Tactics for Agressive behavior?

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Hello -

Our son has who's approximately 34 mos old has lately become more

agressive - when he wants something his way and doesn't get it he

becomes extremely agressive and destructive.

Temper tantrums to the max! He will throw things, kick, scratch.

Sometimes, I know it's because he has limited verbal skills and

other times because he doesn't understand what is going on. But

other times it's simply because he doesn't want to do something, ie -

putting and leaving pull ups on.

Anyone have any ideas? It's getting so where it almost takes 2 of

us to hold him down to get pull ups and then tighter jean shorts on

him so he keeps his clothes on. We don't want to use meds if

possible, but if it continues we may not have a choice. He's on a

GFCF diet, and has done really well with that.

Thanks for any input.