help for FLAT chested woman

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hi ladies,

to make my story short, i had silicone implants for 8 years (1991 -

1999). i had them taken out for fear that various health concerns were

related to them. now, nearly 5 years later, i'd been considering

saline... until i read how many problems they, too seem to be causing!

now i am searching for an alternative i can feel comfortable with. i

currently wear enhancers (from jc penny about 5 yrs ago) or water

bras, but don't love either one of them. the enhancers irritate my

skin, and the bras with pockets which kept them off my skin didn't

completely hide the enhancers. i have 2 young children and am totally

uncomfortable in the swimming pool with them -- i'm afraid they'll

accidently grab me wrong, and a boob (enhancer) will go flying!

i've been researching some of the newer enhancers on the market and

there are SO MANY choices (and most have contoured backs that look too

big for my chest, or there are so many shapes that look like they wont

work on a body like mine). are any of you women super flat as well,

and do you have any suggestions for what you do? i simply want to

avoid any embarrassing moments, and am looking for a comfortable

solution that won't leave me feeling so self conscious if possible (i

want to wear a B cup or even a " big " A). For some reason, I have a

huge fear of being " found out " and want to find the best non-surgical

solution possible. I don't have the nerve to just go without, as i

literally am flat as a board and feel very unfeminine.

thank you so much!