[One_EFT Healing Highrise] Re: workshop - Dayu

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One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques

[mailto:One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques ] On Behalf Of hovipups

Sent: Friday, February 17, 2006

11:02 PM

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One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques

Subject: [One_EFT Healing

Highrise] Re: workshop - Dayu

Hi Dayu,

I wanted to respond a little more in

detail to your post.

I do understand about food addictions

and aspects. Have been

tapping on them before and now tapped another week

with no results...

As I said in another post, I did not expect to be

healed from them

in the workshop, but yes, I was expecting some

advice of what I could

to next. Especially since I did email the

instructor before and

explained my situation. So I was dissappointed.

And I think

rightfully so.

I don't really

agree with you that it has anything to do with

taking responsibility ... doesn't make sense

to me. Not in this case.

I had talked to the instructor prior to

class and told her my

knowledge and experience and what I was expecting,

and she told me to

attend and I would definitely get something out of

the class.

Well, she taught

exactly what I have been telling her I already

know and nothing else... so I feel I

was deceived. (maybe I should

tap on that:-)

I had previously understood that you wanted your money back

on the grounds that your chocolate craving was not cleared within the course of

your workshop. My earlier response to you was based on that.

However, from what you say above,I glean that is not

the case. In that case, Christa, if a clear agreement was made and you

were promised something that was not delivered, and the agreement was not fulfilled,

you can communicate that to the instructor and ask for the money back.

Enough of that, its not that

important...

I disagree. I believe it is important to honor oneself, and

one’s boundaries, and also expect that others we deal with do the same..

Very interesting that you feel that

my chocolate craving is from

age 3. Don't remember anything. You can read in my

last post to Doc a

little more about what I remember. Something could

have happened then

and I just don't remember.

I remember as a child that the chocolate

cravings were so bad that

I was stealing chocolate as long as I can

remember...

There was a stint when I

was in England for two years doing my A-Levels (grades 12 and 13) before going

to University…I was age 16-18, and being a vegetarian, there was very little food available for me in

a private boarding school in a small British village called Atworth, close to a

town called Bath in Wiltshire . I remember walking a mile there and a

mile back, often – practically daily - to go to the little village store

to buy chocolate, chips and ice cream….not as a snack, but as a meal

substitute. Many years later, at the age of 30 plus, I took the Kalos

Seminars, and found out that I had a tendency towards low blood sugar, hypoglycemia,

which had caused the chocolate cravings, sugar cravings, chips cravings, and I

also remember I got a lot of dental work done because of the heightened amount

of sweets I was eating – lots of new fillings! I also found myself

sleeping a lot, and was not so motivated to study, even though in the past, I

had been a top student with the highest grades right up to my O-Levels (11th

grade = High School). The thing was, I was not happy there. In hindsight,

almost 15 years later, I realized what had happened to me, thanks to Kalos,

thanks to , the founder of Kalos, and thanks to Prior, the

teacher who taught me all about Hypoglycemia and Candida in depth. Subsequently

I have been able to live a much more normal life, without the awful moodswings and

cravings that governed my past. Because of that there was also a lot of

confusion, and my mental acuity was not what it had been in the past….and

my grades suffered too. I was generally an A-student, and ended up

getting a B in Math and a D in Physics. I remember being very disappointed,

because the one thing that I prided myself on my whole life, was my ability to

learn, and even that was taken away from my by this situation. It was as

if something else was running my life, and not me.

When I was 16-18, living in England, the emotional

dissatisfaction with life, the rainy weather and lack of sunshine on a daily basis,

the lack of structure in our routines (at this higher level of education, where

greater freedom was given to older A-Level students), the lack of proper food

(as I was the only vegetarian in the whole school, so they couldn’t be

bothered to cook for me – but instead gave me a slab of cheese for

breakfast, another for lunch and another for dinner, hence my trips to the

village to get my alternative “food” – chips, chocolate, lovely

British chocolate digestives, bread and butter and ice cream), plus the

tendency towards low blood sugar, led to my having a yeast overgrowth in the

intestinal tract, often known as Candida Albicans. It was this that made me so

sleepy that at times I missed or was late to my classes.

Many years later, at age 30 plus, when I learned all about

Kalos, initially I found it hard to do the Candida diet, as I was so addicted

to all these things. However, I did the best I could.

Finally, I learned more about cleaning out not only Candida,

but parasites too. I took a course in the Hulda synchrometer

testing, bought a synchrometer to test the parasites before and after, bought

all the slides, etc. – paid thousands of dollars, and then did that

cleanse.

The absolutely best results, came however, a while

later, when I discovered an even better way to cleanse out parasites.

Wow! Hardly any dietary restrictions, and as the cleanse proceeded, I was not

at the effect of my cravings and the things I wanted to eat changed more and

more naturally. I found this new way the easiest, and have, since then,

shared that with those of my patients who are ready to do the physical work

along with the emotional.

Now I don’t crave chocolate, but I eat it on occasion,

when I’d like to….like on Valentine’s day! Lol!

>

>

> When it comes to food addictions, there can

be multiple aspects.

> I'm muscle-testing,

Christa, that this chocolate craving is

coming from age

> 3 (for you).

>

> It may support you to check: Which need were

you meeting, or unable

to meet,

> at age 3? Do you still have that

need? What was happening for you

at that

> time. If your pattern stems from childhood,

was there a time when

you wanted

> someone else to be responsible? Was

there a time when someone let

you down?

> Was there a time when your expectations were

not met? How did you

deal with

> that? What decision did you make at

that time.that is still

running your

> life today?

Unfortunately I have no clue about any of

those?

> know. My questions is: Do you get your

needs met, by calling

attention to

> what is wrong in a situation..and making it

the other person's

> responsibility (In the above case, this

forum's responsibility) for

not

> having met your need?

I do not think I make other people

responsible for having my needs

met. I think its pretty normal to hope for some

answers on such a

huge list. And there are some great people here

which are trying to

help.

I guess I so often feel just so lost in my

problems and can't really

see how to proceed or what the right thing is to

do. I feel I'm

stabbing in the dark and don't get anywhere. I

just want to forget

everything and quit. And, no, I don't feel that

anybody else is

responsible for this.

I do feel pretty worn out right now.

thanks for

helping christa

I know that feeling, Christa – very very well - been there,

done that – for many many years. Now no more, thank you very much! It’s

part of the mental fog that goes along with Candida. Overwhelm, confusion, the

lot! With all the yeast/fungus, it’s like fermentation is going on

in the body. Kinda’ like what goes on in a beer or wine production unit,

except that unit is within your body. The by-products of this

fermentation are alcohol and carbon dioxide….and it drains you of

much-needed oxygen…hence the mental confusion. (Once a guy who had

had a pasta meal, was stopped by the cops, and tested to have such a high level

of alcohol that he was above the level legally allowed for driving, and he hadn’t

even touched a drop of liquor! He just had a high level of Candida, and as

a result of the pasta fermenting in his body, he had alcohol production taking

place in his body, which raised his alcohol levels.) When we have Candida and

parasites, even the good food we eat, feeds them first, and our bodies

last. So you may be ingesting the best vitamins and not getting any

benefit, ‘coz they get to eat first, and you get the leftovers!

Meanwhile your cells are starving, despite any good foods you might be eating,

and your cells are deficient in the most basic of vitamins and minerals.

Then, one needs high-energy instant foods to feel good at all – coke,

white sugar, white flour, chips, carbs which give instant energy - etc.

I read what you wrote in your post to Doc Houston, about being sexually abused.

You have had a lot of boundaries violated in your life, Christa.

Anyway, hun, I want you to know there is a way out of this

muddle. It has to do with boundaries, and using a little-used word called

“NO”.

Boundaries with yeast in your system.

Boundaries with parasites in your system. Clean them out. It can be

done – easily.

Boundaries with negative entities that are using

your energy field. It can be done – easily.

Boundaries with people. It can be done –

easily. Cut cords with them. Use the empowerment protocol. (PIVOT Manual,

Page 51).

Boundaries everywhere.

Honoring yourself, making choices that are

supporting to you.

Loving yourself.

Healing the circumstances that caused you to let

the boundaries be violated in the first place. Re-claiming yourself….on

all levels. Getting in touch with the fear, guilt and shame, and releasing

it. Getting in touch with the suppressed anger and rage inside and

releasing it. Getting in touch with the unforgiveness and releasing

it. Releasing victim consciousness.

Gradually recovering your own self-worth and

self-dignity. Reclaiming yourself as you make new choices based on your

renewed self-esteem.

Learning to accept and love yourself

unconditionally….and gradually changing, lovingly honoring yourself

and the new person you are becoming.

(I have been working with a client – a lady who just

discovered she cancer. We did a session just this Wednesday….and we did

some marvelous work on boundaries. She had been sexually abused by her

father from the age of 14-16. Her father had also abused his own sister

in the same way when they were kids..and at the ripe age of 13, when she

started having her periods and developing as a woman, her Dad said, “you

remind me of my sister.” A year later, he started to abuse her. Even

today, she has problems getting people to respect her boundaries –

especially her family and life partner. Even as a child, she had to get sick in

order to get people to listen to her, and let her be. Today, she has

manifested cancer, just to get some space and time to herself. It is a

rather dire way to set a boundary. )

I will be writing her case history soon…and will post

it to the list.

You can deal with it, Christa. It is very

do-able.

The journey is worth it.

You are worth it.

Love,

Dayu

[Guest guest]

I work wholistically, Sundari. I

take a medical history of my client and I also see what symptoms they are experiencing,

before working with them. Two people with the same problem may not need

the same thing – one person may need to focus on clearing emotions,

another on nutritional work, a third on cleansing parasites, and fourth on

detoxifying the liver, a fifth on a better exercise programme or better

rest/sllep/taking breaks between their activities, a sixth on cleansing out

their lymphatic system, a seventh on staying free of negative entities and

energies, an eighth on using Bach Flower essences, a ninth on running

their energy flows daily, a tenth on cross-patterning and clearing dyslexia, an

eleventh on making sure they keep their electrical circuits balanced, a twelfth

on eliminating the problem of a hiatal hernia combined with breathing exercises

to keep the diaphragm in place such as pranayama, a thirteenth on making sure

their hormonal levels are balanced, a fourteenth on unlocking the ileo-cecal

valve that may be stuck open or shut because of a candida problem, a fifteenth

on clearing allergies, a sixteenth on a childhood trauma that needs to be

cleared with Kalos Process, a seventeenth on making sure they use

appropriate boundaries, an eighteenth on changing their diet, a nineteenth on clearing

out habits of overwhelm, a twentieth on a combination of a few things…. Etc.

etc.

As Kalos Health Facilitators, we work on

10 priorities for healing: Structural, nutritional, emotional, electrical, exercise/rest,

cleanse, Bach Flowers, Chakras, spiritual, and reactives (muscles that work in

conjunction with the opposite hemispheres of the brain). Even if two

people use the same cleansing programme, they may need to take it at a slower

or faster pace…for shorter or longer periods of time, etc. With applied

kinesiology (muscle-testing), one can tailor the programme to suit the needs of

the individual. Often, there is more than one priority that needs to be

taken care of. This requires commitment on the part of the individual.

Without their commitment, they will not get the required results. Without their

commitment, I am not prepared to work with them.

In addition, different products are

available in different countries, so we use what is available and within the

budget of that client in that country.

So, in answer to your question, at this

point in time, no, I don’t think this is something I’d go into on

this public forum, stating a blanket approach for one and all.

However, I’m open to working with

people one-on-on, on the phone or in person.

I can send in a definition of what is a

Kalos Health Facilitator to whoever would care to ask me for one.

Warmly,

Dayu

From: On Behalf Of Sundari

>>>> a while later, when I discovered an even better

way to cleanse out parasites. Wow! Hardly any dietary restrictions, and

as the cleanse proceeded, I was not at the effect of my cravings and the things

I wanted to eat changed more and more naturally. I found this new way the

easiest, and have, since then, shared that with those of my patients who are

ready to do the physical work along with the emotional.

[sundari:] Interesting

post Dayu... But after all that build up, you're not going to share

with the rest of us your preferred method for parasite cleanse?

I, for one, would like to know : ) A rife machine

perhaps?

Sundari

[Guest guest]

Dayu,

what are your fees? christa

>

> However, I'm open to working with people one-on-on, on the phone or in

> person.

>

[Guest guest]

Hi, I'm new to this group.

May I ask what kind of a healer do you call yourself? And do you do this over the phone for some clients who cannot come to you or only in person in one-on-one sessions?

Blessings,

Caroline

RE: [One_EFT Healing Highrise] Re: workshop - Dayu

Hi Dayu.

Thanks for all that info -- very interesting, I didn't realize this you had a formal model for your practice. I checked out the Kalos sight briefly and it's very interesting.

It just sounded from your post that there was one specific method you used for parasites, but I certainly respect that it's not quite so simple a question!

Namaste,

Sundari

-----Original Message-----From: One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques [mailto:One_EmotionalFreedomTechniques ]On Behalf Of Dayu D'SaSent: Saturday, February 18, 2006 11:34 AMOne_EmotionalFreedomTechniques Subject: RE: [One_EFT Healing Highrise] Re: workshop - Dayu

I work wholistically, Sundari. I take a medical history of my client and I also see what symptoms they are experiencing, before working with them. Two people with the same problem may not need the same thing – one person may need to focus on clearing emotions, another on nutritional work, a third on cleansing parasites, and fourth on detoxifying the liver, a fifth on a better exercise programme or better rest/sllep/taking breaks between their activities, a sixth on cleansing out their lymphatic system, a seventh on staying free of negative entities and energies, an eighth on using Bach Flower essences, a ninth on running their energy flows daily, a tenth on cross-patterning and clearing dyslexia, an eleventh on making sure they keep their electrical circuits balanced, a twelfth on eliminating the problem of a hiatal hernia combined with breathing exercises to keep the diaphragm in place such as pranayama, a thirteenth on making sure their hormonal levels are balanced, a fourteenth on unlocking the ileo-cecal valve that may be stuck open or shut because of a candida problem, a fifteenth on clearing allergies, a sixteenth on a childhood trauma that needs to be cleared with Kalos Process, a seventeenth on making sure they use appropriate boundaries, an eighteenth on changing their diet, a nineteenth on clearing out habits of overwhelm, a twentieth on a combination of a few things…. Etc. etc.

As Kalos Health Facilitators, we work on 10 priorities for healing: Structural, nutritional, emotional, electrical, exercise/rest, cleanse, Bach Flowers, Chakras, spiritual, and reactives (muscles that work in conjunction with the opposite hemispheres of the brain). Even if two people use the same cleansing programme, they may need to take it at a slower or faster pace…for shorter or longer periods of time, etc. With applied kinesiology (muscle-testing), one can tailor the programme to suit the needs of the individual. Often, there is more than one priority that needs to be taken care of. This requires commitment on the part of the individual. Without their commitment, they will not get the required results. Without their commitment, I am not prepared to work with them.

In addition, different products are available in different countries, so we use what is available and within the budget of that client in that country.

So, in answer to your question, at this point in time, no, I don’t think this is something I’d go into on this public forum, stating a blanket approach for one and all.

However, I’m open to working with people one-on-on, on the phone or in person.

I can send in a definition of what is a Kalos Health Facilitator to whoever would care to ask me for one.

Warmly,

Dayu