Decided to explant after 2 months...need help...

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I had a b/a two months ago...smooth, saline, round, under muscle,

armpit incision.

They haven't dropped at all...which I am thinking is a blessing in

disguise...because I HATE them. I had an honest conversation with my

darling husband last night...and he doesn't like them either...but

was not saying much because he knew I wanted them so badly.

Anyway...I need some input.

I already had a post-op scheduled for tomorrow. I do not want to

wait until they drop, I do not want anymore surgery to help them drop.

I want them out. I am almost 40 by the way...so I should be mature

enough to handle myself...but I am scared to death to talk to him!

To make it worse...his wife is the surgical assisant.

Any ideas on how I can approach this?

Should I tell her first when she takes me in the room...or should I

wait until they both come in? What should I say?

My husband said to blame it on him.

I am thinking I won't need the capsule removed because it hasn't been

that long.

How much do you think it will cost? Should I bring up cost with him?

I feel that they were placed too high to start with...do I have any

leverage with that? What about PPO insurance. Do they cover at all

if there are no complications meriting explanting?

THANKS for the help!!