[Morning Zephyr] Joy Bucket - Allowance of the Flow IV: Give Now that the Season of Giving May be Yours

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Continued from [Morning Zephyr] Joy Bucket – Allowance of the Flow I, II and III:

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EFT and the Good Samaritan

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Ability to Be a Good Samaritan with EFT

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I'd like to encourage everyone to be a positive influence in their communities

using EFT - you may be just the right person in the right place at the right

time --- and have a chance to make a difference in your own " circle of

influence. " (a Covey term) Sometimes the Universe counts on us to do our

little bit. [**caution: See Note below.]

Proxy EFT-ing a Stressed Out Parent in Oxford

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Recently 2 events occurred in my life that led me to using EFT for unknown

strangers in public places. The first was in England. Florrie Widen,

Reitano and I were taking a stroll down one of the main streets of Oxford

looking at Christ Church College the night before I left. was walking

further ahead, and Florrie and I happened to see a young mother scolding a young

baby in a stroller - literally yelling at the kid. As we passed her - we could

hear the frustration and anger in her voice, and the child was miserable as

well, and also crying. We passed her, then kind of hung around under a bus stop

awning further ahead trying to look inconspicuous and said to ourselves, " Ok,

now what are we going to do about this? " I suggested to Florrie, " Let's ask for

permission from their higher selves and then let's proxy-EFT them. You take the

child and I'll take the mother. " We both took permission, got an internal " yes "

in permission, and started tapping. We looked a little foolish, I know, but we

were willing to look a little foolish for a baby and parent in trouble in the

middle of a street! Especially after attending the Energy Psych Conference! I

worked on the Mom, proxy-EFT-ing for her, " Even though I am so upset, I deeply

and completely accept myself. " Did a round of tapping the sequence, the

9-gamut, then another round of tapping the sequence, making sure I included the

liver meridian as well, and then muscle tested that her SUDS had gone down to

zero. Finished up with some Reiki symbols. Then I **cut cords with the Mom. I

noticed the baby was still crying, and in that observation, suddenly felt a

searing pain in my stomach. Being a " sensitive " , I'll often experience the

client's symptoms in my own body. Ouch, this baby had a severe stomach ache! I

asked Florrie how far she had got, and she said she was still working on it. So

I thought let her carry on with EFT, and I'd join in with some Reiki symbols.

Within minutes, I noticed the pain in my stomach had subsided and that the baby

had stopped crying, too. I muscle-tested the SUDs level - down to zero! Yay! I

finished up by **cutting cords with the baby. We walked on.

Proxy-EFT-ing a Harried Mom in a Grocery Store in Miami

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Yesterday, my daughter noticed a Mom speaking rather loudly and angrily into a

cell phone. On the other end, her 13-year old teenage son, " " was getting

the brunt of her angry " lecture " and he was obviously being told off. I'm not

normally an eavesdropper, but in this case, passing her in the same grocery

store aisle, it was rather difficult not to overhear...lol! My daughter

mentioned how she wouldn't like to be " " right now. I agreed. I decided

that perhaps we could help " " a bit, by helping the Mom calm down. I asked

permission of the higher self of the " Mom " to do proxy-EFT on her. I got a

" yes " . So I started. " Proxy-EFT-ing for this Mom. " " Even though I am so angry

and upset, I deeply and completely accept myself, " I said 3 times to tune in to

the problem, while I massaging my sore spot. I muscle tested that the first

sequence and 9-gamut brought her SUDS level down from an 8 to a 2. By the time

I had finished the second sequence, her SUDs level was a zero.... and her

conversational tone had settled down to normal. Yay! I **cut cords with the Mom

and we merrily went about our way. The rest of the day got pretty busy and we

forgot about this incident.

Normally, incidents like this would be *** " All in a Day's Work " and get lost in

the oblivion of other day-to-day activities of life. However, when I woke up

this morning, my inner guidance was telling me to write it up as a post to the

list. I know not why, but my logic tells me perhaps it can spur you to some

" good Samaritan acts " of your own in your own neighborhood. Let us give without

asking. Kahlil Gibran says, on giving, " It is well to give when asked, but it

is better to give unasked, through understanding; "

http://www.columbia.edu/~gm84/gibran5.html

And there are those who give and know not pain in giving, nor do they seek

joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue;

They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.

Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes He

smiles upon the earth.

It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through

understanding;

And to the open-handed the search for one who shall receive is joy greater

than giving

And is there aught you would withhold?

All you have shall some day be given;

Therefore give now, that the season of giving may be yours and not your

inheritors'.

Give Now that the Season of Giving May Be Yours

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Ah, how beautiful that is: " Therefore give now, that the season of giving may be

yours and not your inheritors'. " Some day, everyone will know EFT and be using

EFT, in schools and universities, in hospitals, in parenting skills, in

business, in every sphere of life.... I see that coming... but for now, those

who know EFT have an advantage over those who don't....and folks, with knowledge

comes responsibility. So if you can, do your little bit in your own

neighborhoods and communities - your own sphere of influence.

Remember to do your own boundary work before you take on any proxy EFT-work.

Make sure you have healthy boundaries first. In addition, it's a great idea to

cut cords with a person you may be doing proxy work on - before, during and

after the session. Given these precautions, let me add: have lots of fun! Bless

you!

Love,

Dayu

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Dayawanti D'Sa, BBA [Fin & Bkg], CKHFT [Dip - A.K.]

Applied Kinesiologist

Certified Kalos Health Facilitator Trainer www.kalos.org

EFT, BSFF, TAT, iSt 9x9, Silva Method, Creative Healing Massage,

Reiki, Cranio-Sacral, Meditation enthusiast: www.sos.org

Member: Nat'l Assoc of Naturopaths, Montreal, Canada