Rumble Moods in Luv

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Rumble Moods in Luv

May 12, 2011Imagine going to a new restaurant, and enjoying the food immensely. After a few pleasurable visits, and on one occasion a few weeks later the food has a strange taste. Figuring it might be something inside you that was off that time, you go back soon only to find the food again pleasurable. After a couple of more visits you become convinced that either it was an off day for the chef, or maybe it was just you? Then another bad time shows up causing much displeasure resulting in a great dissonance in the relationship between you, and the restaurant’s food.Love downgrades itself to ‘luv’ when something in the ‘kitchen’ of emotions causes an unexpected distaste, and possible friction in the

relationship. Over time, it turns into a ‘relationshit’ where one can’t seem to beg, borrow or smell love anywhere but in memory. It becomes not like the ‘restaurant’, where there are many other selections to turn to but a ‘relationshit’ with obligations and foreseeable pains. Pains mixed with love, especially when the can be managed or eliminated, are a disease for a loving relationship - even if you are the only one loving themselves!Every healthy person has moving emotions, but ones that do not cause negative changes within oneself, as well as causing discomfort in others on the outside. It’s impossible to reach, and maintain any sense of ‘nirvana’ within oneself, or in an intimate relationship if one lives in the space of not knowing who you are. Adjusting to others unexamined moods is, in a sense ‘enabling’, particularly when ‘moody’ continues endlessly in the behavior. A ‘shorted supply of love’ is the

result creating a life, at best only filled with blessings on the outside. Broken love becomes ‘luv’ that is kept only for others to view, often erroneously, that really cheats the moment called ‘your life’ and of life’s potentials.Rumbling, changing moods are poison to love’s growth, and at best create just a functional relationship that stunts all personal growth from the inside. Each can be 1/2 of the meditation that is the greatest one known to humans. A deep love between two open, willing, communicative people who are mating their souls (soul mate), into a ‘oneness’ of an ‘us’ while giving each other the space to be themselves, is a ‘divine unity’ sometimes referred to as an ‘authentic marriage’. That state is beyond all the hoopla of a ‘moment in time’ that ultimately fades into a common bonding of ‘adjustments to each others neurosis’. Love is a simple thing needing no ones internal disorientations. Be

free in agreeable sensitivity to oneself, each other, and the merger for a garden of love in all seasons of life. ArhataArhataOsho.com

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