Guest guest Posted June 4, 2008 Report Share Posted June 4, 2008 >>When you've done enough trauma removal, you get to a point where you simply no longer traumatize yourself.Make that your goal.<< I keep traumatizing myself. I am lost at what to do. I am in this relationship were the communication went very bad. And everyday there is at least one thing he is communicating which makes me so very sad, with severe body reactions like stomach pain and a feeling of inadequacy, feeling of being stuck, by him. Its like I can't see clear anymore. I'm in this hole and can't get out. I test there are no trauma's left. It is my reaction to his (non) communication. I instantly give myself a traumatic experience. I don't want that anymore. I want to stay neutral if he doesn't say anything back. I want to ask him a next question if I just don't understand what he is saying. I want to leave it be when I don't understand and don't know what to do. What can I do? What is it I do not see? _________________________________________________________________ Probeer Live Search: de zoekmachine van de makers van MSN! http://www.live.com/?searchOnly=true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2008 Report Share Posted June 4, 2008 Hi : Been there. Done that. I find if I balance my particle attributes around my man, I'm less affected. Have you worked with Particle Attributes yet? Without knowing anything about them just balance them and then increase them all by 10 times. See how you feel. You may also be immune enough now to notice when you are assaulted or attacked, or sent a demon. BUT FIRST, ask the question you just asked us at the hub and see what you come up with on your own. Much love, PS I find communication is best in my relationships when I simply ask what I want from them. It doesn't matter if they respond or not. > > > >>When you've done enough trauma removal, you get to a point where you simply no longer traumatize yourself.Make that your goal.<< > > I keep traumatizing myself. I am lost at what to do. > I am in this relationship were the communication went very bad. > And everyday there is at least one thing he is communicating which makes me so very sad, with severe body reactions like stomach pain and a feeling of inadequacy, feeling of being stuck, by him. > > Its like I can't see clear anymore. I'm in this hole and can't get out. > > I test there are no trauma's left. > It is my reaction to his (non) communication. I instantly give myself a traumatic experience. I don't want that anymore. I want to stay neutral if he doesn't say anything back. I want to ask him a next question if I just don't understand what he is saying. I want to leave it be when I don't understand and don't know what to do. > > What can I do? What is it I do not see? > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Probeer Live Search: de zoekmachine van de makers van MSN! > http://www.live.com/?searchOnly=true > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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