Guest guest Posted April 4, 2006 Report Share Posted April 4, 2006 Wade, I think it is important to remove the fears of the worst thing that could happen. Like If I don't get a job or if I don't get money coming in, I will loose the house, I will have to sell the car, I will have to move in with Mother!!! or live on the street, no one will want to talk to me, etc. Try to put in everything she is worrying about. She probably has a picture in her mind of what will happen (and so do you) if she doesn't get another job. Tap on the fear that that will happen. After several rounds of that, tap on the positives like Even though I have lost my job, I choose to believe that it was for the best and I will easily and quickly receive job offers, or whatever she and you want to happen. CAROL HENDERSON Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2006 Report Share Posted April 4, 2006 >Wade, I think it is important to remove the fears of the worst thing that >could happen. Good point. A good drill, in addition to EFT, is to sit down and methodically list ALL the worst things that could possible happen to you. For each one, list the likelihood in percent of it happening. And for each one, list what you would do. (Even in the worst case you can do something. Like " rot in the earth " . Or " die, go to hell, and play chess with Lucifer for my release. " ) Yours, Eolake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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