[Male_Female_Harmony_and_Balance] Male and female energy

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Male and female energy

Jeshua channeled by Pamela Kribbe

Dear friends, it gives

me great pleasure to be with you again. I am so glad to be in your company. You

have a tendency to look up to me, or to beings like me, as masters but we do

not see it that way. We see you following your path on earth at a challenging

time, a time when much is changing, and we see you growing towards your own mastery.

We see you becoming the masters that you still look up to at times. And this is

what it is all about � finding your own mastery! Do not follow any master that

is brought before you by tradition or by books or by anything someone else is

telling you. Find your own mastery � that�s what it�s all about.

Today I would like to

speak about a theme that reaches back far into your history: the energies of

the male and the female. These are old energies and a lot is going on with them

right now.

First I would like to

say something about the nature of the male and the female. These energies are

two aspects of the One. They therefore are not really opposed or dualistic,

they are one; they are two faces of one energy.

The male energy is the

aspect that is outwardly focused. It is that part of God or Spirit that drives

outward manifestation, that makes Spirit materialize and take form. The male

energy therefore knows a strong creative force. It is natural to the male

energy to be highly focused and goal-oriented. In this manner the male energy

creates individuality. The male energy allows you to separate yourself from the

One, from the Whole and to stand alone and be a specific individual.

The female energy is the

energy of Home. It is the energy of the Primal Source, the flowing Light, pure

Being. It is the energy that has not yet manifested, the inner aspect of

things. The female energy is all encompassing and oceanic; it does not

differentiate or individualize.

Now, imagine the energy

of the female becoming aware of a certain movement inside of her, a slight

restlessness, a desire for� reaching out, outside of her boundaries, moving

outside of herself to attain experience. There is a longing for something new,

for adventure! And then an energy comes to her that answers that longing. It is

the male energy that wants to be of service and help her manifest in matter, in

form. The male energy defines and shapes the female energy and by their

cooperation the total sum of energies can take a completely new direction. A new

reality can be created in which everything can be explored and experienced, in

ever changing forms of manifestation.

The dance of the male

and the female brings forth the fluctuating spectacle of created reality, of

your creation. This is a spectacle of great beauty wherein the male and female

energy worship each other and celebrate their cooperation and playful joining.

And this is as it should be. The male and female energy belong together, they

are two aspects of the One and together they celebrate the joyful manifestation

that Creation is supposed to be.

It has been said that in

the final realization of who you are, the only truth that matters is: I AM. And

in this mystical mantra, precisely those two aspects merge. In the I is the

male energy, in the AM is the female energy. The I is constricting,

differentiating. It gives focus, it gives direction, it individuates: I, not

the other, I. And then AM. AM is oceanic, all

encompassing. It reflects the ocean of Home, the female

energy, the inexhaustible source that knows no bounds, no differentiation. The

flowing and joining aspect is the core of the female energy. In the I AM, the

male and female come together and blissfully join their energies.

Now in the history of

humanity and even before humanity existed, a conflict arose between the

masculine and the feminine. I shall not go into the origin of this conflict

now. But in your history there is a drifting apart of male and female energy so

that they appear as opposite forces. The yin-yang symbol demonstrates the true

situation very well. In the masculine there is always a core of the feminine,

and in the feminine there is a core of the masculine, just as there is a white

dot in the black and a black dot in the white. But in the course of history,

this mystical unity of the masculine and feminine has been forgotten and these

energies have become opposed to each other as black and white. The underlying

unity was no longer recognized.

Right now, you are in

the last phase of this history of conflict, in which the male energy has played

the part of perpetrator for many centuries. The male energy has long been

playing a part in which it oppresses, mutilates and destroys the female energy.

It was not always like that. There have been times in which the female energy

had the upper hand and wrongly manipulated and ruled the male energy. But that

time is over. The conflict took a different turn at a certain point and the

roles of perpetrator and victim were reversed. The male energy has been in

power for a long time now and has misused this power in such a fashion that the

female energy has been weakened and does not realize the integrity of her Being

anymore. Whenever the masculine and feminine are in conflict, the

disintegration of both is inevitable. Where the feminine gets victimized more

and more and gets lost in self-denial, the masculine energy loses itself in

ruthless violence and the kind of aggression you know from the many wars in

your past.

The masculine and the

feminine depend on one another. When they battle each other, the consequences

are disastrous. But times are changing. Since the 19th and 20th centuries, the

female energy is regaining its strength and rising above the role of victim.

This resurrection comes from deep within the feminine energy. She has finally

reached the outer limit of her self-denial. At this point she has looked

herself in the face and has stated: this is as far as it goes.

By the way, this is how

it always goes in the dynamic between victim and perpetrator. Change starts

when the victim refuses to accept any more. The perpetrator could well hang

onto his role for a longer while, for he has less of a reason to stop.

Revolution starts where the victim refuses to accept any more and finally takes

back her power. In all situations of repression, for example of women in their

family or in society, the real moment of change is when the woman - or the

feminine energy within a person - decides for herself: I will not take this any

longer. This is when change truly starts to happen. External measures are

useless until this moment presents itself.

The female energy has

arisen and its star is rising. Actually the most urgent matter in this time and

age is the transformation of the male energy!! It is now time for a new

definition of male energy. I could have easily called this channeling �the

rebirth of the male energy.� For I want to stress that it is only in reunion

with a matured and balanced male energy that the female energy can flourish

again.

The female energy has in

the past century and even before that regained power and strength. It has begun

to flourish in a new and more balanced way. Despite the inequality of the sexes

that is still present in your society, the rise of the female energy is

unstoppable. However the female energy cannot gain full strength and vitality

without cooperation with the male energy. This goes for the collective level as

well as the individual. The female energy cannot make its final breakthrough

without the support of and connection with the male energy. This is not because

of an inherent weakness in the female energy. It is because of the essential

nature of male and female energies: the fact that they are intertwined and can

only fulfill their brightest potentials in cooperation. This is why it is

imperative now that the male energy reshape itself and venture into the new!

When you look at the

interplay between male and female on a collective level, the female energy is

now in a position of waiting. She is waiting. At present there is a struggle

going on within the collective male

energy between the old and the new. A new wave of energy is dawning within the

collective male energy that honors and respects the female energy. This new

wave of male energy wants to join with the female and together enter the New Age.

But at the same time an older wave of male energy is still active and trying to

persist. This energy is clearly working in the series of terrorist attacks that

has taken place all over your world. The male energy in its old role of

heartless aggressor is thereby showing its nasty side. In the ones who commit

these horrendous attacks there are very dark emotions: aggression, anger and at

the same time utter powerlessness and helplessness. It is from this utter

helplessness that they appeal to the most brute and destructive types of power

display. This male energy we are speaking of is in its death agonies. It senses

that there are important changes going on collectively and that humanity is on

the threshold of a new era.

One of the problems you

are now facing, while growing towards a more balanced cooperation between male

and female, is how to deal with this kind of ruthless energy. What are we going

to do about this old male energy that is trying to create as much havoc and

destruction as possible in its downfall? Let me tell you this: its downfall is

a fact. The struggle has been lost by the old male energy, but it will not

surrender easily and it will resist to the very last with aggression and

merciless attempts at domination.

Much will depend on how

the inner collective attitude will be to these aggressors. Will you allow anger

and powerlessness into your own energy field as a reaction to acts of violence?

Then you open up to the energy field of the aggressors. At the very moment you

feel overpowered by anger and resentment toward them they have reached their

target. You are then sucked into their energetic vibration and you would be

willing to kill as well: kill the murderers of the innocent. This is all very

understandable, but is it vital to realize what�s happening here. As soon as

there are intense emotions rising up, it is wise to make a pause, in silence.

Go back to the quiet, knowing part of you and ask: what is really going on

here? It is all about your wisdom and discernment now, your ability to see

through things and to feel what really is at stake. The world will not be taken

over by terrorist powers; the old male energy has served its time and its dying

hour is at hand.

The most important

message I have about terrorism, this manifestation of old male aggression, is:

stay conscious! Do not let yourself be taken off-center by emotions of

powerlessness, i.e. by getting victimized. Know that no one will be touched by

this aggressive energy if they do not allow it into their energy field. If you

do not react with anger or hatred, you will not draw it to you. You will be

safe and protected by your own light.

I now would like to pay

attention to the more mundane individual level, the level at which you deal

with the male and female energies within yourself. For on the individual level

as well there has been a struggle between the male and the female energies.

Everything that happens collectively mirrors processes at the individual level.

To illustrate the

importance of balance between the feminine and the masculine on the individual

level, I will speak of the energy centers in every human, which are also called

the chakras. There are seven of them

that you know of now and these are located along the spine, from the tail bone

to the crown. I will go into all of these chakras briefly, to show you that

they are all characterized by either a predominantly male or female type of

energy.

The tail bone (root)

chakra is the energy center that connects you to the earth. The energy in this

chakra reaches out to the earth and allows you to manifest your soul energy in

physical form on the dense, material level of reality. In view of the reaching

out and manifesting type of energy in the tail bone chakra, you may call it a

predominantly male chakra. A chakra is never completely male or female, but one

may say that the male energy has the upper hand here.

The second chakra is

called the navel (belly button) chakra and it is the center of emotions. This

center allows you to experience emotions, mood swings, in short all the highs

and lows of emotional life. It is a receptive center. That is why I call it a

female center, a chakra in which the female flow of energy dominates.

The third chakra, also

called the solar plexus, is a center of action and creation. This is a center

which reaches out and allows energy to manifest in physical reality. You may

compare it to the sun, the outpouring of rays and the power of the yellow

sunlight (the natural color of the third chakra is yellow). In the solar plexus

your thoughts, ideas and desires are transformed into outer manifestation. It

is the chakra of action and outward expression. It is also the seat of the ego,

meaning the earthly personality, without negative implications. The predominant

energy is male.

The heart chakra is a receptive

center like the navel chakra and it has the special ability to connect

different flows of energy. It is the center in which the energies of the lower

three chakras (earth reality) and the upper three chakras (cosmic reality)

connect. The heart is the bridge between mind (head) and emotion (belly). From

the heart you are also able to connect with others and transcend yourself. The

heart transcends the boundaries of the ego and enables you to feel oneness with

anything outside of you, even with All That Is. The heart chakra is the gateway

to the energy of Home. It is clearly a center of connection and it is therefore

predominantly feminine.

The throat chakra is

male. From this center inner promptings, ideas and emotions are given physical

shape through speaking, crying, laughing, singing, yelling etc. Here the inner

life is expressed outwardly by communication through the voice and through

language. This center enables you to make your inner life known to others by

means of physical signals: words, sounds, concepts. It is a center of

manifestation that enables you to focus your energy outwardly into the physical

plane. It is also a center of creativity.

The sixth chakra, also

called �the third eye� which is located in the middle of your head, is feminine

again. It receives extra-sensory, intuitive impressions and transcends the

boundaries of the physical (the five physical senses). It is the seat of

clairvoyance, clairsentience, etc. Through this center you can feel the energy

of someone else � the emotions, the pains, the joys � as your own. With this

ability of empathy, you transcend the boundaries of the ego and you connect

with �that which is not-you.�

Finally there is the

crown chakra, on top of the head. This chakra is neither male nor female. Or you

might say: it is both. In this chakra, you rise above the duality of male and

female. The crown chakra is an interesting combination of both energies. When

this chakra is balanced, the consciousness therein is in a state of receiving

as much as reaching out. There is a reaching �upwards� to other

dimensions, where it seeks spiritual meaning or support, or to deeper layers of

the Self. And at the same time there is a quiet and tranquil receptiveness, a

knowingness that the answers will come in good time. It is a type of

consciousness that is both highly focused and highly receptive. In this �state

of mind� you come very close to the unity that underlies male and female

energies, the energy of Spirit or God.

I have now sketched very

roughly the movement of the male and female energy flows throughout the

energetic body of the human being. Now I wish to speak of the lowest three

chakras in particular. These are the chakras that are most connected to the

earth, that are most involved with being in the earthly realm. This area of the

lowest three chakras is of utmost importance in your inner road to healing, for

in this area lie the deepest traumas and emotional scars.

You often feel you are

earthly beings opening up to the spiritual. But we see it the other way around.

You are spiritual beings opening up to the earth. The earth is a brilliant

destination, a hidden diamond that has yet to reveal its true beauty. The earth

is the Promised Land!

Heaven is your birth

place. But you will not return to the state of consciousness that you remember

as �Home� or �Heaven,� to a state of purely spiritual being. The adventure of

Creation brings you to new destinations; you are always expanding and

progressing towards a wholly new type of consciousness. (We have spoken of this

before in the last chapter of the Lightworker Series). Earth is an essential

part of this journey.

However in your

manifestations on earth and your attempts to express yourself there, you have

suffered much pain. Almost all of you have severe emotional wounds in the

lowest three chakras caused by experiences of rejection, violence and

abandonment. This may have happened in past lives as well as in this lifetime.

Almost all energy blocks in the upper chakras are related to emotional hurts in

the lowest three chakras.

I will say a little

about the tail bone chakra first. Your connection to the earth has become

emotionally burdened, especially for lightworkers. Because you have met with

grave resistance over many lifetimes, there is much fear and reserve in you

when it comes to truly grounding yourself. Grounding yourself means being fully

present in your earthly bodies and expressing your innermost inspiration in

material reality. The resistance to grounding yourself fully has been discussed

before (in the Lightworker series). It has mainly to do with you �being

different� and having been rejected for it.

In the second chakra,

the emotional center, you have also been affected deeply by experiences of

being threatened or deserted (literally or emotionally) and by being severely

restricted in your self-expression.

With these traumatic

burdens in the lowest two chakras, the solar plexus (third chakra) is also

heavily affected. The solar plexus has to do with life force, creative energy

and power. You know few examples of what true power means. With this I mean

power that is not aggressive and destructive. In the solar plexus chakra you

often see that a person manifests himself or herself either in an aggressive,

controlling way, or in a subdued, overly modest way. Both ways are the result

of underlying feelings of helplessness, stemming from a wounded first and

second chakra. In the third chakra it is all about finding a balanced way of

dealing with power and control, it is about a balanced ego.

Ego is okay! The ego has

a proper function; it lends focus to your consciousness which enables you to

create and manifest as the separate individual that you are. Yes, you are part

of a greater Whole but you are also �I,� separate and different from anyone

else. The ego is a necessary complement to the spiritual part of you that

transcends the �I.� The energy of the ego is fully honorable and justified in

the energetic reality that you live. True power is in the joyful alignment of

ego and Spirit.

The area of the lowest

three chakras is the most important area in self-healing and inner growth. The

greatest spiritual challenge to you now is to take care of this wounded area in

yourself. Meditating to transcend physical reality or connect to elusive cosmic

levels is not your main goal now. Your goal is to give your gentlest

understanding and loving support to that hurt inner child within you and to

restore its beauty and playfulness. This is your spiritual journey; herein lies

the greatest treasure. Cherishing and respecting the human side of you, the

child part of you, is your road to divine compassion and enlightenment.

I would like to draw

your attention to the fact that within this energetic area, two out of the

three chakras concerned are male. This shows that especially with regard to the

male energies within each of you, much healing work is to be done. Therefore my

message to you now is: heal the male energy within! The feminine energy is in

many ways recovering and acquiring the strength needed to express itself fully and

beautifully. The female qualities of intuition, sensitivity and connectedness

are being appreciated more and more, individually as well as collectively. But

it is not so clear what a balanced male energy truly looks like. The male

energy somehow got lost in false images of what it means �to be a man,�

stereotypes that always boil down to power through aggression. It is vital to

recognise and express the true nature of male energy. The female side now needs

the balanced male energy to be able to truly fulfill her role. The female

energy is waiting, not just at the collective level but also on the individual

level. The female energy is getting out of its victim role, regaining its

self-esteem and it is now wanting to manifest itself powerfully and joyfully through

reunion with the male.

So, what then is the

power of balanced male energy? This goes for the male energy in both men and

women.

In the first chakra, a

healed and balanced male energy leads to self-consciousness.

The male energy does not have to fight and struggle anymore, it is present

through self-consciousness. Presence, i.e. being fully present with all of your

soul, is an essential quality of the first chakra. Being present

self-consciously means to stay aware of yourself, remaining centered, not

getting lost in someone else�s opinions, expectations or needs. It is about

finding the balance between connecting with others and being true to yourself.

A balanced male energy in the tail bone chakra allows you to remain centered

and aware of yourself while you interact with others and the outside world.

It is essential to

develop this quality of self-consciousness, for it will protect and guide your

female energy. The female energy is naturally inclined to connect with others

(other living beings) and to be present with the other in a caring, nurturing

way. The male energy makes for boundaries and helps find a balance between

giving and receiving. With regard to the flowing, connecting female energies,

the male energy in the lowest chakra fulfills the role of anchor and backbone.

It is the point of coming home to yourself, the point of releasing ties to

other energies you have connected with.

The solar plexus or

third chakra fulfills the same role in a different way. This chakra is, as I

said before, the energy center of the ego. You still have trouble with this

concept of the ego. Especially among lightworker souls, there is a tendency to

look upon the giving, self-transcending energies in the human being as

�higher.� But it is not so. You live in a world in which two energies play

together and form the building blocks of Creation. One tends to connect and

seek for unity, the other creates separation and individuality. And the latter

energy is just as viable and valuable as the former one.

It is important to make

peace with the male energy, to embrace your individuality, your uniqueness,

your �I-ness.� There is an essential �aloneness� in life which has nothing to

do with loneliness, but which has everything to do with you being an �I,� a

unique individual. To embrace this aloneness does not stand in the way of

experiencing deep connections to others. If you truly embrace your

individuality, you become an empowered, independent and creative individual

able to share your energy deeply with anyone or anything, because you are not

afraid to lose yourself in it or give up your individuality.

The male energy of the

solar plexus helps you become truly creative and empowered. That is what the

female energy in you is waiting for. Your heartfelt inspiration wants to make

itself known on the material level, it wants to come out in a very earthly

manner and bring tidings of love and harmony to the earth. The female energy is

the carrier of the New Age but it needs a balanced male energy to truly

manifest itself and grow roots into material reality. That is why it is of such

great importance that the energies of the first and third chakra are healed.

The energy of a healthy

ego, the healed solar plexus, is self-confidence.

In the first chakra it is self-consciousness, in the third chakra it is

self-confidence. This is not the kind of arrogance you see in an inflated ego.

It is about simply trusting yourself: �I feel that I can do it!� It is being

aware of your own deepest inspiration, your own creative abilities and then

acting accordingly. Let your energies flow out of you, trust your natural

talents and gifts, trust who you are and show yourself to the world! Especially

for you lightworkers who carry so much inner knowledge and wisdom, it is now

time to show yourself and not hide anymore. It is time. This is your

destination and in this you will find your greatest fulfillment.

Make peace with the male

energy within. Do not hesitate to stand up for yourself, to receive abundance

and to take good care of yourself. Be egotistical, in the pure and neutral

sense of the word. You are an ego,

you are an individual. You cannot and need not be forgiving and understanding

all the time. It is not spiritual to tolerate everything and anything. Clearly

there are moments at which you have to say �no� or even �farewell� and not

compromise who you are. Do this without guilt or fear and feel how the male

energies of self-consciousness and self-confidence empower you to let the

delicate flower of your female energy flourish and shine.

It is all about the

cooperation between the energies. Male and female energies have gone down

together in a long and painful struggle. They will also rise together, for one

cannot be balanced without the other. Now that the female energy is ready to

rise from the ashes of humiliation and repression, there is an urgent need for

a rebirth of the male energy. This rebirth of the male will become visible on a

collective scale eventually, but it will first manifest in each of you

separately, man and woman. You all are the keepers of these ancient energies

within you, and it is your birthright to make their partnership equal and

joyful.

� Pamela Kribbe 2005www.jeshua.net