Vol 2 Of Question you might have about Sleeve WLS

[Guest guest]

Here are some more things I want you to know about if you are thinking about

having WLS and you are having the " Sleeve. " First thing is that if you are

considering Dr. Aceves you are going to have the very BEST doctor you could ever

have do this surgery. This is long so you might want to print it out.

1. We have talked a little or a lot about " slimming or Fleming " In case you

missed it, when you first start eating regular food you have to re-learn how to

eat again and chew. With your new stomach you will need to take small tiny

bites and chew until the food in your mouth is almost liquid like. This is

nothing like what you had been doing your entire life. In the past you eat and

talk and put big bite in your mouth along with a few chews and then

swallowing—this will NO LONGER WORK FOR YOU. This is a very difficult thing to

change. So with your new stomach and just having surgery you may experience

slimming or Fleming. First you will feel like the food is stuck, then it comes

back up in a clear liquid –your saliva. It isn't vomit, so that is why it is

called slimming or Fleming. It's a wakeup call to slow down you eating and

chew, and chew and chew some more. Just go to the bathroom or have a napkin

ready for the slimming or Fleming if you are eating out. If you try to

overeat—which is bad you may experience this too sometimes. For me it was

always about not chewing enough.

2. What are some signs that you are full? At first I wasn't sure, but sometimes

I just got tired of all the chewing, so I stopped eating. I now get the hiccups

or my noise will start to run when I am full. I know that other people have

said they experienced this too.

3. It does take some time to retain yourself on how to eating and I know that

the first month it is such a process just trying to get all the food in that you

need to get in because of your new restrictions. In time it does get a lot

easier. Some people actually mourn the loss of food, because you will NEVER EAT

the quantity of food that we used to eat---YEAH that is how we are going to lose

the fat and maintain that goal weight that we want to have for the rest of our

lives.

4. If you think you are hungry and you are positive that you are having physical

symptoms of hunger this is YOUR OLD thinking brain playing those tricks we have

talked about. You now have to start learning to educate this OLD brain into

being your NEW thinking brain. Ask yourself do you just " want to eat " or do you

really " need to eat " because it has been 3 or 4 hours since you have eaten

anything. It is amazing what our brains can and will do to sabotage our way of

thinking. You may be challenged by this OLD brains way of thinking for many

years. For me I just have to have some self-talks with myself. We have an

addiction to food. There is no way around avoiding food, so we need to find the

set of skills that will allow us to change our lifestyle. I eat to live, I NO

LONGER live to eat! Food is not my main focus in life.

5. I have seen so many times where people are going along and doing great with

their weight loss. Then all of a sudden they are NOT losing anything—they

panic—I did when it happened to me. We call these " Stalls. " We have stalled

and are not losing anything. Most of the time you are eating all the same and

correct things that you have in the past when you were losing weight. Our body

just does this naturally--stalls. Mine lasted 9 days one time. This is really

normal. I have a few suggestions. Use this site or something like it to track

everything you are putting in your mouth.

http://www.livestrong.com/thedailyplate/ You might be surprised at what you are

eating—that is why I say track it. Remember keep your total calories at 800 per

day—if you exercise then you can eat more. This site will help you figure that

out how much more you can it by what kind of exercise you did. You also need to

make sure that you are not eating more than 20 carbs per day. No white or

refined carbs. They should ONLY be whole grain carbs—not whole wheat, BUT

Whole Grain carbs—do the best you can when it comes to carbs. If you are having

problems with the weight loss you can kick up the amount of exercise you are

doing too. The weight loss will start back up again, so don't panic.

6. We all stumble and fall along the way, don't beat yourself up over it. Move

on and have a better day the next day.

7. Be aware that your friends and family may not be supportive of you having

WLS. For your family, first they really may NOT understand it and they are

scared for you. This is pretty normal. You have been on the Internet, and been

educating yourself and doing a lot of reading—you know much more than they do

about weight loss surgery and your choice is the sleeve. They have only heard

the horror stories that the media puts out there or one of their uneducated

family or friends have told them. Your friends are scared they may lose you as

a friend because you are going to lose the weight and they will remain fat—yes I

call it fat. I know there are a lot of politically correct terms to use, but if

I can say I was fat you will one day too. Some of your friends will be jealous.

My suggestion is that you can try to educate them some, but take your time and

effort right now and use it for yourself. After you have had WLS and they see

you are becoming healthy and you are alive and well they may come around. I

want you to put yourself FIRST, for the very first time. If they are truly your

friends they will be there when you are skinny.

8. The first month will be the hardest month you will have to do. You are

changing everything about how you eat. I want you to keep saying to yourself

that it is ONLY 30 days and I can do ANYTHING for 30 days. Once you start the

2nd month and can have regular food, it gets easier.

9. What do you do about getting smaller clothes? One of my adventures used to

be to go to Resale clothing places and sell or trade my larger clothing to them,

and then finding some smaller sizes. Just buy what you need to get by for a

while until you need a smaller size. It was like a treasure hunt or an

adventure for me. I found some places like Goodwill that had brand name label

NEW clothing that the local stores gave them. I found some great deals at these

places. So consider doing something like this or getting together with some of

your friends and trading clothing. I also donated a lot of mine for a tax

deduction to nonprofit organizations that give tax receipts—it is really great

when it is tax time rolls around and I had all these deductions. I would make a

list of everything I was going to donate and how much weight I had lost. I kept

that all together in case the IRS asked why I gave away 20 some dress and 10

pair of pants, and 30 tops!

10. Make sure that you go see your Primary Care Doctor when you have had WLS if

you have gone outside of the US for your surgery. I went to see my PCP before I

went to let her know what I was doing—I wanted a doctor who would support me in

my efforts. I had to do a bit of education and after she had time to read all

of the information I left her, she was behind me all the way. She said come

back in to see her after being home for 2 weeks and she would check me over and

run a blood panel to see how I was doing. She did this every month for a while

and started taking me of meds that I no longer needed. I did need to start

taking potassium—mine was low after having WLS and I knew this when I left Dr.

Aceves—they had run a blood panel after I had my " Sleeve surgery. " I loved the

fact that my PCP took me off 4 of my other medications within 3months of me

having WLS.

11. Exercise is important for you in a lot of ways. Walking and swimming are

the ones that work best for me. I know that there have been a few people who

said they did nothing. Walking helped me lose a little faster and was good

cardio too. I try to walk at least 4 or 5 times a week. When I can I try to

swim on the days I don't walk. I know at first it is difficult to start to

exercise, but walk around your home then, down the block a little. When the

weather is bad—I live in Oregon and we have a lot of rain, we walk inside the

Mall during those times. They open up the Mall at 6:00 am where I live, so you

can start early. Buy a used treadmill and see if you like walking on it.

My last words of wisdom are the following

1. Saying yes means you will do something new, meet someone new most likely and

make a difference in your life.

2. Be true to yourself. It is you, your authentic self, the one you were in the

first grade, before you leaned to massage your personality into a form that

would suit others.

3. Sometimes it is hard to hear the message because of all the external voices

and they are so loud.

4. Voices that are loud are always meant to bully. DO NOT BE BULLIED.

5. So carry your courage in an easily accessible place. Be your OWN authentic

person when it comes to Weight Loss Surgery. This is ALL about you and NO one

else.

6. Last you don't need the approval of the Bully. You know what is right for

you, follow your heart and go for it.

I am always here if you want to ask me more questions, or I didn't cover

something that you are thinking about. I read my E-mail daily.

I know it is a BIG step to take and there are a lot of things to think about,

you can and will be success.

Suzanne

Sleeved 10/21/2008

Lost a total of 105 pounds and kept it off