Re: help for FLAT chested woman

[Guest guest]

Hi there, I am , I had implants(safe saline ha) for only 18

months and became very ill, so your right not to even consider them

again. I am also pretty flat chested. If you want an idea just go on

the photo section of this site and you can see my before and afters.

I have about a A or AA cup size depending of course on the bra etc. I

find that the enhancers I wear in my pocket bra work really well

under winter clothes and stuff that is not low cut, but your right

they can sometimes slip a little and the edge can show in low cut

stuff. What I did for New Years for example was wear a camisole top

over the bra with the enhancers, and still looked like I had some

cleavage at that.It covered the tops of my bra perfectly and that way

even dancing the enhancers could not pop up and show. Camisoles are

aweseome, get a few, lace and regular ones, I love them! I have been

very creative with my different looks. I have a couple of bathing

suits that make me look like a large A or small B . I don't like one

pieces and have a nice figure so I like to show it off a bit. I don't

wear string bikinis but I found through Venus swimwear that they have

very very nicely padded add a cup size bikini tops(mix and match

sizes too, very nice. They are not cheap but not too pricey either. I

like them allot. I also got another wonderful water bikini there that

I like alot. For swimming the enhancers would make me too afraid to

wear unless you are into sewing, then you could buy a few pairs and

sew them into the material of the bikini top or bathing suit or

whatever, and would not have to worry about losing them. I also

recently got a B cup victoria secret padded bra that almost fits me

(they run small) and it is a convertable strapless number, that I

plan on modifying for summer to fit the enhancers in it. I just need

another pair to permanently sew into bras. I think I should start a

company that recognizes these needs of small chested women and make

bras that come with enhancers pre sewed in. HA HA. I bet it would be

succesful. ALso I am with you on some of those large enhancers, too

big for my body type, I don't want to be a C or D cup, then I would

just look like i had implants, I just want to be a nice B or even

large A.

Hope these ideas help at least a little, coming from another small

chested woman!

In , " phoebe123p " <phoebe123p@y...>

wrote:

> hi ladies,

> to make my story short, i had silicone implants for 8 years (1991 -

> 1999). i had them taken out for fear that various health concerns

were

> related to them. now, nearly 5 years later, i'd been considering

> saline... until i read how many problems they, too seem to be

causing!

> now i am searching for an alternative i can feel comfortable with. i

> currently wear enhancers (from jc penny about 5 yrs ago) or water

> bras, but don't love either one of them. the enhancers irritate my

> skin, and the bras with pockets which kept them off my skin didn't

> completely hide the enhancers. i have 2 young children and am

totally

> uncomfortable in the swimming pool with them -- i'm afraid they'll

> accidently grab me wrong, and a boob (enhancer) will go flying!

> i've been researching some of the newer enhancers on the market and

> there are SO MANY choices (and most have contoured backs that look

too

> big for my chest, or there are so many shapes that look like they

wont

> work on a body like mine). are any of you women super flat as well,

> and do you have any suggestions for what you do? i simply want to

> avoid any embarrassing moments, and am looking for a comfortable

> solution that won't leave me feeling so self conscious if possible

(i

> want to wear a B cup or even a " big " A). For some reason, I have a

> huge fear of being " found out " and want to find the best non-

surgical

> solution possible. I don't have the nerve to just go without, as i

> literally am flat as a board and feel very unfeminine.

> thank you so much!

[Guest guest]

HI Pheobe,

I find it hard to believe that you can be that much smaller than me,

but I think my breasts appear larger than they are because they are

kind of smooshy. So when I put on something without a bra they tend

to flatten out and I look very flat, like in work out clothes esp. I

have to say though that lingerie seems to be the one thing that

always works well on me, I wonder what I would do if I had bigger

boobs sometimes with the skimpy little lingerie I buy that fits so

tight! hee hee. ANyhow I guess that will never be a problem. I also

feel Dr Feng is part of the reason my boobs appear bigger than they

really are, I mean I am barely an A cup usually, but she shaped them

SO NICE with that lift, they really do look rounder and perkier than

they ever did in my life, I always had a little pointier boobs and

she just shaped them up nicely, I am pretty happy with them nude.

WIth clothes they just need some help so that is where my enhancers

came in. As for the type of enhancers, they are smaller ones, they

are called " amazing " and the box they came in has a website, it is

www.Bragel.com or you can email them at Bragel89@.... They say

they are large, but they sure don't make me huge, just a nice B cup

and that is all I want, I don't want to look huge or fake, just

mostly average and normal, not boyish and in clothes sometimes boobs

get lost ya know what I mean right? I am a small girl, but not stick

thin, I have a curvy body, I have a butt, etc, I am lean but think

that I look nicer with a bit of boobs in my clothes, like you

probably feel. The bra I got really really lucky on. I walked into

Dillards Dept store here in Idaho Falls and they were just there on

the sales rack, so I bought three of them, I am wishing I had gotten

more. I looked on the tag just now and all it says is Cabernet, so I

guess that is the brand. I am going to do a search and see what I can

find, I bet it is going to just be wine though, hee hee. Anyhow Patty

also uses this type of pocket bra but I think she may use a full

breast enhancer and mine are not really a full breast, they do have a

little nub where the nipple would be but not enough to make me look

like my nipples are hard and poking out, that is embarassing hee hee.

I am happy with them and they were cheap too, like $30.00.

I got my water bikini through Venus swimwear, but unfortunatly I

believe they discontinued it. Fortunately though they sell a padded

bikini top that is an add a cup size and it works really well. I can

send you pics of me in it if you want me to, let me know what address

ok? Carabella swimwear is another one that has the add a cup size and

there are others too, there are allot of padded bras and bikinis out

there these days, for us girls that don't want or cannot get

implants. I really never have too much trouble finding them. I have

worn my enhancers against my skin for brief periods of time in a

strapless bra that worked ok, but i never got a rash. I don't like

doing that very much cause it can get slimy, but I figured it was

only an evening and I was on a cruise and wanted to wear this

strapless dress. It did give me tons of cleavage but again, it can be

dangerous because if your not careful that enhancer edge can poke

out. My advice is the camisole trick that keeps the bra and the

enhancer covered, it worked for on New Years anyhow.

I hope that this has helped in someway. And check out that website to

see what they have. I am going to look myself. I also feel that you

can sew enhancers into bras and bikini tops fairly easily no matter

what the material, I mean I don't see why not, but maybe I am wrong,

I am sure not a big sewing person.

Maybe Patty has more input here!

Hope this helps some

Hugs

, " phoebe123p " <phoebe123p@y...> wrote:

> hi carrie,

>

> thanks for writing back to me! i really appreciate

> your input. we sound similar -- i, too like bikinis. i

> have a slim figure, work out, take care of myself, and

> would be content with the appearance of small boobs, as

> long as they look real.

> i have a few shelf bras w/spaghetti straps that i used

> to wear w/the enhancers, but no longer use them much

> since the enhancers irritate my skin. what brand of

> pocket bras do you wear? and which enhancers? are they

> silicone? i saw some non silicone ones on a website

> yesterday that look weighty enough (i don't like just

> the foam kind). i did check out your photos, and you

> are definitely bigger than i am. i really am nearly

> flat and as i mentioned, am trying to find a solution

> that i'm comfortable with. i recently got invited to a

> girls weekend away and turned it down for fear of

> being found out. totally stupid, i know. anyway, i

> also wanted to know where you got your water bikini.

> that might work. i asked a friend who is a seamstress

> about sewing in pockets and she said it is hard to

> work with the stretchy bathing suit material in the

> way i wanted her to.

>

> again, thanks so much for your help!

>

> -pheobe

[Guest guest]

carrie --

thanks for the input! i will check out the website you mentioned and

see what i can find. i did check out the venus site, and there may be

possibilities on it. also, i just found at tj maxx (my favorite store)

2 bathing suits that have the liners sewn into the top (bandeau

style), leaving about an 1 " space on each outer side -- so i can slip

an enhancer into it. only trouble is current enhancers are a little

too heavy and i'm afraid that the whole top would just yank down (as

opposed to the enhancer flying out). fyi, i spoke with the woman who

owns The Total Woman Boutique, and they will be getting new swimsuits

on their website soon -- www.mastectomyneeds.com will get you to their

site.

meanwhile, i just ordered about 5 sets of various enhancers, so i can

figure out something to work: a) under clothes, with bathing suits.

there are so many options, and it is so hard to find ones that will

work for such a small chested person. i am truly flat, with just about

1/4 " - 1/2 " of natural tissue at the very bottom portion of my boobs.

i was always small -- AA before silicone implants. i got those to

bring me to a B cup and i was very happy with my size. now, having not

been looking that large since i had them removed 5 years ago, and

having nursed 2 babies, i feel that going back up to a B would look

like i got a boob job, and i don't want to look that way. very few

people knew when i got them done back in '91, and i no longer live in

the same city. anyway, now, post explant, i have nothing left to even

lift. in a tee shirt with no bra, i have the chest of a 13-year-old

boy! hopefully, at least 1 set of enhancers i ordered will work for

some of my needs. and, maybe i'll get lucky and one pair will work for

all needs (then again, maybe i'll need 1 set for under tighter clothes

and in a swimsuit, with another bigger pair for under heavier clothes)!

if you want, i'll let you know what i discovered from my

research/experimenting.

thanks again for writing back!

-phoebe