Global warming

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Save that email from Forrest. You can send him a reponse stating that if he'd

like to see Sammy, you can arrange visitation through an organization where the

two parents don't even see each other. I'm sure there is one in your area. One

parent comes through the front and the other the the back. Visits are

supervised. That way you are encouraging a relationship, even though it's

pretty obvious what Forrest's response will be. Again, more documentation. If

things work well for you and Jim, then this type of documentation helps in step

parent adoptions.

I just don't get it when someone has a child and don't want to see them or get

to know them. That is so sad.

, Sammy's cyber aunt since 1995!

Global Warming

Thank you all for your reaffirming responses. I'm letting all of you be

angry for me, because I just can't afford the negativity. Actually when I

read my ex's response, my first response was a giggle. He's so clueless.

My second reaction was pity. For 5 years, his anger, his rage, his inability

to see beyond one dimensional self-loathing, has denied himself the joy of

Sammy. Sammy to me is magic. I get to wake up every morning with this cute

little face saying " wake up mommy, I love you and I'm Hungwy! " I wake up

with laughter, kisses, tickles, and singing! For those of you who have met

Sammy, you know exactly what I am talking about. But then again, this goes

for ALL our children. I thank the powers that be everyday that this blessing

is in my life. He can take all the money in the world away from us, and I'll

still have Sammy!

During our divorce, he blamed me for every ill in the world. Nothing was his

fault. When he would get violent, he would tell me that if I didnt get him

so mad, he wouldnt have to do what he did. Its a sick game and I never

bought into it. My friend Sylvia used to cheer me up by telling me that the

only thing I am to blame for is " GLOBAL WARMING " that of course IS my fault.

It got to a point that whenever he would rage, she would say those two words

to me, and I would laugh. So when you go outside and wonder why it's hot

out, remember, its my fault! (LOL).

What my ex doesnt know, is that I have been seeing this wonderful man now for

over a year. He loves Sammy so much, he calls Sammy " His Magical Child " and

wants to take on the roll of Daddy. Sammy loves Jim and well, My son has a

good life. Things are going great and for those who are going to be in WV

this summer. you'll meet Sammy's adopted surrogate Daddy!

HUGS and Thanks to everyone!

SuSAN

Mom to Sammy 8 DS and Expert on Hot Air!

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If and when they're in the calm clear place, they don't warm the globe.