Guest guest Posted July 7, 2011 Report Share Posted July 7, 2011 From: 5 BINDU GUPTA bindugupta@... Undisclosed recipients:; Subject: FW: THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.... ANGER AND INSULT - NOT THE SOLUTION Treat yourself at a restaurant, spa, resort and much more with Rediff Deal ho jaye! ---------- Forwarded message ----------From: 5 BINDU GUPTA <bindugupta@...>To: Undisclosed recipients:;Date: Subject: FW: THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.... ANGER AND INSULT - NOT THE SOLUTION IT IS A BEAUTIFUL STORY WORTH READING... ANGER AND INSULT IS NOT THE SOLUTION... DEALING with INSULT…Lord Buddha The Buddha explained how to handle insult and maintain compassion. One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. " You have no right teaching others, " he shouted. " You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake. " Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man " Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong? " The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, " It would belong to me, because I bought the gift. " The Buddha smiled and said, " That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself. " " If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy. " The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha . " You are right, o Enlightened One, " he said. " Please teach me the path of love. I wish to become your follower. " The Buddha answered kindly, " Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants to learn. Come with me. " Beautiful Quotes If you are right then there is no need to get angry And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry. Patience with family is love, Patience with others is respect, Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith. Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears... Don't Think more about FUTURE, It brings Fears... Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheers.!!!! Every test in our life makes us bitter or better, Every problem comes to make us or break us, Choice is ours, whether we become victims or victorious !!! Search a beautiful heart, not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful... Remember me like a pressed flower in your Notebook. It may not be having any fragrance, but will remind you of my existence forever in your life. Do you know, why God created gaps between fingers? So that someone who is special to you, comes and fills those gaps by holding your hands forever. GOD BLESS YOU !!!! HAVE A NICE DAY ! *******************************************Disclaimer****************************************************** The information contained in this message is BPCL's Confidential and Proprietary information and is intended only for the use of the recipient(s) named above. If the reader of this message is not the intended recipient, he/she is hereby notified that any use, dissemination, distribution, or copying of this communication or any of its content is strictly prohibited. In such case, please advise the sender immediately and delete it from your system. Further acknowledge that any views expressed in this message are those of the individual sender and no binding nature of the message shall be implied or assumed unless the sender does so expressly with due authority of BPCL. -- http://mukulchaudhri.blogspot.comhttp://thewinningedge-solutions.blogspot.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2011 Report Share Posted July 7, 2011 From: 5 BINDU GUPTA bindugupta@... Undisclosed recipients:; Subject: FW: THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.... ANGER AND INSULT - NOT THE SOLUTION Treat yourself at a restaurant, spa, resort and much more with Rediff Deal ho jaye! ---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: 5 BINDU GUPTA <bindugupta@...> Undisclosed recipients:; Date: Subject: FW: THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.... ANGER AND INSULT - NOT THE SOLUTION IT IS A BEAUTIFUL STORYWORTH READING... ANGER AND INSULT IS NOT THE SOLUTION... DEALING with INSULT…Lord Buddha The Buddha explained how to handle insultand maintain compassion. One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young mancame up and began insulting him. "You have no right teaching others,"he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but afake." Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man"Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it,to whom does the gift belong?" The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered,"It would belong to me, because I bought the gift." The Buddhasmiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the same with youranger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the angerfalls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. Allyou have done is hurt yourself." "If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger andbecome loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. Butwhen you love others, everyone is happy." The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha . "Youare right, o Enlightened One, "he said. "Please teach me the path oflove. I wish to become your follower." The Buddha answered kindly, "Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants tolearn. Come with me." Beautiful Quotes If you are right thenthere is no need to get angry And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.Patience with family is love, Patience with others is respect, Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith. Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears... Don't Think more about FUTURE, It brings Fears... Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheers.!!!! Every test in our life makes us bitter orbetter, Every problem comes to make us or break us, Choice is ours, whether we become victims or victorious !!!Search a beautiful heart, not a beautifulface. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful... Remember me like a pressed flower inyour Notebook. It may not be having any fragrance, but will remind you of my existence forever in your life. Do you know, why God created gaps betweenfingers? So that someone who is special to you, comes and fills those gaps by holdingyour hands forever. GOD BLESS YOU !!!! HAVE A NICE DAY ! *******************************************Disclaimer******************************************************The information contained in this message is BPCL's Confidential and Proprietary information and is intended only for the use of the recipient(s) named above. If the reader of this message is not the intended recipient, he/she is hereby notified that any use, dissemination, distribution, or copying of this communication or any of its content is strictly prohibited. In such case, please advise the sender immediately and delete it from your system. Further acknowledge that any views expressed in this message are those of the individual sender and no binding nature of the message shall be implied or assumed unless the sender does so expressly with due authority of BPCL. -- http://mukulchaudhri.blogspot.com http://thewinningedge-solutions.blogspot.com Treat yourself at a restaurant, spa, resort and much more with Rediff Deal ho jaye! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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