Guest guest Posted July 10, 2002 Report Share Posted July 10, 2002 Hi So sorry for your loss. Take care and lots of hugs and prayers to you and your family. Thinking of you. hugs Kerry - Marcus (3) Dylan (17months) Calgary,AB >From: " brendaty " <ruby1@...> >Reply-Plagiocephaly ><Plagiocephaly > >Subject: Re: OT >Date: Mon, 8 Jul 2002 21:44:54 -0500 > >well i'm sorry to say but i do have some bad news..after having a horrible >experience with the ultrasound tech today..have not to nice words about >her....the dr called me back today at about 530 pm to tell me that there is >a sac that measures to about 6 weeks and there is a yolk but no fetus..she >was mortified as is me and ty...now we go back next week to see if my body >is gonna get rid of it or not cause me hormone levels are still going >up..if not, then either i can wait to see what happens or get a d & c..i >willl prolly do the d & c as then i don't have to worry when it will >happen..as i said, we are in shock and so is our family as everyone >knew...i can't believe this is happening and i can't help but feel 2 >things..its my fault and god is punishing me for what i did to tucker >(noggin) i know neither are true but as i said, i'm in shock..also, anyone >who has had d*c can you please, if you don't mind, tell me a little about >this..where is it done..how long does it take, does it hurt, how long are >you out..etc..thanks again.. > >brenda >mom of tucker > OT > > > Hey > I am going crazy with anticipation here! I want to know how your > ultrasound went, and how many are in there! Let us know when you get > a chance! > > Niki > Kaylie & Danny (STAR grads) > Phila., PA > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 thank you so much for sharing your story with me..as strange as it sounds, it does help to know that other people have had this happen and have survived..thank you again.. brenda mom of tucker Quoting niki_jay175 <niki_jay175@...>: > > > > > , > > I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but please don't blame yourself > > for this. I'm not a very religious person, but I know that God is > > not punishing you...He has no reason to! You have been and are an > > excellent mommy to Tucker! > > > > I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks a few years before my oldest was > > born. I didn't need a D & C, so I really can't tell you what to expect > > with that. But I do have a shoulder for you to lean on, and if there > > is anything I can ever do, don't hesitate to ask! > > > > Take it easy , and give yourself plenty of time to grieve and > > heal. You, Ty and Tucker are in my thoughts and I'm sending you all > > ((((((HUGS)))))) > > > > Niki > > > > > > > > > well i'm sorry to say but i do have some bad news..after having a > > horrible experience with the ultrasound tech today..have not to nice > > words about her....the dr called me back today at about 530 pm to > > tell me that there is a sac that measures to about 6 weeks and there > > is a yolk but no fetus..she was mortified as is me and ty...now we go > > back next week to see if my body is gonna get rid of it or not cause > > me hormone levels are still going up..if not, then either i can wait > > to see what happens or get a d & c..i willl prolly do the d & c as then > > i don't have to worry when it will happen..as i said, we are in shock > > and so is our family as everyone knew...i can't believe this is > > happening and i can't help but feel 2 things..its my fault and god is > > punishing me for what i did to tucker (noggin) i know neither are > > true but as i said, i'm in shock..also, anyone who has had d*c can > > you please, if you don't mind, tell me a little about this..where is > > it done..how long does it take, does it hurt, how long are you > > out..etc..thanks again.. > > > > > > brenda > > > mom of tucker > > > OT > > > > > > > > > Hey > > > I am going crazy with anticipation here! I want to know how your > > > ultrasound went, and how many are in there! Let us know when you > > get > > > a chance! > > > > > > Niki > > > Kaylie & Danny (STAR grads) > > > Phila., PA > > > > > > > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 the dx the dr gave me was a blighted ovum..not sure if that is the same thing or not..haven't wanted to do to much research on this yet.. brenda mom of tucker Quoting Gail <momofivftwins@...>: > , > I think it is called a molar pregnancy or hydatidiform mole. You might look > at this link... > > http://www.obgyn.net/women/articles/molarpreg_dah.htm > > I also found this... > When fertilizaton occurs and there is no genetic information within the egg > cell (so called " empty egg " ), the resulting condition is known as a complete > molar pregnancy. Rapid cell production occurs only within the cells which > form the placenta and there is high production of the placental hormone human > chorionic gonadoptropin (hCG). Such high levels of hCG account for the > positive pregnancy test and the extreme nausea. > > There is also some good information on the March of Dimes website... > http://www.modimes.org/HealthLibrary/334_591.htm > > I'm sorry you are going through this. I wish I could offer some words of > advice for you, but I don't know what to say. Hang in there. We're all > thinking about you and hoping for the best. > > Gail, Sam and Sara's mom, DOC grads > > Re: OT > > > do you know what its called, i'd like to do some research but am not > getting anywhere.. > > ------------------------------------------------- This mail was sent from Global Webmail Visit http://www.gdinet.com to find out more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 i thought that was beautiful also.. brenda mom of tucker Quoting marcisch@...: > > > > > In a message dated 7/8/02 11:08:58 PM Central Daylight Time, hags1@... > > writes: > > > > << I always believe that she was the > > baby with me before and she just wasn't ready to be with us yet but > > that she came back to us >> > > > > I like this train of thought. It's beautiful! > > > > Marci > > > > > > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 i am so sorry to hear you had the same experience with a tech..thank you also for your story..it has helped.. brenda mom of tucker Quoting gracesmom101 <hags1@...>: > > > > > ~ First of all I just wanted to say how sorry I am. And I just > > wanted to share that I had a miscarriage before I got pregnant with > > Grace. It was very hard because we were so ready to have a baby. I > > too had a bad ultrasound tech who was not very kind to me when she > > said there was no heartbeat. I had to go to the emergency room > > because I was bleeding so they recommended a D & C and said they could > > do it that day.So my D & C was done at the hospital in the ambulatory > > surgical center. I believe it took less than 30 minutes and I was > > out cold so I did not feel anything. I was in recovery for about an > > hour after and then moved to the post op room until I felt well > > enough to go home. I had some cramping for I think a week after that > > was normal. Mostly it was just the emotions that were the hardest. > > The doctor explained that because I had all of those hormones in me > > from being pregnant that my body would go on a rollercoaster ride > > hormonally and it was normal to feel sad. I too felt like I had done > > something wrong or that I had failed. It was emotionally hard for > > about three weeks but then things got better. And because I was ready > > to try again, once my cycle was back on track we started trying and I > > was able to get pregnant with Grace.I always believe that she was the > > baby with me before and she just wasn't ready to be with us yet but > > that she came back to us My thoughts are with you and the family. > > I know how hard it is and if you need any moral support let me know > > if I can help > > and Grace > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 thank you so much for those kind words..please give nicholas a big hug right back...and tell him sorry so late!! brenda mom of tucker Quoting rella1234@...: > > > > > , > > I'm so sorry to hear of your bad news- I hope that you can put it behind you > > > and look forward to creating beautiful babies in the future with Ty. God is > > > not punishing you for Tucker's noggin! Your a great mom for stepping up to > > the plate and getting action for your son! There are too many truly worse > > mothers out there that God needs to work on! Take time to grieve and keep > > your chin up. A big hug from my little to you! > > > > ' Mom > > > > > > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 thank you for your concern and believe you me,,tucker has had lotsa kisses..even sleeping with me and dad in the big bed....i prolly started a problem there!! brenda mom of tucker Quoting debbieandabby <dj2kirby@...>: > > > > > : > > Oh, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My sister had the same > > miscarriage as you are describing :'(. She did have a d & c done a > > week or 2 after she found out. It was an in-out procedure...she > > wasn't laid up that long at all. She was also devastated and had a > > very difficult time with it all. > > Hugs to you - also don't blame yourself or think of it as a > > punishment from God. Deep down, you know it was neither. > > Go give Tucker a big ole hug & extra cuddles today. He is your gift > > from God!!!!! > > Hang in there. > > Debbie Abby's mom > > MI > > > > > > > > > well i'm sorry to say but i do have some bad news..after having a > > > horrible experience with the ultrasound tech today..have not to > > nice > > > words about her....the dr called me back today at about 530 pm to > > > tell me that there is a sac that measures to about 6 weeks and > > there > > > is a yolk but no fetus..she was mortified as is me and ty...now we > > go > > > back next week to see if my body is gonna get rid of it or not > > cause > > > me hormone levels are still going up..if not, then either i can > > wait > > > to see what happens or get a d & c..i willl prolly do the d & c as > > then > > > i don't have to worry when it will happen..as i said, we are in > > shock > > > and so is our family as everyone knew...i can't believe this is > > > happening and i can't help but feel 2 things..its my fault and god > > is > > > punishing me for what i did to tucker (noggin) i know neither are > > > true but as i said, i'm in shock..also, anyone who has had d*c can > > > you please, if you don't mind, tell me a little about this..where > > is > > > it done..how long does it take, does it hurt, how long are you > > > out..etc..thanks again.. > > > > > > > > brenda > > > > mom of tucker > > > > OT > > > > > > > > > > > > Hey > > > > I am going crazy with anticipation here! I want to know how > > your > > > > ultrasound went, and how many are in there! Let us know when > > you > > > get > > > > a chance! > > > > > > > > Niki > > > > Kaylie & Danny (STAR grads) > > > > Phila., PA > > > > > > > > > > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2002 Report Share Posted July 24, 2002 thank you for your reply..its nice to know that eveyone is pulling for us.. brenda mom of tucker OT Hey I am going crazy with anticipation here! I want to know how your ultrasound went, and how many are in there! Let us know when you get a chance!NikiKaylie & Danny (STAR grads)Phila., PAFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2002 Report Share Posted July 24, 2002 thank you for your story and your encouraging words..also sorry to hear about your previouse d & e and d*c brenda mom of tucker Re: OT , God is not punishing you!!! Please do not even think that!!!! Have faith in God for giving you your precious Tucker. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I completely understand how you feel. I was in your shoes - it will be 3 years on July 15th that I had my miscarriage and 3 years on July 16th that I had the D & E (same as D & C) done. What is happening to you is exactly what happened to me to a "T". My OB gave me the option for the D & E or to wait and pass the fetus on my own, which could have taken a few days, and more than likely I would end up at the ER anyway. I opted for the D & E, rather than try and pass the fetus by myself. I went in the hosp. the day after they told me I miscarried. Was put under, had the D & E and was back at home that afternoon. I experienced some cramping and heavy bleeding for the next day or so. I was told to stay off my feet for about a week (no steps, heavy lifting, etc.). But no other complications. I also had a D & C (6 years ago), for some abnormal (extremely heavy) bleeding and severe cramping. It was determined to be caused from hormones. I had this done as an emergency situation, because of the bleeding, in the dr's. office, with NO anesthesia. They do not normally do a D & C unless they put you under -- needless to say it was awful!! If you have to have one -- it will be scheduled and you will be put under. Take care and I will be thinking of you. AnnMarie (mom to - 17 mos.) For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2002 Report Share Posted July 24, 2002 thank you for your reply..that helps me to know that you can go on and have more..me and dh are trying to keep the children close..only have 1 so far.. brenda mom of tucker OT Hey I am going crazy with anticipation here! I want to know how your ultrasound went, and how many are in there! Let us know when you get a chance!NikiKaylie & Danny (STAR grads)Phila., PAFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2002 Report Share Posted July 24, 2002 thank you.. brenda mom of tucker OT>>> Hey > I am going crazy with anticipation here! I want to know how your> ultrasound went, and how many are in there! Let us know when you get> a chance!>> Niki> Kaylie & Danny (STAR grads)> Phila., PA>>> For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 I have never tried pheasant meat either but my dh and fil say it tastes like chicken but is much richer. Mixed in with stew it's probably very tasty. Let me know what it's like!!! Taryn ot hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol brendaFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 hmmm..., I think I'm going to have to pass on that one! It's a stretch for me to even eat venison. I like it, but I can never get that poor little deer face out of my mind! Kellie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 , We should definitely get together. We had a big dove feast on Sunday. I definitely like dove better than pheasant. We put a slice of pineapple and a slice of jalepeno pepper inside, wrap it in bacon, marinate it in teriyaki and then cook them on the grill. It's pretty good. Don't want to eat it everyday, though. Gail ot hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol brendaFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 YUCK-sorry I will have to pass on that one- I thought rabbit and squirrel stew were bad enough! I rec Lots and lots of hot sauce! beck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 yuck again! beck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 That is a lot more info than I needed! I'm sure the veggies on this group don't want to hear about this! > hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol > > brenda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2002 Report Share Posted September 28, 2002 where do you live again..dh is upset cause we can't hunt dove here..he would love to try it tho..i haven't mustered up the courage to try the pheasent tho!! brenda ot hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol brendaFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2002 Report Share Posted September 28, 2002 sorry all you vegies.. brenda Re: ot That is a lot more info than I needed! I'm sure the veggies on this group don't want to hear about this!> hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol> > brendaFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2002 Report Share Posted September 28, 2002 Please stop posting about this! It is disgusting. > where do you live again..dh is upset cause we can't hunt dove here..he would love to try it tho..i haven't mustered up the courage to try the pheasent tho!! > > brenda > ot > > > hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol > > brenda > > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2002 Report Share Posted September 30, 2002 sorry ot> > > hey all..just thought i'd be silly...dh when hunting and got 4 pheasent so now he is making pheasent stew..anyone wanna come over..i've never had it before and am a little afraid!!! support would be appreciated..lol> > brenda> > > For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2002 Report Share Posted September 30, 2002 , I live just north of Dallas. Where are you again? Gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2002 Report Share Posted September 30, 2002 i'm in wi... Re: ot , I live just north of Dallas. Where are you again? GailFor more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 - >Except for those of us on digest, who are forced to page down and page down >and page down, digest after digest, looking for good stuff... Well, you know, digest users are second-class citizens anyway... <G> - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 ,<<bTW, I've been adding an " OT " modifier to these posts so that others can filter this thread out>>. Except for those of us on digest, who are forced to page down and page down and page down, digest after digest, looking for good stuff... Just a thought to keep in mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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