they

are. I guess for a long time I took out my frustrations on others

and shouldn't have but thats over now. I leanred the hard way and

no, it's not at all easy.

Things are very differn't now with my son and his sister, but I

accept how it is, I can't change that, and the truth is I have come

to learn that in fact there are many people out there far more messed

up than I ever was. So life really is not so bad...in fact it's

pretty good!

I think it's been the result of having the support of Bonnie and when

I lost my mother a few years ago that I started to see a lot of

things I may not have before.

We should always be thankful for the time we have with people and

show it. I am glad to be on here and be able to have posative things

to say once more and not be frustrated or angry.

Good luch to you all....