Dem birds will get you every time! haha

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To quote another one, this time an narrow minded bigot dairy farmer ap

I knew when I lived in upstate rural New York*. He used to say this to

me several times whenever he and I met**. " You see dem birds, Grady?

Those Blue Jays and those Cardinals near each other? " Yes, , I

do. " Well, that's how we suppose to be. " What do you mean? " Well,

those birds know better not to mix with each other as that's the way

God planned it, but we dumbas* humans take what God had originally

planned and make it all wrong. " How is that? " Well, we humans date and

intermarry, black and white, Puerto Rican (to him every Spanish person

was that and he called me a dumbas*, haha) and white. Well, you get my

point. " No, not really (hehe, I would get under his skin all the time

but I didn't care). " Well, there are just some things that man should

never mess around with, because God planned us to be like those birds.

We can live side by side but we should never date and marry. "

Meanwhile, this farmer had all his cows mixed up with sooo many gene

pools from several Bulls' semen! haha In other words, they were all

genetically manipulated and purposely so by man and from ones not even

of his own stock. Why? To increase the likelihood the female calf

offspring would be bigger and better milk producers than their mamas,

and that was all right and by natural selection, hmmm, ?. Ummm,

those calves didn't come born by God***, or letting it happen on its

own as the years just went by on their own! haha

My point is, if you let those who are like , and he was of my

community and actually I hung out with with 2 ap daughters a lot,

taking them out and going many places with them.... Hmmm, maybe he

saying that to me because of my being around them? But, did it stop

me? NO, because they liked me sooo much, they went beyond what their

narrow minded father thought. Why? They made their own decision to go

out with me or not:).

My second point is, " You are what you think YOU ARE, " regardless of

the ' out there. If YOU think there are major differences, road

blocks, and community hindrances, then those things, even if they are

true and do exist, will actually become that much bigger and more

powerful... because YOU have 'allowed' them to, sad to say:(. You must

become the Major Difference Changer', the Road Block Buster, and yes,

maybe even the Community Challenger. But, you may say, if I do that

grady, then I will have lost my community, you just don't know them.

And my friend, 2 things, not >>>EVERYONE<<<, even in your own specific

community thinks and acts the same. And when the ones who entrapped

you grow old and you still have no one, for fear of losing them, then

you've actually done this too. You actually lost more than them, you

also lost yourself:(, and what you could have become and who you could

have loved as well... and that's really, really sad, because you lived

more for them and their philosophy than for yourself:*(.

Peace, my friends, because I am going outside to mess with the Blue

Jays and Cardinals outside:D. See ya later, grady:).

Clarifications:

*The one star, No not all upstate New Yorkers are like , I only

used him as an example. Up there, you would see any many mixed

marriages as you would find anywhere else. It's just to those like

, and trust me there are those like in the city too, it

just burns them up to see anyone with anyone different.

**The 2 stars: To reiterate, I truly think was the way he was

with me even more so, because oddly I never heard him give this speech

to others even when I was around but only to me, was because

I specifically hung out with his 2 ap daughters.

****The 3 stars, No, I don't think God accepts this philosophy of

, but being invoked God into his garbage to make more

potent to me and as you can see I didn't accept it;).