*CenteredinTheHeartSpace* *Newsletter* Empowerment Protocol - Self Acceptance and Other Acceptance

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© Sept 29th, 2006

Empowerment Protocol:

Self Acceptance and Other Acceptance

Being in Your Power:

Cutting Cords at the Solar Plexus and Reconnecting at the Heart/Soul Level

I’d encourage you to take a look at this and cut cords with people with whom your boundaries are weak – that means you react to them, and do not have the freedom of choice you’d like in how to respond to them. It also frees one from a neediness or addiction. Doing this exercise allows you to have a gap between stimulus and response, in other words, it gives you freedom to choose your response:

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I think a lot of people misunderstand what the Empowerment Protocol is. I

would like you all to understand it clearly, so I'll take the time to

explain.

When we connect at the heart - soul to soul - we connect with the Light in

us to the Light in them - as in the definition of the Hindi word " Namaste " -

and we also disconnect at the solar plexus. When we do these two actions,

what we are doing is simply disconnecting from our knee-jerk reactions to

the person..from the disempowered way of relating that we may have had as a

pattern...we are NOT DISCONNECTING from the person..we are in fact

CONNECTING to them in a HEALTHIER way.an EMPOWERED way.

***A 100 % boundary means we have 100% choice (that is, power) in how we

respond to the person and 0% knee-jerk reaction (powerlessness).

A 75% boundary means we have 75% choice (that is, power) and 25% knee-jerk

reaction (or no choice) - that means 25% powerlessness.

A 50% boundary means we have 50% choice (that is, power) and 50% knee-jerk

reaction (or no choice) - that means 50% powerlessness.

A 10%% boundary means we have 10% choice (that is, power) and 90% knee-jerk

reaction (or no choice) - that means 90% powerlessness.

A 0% boundary means we have 0% choice (that is, power) and 100% knee-jerk

reaction (or no choice) - that means 100% powerlessness.

***The goal is to have a 100% boundary with that person.

It has NOTHING to do with the other person,

except for the fact that that

person TRIGGERS YOU

into that particular reaction!!!!!

It's NOT about them at all - it's about YOU -

how YOU react to that person.

So when do the Empowerment Protocol where you 1) cut cords with them and 2)

also reconnect at the heart, you give yourself 100% of your power back. You

have control over how you will respond to the other person.. You can respond

with love, you can respond with patience, you can respond with kindness, you

can respond with gentleness, you can respond with understanding, you can

respond with compassion, or you can also respond from the old pattern, you

can respond IN ANY WAY you please.the difference is this.your reaction

doesn't control you any more.you are in the driver's seat again and YOU get

to choose!!! :-) You are EMPOWERED!!!

And when you surrogately do the Empowerment Protocol for them, you stand in

their shoes and let them take their choice/power back in their reaction to

you (or to anyone else).

It has nothing to do with disconnection from the other person, and

everything to do with your control or lack of control over your reaction.

I hope that is clear...if not, please ask questions.

This is very important for you to understand. It rebalances your whole solar

plexus when you have 100% boundaries with all the significant people in your

life - it brings you into the " NOW " - a fresh choice at all times..total

empowerment.

Beautiful, eh?

And sometimes you've got to keep cutting, 'coz you have so many patterns

going in reaction to that person, that it is your own sabotaging patterns

you are saying good-bye to, not to the other person. Feel how thick the

cord it. Is it as thick as a tree trunk? Use an electric chainsaw to cut it.

As thick as a rope? Use shears. As thick as a piece of string? Use a pair

of scissors. Get creative.

It is the intention, the intention, the intention, always the intention.

The intention to set yourself free from the habits of your own knee-jerk

reactions. And in letting go of those patterns that you have with that

person (or that sort of person), you set yourself free.

So cut away (at the solar plexus), and connect away (at the heart), and set

yourself free!!!!! :-)

Sometimes I get the client to ask Archangel or some other spiritual

form that they believe in to help, and to ask him to disconnect at all

chakras. Like slicing through a rainbow - violet, indigo, blue, green,

yellow, orange, red, and then reconnect at the heart. Sometimes this is

needed..sometimes not. It depends.

Sometimes, I go further and have the client disconnect at the aura

too..depends how sensitive they are. The more sensitive they are, the more

need to disconnect all the way through, not just solar plexus, but all

chakras and also the aura too.

Also when you connect at the heart, it is NOT a relationship connection

such as father-daughter, husband-wife, boyfriend-girlfriend, friend-friend,

etc..in fact, it is just ONE SOUL CONNECTING to ANOTHER SOUL, in NEUTRAL

GEAR...just as if they were TWO DROPS in an OCEAN of all CONSCIOUSNESS, all

LOVE, all BLISS, all TRUTH. The Ego does not get into the picture when you

connect at the heart in this way. It is A SOUL CONNECTION.

We disconnect at the level of the Ego and connect at the level of the Soul.

Does that make sense????

The gift in all of this? Acceptance. Of yourself, and of them.

What a blessing.

Love,

Dayawanti

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Dayawanti D’Sa

Kalos Health Facilitator (www.kalos.org), EnergyFlows Founder and Trainer, TAT Trainer (www.unstressforsuccess.com), Cranio-Sacral Therapist, Applied Kinesiologist, Miami

Member of National Assoc of Naturopaths, Montreal

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