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if so could you pass on details of how to contact him, or

> anyone else. I live in NI. Any help appreciated. Thanks bron

>hi Bron,

It is the same man yes, he is very good. If you go on the website

www.tpa.uk.org.uk/ then you will find a list of locations and dates for

his clinics.

His number is 01883 623125. His name is Dr. Peatfield. Ring between 12

and 4 i think it is but not wednesdays or fridays. I'm sure he will be

able to help you.

Good luck. Lorraine

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Hi Lorraine,

Some time ago, I discovered by accident, that people with nasal

polyps are aspirin sensitive and the same people are also tartrazine

(the yellow dye) sensitive.

In that category are many other dyes with similar properties.

There was a recent report (TV) by a chap from Southampton University

asking that manufacturers voluntarily remove these dyes, since the

relevant legislation now has to come via Brussels.

ie, it was a request pending change in the law.

That being the case, I suspect that there are quite a few other

substances that are in the 'iffy' category.

If your son has any sensitivities that fall into the 'iffy' category,

it's probably no surprise that he might have either an autoimmune

problem or thyroid disease or both.

If the adrenal insufficiency is one of the causes of allergic

response, fixing the thyroid/adrenal problems should improve matters

all round.

best wishes

Bob

[[...and a year ago had nasal polyps removed and was due

recently to have more surgery ..]]

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> Hello Sheila and everyone,

>

> My name is Lorraine and I have joined the group because of my son

> Callum.

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Hi bron

Dr Peatfield has his weekly clinics in Crawley, Surrey, and he has other clinics in other parts of the UK. Go to our website www.tpa-uk.org.uk and click on "Update - Dr peatfield's Metabolic Clinics" in the right hand column on the Home Page. you will need to scroll down. This is under TPA-UK News. You can see where he holds his clinics and who you should contact.

You can speak to him first or email him to ask him exactly what tests he recommends before you see him - that way, you have all the test results when you have your consultation. His phone number is 01883 623125 - or his Email address is drbarrypeatfield@... Please be patient in waiting for a response as he is extremely busy. However, he is staying with me until the weekend and I will show him your email and if he has time, ask him to let me know what tests you should get and I will get back to you.

luv - Sheila

> >> > Thankyou for that Sheila. You are right about Dr Peatfield, after > seeing him Callum said to me "what a lovely man, he actually listened > and believed me". Such a refreshing change to our normal Dr, who just > seems to say, "i don't know Callum, what am i going to do with you?".> Tomorrow i see a new NHS Dr, i am going to ask him if he could test > Callum's growth hormones and blood sugar. > If anyone could suggest anything ask i might need to ask i would be > grateful. Thanks, Lorraine x>Hi not sure if this right place to post this but was looking for some advice on how to contact Dr Peatfield I am going to get ask for a thyroid test from my gp, due to infertility problems and low Basal Body Temp, always cold, cyst on overy. Was adviced by someone on Fertility Friends to get Dr Barry Durrant Peatfiel to do a salivary thyroid test and other tests. Just woundering if this is the person you refer to in your email, if so could you pass on details of how to contact him, or anyone else. I live in NI. Any help appreciated. Thanks bronNo virus found in this incoming message.

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Hi, Ken! You're posting perfectly! welcome!

for the first week or two, many people are quite swollen from

surgery, so drinking can be a bit uncomfortable. This will improve as

the swelling goes down and you heal. for most people, normal hunger

returns within a few weeks, and they can eat normally again. then,

hunger will be dimmed again after you reach a good fill. some people,

especailly larger men, may lose well even without a fill for a good

periodof time.

for now, these things will help your intake:

1. hot or warm fluids go down easier than cold. Hot opens and relaxes

the stomna, while cold closes it down. if you see no difference,

either is fine.

2. Sip slowly - this means 3-4 small sips, then a rest of maybe 10

seconds for it to go thru. Our chugging and wolfing days must be over!

3. maybe 1/2 cup total fluid at a time - but every 30-60 minutes if

you wish. for now, the swelling is limiting tgings. lateron, you'll

be able to drink more at a sitting. If more (up to a cup0 causes NO

sdisxcomfiort, it is ok.

4. Be sure you're getting a minimum of 64 oz a day - and ideally 80-

100 oz. Adequate hydration is always important for bandsters, but

especailly in the post-op times. If you're on FULL liquids, Have

things with good nutrition and calories - juices, milk, thin

puddings, blended soups, quality protein drinks. forget sugar free

things, for now. you need good calories to heal well

5. If you're on FULL liquids, as most people would be a week out, try

hard to get good protein and fiber. Many foods, if pureed and

thinned, will count as " full liquids " . Bean and ham soup like Chunky

brand(pureed very smooth and then thinned so it would get thru a

straw) is especially good, as it is full of protein and fiber. See

the document in the files here called " foods and fluids for the first

month. " for more ideas and suggestions.

Do you know what band you have? This info will help us help you too -

Glad you're here with us! You've done well already (although we are

never trying to lose as fast as possible)and i predict you'll do vry

very well!

Sandy r

>

> Hello, Im not sure if I am doing this right so I guess this is kind

of

> a test.

>

> I was banded on October 22, 2008 so I am still on my first week of

> liquids only. I was very pleased with myself that I was able to

loose

> 40 lbs. prior to the surgery and the goal set for me was only 25.

>

> I find that with the liquids I am very full and when I have not had

> anything to eat/drink it almost hurts. Is this a normal feeling?

>

> Ken

>

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Thank you Sandy, good tips and today I start soft foods and VERY much looking

forward to a poached egg.  I had the regular band, not the realistic band

installed.

Thanks again for the tips.....knowing there is a support spot out there helps!!

Cheers

ken

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From: moonshadow.sandy <moonshadow.sandy@...>

Sent: Sunday, October 26, 2008 9:36:18 AM

Subject: Re: New Member

Hi, Ken! You're posting perfectly! welcome!

for the first week or two, many people are quite swollen from

surgery, so drinking can be a bit uncomfortable. This will improve as

the swelling goes down and you heal. for most people, normal hunger

returns within a few weeks, and they can eat normally again. then,

hunger will be dimmed again after you reach a good fill. some people,

especailly larger men, may lose well even without a fill for a good

periodof time.

for now, these things will help your intake:

1. hot or warm fluids go down easier than cold. Hot opens and relaxes

the stomna, while cold closes it down. if you see no difference,

either is fine.

2. Sip slowly - this means 3-4 small sips, then a rest of maybe 10

seconds for it to go thru. Our chugging and wolfing days must be over!

3. maybe 1/2 cup total fluid at a time - but every 30-60 minutes if

you wish. for now, the swelling is limiting tgings. lateron, you'll

be able to drink more at a sitting. If more (up to a cup0 causes NO

sdisxcomfiort, it is ok.

4. Be sure you're getting a minimum of 64 oz a day - and ideally 80-

100 oz. Adequate hydration is always important for bandsters, but

especailly in the post-op times. If you're on FULL liquids, Have

things with good nutrition and calories - juices, milk, thin

puddings, blended soups, quality protein drinks. forget sugar free

things, for now. you need good calories to heal well

5. If you're on FULL liquids, as most people would be a week out, try

hard to get good protein and fiber. Many foods, if pureed and

thinned, will count as " full liquids " . Bean and ham soup like Chunky

brand(pureed very smooth and then thinned so it would get thru a

straw) is especially good, as it is full of protein and fiber. See

the document in the files here called " foods and fluids for the first

month. " for more ideas and suggestions.

Do you know what band you have? This info will help us help you too -

Glad you're here with us! You've done well already (although we are

never trying to lose as fast as possible)and i predict you'll do vry

very well!

Sandy r

>

> Hello, Im not sure if I am doing this right so I guess this is kind

of

> a test.

>

> I was banded on October 22, 2008 so I am still on my first week of

> liquids only. I was very pleased with myself that I was able to

loose

> 40 lbs. prior to the surgery and the goal set for me was only 25.

>

> I find that with the liquids I am very full and when I have not had

> anything to eat/drink it almost hurts. Is this a normal feeling?

>

> Ken

>

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Hi, Ken - there are about 6 different sizes of the Inamed band, and

it's important that you know which size band you have. each size has

a different fill level range. Your doc should have given you a wallet

card with this info, and more , on it. if you don't have one, do ask

for one. It's important to have it's basic info, as well a your doc's

contact number, with you in your wallet.

It also will help us advise you, if we know what band size you have.

Sandy r

>

> Thank you Sandy, good tips and today I start soft foods and VERY

much looking forward to a poached egg.  I had the regular band, not

the realistic band installed.

>

> Thanks again for the tips.....knowing there is a support spot out

there helps!!

>

> Cheers

> ken

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Welcome le!  I do hope you find the answers you seek regarding a CI. I too

was born with bilateral sensorineural heraing loss, and learned the cause when I

had my MRI in preparation for my CI in 2007.  The cause is enlarged vestibular

aqueduct syndrome.  If you are interested you can google this to get more

information.  I've been fortunate that this has not had an effect on my

balance.  I've never been able to wear a HA in my right ear, so I always relied

on my left for hearing.  When my left continued to lose more hearing, I could no

longer wear a bicross hearing aid, which limited even more what I could hear.  I

started pursuing ways to improve my hearing, and of course, the only option was

a cochlear implant, but the question was, whether I qualified.  Technically I

did not qualify because I understood too well with my left ear alone (70% with

single words), but the surgeon felt he could make a case for me since I was

still in the

workforce, and as an auditor (one who listens), hearing was very important in

my line of work.  Well, insurance company approved, I had the surgery 3/15/07,

and after 18 months of daily use, I can understand with my CI ear alone 62% of

single words and 85% of sentences, and with both ears working together, I

understand about 94-98% sentences.  So it definitely has helped me.

I wish you the best of luck!!  Keep us posted as you continue your journey.  If

you have any questions at all, we will be happy to answer them.

 

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From: dani9185 <deafinitelyasl@...>

Sent: Thursday, December 11, 2008 1:23:00 PM

Subject: New Member

Hello All: My name is le Im 23 years old. I was born with

bilateral sensorineural hearing loss in September 2008 I lost all my

hearing in my Right Ear which was my good ear. I am going to this new

doctor to see if I qualify for a Cochlear Implant ASAP when he calls me

back. I am struggling with my Left ear because my Right ear was better..

Having only one ear, is a hudge difference lately. I noticed my balance

is off also. I joined this group because I want to learn more about

your experiences. Hopefully soon I will be able to hear again. Smile*

- le

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Welcome Jessika,

Where are you going to school? I run a Cochlear Implant Support Group and at

our meeting yesterday we had a speaker who is a teacher of deaf children. She

went to College/e School for the Deaf and studied in their

auditory-oral program.

Good to have you on board.

Happy Hearing!

Carol

Boca Raton, FL

N24C - Sprint then 3G left ear -12/11/01-upgraded to Freedom on 2/19/08

N Freedom- right ear- implanted 3/01/06 activated 4/6/06

New member

Hello!

My name is Jessika. I am currently a student, I am studying speech

language pathology in school, I am a junior. The reason I joined this

group is because I am currently enrolled in Speech reading training/

aural rehabilitation class. The focus of the class is cochlear

implants. One of our assignments is to join an online group and keep a

jounral of things we see and learn from others who are expereinced with

cochlear implants and or the deaf community, hearing aids, ect. I would

really appreciate it if anybody would like to share any inforamtion

with me, stories, anything at all. I am excited to learn more about

this and I think I will learn alot by joining this group. If any body

has any questions for me, I will be more than happy. thanks so much!

Jessika

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Hi Jessika. I am a 73 year old Cochlear Corp. Freedom user. I was implanted in

September 2005 so I have 3 years experience to date. The kind of information you

desire can best be had by going to my blog at

: http://irvscijourney.blogspot.com  

I warn you that it is long as it covers a lot of time, but you will see one

persons CI ups and downs.

Many of us in the group have written blogs on our experiences, so I hope others

will refer you to theirs. Good luck in you class.

                  Irv in Ca.

From: roxy_babe022002 <roxy_babe022002@...>

Subject: New member

Date: Monday, January 12, 2009, 2:13 PM

Hello!

My name is Jessika. I am currently a student, I am studying speech

language pathology in school, I am a junior. The reason I joined this

group is because I am currently enrolled in Speech reading training/

aural rehabilitation class. The focus of the class is cochlear

implants. One of our assignments is to join an online group and keep a

jounral of things we see and learn from others who are expereinced with

cochlear implants and or the deaf community, hearing aids, ect. I would

really appreciate it if anybody would like to share any inforamtion

with me, stories, anything at all. I am excited to learn more about

this and I think I will learn alot by joining this group. If any body

has any questions for me, I will be more than happy. thanks so much!

Jessika

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> Welcome Jessika,

> Where are you going to school? I run a Cochlear Implant Support

Group and at our meeting yesterday we had a speaker who is a teacher

of deaf children. She went to College/e School for the

Deaf and studied in their auditory-oral program.

> Good to have you on board.

> Happy Hearing!

> Carol

> Boca Raton, FL

> N24C - Sprint then 3G left ear -12/11/01-upgraded to Freedom on

2/19/08

> N Freedom- right ear- implanted 3/01/06 activated 4/6/06

> New member

>

>

> Hello!

> My name is Jessika. I am currently a student, I am studying speech

> language pathology in school, I am a junior. The reason I joined

this

> group is because I am currently enrolled in Speech reading

training/

> aural rehabilitation class. The focus of the class is cochlear

> implants. One of our assignments is to join an online group and

keep a

> jounral of things we see and learn from others who are expereinced

with

> cochlear implants and or the deaf community, hearing aids, ect. I

would

> really appreciate it if anybody would like to share any inforamtion

> with me, stories, anything at all. I am excited to learn more about

> this and I think I will learn alot by joining this group. If any

body

> has any questions for me, I will be more than happy. thanks so much!

>

> Jessika

>

Thank you so much! I go to The University of Science and Arts of

Oklahoma. It a very small school, but I love it, the deaf ed program

here is very good, as well as the speech program! Thanks again.

>

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> From: roxy_babe022002 <roxy_babe022002@...>

> Subject: New member

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> Date: Monday, January 12, 2009, 2:13 PM

>

> HI!! Thank you so much,this information will be excellent for my

class, I really appreciate it and I am excited to learn more about

your experience

Jessika

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> Hello!

> My name is Jessika. I am currently a student, I am studying speech

> language pathology in school, I am a junior. The reason I joined

this

> group is because I am currently enrolled in Speech reading

training/

> aural rehabilitation class. The focus of the class is cochlear

> implants. One of our assignments is to join an online group and

keep a

> jounral of things we see and learn from others who are expereinced

with

> cochlear implants and or the deaf community, hearing aids, ect. I

would

> really appreciate it if anybody would like to share any inforamtion

> with me, stories, anything at all. I am excited to learn more about

> this and I think I will learn alot by joining this group. If any

body

> has any questions for me, I will be more than happy. thanks so much!

>

> Jessika

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Jessika,

People who are deaf/blind people on this Forum have told us that it would be

helpful to them if you would put your reply at the beginning of the message to

which you are replying rather than at the end.

Happy Hearing!

Carol

Boca Raton, FL

N24C - Sprint then 3G left ear -12/11/01-upgraded to Freedom on 2/19/08

N Freedom- right ear- implanted 3/01/06 activated 4/6/06

New member

>

> Date: Monday, January 12, 2009, 2:13 PM

>

> HI!! Thank you so much,this information will be excellent for my

class, I really appreciate it and I am excited to learn more about

your experience

Jessika

>

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>

>

> Hello!

> My name is Jessika. I am currently a student, I am studying speech

> language pathology in school, I am a junior. The reason I joined

this

> group is because I am currently enrolled in Speech reading

training/

> aural rehabilitation class. The focus of the class is cochlear

> implants. One of our assignments is to join an online group and

keep a

> jounral of things we see and learn from others who are expereinced

with

> cochlear implants and or the deaf community, hearing aids, ect. I

would

> really appreciate it if anybody would like to share any inforamtion

> with me, stories, anything at all. I am excited to learn more about

> this and I think I will learn alot by joining this group. If any

body

> has any questions for me, I will be more than happy. thanks so much!

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Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear!  I still wear a powerful hearing aid  in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf  because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear

very well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still

in the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while

yet. I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said

there is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging 

CAP tel that we are truly fortunate.  It sounds like you are taking advantage

of those resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has

successfully continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that

there will be uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and

teaching quite successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also  find,

that if she kept her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation

or her error in hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also

become an excellent lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day

life. Just let everyone know your situation including your students..It will

gratify your heart to see how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers  I would suggest

you trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice  because there is of

course implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are

made that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears  but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

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From: chickmant <chickmant@...>

Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

 

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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Hi Teri,

My experience is similar to yours. I started losing my hearing in my thirties,

and am now 44. One ear went bad, then the other followed. I've been essentially

deaf on the right for some time, but was able to get by. When my left ear

tanked, it has made it near impossible to understand people at all. I'd worn 2

hearing aids for some time. I knew for

quite a while that my hearing was going to continue to deteriorate

before I'd be eligible for a cochlear implant. The waiting part wasn't

easy.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I had cochlear implant surgery. I haven't had it

" activated " yet- so no hearing out of that ear yet.

I'm a nursing instructor, so my hearing is an issue. Luckily enough, the

department that I work in was able to find duties for me that don't require

hearing (for the time being).

Other people in the group may be able to suggest assisitive devises for you. I

didn't have much luck with them, but I believe it's because I lost the low

frequencies of my hearing and not the highs. Most people lose the high

frequencies...

Good luck!

From: chickmant <chickmant@...>

Subject: new member

Date: Monday, February 15, 2010, 2:20 AM

 

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing

when I was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing

aid in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing

loss in my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I

could hear six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I

really have trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on

Tuesday. I was evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going

back for another evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating

all the technology that is available to people with hearing loss and my family

and friends are very supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next

week, so that should be helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar

experience to mine... hearing

loss in middle age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my

hearing loss presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I

would love to hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I

have is that I also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months.

could this prevent me from getting a CI?

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Hi Teri,

Welcome to the group. If dizziness prevented people from getting CIs,

lots of us wouldn't have them. Myself included.

Teaching young children is especially difficult with a hearing loss,

because their voices are so high pitched, and those are the ferquencies

you lose first. Even with " normal age related " hearing loss.

When you back for your evaluation in March, remember what MY first

implant surgeon told me. " this is not a test you want to try to hard to

pass " NOT that you should cheat. BUT if you think you hear something,

but are not absolutely, positvely 100% sure you did hear it, then don't

respond to it. We deafies tend to fill in the blanks and become quite

good at guessing, even when we don't hear something. Or we've taken the

tests so often that we know what word comes after " baseball, hotdog and

airplane "

So, do not guess if you didn't hear something.

Good luck,

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing

when I was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first

noticed my tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and

wear a hearing aid in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced

profound hearing loss in my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no

longer hear things I could hear six months ago.I am getting more and more

frustrated all the time. I really have trouble on the phone now and I am

picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was evaluated in August for a CI

but did not qualify. I am going back for another evaluation in March. I

try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology that is available

to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that

should be helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience

to mine... hearing loss in middle age. It's very scary. I " m also a

kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss presents challenges at work.

Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to hear from anyone having

a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I also started

experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent me

from getting a CI?

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With Meniere's disease it is the low pitch sounds that start  the normal

hearing loss progression..I continue to hear high pitch sounds in my left ear

non implant ear even though my hearing loss is considered severe. So as I

mentioned before in my post to you, you might want to check whether your

symptoms indicate Meniere's Not all hearing loss starts with loss to high pitch

sounds. 

Regina

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Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:40:42 PM

Subject: Re:new member

 

Hi Teri,

Welcome to the group. If dizziness prevented people from getting CIs,

lots of us wouldn't have them. Myself included.

Teaching young children is especially difficult with a hearing loss,

because their voices are so high pitched, and those are the ferquencies

you lose first. Even with " normal age related " hearing loss.

When you back for your evaluation in March, remember what MY first

implant surgeon told me. " this is not a test you want to try to hard to

pass " NOT that you should cheat. BUT if you think you hear something,

but are not absolutely, positvely 100% sure you did hear it, then don't

respond to it. We deafies tend to fill in the blanks and become quite

good at guessing, even when we don't hear something. Or we've taken the

tests so often that we know what word comes after " baseball, hotdog and

airplane "

So, do not guess if you didn't hear something.

Good luck,

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing

when I was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first

noticed my tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and

wear a hearing aid in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced

profound hearing loss in my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no

longer hear things I could hear six months ago.I am getting more and more

frustrated all the time. I really have trouble on the phone now and I am

picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was evaluated in August for a CI

but did not qualify. I am going back for another evaluation in March. I

try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology that is available

to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that

should be helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience

to mine... hearing loss in middle age. It's very scary. I " m also a

kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss presents challenges at work.

Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to hear from anyone having

a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I also started

experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent me

from getting a CI?

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Dear Regina,

I cannot thank you enough for your reply. I am actually crying right now. I

have been desperate to talk to people with this experience and reading your

reply was such a comfort to me. As understanding as my family and friends have

been, it's impossible for them to understand what this is like.

About four years ago, when I went to yet another audiologist for answers, he

had me go through extensive testing and although he never said I officially had

Meniere's Disease, he suggested that I go on the Meniere's Disease diet. Up

until then, I had only had two mild vertigo episodes, but now I am experiencing

dizziness quite often. Usually if I bend over, get out of bed,etc. So I

started reading up on Meniere's and I believe I do have that.

I just loved reading about your success with your implant. That is just

fantastic! That gives me such hope. I was wondering what music sounds like

with your implant. That is one thing that gets me sad. Music sounds so

distorted. I can listen to a familiar CD, where I know all of the lyrics and I

can tell what song is playing. But if I try to listen to the radio, it's very

frustrating. Six months ago, I could still listen to my favorite talk radio

show on the way to work, but not anymore. Also, did you ever have an FM system?

I got one about a year and a half ago, when I got a new hearing aid. It sounded

like it was going to be so wonderful. But , for me it hasn't helped much. I

tried using it at restaurants and even at my own dinner table, but it doesn't

help much. One other question I have has to do with going to musicals or plays.

My friend invited me to go see the musical , Wicked. I thought if I got the CD

and learned the lyrics ahead

of time, by reading them , that would make it more enjoyable. Then I found out

that the theater has I Caption, which sounds like a hand held device that shows

captions of the dialogue. Do you know anything about this?

Thank you so much for telling me about your daughter's teacher. That really

made me feel better. My students know that I need to see their lips when they

speak to me. I have made some pretty funny mistakes when it comes to

interpreting what they say sometimes. I do have to laugh about it. ONe thing I

haven't done is I haven't told the parents of my students about my hearing loss.

My principal and my co-workers know. I was worried that the parents would be

concerned that their child's teacher is hearing impaired. I know I need to get

over this. But some things are hard.

I am so glad I joined this group. I will take one day at a time.

Thank you so much.

Teri

________________________________

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli@...>

Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:45:01 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear! I still wear a powerful hearing aid in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear very

well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still in

the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while yet.

I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said there

is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging CAP tel

that we are truly fortunate. It sounds like you are taking advantage of those

resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has successfully

continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that there will be

uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and teaching quite

successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also find, that if she kept

her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation or her error in

hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also become an excellent

lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day life. Just let everyone

know your situation including your students..It will gratify your heart to see

how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers I would suggest

you trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice because there is of

course implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are

made that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

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Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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Dear ,

Thank you so much for your reply. I am so anxious to hear about your

activation. How was your surgery? Are you back at work? The waiting part is

so difficult, just like you said. I feel like I'm in an in- between stage, where

I'm not quite deaf enough for the implant, but the deafness I have makes it

really difficult out in the world. I will be looking forward to reading about

your activation. Good luck to you!

Sincerely,

Teri

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Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:49:18 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Hi Teri,

My experience is similar to yours. I started losing my hearing in my thirties,

and am now 44. One ear went bad, then the other followed. I've been essentially

deaf on the right for some time, but was able to get by. When my left ear

tanked, it has made it near impossible to understand people at all. I'd worn 2

hearing aids for some time. I knew for

quite a while that my hearing was going to continue to deteriorate

before I'd be eligible for a cochlear implant. The waiting part wasn't

easy.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I had cochlear implant surgery. I haven't had it

" activated " yet- so no hearing out of that ear yet.

I'm a nursing instructor, so my hearing is an issue. Luckily enough, the

department that I work in was able to find duties for me that don't require

hearing (for the time being).

Other people in the group may be able to suggest assisitive devises for you. I

didn't have much luck with them, but I believe it's because I lost the low

frequencies of my hearing and not the highs. Most people lose the high

frequencies. ..

Good luck!

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Subject: new member

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Date: Monday, February 15, 2010, 2:20 AM

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing

aid in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing

loss in my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I

could hear six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I

really have trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on

Tuesday. I was evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going

back for another evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating

all the technology that is available to people with hearing loss and my family

and friends are very supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next

week, so that should be helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar

experience to mine... hearing

loss in middle age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my

hearing loss presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I

would love to hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I

have is that I also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months.

could this prevent me from getting a CI?

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Hi Terri!

I apologize for not responding sooner. I had some health issues with my Mom that

has taken up much of my time. I 'm really glad I gave you a bit of relief coping

with this situation. I'll try and answer your questions in bold below and also

make comments on what you wrote.

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From: Teri Chickman <chickmant@...>

Sent: Tue, February 16, 2010 12:47:12 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I cannot thank you enough for your reply. I am actually crying right now. I have

been desperate to talk to people with this experience and reading your reply was

such a comfort to me. As understanding as my family and friends have been, it's

impossible for them to understand what this is like.

I know what you mean..as understanding as people try to be it is impossible to

understand all the day to day issues we deal with. Thats why this board is so

useful I think.

About four years ago, when I went to yet another audiologist for answers, he had

me go through extensive testing and although he never said I officially had

Meniere's Disease, he suggested that I go on the Meniere's Disease diet. Up

until then, I had only had two mild vertigo episodes, but now I am experiencing

dizziness quite often. Usually if I bend over, get out of bed,etc. So I started

reading up on Meniere's and I believe I do have that.

I f you are interested in finding out whether you have Meniere's disease, there

is a web site www.veda.org  (vesibular disorder association) that lists

professionals by states that specialize in balance and vestibular disorders.

There are sophisticated non invasive tests that can be done to diagnose if you

have Meniere's or another vestibular disorder.  If you live near Philly or

Baltimore  or Sarasota Fla I can give you names of specialists I have used.

I just loved reading about your success with your implant. That is just

fantastic! That gives me such hope. I was wondering what music sounds like with

your implant.  I was pleasantly surprised tho hear music that is not off key! I

had spoken with another cochlear implant user who said she heard music but it is

off key. I do have trouble with some lyrics but I always did even when I could

hear well! The first music that sounded good was familiar songs. Now I am

hearing commercial jingles on TV ..I do have trouble with loud music that' s

sometimes played in movies ..It is very loud..but I just turn down the

implant.That is one thing that gets me sad. Music sounds so distorted. I can

listen to a familiar CD, where I know all of the lyrics and I can tell what song

is playing. But if I try to listen to the radio, it's very frustrating. Six

months ago, I could still listen to my favorite talk radio show on the way to

work, but not anymore.  Talk radio is

how I practice hearing with my implant. I also drove 8 hours home yesterday and

listened to a book on tape and understood what was going on.NPR is a great radio

station because the announcers talk clearly as did the book on tape narrarator.

I have trouble hearing accents still. Also, did you ever have an FM system? I

got one about a year and a half ago, when I got a new hearing aid. It sounded

like it was going to be so wonderful. But , for me it hasn't helped much.  I

have one and because my hearing with the meniere s fluctuated I did not have

much success when I used it with the hearing aid. I have not tried it with the

implant yet although the audiologist says it can be programmed to work .One on

one in a restaurant was okay when my companion sat across from me with the FM

around their neck. But forget putting it in the middle of the table with a group

of people ..not good. The voices were jumbled to me I tried using it at

restaurants and even at

my own dinner table, but it doesn't help much. One other question I have has to

do with going to musicals or plays. My friend invited me to go see the musical ,

Wicked. I thought if I got the CD and learned the lyrics ahead

of time, by reading them , that would make it more enjoyable. Then I found out

that the theater has I Caption, which sounds like a hand held device that shows

captions of the dialogue. Do you know anything about this? I don't know too much

about ICAP but I am going to research it. My daughter is at NYU and can get

discount Broadway tickets thru the school. I love Broadway but it is very

expensive and I missed so much at least before the implant  it wasn t worth it.

I'll let you know what I find out.

Thank you so much for telling me about your daughter's teacher. That really made

me feel better. My students know that I need to see their lips when they speak

to me. I have made some pretty funny mistakes when it comes to interpreting what

they say sometimes. I do have to laugh about it. ONe thing I haven't done is I

haven't told the parents of my students about my hearing loss. My principal and

my co-workers know. I was worried that the parents would be concerned that their

child's teacher is hearing impaired. I know I need to get over this. But some

things are hard.

I have the email address of my daughter's teacher. My husband is an orthodontist

and she recently was a patient of his . Would you like me to e mail her to ask

her if she would be willing to share teaching tips with you? As far as the

parents go I would bet many know already thru their children. Maybe you should

talk with your principal and discuss a strategy on telling the parents. I

remember Alyssa's  (my daughter) teacher was matter a fact about her hearing

loss on back to school night and announced it to all the parents.  (this was

way before her implant) My reaction was wow, what a brave woman!

I am so glad I joined this group. I will take one day at a time.

I am so glad you did too..you are not alone in this situation  Regina PS it you

want to converse privately my email address is rmarulli@...

Thank you so much.

Teri

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Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:45:01 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear! I still wear a powerful hearing aid in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear very

well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still in

the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while yet.

I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said there

is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging CAP tel

that we are truly fortunate. It sounds like you are taking advantage of those

resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has successfully

continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that there will be

uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and teaching quite

successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also find, that if she kept

her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation or her error in

hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also become an excellent

lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day life. Just let everyone

know your situation including your students..It will gratify your heart to see

how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers I would suggest you

trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice because there is of course

implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are made

that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

____________ _________ _________ __

From: chickmant <chickmant (DOT) com>

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Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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Dear Regina,

I know how you feel with what your going thru as far as Mineares Disease.  I

woke up on April the 28th of 2009 totally deaf in both ears or darn close. 

They said I have Sudden Profound Sensenoreal Hearing Loss, a month after that I

was diagnosed with Minears, a month after that I was diagnosed with AIED

(AutoImmune Inner Ear Disease) and to add to everything, I found out I had an

Arachnoid Cyst in the lower part of my brain.

I had my first Mineares attack and it wasn't severe but in July of last year I

was up North staying since I didn't need to be in the valley anymore for

business.  I was in Flagstaff and all of a sudden I couldn't walk, was throwing

up, felt like I had 1000lbs on me, the house is 22 miles from Flag. and I was

driven home and helped up the stairs.  I went to bed thinking I will be asleep

for a couple of hours and the next thing I knew it was 12 hours later.  I had

the second major one the second day.  I woke up at 02:30 and knew I couldn't

get ahold of my Dr. so I started browsing the web and came across a Dr. Hain in

Chicago from NorthWestern University.  I took a chance and emailed him, I

received an email back from him about three hours later and was told with

everything that happened to me so suddenly that it's very rare.

I was sitting on the deck of my mothers place after reading that email.  Joyce

came outside and wrote on a notepad to ask what was wrong, I just started

crying.  I am not the type of guy for being 40 to admit to crying but have

learned since all of this has happened I really don't care what people think

anymore.  I have so many journals from my journey since this happened that I

want to write a book.

There is a little lady in myhearingloss.org on Monday that is a moderator and

she was implanted in both ears.  I wrote her after getting that email and told

her about things.  She said that after she had her implants she had Mineares

even worse for the first three years and had to go thru physical therapy.  I

hope I don't have to do that and pray I don't but I at least know what to expect

as a worse case scenario.

Just keep asking people in here as for that's what I have been doing.  Gain all

the knoweledge and assistance since thats why they have these groups.

My business is shut down, my income was cut by 3/4's but i'm still alive and

have my mother, brother, sister, a good close friend and the people here as well

as in HLAA.

If you ever get the attacks and just want someone to talk to then I am here.  I

had two more about two weeks ago and was in bed for two days.  I guess you can

say I just got use to it.  The ringing non stop in the ears doesn't help much

either and drives me nuts but again, getting use to things.  Try to stay away

from stress.  Alot of movement as well from what I have found out.

You'll get thru it,

P.S.  I don't write the best letters unless I am doing a sales call in

dedicated logistics but of course don't do that anymore either.  Pardon if it's

not done perfect.

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From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli@...>

Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 10:32:05 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Hi Terri!

I apologize for not responding sooner. I had some health issues with my Mom that

has taken up much of my time. I 'm really glad I gave you a bit of relief coping

with this situation. I'll try and answer your questions in bold below and also

make comments on what you wrote.

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Teri Chickman <chickmant (DOT) com>

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Sent: Tue, February 16, 2010 12:47:12 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I cannot thank you enough for your reply. I am actually crying right now. I have

been desperate to talk to people with this experience and reading your reply was

such a comfort to me. As understanding as my family and friends have been, it's

impossible for them to understand what this is like.

I know what you mean..as understanding as people try to be it is impossible to

understand all the day to day issues we deal with. Thats why this board is so

useful I think.

About four years ago, when I went to yet another audiologist for answers, he had

me go through extensive testing and although he never said I officially had

Meniere's Disease, he suggested that I go on the Meniere's Disease diet. Up

until then, I had only had two mild vertigo episodes, but now I am experiencing

dizziness quite often. Usually if I bend over, get out of bed,etc. So I started

reading up on Meniere's and I believe I do have that.

I f you are interested in finding out whether you have Meniere's disease, there

is a web site www.veda.org  (vesibular disorder association) that lists

professionals by states that specialize in balance and vestibular disorders.

There are sophisticated non invasive tests that can be done to diagnose if you

have Meniere's or another vestibular disorder.  If you live near Philly or

Baltimore  or Sarasota Fla I can give you names of specialists I have used.

I just loved reading about your success with your implant. That is just

fantastic! That gives me such hope. I was wondering what music sounds like with

your implant.  I was pleasantly surprised tho hear music that is not off key! I

had spoken with another cochlear implant user who said she heard music but it is

off key. I do have trouble with some lyrics but I always did even when I could

hear well! The first music that sounded good was familiar songs. Now I am

hearing commercial jingles on TV ..I do have trouble with loud music that' s

sometimes played in movies ..It is very loud..but I just turn down the

implant.That is one thing that gets me sad. Music sounds so distorted. I can

listen to a familiar CD, where I know all of the lyrics and I can tell what song

is playing. But if I try to listen to the radio, it's very frustrating. Six

months ago, I could still listen to my favorite talk radio show on the way to

work, but not anymore.  Talk radio is

how I practice hearing with my implant. I also drove 8 hours home yesterday and

listened to a book on tape and understood what was going on.NPR is a great radio

station because the announcers talk clearly as did the book on tape narrarator.

I have trouble hearing accents still. Also, did you ever have an FM system? I

got one about a year and a half ago, when I got a new hearing aid. It sounded

like it was going to be so wonderful. But , for me it hasn't helped much.  I

have one and because my hearing with the meniere s fluctuated I did not have

much success when I used it with the hearing aid. I have not tried it with the

implant yet although the audiologist says it can be programmed to work .One on

one in a restaurant was okay when my companion sat across from me with the FM

around their neck. But forget putting it in the middle of the table with a group

of people ..not good. The voices were jumbled to me I tried using it at

restaurants and even at

my own dinner table, but it doesn't help much. One other question I have has to

do with going to musicals or plays. My friend invited me to go see the musical ,

Wicked. I thought if I got the CD and learned the lyrics ahead

of time, by reading them , that would make it more enjoyable. Then I found out

that the theater has I Caption, which sounds like a hand held device that shows

captions of the dialogue. Do you know anything about this? I don't know too much

about ICAP but I am going to research it. My daughter is at NYU and can get

discount Broadway tickets thru the school. I love Broadway but it is very

expensive and I missed so much at least before the implant  it wasn t worth it.

I'll let you know what I find out.

Thank you so much for telling me about your daughter's teacher. That really made

me feel better. My students know that I need to see their lips when they speak

to me. I have made some pretty funny mistakes when it comes to interpreting what

they say sometimes. I do have to laugh about it. ONe thing I haven't done is I

haven't told the parents of my students about my hearing loss. My principal and

my co-workers know. I was worried that the parents would be concerned that their

child's teacher is hearing impaired. I know I need to get over this. But some

things are hard.

I have the email address of my daughter's teacher. My husband is an orthodontist

and she recently was a patient of his . Would you like me to e mail her to ask

her if she would be willing to share teaching tips with you? As far as the

parents go I would bet many know already thru their children. Maybe you should

talk with your principal and discuss a strategy on telling the parents. I

remember Alyssa's  (my daughter) teacher was matter a fact about her hearing

loss on back to school night and announced it to all the parents.  (this was

way before her implant) My reaction was wow, what a brave woman!

I am so glad I joined this group. I will take one day at a time.

I am so glad you did too..you are not alone in this situation  Regina PS it you

want to converse privately my email address is rmarulli (DOT) com

Thank you so much.

Teri

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:45:01 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear! I still wear a powerful hearing aid in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear very

well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still in

the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while yet.

I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said there

is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging CAP tel

that we are truly fortunate. It sounds like you are taking advantage of those

resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has successfully

continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that there will be

uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and teaching quite

successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also find, that if she kept

her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation or her error in

hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also become an excellent

lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day life. Just let everyone

know your situation including your students..It will gratify your heart to see

how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers I would suggest you

trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice because there is of course

implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are made

that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

____________ _________ _________ __

From: chickmant <chickmant (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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By the way, I think the reply was meant for Teri but if not hope it was received

to the right person.

________________________________

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli@...>

Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 10:32:05 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Hi Terri!

I apologize for not responding sooner. I had some health issues with my Mom that

has taken up much of my time. I 'm really glad I gave you a bit of relief coping

with this situation. I'll try and answer your questions in bold below and also

make comments on what you wrote.

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Teri Chickman <chickmant (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Tue, February 16, 2010 12:47:12 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I cannot thank you enough for your reply. I am actually crying right now. I have

been desperate to talk to people with this experience and reading your reply was

such a comfort to me. As understanding as my family and friends have been, it's

impossible for them to understand what this is like.

I know what you mean..as understanding as people try to be it is impossible to

understand all the day to day issues we deal with. Thats why this board is so

useful I think.

About four years ago, when I went to yet another audiologist for answers, he had

me go through extensive testing and although he never said I officially had

Meniere's Disease, he suggested that I go on the Meniere's Disease diet. Up

until then, I had only had two mild vertigo episodes, but now I am experiencing

dizziness quite often. Usually if I bend over, get out of bed,etc. So I started

reading up on Meniere's and I believe I do have that.

I f you are interested in finding out whether you have Meniere's disease, there

is a web site www.veda.org  (vesibular disorder association) that lists

professionals by states that specialize in balance and vestibular disorders.

There are sophisticated non invasive tests that can be done to diagnose if you

have Meniere's or another vestibular disorder.  If you live near Philly or

Baltimore  or Sarasota Fla I can give you names of specialists I have used.

I just loved reading about your success with your implant. That is just

fantastic! That gives me such hope. I was wondering what music sounds like with

your implant.  I was pleasantly surprised tho hear music that is not off key! I

had spoken with another cochlear implant user who said she heard music but it is

off key. I do have trouble with some lyrics but I always did even when I could

hear well! The first music that sounded good was familiar songs. Now I am

hearing commercial jingles on TV ..I do have trouble with loud music that' s

sometimes played in movies ..It is very loud..but I just turn down the

implant.That is one thing that gets me sad. Music sounds so distorted. I can

listen to a familiar CD, where I know all of the lyrics and I can tell what song

is playing. But if I try to listen to the radio, it's very frustrating. Six

months ago, I could still listen to my favorite talk radio show on the way to

work, but not anymore.  Talk radio is

how I practice hearing with my implant. I also drove 8 hours home yesterday and

listened to a book on tape and understood what was going on.NPR is a great radio

station because the announcers talk clearly as did the book on tape narrarator.

I have trouble hearing accents still. Also, did you ever have an FM system? I

got one about a year and a half ago, when I got a new hearing aid. It sounded

like it was going to be so wonderful. But , for me it hasn't helped much.  I

have one and because my hearing with the meniere s fluctuated I did not have

much success when I used it with the hearing aid. I have not tried it with the

implant yet although the audiologist says it can be programmed to work .One on

one in a restaurant was okay when my companion sat across from me with the FM

around their neck. But forget putting it in the middle of the table with a group

of people ..not good. The voices were jumbled to me I tried using it at

restaurants and even at

my own dinner table, but it doesn't help much. One other question I have has to

do with going to musicals or plays. My friend invited me to go see the musical ,

Wicked. I thought if I got the CD and learned the lyrics ahead

of time, by reading them , that would make it more enjoyable. Then I found out

that the theater has I Caption, which sounds like a hand held device that shows

captions of the dialogue. Do you know anything about this? I don't know too much

about ICAP but I am going to research it. My daughter is at NYU and can get

discount Broadway tickets thru the school. I love Broadway but it is very

expensive and I missed so much at least before the implant  it wasn t worth it.

I'll let you know what I find out.

Thank you so much for telling me about your daughter's teacher. That really made

me feel better. My students know that I need to see their lips when they speak

to me. I have made some pretty funny mistakes when it comes to interpreting what

they say sometimes. I do have to laugh about it. ONe thing I haven't done is I

haven't told the parents of my students about my hearing loss. My principal and

my co-workers know. I was worried that the parents would be concerned that their

child's teacher is hearing impaired. I know I need to get over this. But some

things are hard.

I have the email address of my daughter's teacher. My husband is an orthodontist

and she recently was a patient of his . Would you like me to e mail her to ask

her if she would be willing to share teaching tips with you? As far as the

parents go I would bet many know already thru their children. Maybe you should

talk with your principal and discuss a strategy on telling the parents. I

remember Alyssa's  (my daughter) teacher was matter a fact about her hearing

loss on back to school night and announced it to all the parents.  (this was

way before her implant) My reaction was wow, what a brave woman!

I am so glad I joined this group. I will take one day at a time.

I am so glad you did too..you are not alone in this situation  Regina PS it you

want to converse privately my email address is rmarulli (DOT) com

Thank you so much.

Teri

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:45:01 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear! I still wear a powerful hearing aid in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear very

well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still in

the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while yet.

I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said there

is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging CAP tel

that we are truly fortunate. It sounds like you are taking advantage of those

resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has successfully

continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that there will be

uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and teaching quite

successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also find, that if she kept

her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation or her error in

hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also become an excellent

lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day life. Just let everyone

know your situation including your students..It will gratify your heart to see

how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers I would suggest you

trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice because there is of course

implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are made

that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

____________ _________ _________ __

From: chickmant <chickmant (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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Hi

I think my post was confusing because I thought i had bolded my responses to

Terri 's questions. Unfortunately the bold of my answers to her questions were

not picked up by . I was answering some questions she had about the implant

and her possible menieres diagnosis

I do have meniere's and have for 20 years..I recently had an implant in 1 ear. I

do have bi lateral menieres but the onset of the menieres in the 2nd ear was 10

years behind my implanted ear so I am not at the same hearing level loss in both

ears. Eventually my hearing will be as bad as my implant ear was before my

implant. I have had diminished menieres symptoms in my implant ear since the

surgery I have no tinnitus and no dizziness at all! I have heard menieres

cochlear implant patients are all different in their response to the implant

just as the disease symptoms is different in various people. I do not have auto

immune menieres as proved by the oral steroids I have taken as well as steroid

injections I had into my inner ear. I had no help from the steroids.Other people

I know with menieres  have been helped by the steroid injections. If you have

not done so you might look into steroid treatment since yours seems to be auto

immune.

My experiences with menieres were similar to yours when it first began 20 years

ago..however i believe i did have burn out with my menieres so my symptoms were

not so severe after a few years.

Thank you for your response..I feel blessed I have found my answer to resolving

my menieres through my implant

Regina

________________________________

From: Ortis <qglphx1@...>

Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 10:50:19 PM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I know how you feel with what your going thru as far as Mineares Disease.  I

woke up on April the 28th of 2009 totally deaf in both ears or darn close. 

They said I have Sudden Profound Sensenoreal Hearing Loss, a month after that I

was diagnosed with Minears, a month after that I was diagnosed with AIED

(AutoImmune Inner Ear Disease) and to add to everything, I found out I had an

Arachnoid Cyst in the lower part of my brain.

I had my first Mineares attack and it wasn't severe but in July of last year I

was up North staying since I didn't need to be in the valley anymore for

business.  I was in Flagstaff and all of a sudden I couldn't walk, was throwing

up, felt like I had 1000lbs on me, the house is 22 miles from Flag. and I was

driven home and helped up the stairs.  I went to bed thinking I will be asleep

for a couple of hours and the next thing I knew it was 12 hours later.  I had

the second major one the second day.  I woke up at 02:30 and knew I couldn't

get ahold of my Dr. so I started browsing the web and came across a Dr. Hain in

Chicago from NorthWestern University.  I took a chance and emailed him, I

received an email back from him about three hours later and was told with

everything that happened to me so suddenly that it's very rare.

I was sitting on the deck of my mothers place after reading that email.  Joyce

came outside and wrote on a notepad to ask what was wrong, I just started

crying.  I am not the type of guy for being 40 to admit to crying but have

learned since all of this has happened I really don't care what people think

anymore.  I have so many journals from my journey since this happened that I

want to write a book.

There is a little lady in myhearingloss. org on Monday that is a moderator and

she was implanted in both ears.  I wrote her after getting that email and told

her about things.  She said that after she had her implants she had Mineares

even worse for the first three years and had to go thru physical therapy.  I

hope I don't have to do that and pray I don't but I at least know what to expect

as a worse case scenario.

Just keep asking people in here as for that's what I have been doing.  Gain all

the knoweledge and assistance since thats why they have these groups.

My business is shut down, my income was cut by 3/4's but i'm still alive and

have my mother, brother, sister, a good close friend and the people here as well

as in HLAA.

If you ever get the attacks and just want someone to talk to then I am here.  I

had two more about two weeks ago and was in bed for two days.  I guess you can

say I just got use to it.  The ringing non stop in the ears doesn't help much

either and drives me nuts but again, getting use to things.  Try to stay away

from stress.  Alot of movement as well from what I have found out.

You'll get thru it,

P.S.  I don't write the best letters unless I am doing a sales call in

dedicated logistics but of course don't do that anymore either.  Pardon if it's

not done perfect.

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 10:32:05 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Hi Terri!

I apologize for not responding sooner. I had some health issues with my Mom that

has taken up much of my time. I 'm really glad I gave you a bit of relief coping

with this situation. I'll try and answer your questions in bold below and also

make comments on what you wrote.

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Teri Chickman <chickmant (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Tue, February 16, 2010 12:47:12 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I cannot thank you enough for your reply. I am actually crying right now. I have

been desperate to talk to people with this experience and reading your reply was

such a comfort to me. As understanding as my family and friends have been, it's

impossible for them to understand what this is like.

I know what you mean..as understanding as people try to be it is impossible to

understand all the day to day issues we deal with. Thats why this board is so

useful I think.

About four years ago, when I went to yet another audiologist for answers, he had

me go through extensive testing and although he never said I officially had

Meniere's Disease, he suggested that I go on the Meniere's Disease diet. Up

until then, I had only had two mild vertigo episodes, but now I am experiencing

dizziness quite often. Usually if I bend over, get out of bed,etc. So I started

reading up on Meniere's and I believe I do have that.

I f you are interested in finding out whether you have Meniere's disease, there

is a web site www.veda.org  (vesibular disorder association) that lists

professionals by states that specialize in balance and vestibular disorders.

There are sophisticated non invasive tests that can be done to diagnose if you

have Meniere's or another vestibular disorder.  If you live near Philly or

Baltimore  or Sarasota Fla I can give you names of specialists I have used.

I just loved reading about your success with your implant. That is just

fantastic! That gives me such hope. I was wondering what music sounds like with

your implant.  I was pleasantly surprised tho hear music that is not off key! I

had spoken with another cochlear implant user who said she heard music but it is

off key. I do have trouble with some lyrics but I always did even when I could

hear well! The first music that sounded good was familiar songs. Now I am

hearing commercial jingles on TV ..I do have trouble with loud music that' s

sometimes played in movies ..It is very loud..but I just turn down the

implant.That is one thing that gets me sad. Music sounds so distorted. I can

listen to a familiar CD, where I know all of the lyrics and I can tell what song

is playing. But if I try to listen to the radio, it's very frustrating. Six

months ago, I could still listen to my favorite talk radio show on the way to

work, but not anymore.  Talk radio is

how I practice hearing with my implant. I also drove 8 hours home yesterday and

listened to a book on tape and understood what was going on.NPR is a great radio

station because the announcers talk clearly as did the book on tape narrarator.

I have trouble hearing accents still. Also, did you ever have an FM system? I

got one about a year and a half ago, when I got a new hearing aid. It sounded

like it was going to be so wonderful. But , for me it hasn't helped much.  I

have one and because my hearing with the meniere s fluctuated I did not have

much success when I used it with the hearing aid. I have not tried it with the

implant yet although the audiologist says it can be programmed to work .One on

one in a restaurant was okay when my companion sat across from me with the FM

around their neck. But forget putting it in the middle of the table with a group

of people ..not good. The voices were jumbled to me I tried using it at

restaurants and even at

my own dinner table, but it doesn't help much. One other question I have has to

do with going to musicals or plays. My friend invited me to go see the musical ,

Wicked. I thought if I got the CD and learned the lyrics ahead

of time, by reading them , that would make it more enjoyable. Then I found out

that the theater has I Caption, which sounds like a hand held device that shows

captions of the dialogue. Do you know anything about this? I don't know too much

about ICAP but I am going to research it. My daughter is at NYU and can get

discount Broadway tickets thru the school. I love Broadway but it is very

expensive and I missed so much at least before the implant  it wasn t worth it.

I'll let you know what I find out.

Thank you so much for telling me about your daughter's teacher. That really made

me feel better. My students know that I need to see their lips when they speak

to me. I have made some pretty funny mistakes when it comes to interpreting what

they say sometimes. I do have to laugh about it. ONe thing I haven't done is I

haven't told the parents of my students about my hearing loss. My principal and

my co-workers know. I was worried that the parents would be concerned that their

child's teacher is hearing impaired. I know I need to get over this. But some

things are hard.

I have the email address of my daughter's teacher. My husband is an orthodontist

and she recently was a patient of his . Would you like me to e mail her to ask

her if she would be willing to share teaching tips with you? As far as the

parents go I would bet many know already thru their children. Maybe you should

talk with your principal and discuss a strategy on telling the parents. I

remember Alyssa's  (my daughter) teacher was matter a fact about her hearing

loss on back to school night and announced it to all the parents.  (this was

way before her implant) My reaction was wow, what a brave woman!

I am so glad I joined this group. I will take one day at a time.

I am so glad you did too..you are not alone in this situation  Regina PS it you

want to converse privately my email address is rmarulli (DOT) com

Thank you so much.

Teri

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From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli (DOT) com>

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Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:45:01 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear! I still wear a powerful hearing aid in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear very

well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still in

the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while yet.

I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said there

is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging CAP tel

that we are truly fortunate. It sounds like you are taking advantage of those

resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has successfully

continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that there will be

uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and teaching quite

successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also find, that if she kept

her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation or her error in

hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also become an excellent

lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day life. Just let everyone

know your situation including your students..It will gratify your heart to see

how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers I would suggest you

trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice because there is of course

implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are made

that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

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From: chickmant <chickmant (DOT) com>

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Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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Regina,

I am hoping the same thing when I get my implant this Thursday.  The attacks

are not fun at all and don't with them upon anyone.   I guess this is part of

life that we have to deal with anyway.  I always thought I would have a heart

attack by 40 but god didn't want that yet.  Guess i'm on the waiting

list..............  Sorry but thought I would throw in a little humor.  I get

thru them but just basically sleep thru them when I know they are approaching,

we who have it get use to it.

________________________________

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli@...>

Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 9:16:24 PM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Hi

I think my post was confusing because I thought i had bolded my responses to

Terri 's questions. Unfortunately the bold of my answers to her questions were

not picked up by . I was answering some questions she had about the implant

and her possible menieres diagnosis

I do have meniere's and have for 20 years..I recently had an implant in 1 ear. I

do have bi lateral menieres but the onset of the menieres in the 2nd ear was 10

years behind my implanted ear so I am not at the same hearing level loss in both

ears. Eventually my hearing will be as bad as my implant ear was before my

implant. I have had diminished menieres symptoms in my implant ear since the

surgery I have no tinnitus and no dizziness at all! I have heard menieres

cochlear implant patients are all different in their response to the implant

just as the disease symptoms is different in various people. I do not have auto

immune menieres as proved by the oral steroids I have taken as well as steroid

injections I had into my inner ear. I had no help from the steroids.Other people

I know with menieres  have been helped by the steroid injections. If you have

not done so you might look into steroid treatment since yours seems to be auto

immune.

My experiences with menieres were similar to yours when it first began 20 years

ago..however i believe i did have burn out with my menieres so my symptoms were

not so severe after a few years.

Thank you for your response..I feel blessed I have found my answer to resolving

my menieres through my implant

Regina

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From: Ortis <qglphx1 (DOT) com>

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Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 10:50:19 PM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I know how you feel with what your going thru as far as Mineares Disease.  I

woke up on April the 28th of 2009 totally deaf in both ears or darn close. 

They said I have Sudden Profound Sensenoreal Hearing Loss, a month after that I

was diagnosed with Minears, a month after that I was diagnosed with AIED

(AutoImmune Inner Ear Disease) and to add to everything, I found out I had an

Arachnoid Cyst in the lower part of my brain.

I had my first Mineares attack and it wasn't severe but in July of last year I

was up North staying since I didn't need to be in the valley anymore for

business.  I was in Flagstaff and all of a sudden I couldn't walk, was throwing

up, felt like I had 1000lbs on me, the house is 22 miles from Flag. and I was

driven home and helped up the stairs.  I went to bed thinking I will be asleep

for a couple of hours and the next thing I knew it was 12 hours later.  I had

the second major one the second day.  I woke up at 02:30 and knew I couldn't

get ahold of my Dr. so I started browsing the web and came across a Dr. Hain in

Chicago from NorthWestern University.  I took a chance and emailed him, I

received an email back from him about three hours later and was told with

everything that happened to me so suddenly that it's very rare.

I was sitting on the deck of my mothers place after reading that email.  Joyce

came outside and wrote on a notepad to ask what was wrong, I just started

crying.  I am not the type of guy for being 40 to admit to crying but have

learned since all of this has happened I really don't care what people think

anymore.  I have so many journals from my journey since this happened that I

want to write a book.

There is a little lady in myhearingloss. org on Monday that is a moderator and

she was implanted in both ears.  I wrote her after getting that email and told

her about things.  She said that after she had her implants she had Mineares

even worse for the first three years and had to go thru physical therapy.  I

hope I don't have to do that and pray I don't but I at least know what to expect

as a worse case scenario.

Just keep asking people in here as for that's what I have been doing.  Gain all

the knoweledge and assistance since thats why they have these groups.

My business is shut down, my income was cut by 3/4's but i'm still alive and

have my mother, brother, sister, a good close friend and the people here as well

as in HLAA.

If you ever get the attacks and just want someone to talk to then I am here.  I

had two more about two weeks ago and was in bed for two days.  I guess you can

say I just got use to it.  The ringing non stop in the ears doesn't help much

either and drives me nuts but again, getting use to things.  Try to stay away

from stress.  Alot of movement as well from what I have found out.

You'll get thru it,

P.S.  I don't write the best letters unless I am doing a sales call in

dedicated logistics but of course don't do that anymore either.  Pardon if it's

not done perfect.

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From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Sat, February 20, 2010 10:32:05 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Hi Terri!

I apologize for not responding sooner. I had some health issues with my Mom that

has taken up much of my time. I 'm really glad I gave you a bit of relief coping

with this situation. I'll try and answer your questions in bold below and also

make comments on what you wrote.

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Teri Chickman <chickmant (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Tue, February 16, 2010 12:47:12 AM

Subject: Re: new member

 

Dear Regina,

I cannot thank you enough for your reply. I am actually crying right now. I have

been desperate to talk to people with this experience and reading your reply was

such a comfort to me. As understanding as my family and friends have been, it's

impossible for them to understand what this is like.

I know what you mean..as understanding as people try to be it is impossible to

understand all the day to day issues we deal with. Thats why this board is so

useful I think.

About four years ago, when I went to yet another audiologist for answers, he had

me go through extensive testing and although he never said I officially had

Meniere's Disease, he suggested that I go on the Meniere's Disease diet. Up

until then, I had only had two mild vertigo episodes, but now I am experiencing

dizziness quite often. Usually if I bend over, get out of bed,etc. So I started

reading up on Meniere's and I believe I do have that.

I f you are interested in finding out whether you have Meniere's disease, there

is a web site www.veda.org  (vesibular disorder association) that lists

professionals by states that specialize in balance and vestibular disorders.

There are sophisticated non invasive tests that can be done to diagnose if you

have Meniere's or another vestibular disorder.  If you live near Philly or

Baltimore  or Sarasota Fla I can give you names of specialists I have used.

I just loved reading about your success with your implant. That is just

fantastic! That gives me such hope. I was wondering what music sounds like with

your implant.  I was pleasantly surprised tho hear music that is not off key! I

had spoken with another cochlear implant user who said she heard music but it is

off key. I do have trouble with some lyrics but I always did even when I could

hear well! The first music that sounded good was familiar songs. Now I am

hearing commercial jingles on TV ..I do have trouble with loud music that' s

sometimes played in movies ..It is very loud..but I just turn down the

implant.That is one thing that gets me sad. Music sounds so distorted. I can

listen to a familiar CD, where I know all of the lyrics and I can tell what song

is playing. But if I try to listen to the radio, it's very frustrating. Six

months ago, I could still listen to my favorite talk radio show on the way to

work, but not anymore.  Talk radio is

how I practice hearing with my implant. I also drove 8 hours home yesterday and

listened to a book on tape and understood what was going on.NPR is a great radio

station because the announcers talk clearly as did the book on tape narrarator.

I have trouble hearing accents still. Also, did you ever have an FM system? I

got one about a year and a half ago, when I got a new hearing aid. It sounded

like it was going to be so wonderful. But , for me it hasn't helped much.  I

have one and because my hearing with the meniere s fluctuated I did not have

much success when I used it with the hearing aid. I have not tried it with the

implant yet although the audiologist says it can be programmed to work .One on

one in a restaurant was okay when my companion sat across from me with the FM

around their neck. But forget putting it in the middle of the table with a group

of people ..not good. The voices were jumbled to me I tried using it at

restaurants and even at

my own dinner table, but it doesn't help much. One other question I have has to

do with going to musicals or plays. My friend invited me to go see the musical ,

Wicked. I thought if I got the CD and learned the lyrics ahead

of time, by reading them , that would make it more enjoyable. Then I found out

that the theater has I Caption, which sounds like a hand held device that shows

captions of the dialogue. Do you know anything about this? I don't know too much

about ICAP but I am going to research it. My daughter is at NYU and can get

discount Broadway tickets thru the school. I love Broadway but it is very

expensive and I missed so much at least before the implant  it wasn t worth it.

I'll let you know what I find out.

Thank you so much for telling me about your daughter's teacher. That really made

me feel better. My students know that I need to see their lips when they speak

to me. I have made some pretty funny mistakes when it comes to interpreting what

they say sometimes. I do have to laugh about it. ONe thing I haven't done is I

haven't told the parents of my students about my hearing loss. My principal and

my co-workers know. I was worried that the parents would be concerned that their

child's teacher is hearing impaired. I know I need to get over this. But some

things are hard.

I have the email address of my daughter's teacher. My husband is an orthodontist

and she recently was a patient of his . Would you like me to e mail her to ask

her if she would be willing to share teaching tips with you? As far as the

parents go I would bet many know already thru their children. Maybe you should

talk with your principal and discuss a strategy on telling the parents. I

remember Alyssa's  (my daughter) teacher was matter a fact about her hearing

loss on back to school night and announced it to all the parents.  (this was

way before her implant) My reaction was wow, what a brave woman!

I am so glad I joined this group. I will take one day at a time.

I am so glad you did too..you are not alone in this situation  Regina PS it you

want to converse privately my email address is rmarulli (DOT) com

Thank you so much.

Teri

____________ _________ _________ __

From: Regina Marulli <rmarulli (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Mon, February 15, 2010 6:45:01 AM

Subject: Re: new member

Your post touched me...I had the same experience. My hearing issues started at

32. I am 53 now. I lived with diminished hearing in my right ear due to

Meniere's disease and didn t think much about it until there was no usable

hearing, which happened 10 years ago. At about the same time the Menieres

started in my left ear! I still wear a powerful hearing aid in that ear but

eventually my hearing will be gone in that ear too. I went to a very respected

specialist in New York City when the hearing loss started in my left ear 10

years ago. Our goal was to preserve my hearing as long as possible which proved

unsuccessful. At my very first appointment with him he promised me I would never

be deaf because I could have an implant. He was right. I was approved for an

implant last September for my right ear, and had the surgery in November and at

the activation I could hear ! Now my comprehension is about 90% with just the

implant and not the hearing aid

on in my left ear.. So 90% on just the implanted ear! Of course there is

variations in my hearing level in the envioroment I am in but I still hear very

well even in noisy situations by changing the implant settings. I am still in

the adjustment stage and my hearing should continue to improve for a while yet.

I will go back next month for a hearing test and another mapping

How did I handle the years before the implant? I tried to stay positive, trusted

my doctor's promise, and lived one day at a time. I was also proactive. I did as

much research as I could about my disease . I also thought it very useful to

have some professional therapy as I am a firm believer in the mind body

connection, as was my original doctor. I can honestly say I tried everything and

have been guiding several people I know with Meniere's through the same process.

Many of these people have had much success with some of the treatments that were

unsuccessful for me which has been very gratifying. I also tried to remind

myself of the positives in having this situation at this time. As you said there

is so much available now like closed captioning, email, text messaging CAP tel

that we are truly fortunate. It sounds like you are taking advantage of those

resources already! Great!

Being a teacher I understand your fear. My daughter had a middle school teacher

who had severe hearing loss when my daughter had her as a teacher. My daughter

said it was sometimes difficult for her but she handled her mistakes with humor

and dignity. She had a cochlear implant a few years ago and she has successfully

continued teaching a very tough school age. So be assured that there will be

uncomfortable moments but it is possible to keep teaching and teaching quite

successfully. My daughter's teacher found ,which I also find, that if she kept

her sense of humor and was matter of fact about the situation or her error in

hearing something it puts everyone at ease. You will also become an excellent

lip reader which will help immensely in your day to day life. Just let everyone

know your situation including your students..It will gratify your heart to see

how people respond.

The people on this board are very helpful and compassionate . However, when it

comes to technical advice about various implant maufacturers I would suggest you

trust your doctors and audiologist opinion and advice because there is of course

implant brand loyality anong the users themselves. Sometimes comments are made

that are not always accurate. It's best to assess your own preferences and

lifestyle with a professional. Most of the competitve brand advice is anecdotal.

My best wishes to you ! I totally understand your fears but you will see how

creative you can be.. Live for today! I shall keep my fingers crossed that your

next screening for an implant is successful!

Regina

PS I just reread your post..your symptoms, tinnitus, hearing loss and dizziness

are the symptoms of meniere's. Has your doctor assessed what is the underlying

cause of your hearing loss. Fullness in the ears is also another symptom which

usually happens right before the dizziness...

____________ _________ _________ __

From: chickmant <chickmant (DOT) com>

groups (DOT) com

Sent: Sun, February 14, 2010 9:20:36 PM

Subject: new member

HI , my name is Teri and I am 48 years old. I started losing my hearing when I

was about 35, but didn't notice it much. That's when I first noticed my

tinnitus. Now , 13 years later, I am deaf in my left hear and wear a hearing aid

in my right ear. The last two years I have experienced profound hearing loss in

my right ear and I keep noticing that I can no longer hear things I could hear

six months ago.I am getting more and more frustrated all the time. I really have

trouble on the phone now and I am picking up a CAP tel phone on Tuesday. I was

evaluated in August for a CI but did not qualify. I am going back for another

evaluation in March. I try to stay positive by appreciating all the technology

that is available to people with hearing loss and my family and friends are very

supportive. I'm going to my first HOH support group next week, so that should be

helpful. I've been looking for people with a similar experience to mine...

hearing loss in middle

age. It's very scary. I " m also a kindergarten teacher, so my hearing loss

presents challenges at work. Anyways, I have lots to say, but I would love to

hear from anyone having a similar experience. Also one question I have is that I

also started experiencing some dizziness the last few months. could this prevent

me from getting a CI?

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Hi, Ortis - wishing you the best of luck on Thursday! Remember

that many of us were dizzy after surgery for a week or so. So give it TIME

and give yourself time to recuperate! Jackie :o)

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