Guest guest Posted February 10, 2008 Report Share Posted February 10, 2008 A woman of action. This is an accomplished person. This is the kind of stuff I want to see happen. This lightened me right up! What an incisive, curing, dialogue. >>Hi Fran - >> >>Thank you so much - I really appreciate your response, and also Keely's >> >>Between being a newbie AND having an upsetting episode over the last few >>days, I'm afraid I was overwhelmed. BUT I want to thank you all - the >>episode was that my cat came down with what now appears to be an acute >>urinary tract infection...so I did 4 hours of energy work on him in the >>middle of the night, and another few the next day before the >>vet...everything I could think of including Immunics. The vet told me >>that with symptoms like my cat had, it's " impossible " for him to be as >>healthy as he was in her office! She said she's had some experience with >>energy work herself...so she said it won't go in the charts but she felt >>that what I did CURED him! We're doing antibiotics just to be sure...but >>he's right as rain today. >> >>So I'm afraid I asked far too many questions of Keely - but I just got my >>password the other day and I'm trying to devour the info - so just a few >>questions for you: >>Dear Cathleen, >> >>There are no easy answers to your questions but here are my comments (not >>written in stone): >>Thank you for this - frankly, this situation as well as some others that >>I've experienced between 9/11 and on from there, it's been a wild ride of >>pain and loss...so the stakes are high, but I'm ready to heal and move >>past this pattern...hopefully with your help and others I will! >>1) Whatever seems to you to be a signal is good. Try asking for a sign >>of " daytime testing " and see if you get an answer. It can be as small as >>a lighter feeling. >>That sounds great - I've done that a few times - I get a feeling that >>feels like Bliss or Joy radiating from my heart...not a bad feeling to >>have, let alone not a bad feeling to have be my guide. >> >>Maybe THAT was actually my problem...that I was trying to force myself >>into the finger movement...and that's not the right one for me. That >>feels right. >>2) I don't recommend you trying to heal your boyfriend. Take care of >>yourself, clear yourself, let him go, manifest the result you want in >>life. All that doesn't mean you have to give up on him. The only person >>you may help and change is you and what you draw to you. People who don't >>want to, won't get well. Even if you do support him in getting well he >>may just recreate it all over again. People around you will be inspired >>if you are doing for yourself and getting results. If he asks for help, >>by all means teach him immunics. >>Okay, while I get that my job is to work on healing ME and getting ME to >>be the best I can be, - and I'm trying to focus on " this or something >>better " - but I guess I have to admit that I'm having a hard time >>balancing between letting go and not giving up on him. So if you ask me >>what I want, I want my relationship back...better...but back. And, this >>may sound strange, but I'd be okay if he was still working on himself at >>his pace...so maybe he still had depression, BUT we were able to enjoy >>life the way we planned it. I'm guessing this won't sound strange to you >>- but after we named the children we wanted to bring into our family, I'm >>tellin' ya...it's been like they keep tapping on my door...like they feel >>like they were called and are ready, but why it is taking so long? And >>all this makes me so sad...you know, because I'd rather hold them in my >>arms than in my thoughts... >> >>So I'm sorry - but I'm confused - there's so much info on the site about >>curing other people, so for example the weight story with the woman at >>the Japanese restaurant - she asked if there was anything that could be >>done and he did the work, didn't tell her what he did...and he didn't >>step in and say " now I want you to eat this or that " - and within a few >>weeks, she just naturally lost the weight, probably by various changes in >>her choices. >> >>My ex asked me to help him, asked me what could be done for his >>feelings...he said he was lost, didn't know what to do...just knew he >> " couldn't dump all this in " my lap...so I sent him a few essential oils >>and told him I'd support him...but that he has to do the work of getting >>up each day and making good choices. He's followed thru on finishing a >>big work project he's had pending for 10 years...so he is making progress >>in his finances and career. But he's not yet a happy, centered person at >>all...still plodding along with a depressed way about him... >> >>So if we have the ability to cure other people...and we have the tools to >>do so..., and they have at least once time asked you...and you said I >>should do the higher body work on him...is that leading him to the tools? >> >>While I'm asking questions...basically do I have the " right " >>formula? That I am working MAINLY on myself...clearing whatever ails me, >>whatever patterns, etc. are keeping me from having what I want, can be, >>etc. - and then maybe once every few days, linking my higher bodies to >>HIS higher bodies and helping him heal...and then breaking, making sure I >>didn't attach any of his stuff...and then curing my feelings about our >>relationship too? >> >>I know I might sound desperate - but I want you to know I ABSOLUTELY AM >>open to bringing in someone who is better for me...just haven't found >>that person yet...and even though I'm open to it, I've never gotten even >>an inkling of a feeling that there is meant to be someone else, that he's >>not the one...the more I have tried to clear that feeling, the more I get >>that he is it. >>3) I always test down a list of lessons to see what I should work on. Of >>course, pathology removal is always good at any time. Do RIK, removal, >>install, know. >>I'm going to do this repeatedly...and keep working on your notes, and >>Keely's - everyone has been so kind...and as I muddle thru, I'm sure I'll >>get there... >> >>Thanks so much! >> >>Cathleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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