Dealing with Kids in a Relationship

[Guest guest]

My lover has a daughter who is 18 that lives with him. I have

dwarfism, and she made a point of telling her father she was afraid of

little people. Somehow I don't believe she is afraid of little people,

I think she just does not want me around. How do you deal with the

kids not wanting you around in a relationship? I need some advice.

The thing that bothers me is my lover was hospitalized for pneumonia

and I asked him why didn't he contact me and his reply was that no one

is his family have my contact information. He said the only person

that could have tried and reached out to me was his daughter, and he

said you know how she feels about you. Reminding me that she does not

like me. Its true, but does he have to keep reminding me? Me knowing

how she feels does not help the situation. Do you enjoy yourself and

ignore the children, because technically she is an adult.