Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 I am so sorry, the same thing happened to me! I think they are jealous! You are pretty and you know it! Walk tall my dear, look what you've accomplished! I am much much thinner Down from 301 to 230. Family hasn't said much! Jealousy!! Keep up the great work!!! From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...>Subject: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? Date: Wednesday, April 27, 2011, 7:48 PM Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 Let your haters be your motivators keep up.the awesome work. I can't wait to get to 207Sent via DROID on Verizon Wireless Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? Date: Wednesday, April 27, 2011, 7:48 PM Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanksfor reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 you have done excellent!! i'm quite sure your looking pretty good. feel comfortable w/in yourself. i no you would want your family to back u up, but sometimes family can be the worst critic. you were an inspiration to me and i don;t even know you! any good tips, i'm stalling and bloated. From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...> Sent: Wed, April 27, 2011 9:48:26 PMSubject: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 i can't wait for 207 either i'm at 225 and cant seem to move from there! From: "ruready91480@..." <ruready91480@...> Sent: Wed, April 27, 2011 10:04:42 PMSubject: Re: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? Let your haters be your motivators keep up.the awesome work. I can't wait to get to 207Sent via DROID on Verizon Wireless Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? Date: Wednesday, April 27, 2011, 7:48 PM Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 how did you do it? did you stall much? i'm following the protocol to the tee w/ no good results. you have done excellent too, were you on the shots or drops? From: Ellie OConnor <elliebabe002001@...> Sent: Wed, April 27, 2011 9:57:06 PMSubject: Re: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? I am so sorry, the same thing happened to me! I think they are jealous! You are pretty and you know it! Walk tall my dear, look what you've accomplished! I am much much thinner Down from 301 to 230. Family hasn't said much! Jealousy!! Keep up the great work!!! From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...>Subject: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? Date: Wednesday, April 27, 2011, 7:48 PM Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 I did stall. The apple days worked, but man were they hell. My trick was to NOT stall. In order to dod that, I had to poop everyday. I found if I pooped before morning weigh in, I never stalled. Probably unsafe advice, but if I hadntpooped after a cup of coffee and 3 hours of wake time I did a supository to get things moving. My other advice? Know your cheats. I still live for apples with cinnamon and stevia. Nothing after 7 pm- and nothing for breakfast. But, I assu$e what works for one on this diet may not work for another? > > > >From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...> > >Subject: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? > > > >Date: Wednesday, April 27, 2011, 7:48 PM > > > > > > > >Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total. > > > >I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my > >weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me > >since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got " If > >you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight. " and " You > >still have a lot of tummy " and " I expected greater results. " > > > > > >I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY > >I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round > >butts and ate cookies in front of me. > > > > > >I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so > >hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont > >get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all > >the time. > > > > > >Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 ok got ya! i appreciate that! so basically you lost everyday?? were you on the drops or shots? From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...> Sent: Wed, April 27, 2011 10:34:09 PMSubject: Re: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? I did stall. The apple days worked, but man were they hell. My trick was to NOT stall. In order to dod that, I had to poop everyday. I found if I pooped before morning weigh in, I never stalled. Probably unsafe advice, but if I hadntpooped after a cup of coffee and 3 hours of wake time I did a supository to get things moving.My other advice? Know your cheats. I still live for apples with cinnamon and stevia. Nothing after 7 pm- and nothing for breakfast. But, I assu$e what works for one on this diet may not work for another?> > > >From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...>> >Subject: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? > > > >Date: Wednesday, April 27, 2011, 7:48 PM> >> >> >Â > >Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.> >> >I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my > >weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me > >since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If > >you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You > >still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." > >> >> >I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY > >I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round > >butts and ate cookies in front of me. > >> >> >I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so > >hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont > >get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all > >the time. > >> >> >Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. > >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 Congratulations on dropping the weight and keeping it off!! That's a lot of work and amazing effort. Way to go! Keep up the good work! Nothing tastes as good as thin feels! This is what I tell myself when I'm feeling tempted...and most days it keeps me on program. I'm impressed with your efforts and others are too! Good job! Terry On 4/27/2011 8:06 PM, Tanishia Burnett wrote: From: palmtreemandy <palmtreemandy@...> To: Sent: Wed, April 27, 2011 9:48:26 PM Subject: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty?  Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total. I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2011 Report Share Posted April 28, 2011 So sorry to hear about this. You know that they are just jealous of your success. Weight loss isn't just about the weight, it's so very emotional. You should surround yourself with people who support your new lifestyle and thinner you. Don't listen to the haters. You should be proud of you accomplishment! I know I am!On Apr 27, 2011, at 9:48 PM, palmtreemandy wrote:Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2011 Report Share Posted April 28, 2011 Anyone who takes on the HCG Protocol is a courageous, adventurous, self-caring, self-loving person. You are doing something so amazing for yourself. This may be a lesson for you to look to yourself for love and approval rather than rely on others for it. Yes, it is a basic human need to feel accepted, and loved but remember that starts with oneself. I would suggest you see this experience as a blessing and know that this is where your work lies. In the meantime you have people here who celebrate you and understand how you feel. I congratulate you on your success so far and no matter, you are a beautiful person inside and out for taking this giant step towards loving yourself enough to take a risk and do something that other people foo foo - doing the HCG protocol. You will succeed and you will grow as a person. Keep your focus and you can always call on me/us for support.All the best,andra S. andra Nutt, M.A.Mill Valley, CALife Coach/CounselingLife Transitions, Relationships, Spiritual Emergence, Life PathHolistic Health Consultant/HCG CoachAsk me how to lose 30-40 pounds in 40 days!From: Lynda Chadbourne <lmchadbourne@...> Sent: Thu, April 28, 2011 8:12:27 AMSubject: Re: Can someone just tell me I'm pretty? So sorry to hear about this. You know that they are just jealous of your success. Weight loss isn't just about the weight, it's so very emotional. You should surround yourself with people who support your new lifestyle and thinner you. Don't listen to the haters. You should be proud of you accomplishment! I know I am!On Apr 27, 2011, at 9:48 PM, palmtreemandy wrote:Weight loss stats: Started at 207. Now weigh 157. Lost about 15 inches total.I have been in maintenance for a while now, doing great. I am so proud of my weight loss, so when I traveled to visit my mom and sister who havent seen me since I lost pound 1, I expected rave reviews and compliments. Instead I got "If you could just control how much you eat you could lose the weight." and "You still have a lot of tummy" and "I expected greater results." I felt so hurt, and a bit betrayed. I wanted to yell at them DO YOU SEE THE WAY I EAT? and DO YOU WATCH ME RUN 3 MILES A DAY? while they sat on their round butts and ate cookies in front of me. I know it's not the job of this support group to tell me I'm pretty, but I'm so hurt and disappointed, I didnt know where else to turn. My other friends wont get why a newly thin woman is complaining that shes not getting compliments all the time. Anyway, just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and not flaming me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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