Re: 1 year Attitude of Gratitude! Rhonda

[Guest guest]

> It shouldn't amaze me anymore, but it still does and it always

makes me feel so good to know there are so many people out

there that truly do understand and know me without ever meeting

me in person. It is soooooo coooool.

You said it perfectly Rhonda......soooooo cooooool!

I remember you from the preop list and how hard you struggled

to get this surgery....I was always inspired by your sign off....we

truly are bonded!

And about that Sex Kitten Training thing.....I will share with you a

little exercise I did with my husband when we first married. Ok,

not in great detail but you will get the drift lololol

I felt as if he did not see me as sexy...we had sex but it was not

very passionate enough....so I booked a room at the beach,

bought all kinds of little props like flowers for the room, fancy

stemmed glasses for the wine, sensually sented candles and a

silky but not to skimpy nightie......and I had him take pictures of

me.

Yep....all 230 pounds of me! NO nude shots!!! I am not talking

about naked porno type shots I am talking about pinup girl type

poses. Think BethieBoop here lolol

At first we were both uncomfortable and we drained the fancy

glasses quite a few times before we really got into it but once we

were relaxed.....something just changed in his way of looking at

me....he began to tell me how to pose and we both began having

real fun with it.

Now a girl has to take some precautions for sure, I made sure

that my flabby tummy was never seen and that my butt was never

like full on in the camera lens lolololol

But mainly I just looked provocatively into the camera....you

know....that come hither look lololol

Funny thing but the pictures themselves were never really

important and have been put away for years.....but the look in his

eyes and the way I felt in his eyes....that has never gone away.

That was what was important......I felt sexy and he saw me as

sexy.

I am not saying go take sexy pics....I am saying that sexy is in the

eye of the beholder and the beheld. Sexy is as Sexy

does.....Forest's mom would say. It can be learned and taught.

I applaud you on working on these issues and I hope I have not

overshared =)

sincerely,

BethBNOpen

[Guest guest]

Beth,

Thanks for sharing. No, you didn't overshare. However; I can't even

see myself close to do something like that. I can't even bring

myself to put a sexy nightgown on in front of my husband. I would

have to empty a kegger in order to do that and then I wouldn't be

able to do anything anyway. Passed out is what I would be. As I

said though, I am working on these issues. This is something that

having the surgery has done for me. I finally have enough confidence

in myself to be willing to take a risk and look at the issues I have

had burried since I was a child.

I love this group of people and I can't wait to meet as many of you

as possible at the picnic. I am getting so excited about going. I

WANT IT TO BE NOW!!!!!

Bonded by our experience, strength and hope

Rhonda

MGB - 11/30/00

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> > It shouldn't amaze me anymore, but it still does and it always

> makes me feel so good to know there are so many people out

> there that truly do understand and know me without ever meeting

> me in person. It is soooooo coooool.

>

> You said it perfectly Rhonda......soooooo cooooool!

>

> I remember you from the preop list and how hard you struggled

> to get this surgery....I was always inspired by your sign off....we

> truly are bonded!

>

> And about that Sex Kitten Training thing.....I will share with you

a

> little exercise I did with my husband when we first married. Ok,

> not in great detail but you will get the drift lololol

> I felt as if he did not see me as sexy...we had sex but it was not

> very passionate enough....so I booked a room at the beach,

> bought all kinds of little props like flowers for the room, fancy

> stemmed glasses for the wine, sensually sented candles and a

> silky but not to skimpy nightie......and I had him take pictures of

> me.

> Yep....all 230 pounds of me! NO nude shots!!! I am not talking

> about naked porno type shots I am talking about pinup girl type

> poses. Think BethieBoop here lolol

> At first we were both uncomfortable and we drained the fancy

> glasses quite a few times before we really got into it but once we

> were relaxed.....something just changed in his way of looking at

> me....he began to tell me how to pose and we both began having

> real fun with it.

> Now a girl has to take some precautions for sure, I made sure

> that my flabby tummy was never seen and that my butt was never

> like full on in the camera lens lolololol

> But mainly I just looked provocatively into the camera....you

> know....that come hither look lololol

> Funny thing but the pictures themselves were never really

> important and have been put away for years.....but the look in his

> eyes and the way I felt in his eyes....that has never gone away.

> That was what was important......I felt sexy and he saw me as

> sexy.

> I am not saying go take sexy pics....I am saying that sexy is in

the

> eye of the beholder and the beheld. Sexy is as Sexy

> does.....Forest's mom would say. It can be learned and taught.

> I applaud you on working on these issues and I hope I have not

> overshared =)

>

> sincerely,

> BethBNOpen

[Guest guest]

WHAT A POST! man alive! i need a cigarette.....

sexy IS as sexy DOES, i always say.....

S in VA

> > It shouldn't amaze me anymore, but it still does and it always

> makes me feel so good to know there are so many people out

> there that truly do understand and know me without ever meeting

> me in person. It is soooooo coooool.

>

> You said it perfectly Rhonda......soooooo cooooool!

>

> I remember you from the preop list and how hard you struggled

> to get this surgery....I was always inspired by your sign off....we

> truly are bonded!

>

> And about that Sex Kitten Training thing.....I will share with you

a

> little exercise I did with my husband when we first married. Ok,

> not in great detail but you will get the drift lololol

> I felt as if he did not see me as sexy...we had sex but it was not

> very passionate enough....so I booked a room at the beach,

> bought all kinds of little props like flowers for the room, fancy

> stemmed glasses for the wine, sensually sented candles and a

> silky but not to skimpy nightie......and I had him take pictures of

> me.

> Yep....all 230 pounds of me! NO nude shots!!! I am not talking

> about naked porno type shots I am talking about pinup girl type

> poses. Think BethieBoop here lolol

> At first we were both uncomfortable and we drained the fancy

> glasses quite a few times before we really got into it but once we

> were relaxed.....something just changed in his way of looking at

> me....he began to tell me how to pose and we both began having

> real fun with it.

> Now a girl has to take some precautions for sure, I made sure

> that my flabby tummy was never seen and that my butt was never

> like full on in the camera lens lolololol

> But mainly I just looked provocatively into the camera....you

> know....that come hither look lololol

> Funny thing but the pictures themselves were never really

> important and have been put away for years.....but the look in his

> eyes and the way I felt in his eyes....that has never gone away.

> That was what was important......I felt sexy and he saw me as

> sexy.

> I am not saying go take sexy pics....I am saying that sexy is in

the

> eye of the beholder and the beheld. Sexy is as Sexy

> does.....Forest's mom would say. It can be learned and taught.

> I applaud you on working on these issues and I hope I have not

> overshared =)

>

> sincerely,

> BethBNOpen

[Guest guest]

Husband? Dang!

> > > It shouldn't amaze me anymore, but it still does and it

always

> > makes me feel so good to know there are so many people out

> > there that truly do understand and know me without ever meeting

> > me in person. It is soooooo coooool.

> >

> > You said it perfectly Rhonda......soooooo cooooool!

> >

> > I remember you from the preop list and how hard you struggled

> > to get this surgery....I was always inspired by your sign

off....we

> > truly are bonded!

> >

> > And about that Sex Kitten Training thing.....I will share with

you

> a

> > little exercise I did with my husband when we first married. Ok,

> > not in great detail but you will get the drift lololol

> > I felt as if he did not see me as sexy...we had sex but it was

not

> > very passionate enough....so I booked a room at the beach,

> > bought all kinds of little props like flowers for the room, fancy

> > stemmed glasses for the wine, sensually sented candles and a

> > silky but not to skimpy nightie......and I had him take pictures

of

> > me.

> > Yep....all 230 pounds of me! NO nude shots!!! I am not talking

> > about naked porno type shots I am talking about pinup girl type

> > poses. Think BethieBoop here lolol

> > At first we were both uncomfortable and we drained the fancy

> > glasses quite a few times before we really got into it but once

we

> > were relaxed.....something just changed in his way of looking at

> > me....he began to tell me how to pose and we both began having

> > real fun with it.

> > Now a girl has to take some precautions for sure, I made sure

> > that my flabby tummy was never seen and that my butt was never

> > like full on in the camera lens lolololol

> > But mainly I just looked provocatively into the camera....you

> > know....that come hither look lololol

> > Funny thing but the pictures themselves were never really

> > important and have been put away for years.....but the look in

his

> > eyes and the way I felt in his eyes....that has never gone away.

> > That was what was important......I felt sexy and he saw me as

> > sexy.

> > I am not saying go take sexy pics....I am saying that sexy is in

> the

> > eye of the beholder and the beheld. Sexy is as Sexy

> > does.....Forest's mom would say. It can be learned and taught.

> > I applaud you on working on these issues and I hope I have not

> > overshared =)

> >

> > sincerely,

> > BethBNOpen