Re: {Cures now: 94,923} Re: can i repost this?

[Guest guest]

i would love to see stuff like this posted on people's facebook pages - i'm

supposed to be doing that on my page but haven't been    . . . . love, keely

>Bayard, I was reading Skill 10: Unravel the Pathological Matrix

><http://www.immunics.org/00open/prepare/preunr.htm>http://www.immunics.org/00op\

en/prepare/preunr.htm,

>

>and I really liked what you said....... can I post this on my facebook page?

>

> " Just as the eyes don't see themselves, we don't see our disease.

>

>Not until we've cleared up at least some of it. Any aspect of non-physical

>disease that remains in what I call " 100% state " is absolutely invisible

>to it's host. This is how what we know to be self-destructive behaviors in

>those we love can seem completely normal to them.

>People wonder why they come down with a physical illness just as some

>wonderful break in their life is happening.

>It's three days before their testimonial dinner, or they're getting

>married, and suddenly they became physically ill and can't understand why.

>They know there's a connection, they know that it's not just a coincidence

>that they contracted a physical illness right before something wonderful

>was scheduled. This is what disease looks like.

>The disease was there before the physical illness took shape.

>We never really hate a person. We hate their disease.

>Disease destroys caring when the disease is non-physical, when neither

>partner have any way of viewing the sickness as a disease. When the

>disease becomes the person, when it is a non-physical infection, when the

>disease becomes indistinguishable from the person, when it invades every

>aspect of their personality, when it makes them be combative, stingy,

>vapid, or any of a thousand other hurtful ways, the loathing we feel for

>the disease - well, for us it is a loathing of the person.

>It's easy, or at least easier, for us to keep liking and loving loved ones

>when they become physically ill. Even when the physical illness enervates

>them so that they verbally or even physically assault us. Even when, as a

>result of their physical pain, they manipulate us emotionally.

>But when the disease is non-physical, our love is undermined and our

>alliance with them becomes vulnerable. Wonderful friendships and love

>affairs end because somebody had a flare-up of an illness that was dormant

>at the beginning. Or where the partners keep reinfecting each other.

>Disease destroys caring.

>Really it is our powerlessness in the face of the others diseased and

>destructive behaviors that we loathe, that destroys our caring.

>That is until we see through it. Until we see only a sick and suffering

>person. To see another's disease that clearly, I must have at least have

>begun to remove my own disease.

>When I love someone who is locked in disease, and I recognize and remove

>my own disease, understanding and forgiveness for him flowers in my heart.

>Suddenly I do truly love the person. And I see his disease for what it is.

>I also don't find the disease as horrible. I'm not even as repulsed by it.

>I have my power back.

>Now I feel like I can do something. "

[Guest guest]

Can you please send me the details of Mondays prayer meeting eg Who do I send a

skype request too and what time it starts?  Lyn has been soooooo helpful and

explained how to get Skype set-up! She is the skype guru!!!

Love  

>Bayard, I was reading Skill 10: Unravel the Pathological Matrix

><http://www.immunics.org/00open/prepare/preunr.htm>http://www.immunics.org/00op\

en/prepare/preunr.htm,

>

>and I really liked what you said....... can I post this on my facebook page?

>

> " Just as the eyes don't see themselves, we don't see our disease.

>

>Not until we've cleared up at least some of it. Any aspect of non-physical

>disease that remains in what I call " 100% state " is absolutely invisible

>to it's host. This is how what we know to be self-destructive behaviors in

>those we love can seem completely normal to them.

>People wonder why they come down with a physical illness just as some

>wonderful break in their life is happening.

>It's three days before their testimonial dinner, or they're getting

>married, and suddenly they became physically ill and can't understand why.

>They know there's a connection, they know that it's not just a coincidence

>that they contracted a physical illness right before something wonderful

>was scheduled. This is what disease looks like.

>The disease was there before the physical illness took shape.

>We never really hate a person. We hate their disease.

>Disease destroys caring when the disease is non-physical, when neither

>partner have any way of viewing the sickness as a disease. When the

>disease becomes the person, when it is a non-physical infection, when the

>disease becomes indistinguishable from the person, when it invades every

>aspect of their personality, when it makes them be combative, stingy,

>vapid, or any of a thousand other hurtful ways, the loathing we feel for

>the disease - well, for us it is a loathing of the person.

>It's easy, or at least easier, for us to keep liking and loving loved ones

>when they become physically ill. Even when the physical illness enervates

>them so that they verbally or even physically assault us. Even when, as a

>result of their physical pain, they manipulate us emotionally.

>But when the disease is non-physical, our love is undermined and our

>alliance with them becomes vulnerable. Wonderful friendships and love

>affairs end because somebody had a flare-up of an illness that was dormant

>at the beginning. Or where the partners keep reinfecting each other.

>Disease destroys caring.

>Really it is our powerlessness in the face of the others diseased and

>destructive behaviors that we loathe, that destroys our caring.

>That is until we see through it. Until we see only a sick and suffering

>person. To see another's disease that clearly, I must have at least have

>begun to remove my own disease.

>When I love someone who is locked in disease, and I recognize and remove

>my own disease, understanding and forgiveness for him flowers in my heart.

>Suddenly I do truly love the person. And I see his disease for what it is.

>I also don't find the disease as horrible. I'm not even as repulsed by it.

>I have my power back.

>Now I feel like I can do something. "

[Guest guest]

Al - Can you send the instrux for hooking up Monday nigh?

>Bayard, I was reading Skill 10: Unravel the Pathological Matrix

><http://www.immunics.org/00open/prepare/preunr.htm>http://www.immunics.org/00op\

en/prepare/preunr.htm,

>

>and I really liked what you said....... can I post this on my facebook page?

>

> " Just as the eyes don't see themselves, we don't see our disease.

>

>Not until we've cleared up at least some of it. Any aspect of non-physical

>disease that remains in what I call " 100% state " is absolutely invisible

>to it's host. This is how what we know to be self-destructive behaviors in

>those we love can seem completely normal to them.

>People wonder why they come down with a physical illness just as some

>wonderful break in their life is happening.

>It's three days before their testimonial dinner, or they're getting

>married, and suddenly they became physically ill and can't understand why.

>They know there's a connection, they know that it's not just a coincidence

>that they contracted a physical illness right before something wonderful

>was scheduled. This is what disease looks like.

>The disease was there before the physical illness took shape.

>We never really hate a person. We hate their disease.

>Disease destroys caring when the disease is non-physical, when neither

>partner have any way of viewing the sickness as a disease. When the

>disease becomes the person, when it is a non-physical infection, when the

>disease becomes indistinguishable from the person, when it invades every

>aspect of their personality, when it makes them be combative, stingy,

>vapid, or any of a thousand other hurtful ways, the loathing we feel for

>the disease - well, for us it is a loathing of the person.

>It's easy, or at least easier, for us to keep liking and loving loved ones

>when they become physically ill. Even when the physical illness enervates

>them so that they verbally or even physically assault us. Even when, as a

>result of their physical pain, they manipulate us emotionally.

>But when the disease is non-physical, our love is undermined and our

>alliance with them becomes vulnerable. Wonderful friendships and love

>affairs end because somebody had a flare-up of an illness that was dormant

>at the beginning. Or where the partners keep reinfecting each other.

>Disease destroys caring.

>Really it is our powerlessness in the face of the others diseased and

>destructive behaviors that we loathe, that destroys our caring.

>That is until we see through it. Until we see only a sick and suffering

>person. To see another's disease that clearly, I must have at least have

>begun to remove my own disease.

>When I love someone who is locked in disease, and I recognize and remove

>my own disease, understanding and forgiveness for him flowers in my heart.

>Suddenly I do truly love the person. And I see his disease for what it is.

>I also don't find the disease as horrible. I'm not even as repulsed by it.

>I have my power back.

>Now I feel like I can do something. "