help needed

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You are in my prayers. Hope it gets sorted out soooon.

Hi If anybody is reading I am scared I have been hurting in my left side for months it felt like a big knot by my bellybutton and now I am passing tar stools and bright red blood out of both I know I should go to the doc's but my husband goes into the hospital monday. So if you have any ideas please let me know. Thanks LMay

[Guest guest]

Most attorneys will not charge you for a consultation, . You may even

find one who will take the case *pro bono*. It's money that belongs to

and he is entitled to. So, fight for it. Good luck and keep us posted.

granny

On Sun, Jan 17, 2010 at 7:22 PM, Dusterhoft <melanie@...>wrote:

>

>

> Some of you have seen my story on facebook but I am seeing if anyone here

> is able to help me out. I currently live in Anoka County in Minnesota.

>

> My son's () biological father is taking me to court to terminate his

> parental rights. My husband plays daddy BUT for financial reasons I don't

> want to adopt (the free waiver that is on would cost us an

> arm and a leg and we just don't have that in our budget to do). So my thing

> is should I be worried or not? Would a judge do this if there is no father

> willing to adopt ? I am thinking that 's biological father is doing

> this to get out of paying child support, he owes me close to $13,000. I've

> already done the whole contempt of court hearings, in order for his

> biological father to stay out of jail he has to pay me half of my monthly

> support (which doesn't even cover an eighth of 's expenses). I have

> full/sole/legal/physical custody of his bio father has no say in

> anything - he never showed up to any court hearings except the last hearing

> (if he didn't show up it would have been an automatic go to jail thing). I

> got so stressed out the last time I saw the idiot, he told me that my

> husband is no good because he won't adopt . To be honest hubby and I

> have a rocky marriage and if we were to divorce I would feel so bad that

> would have to pay for lifelong child support for if he were to

> adopt I just don't think that is fair. All I know is that I am tired of

> finding a babysitter to go to these pointless court hearings when I win

> every single one, but for some reason I am afraid of this one.

>

> To make a long story short, Mike ('s biological father) and I met, he

> was the typical bad boy that my father hated which made me want him even

> more (at that time my dad and I had a bad relationship). I got pregnant with

> told Mike (even though in his statement he said that I never told him),

> I didn't do any of the screenings because there was nothing in the family

> history of chromosome abnormalities. Found out it was a boy told Mike and he

> said that he would help me out with everything. Right after I had is

> when the pediatrician told me that he suspected that had Down syndrome.

> I kept that to myself until I found out the final results of the tests

> because he looked just like my sister did when she was a baby. Two weeks

> after was born I got the heartbreaking news that has Down

> syndrome. I brought to see Mike (still haven't told him) the visit went

> wonderfully. Couple of days later I told Mike that has Down syndrome,

> he proceeded to tell me that it was my fault because he already had a

> daughter that was perfectly normal, well I told him where to go and how fast

> to get there and that was the last time I talked to him (the next time I

> talked with him was 4 years later when the state started going after him for

> the waiver that is on). February 2005 after I found out that I was

> pregnant with twins I decided to finally go after Mike for child support. I

> had been doing fine when I only had to support but with two babies on

> the way I couldn't stretch that check that much farther (daycare people like

> to screw people over when they have a child with special needs coming into

> their daycare setting). Well since I started this whole process almost 5

> years ago as of December 15ht, 2009 Mike owed me $12,580. The support that

> Mike is supposed to be paying only covers half of a week of support that

> needs.

>

> Every time I try calling on of the free aids offices all the phone does is

> ring and ring and ring.

>

> So if anyone out there has any words of encouragement, advice. I'm just so

> stressed out about this one I only have 14 days until the court hearing. I

> can't afford an actually great family law attorney and unfortunately my

> cousin who is an attorney doesn't handle family law so he can't help me out.

>

> Thanks for listening to me rant and rave I just don't know where to go!

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I'd be surprised if a judge would grant his petition to TPR. He basically

will be telling the court he no longer wants to be responsible for someone

he IS responsible for. It's your child's right to have a parent support

them. I wouldn't worry - he's going to look like a fool.

Help Needed

> Some of you have seen my story on facebook but I am seeing if anyone here

> is able to help me out. I currently live in Anoka County in Minnesota.

>

> My son's () biological father is taking me to court to terminate his

> parental rights. My husband plays daddy BUT for financial reasons I don't

> want to adopt (the free waiver that is on would cost us an

> arm and a leg and we just don't have that in our budget to do). So my

> thing is should I be worried or not? Would a judge do this if there is no

> father willing to adopt ? I am thinking that 's biological father

> is doing this to get out of paying child support, he owes me close to

> $13,000. I've already done the whole contempt of court hearings, in order

> for his biological father to stay out of jail he has to pay me half of my

> monthly support (which doesn't even cover an eighth of 's expenses). I

> have full/sole/legal/physical custody of his bio father has no say in

> anything - he never showed up to any court hearings except the last

> hearing (if he didn't show up it would have been an automatic go to jail

> thing). I got so stressed out the last time I saw the idiot, he told me

> that my husband is no good because he won't adopt . To be honest hubby

> and I have a rocky marriage and if we were to divorce I would feel so bad

> that would have to pay for lifelong child support for if he were

> to adopt I just don't think that is fair. All I know is that I am

> tired of finding a babysitter to go to these pointless court hearings when

> I win every single one, but for some reason I am afraid of this one.

>

> To make a long story short, Mike ('s biological father) and I met, he

> was the typical bad boy that my father hated which made me want him even

> more (at that time my dad and I had a bad relationship). I got pregnant

> with told Mike (even though in his statement he said that I never

> told him), I didn't do any of the screenings because there was nothing in

> the family history of chromosome abnormalities. Found out it was a boy

> told Mike and he said that he would help me out with everything. Right

> after I had is when the pediatrician told me that he suspected that

> had Down syndrome. I kept that to myself until I found out the final

> results of the tests because he looked just like my sister did when she

> was a baby. Two weeks after was born I got the heartbreaking news

> that has Down syndrome. I brought to see Mike (still haven't

> told him) the visit went wonderfully. Couple of days later I told Mike

> that has Down syndrome, he proceeded to tell me that it was my fault

> because he already had a daughter that was perfectly normal, well I told

> him where to go and how fast to get there and that was the last time I

> talked to him (the next time I talked with him was 4 years later when the

> state started going after him for the waiver that is on). February

> 2005 after I found out that I was pregnant with twins I decided to finally

> go after Mike for child support. I had been doing fine when I only had to

> support but with two babies on the way I couldn't stretch that check

> that much farther (daycare people like to screw people over when they have

> a child with special needs coming into their daycare setting). Well since

> I started this whole process almost 5 years ago as of December 15ht, 2009

> Mike owed me $12,580. The support that Mike is supposed to be paying only

> covers half of a week of support that needs.

>

> Every time I try calling on of the free aids offices all the phone does is

> ring and ring and ring.

>

> So if anyone out there has any words of encouragement, advice. I'm just so

> stressed out about this one I only have 14 days until the court hearing. I

> can't afford an actually great family law attorney and unfortunately my

> cousin who is an attorney doesn't handle family law so he can't help me

> out.

>

> Thanks for listening to me rant and rave I just don't know where to go!

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

ditto

From: CSBC <cindysue@...>

Subject: Re: Help Needed

" Dusterhoft " <melanie@...>,

Date: Monday, January 18, 2010, 7:24 AM

 

I'd be surprised if a judge would grant his petition to TPR. He basically

will be telling the court he no longer wants to be responsible for someone

he IS responsible for. It's your child's right to have a parent support

them. I wouldn't worry - he's going to look like a fool.

Help Needed

> Some of you have seen my story on facebook but I am seeing if anyone here

> is able to help me out. I currently live in Anoka County in Minnesota..

>

> My son's () biological father is taking me to court to terminate his

> parental rights. My husband plays daddy BUT for financial reasons I don't

> want to adopt (the free waiver that is on would cost us an

> arm and a leg and we just don't have that in our budget to do). So my

> thing is should I be worried or not? Would a judge do this if there is no

> father willing to adopt ? I am thinking that 's biological father

> is doing this to get out of paying child support, he owes me close to

> $13,000. I've already done the whole contempt of court hearings, in order

> for his biological father to stay out of jail he has to pay me half of my

> monthly support (which doesn't even cover an eighth of 's expenses). I

> have full/sole/legal/ physical custody of his bio father has no say in

> anything - he never showed up to any court hearings except the last

> hearing (if he didn't show up it would have been an automatic go to jail

> thing). I got so stressed out the last time I saw the idiot, he told me

> that my husband is no good because he won't adopt . To be honest hubby

> and I have a rocky marriage and if we were to divorce I would feel so bad

> that would have to pay for lifelong child support for if he were

> to adopt I just don't think that is fair. All I know is that I am

> tired of finding a babysitter to go to these pointless court hearings when

> I win every single one, but for some reason I am afraid of this one.

>

> To make a long story short, Mike ('s biological father) and I met, he

> was the typical bad boy that my father hated which made me want him even

> more (at that time my dad and I had a bad relationship) . I got pregnant

> with told Mike (even though in his statement he said that I never

> told him), I didn't do any of the screenings because there was nothing in

> the family history of chromosome abnormalities. Found out it was a boy

> told Mike and he said that he would help me out with everything. Right

> after I had is when the pediatrician told me that he suspected that

> had Down syndrome. I kept that to myself until I found out the final

> results of the tests because he looked just like my sister did when she

> was a baby. Two weeks after was born I got the heartbreaking news

> that has Down syndrome. I brought to see Mike (still haven't

> told him) the visit went wonderfully. Couple of days later I told Mike

> that has Down syndrome, he proceeded to tell me that it was my fault

> because he already had a daughter that was perfectly normal, well I told

> him where to go and how fast to get there and that was the last time I

> talked to him (the next time I talked with him was 4 years later when the

> state started going after him for the waiver that is on). February

> 2005 after I found out that I was pregnant with twins I decided to finally

> go after Mike for child support. I had been doing fine when I only had to

> support but with two babies on the way I couldn't stretch that check

> that much farther (daycare people like to screw people over when they have

> a child with special needs coming into their daycare setting). Well since

> I started this whole process almost 5 years ago as of December 15ht, 2009

> Mike owed me $12,580. The support that Mike is supposed to be paying only

> covers half of a week of support that needs.

>

> Every time I try calling on of the free aids offices all the phone does is

> ring and ring and ring.

>

> So if anyone out there has any words of encouragement, advice. I'm just so

> stressed out about this one I only have 14 days until the court hearing. I

> can't afford an actually great family law attorney and unfortunately my

> cousin who is an attorney doesn't handle family law so he can't help me

> out.

>

> Thanks for listening to me rant and rave I just don't know where to go!

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

there is a chair which is the one that my son uses for postural and other sensory issues that there is no chance of him doing that because it is a Z shape and with the right parts can last long time my son is 10 they are expensive new but you can buy them second hand on ebay the name of the chair and you probably already heard of it is Stokke Tripp Trapp but you also have to think as an investment for the future especially if your child has sensory problems like mine does.

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Hi

Does anyone have any idea/suggestion or gadget i could buy for my son, he sits in a toddlers seat that fits into a dining chair, he keeps pushing his hands against the table which makes the chair tip back (on two legs) last night he pushed himself too far and the chair with him in it toppled backwards, resulting in him hitting his head and elbows on the floor.

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We faced the same problem as well when our son was small. In the end we had to buy a folding high chair that he couldn't topple over. You might have to invest in one as well.Cheers,

Adam Diliphttp://www.imaan.bizOn 10 March 2010 08:58, michelle lacey <michelle0471@...> wrote:

 

Hi

 

Does anyone have any idea/suggestion or gadget i could buy for my son, he sits in a toddlers seat that fits into a dining chair, he keeps pushing his hands against the table which makes the chair tip back (on two legs) last night he pushed himself too far and the chair with him in it toppled backwards, resulting in him hitting his head and elbows on the floor.

 

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Thank you it sounds exactly what i am looking for.

Thanks agin

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Autism Treatment From: cmdsdias@...Date: Wed, 10 Mar 2010 07:21:38 -0500Subject: Re: HELP NEEDED

there is a chair which is the one that my son uses for postural and other sensory issues that there is no chance of him doing that because it is a Z shape and with the right parts can last long time my son is 10 they are expensive new but you can buy them second hand on ebay the name of the chair and you probably already heard of it is Stokke Tripp Trapp but you also have to think as an investment for the future especially if your child has sensory problems like mine does.

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[Guest guest]

It sounds like a very nice, heartfelt gift... you put my Border's gift

cards to shame :-) Really, I think that personal letter telling her how

much she has impacted your lives will mean more to her than any material

gift. But, if you want to do more, since she's pregnant, if you wanted

to add something else, maybe a pampering type item or massage? Have you

given her the starfish poem yet? That's always nice, printed onto nice

paper, or if you want to get fancy, you could glue on a dried starfish

and frame in a simple acrylic shadow-box type frame? I think what you

already have is wonderful, delivered with a big HUG.

Good luck tomorrow.... I picked the baby up from her last day of

elementary school today, and it was quite sad to think I'm finished with

a school we've been at for so many years.

, mom to (14), (12 DS), and Sammy (10)

On 6/8/2010 5:31 PM, Dusterhoft wrote:

>

> What do you do for a person who has made a HUGE impact in your life and

> tomorrow is it? Tomorrow is 's last day as an elementary student yes I

> am allowing him to go to middle school. This is where it gets funny, his

> teacher of 5 years told me last week that in November she is going to have

> twins and she is going to join my multiples group. So I already bought her

> a book Chicken Soup for the Soul teachers edition and a beautiful

> basket of

> flowers and tonight with some liquid encouragement (I'm on my second glass

> of wine already about halfway through the 2nd glass) a goodbye but Welcome

> letter I read it to my mom and she cried. I included how much she has

> helped me through my trip to Holland (I included a link in case she has

> never read the poem) and I told her that we are bonded sisters but unlike

> most of my bonded sisters I do have a face to the username. Once I

> find out

> what she is having I'm going to have a friend design her a beautiful

> bracelet to include her current kids with her future kids.

>

> I just don't know more what to do, what to say? She got a sweet lap

> desk with all of his absolute favorites and the card she made was so

> -

> a picture of a blondie with headphones and his iTouch.

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

send us a copy of your letter...we would love to read it!  That will be her

most prized gift.   It is the words from your heart that count!  I just spent

a week and a half writing teacher and therapist letters because they mean so

much.

 

Loree

Help needed

  What do you do for a person who has made a HUGE impact in your life and

tomorrow is it? Tomorrow is 's last day as an elementary student yes I

am allowing him to go to middle school. This is where it gets funny, his

teacher of 5 years told me last week that in November she is going to have

twins and she is going to join my multiples group. So I already bought her

a book Chicken Soup for the Soul teachers edition and a beautiful basket of

flowers and tonight with some liquid encouragement (I'm on my second glass

of wine already about halfway through the 2nd glass) a goodbye but Welcome

letter I read it to my mom and she cried. I included how much she has

helped me through my trip to Holland (I included a link in case she has

never read the poem) and I told her that we are bonded sisters but unlike

most of my bonded sisters I do have a face to the username. Once I find out

what she is having I'm going to have a friend design her a beautiful

bracelet to include her current kids with her future kids.

I just don't know more what to do, what to say? She got a sweet lap

desk with all of his absolute favorites and the card she made was so -

a picture of a blondie with headphones and his iTouch.

[Guest guest]

Here is a copy of the letter that I wrote her, yes I admit to it I had

liquid encouragement, it was a very emotional night.

Billie-

Geez I knew I was going to be doing this all year but like

normal I have been putting it off, but last week you gave me the best news,

knowing that this is not a goodbye at all. Knowing that you are probably

going to be joining the same MOMs (Mothers Of Multiples) group which if you

join right now till the end of August it is a free membership with once a

month moms support group, which since I am on the membership committee I

will probably be at them (as long as it works out with hubby’s schedule). If

you need any help at all just let me know, the pregnancy with the girls was

filled with plenty of complications, from already being labeled high risk

because of , to the girls being identical the doctors worrying about

twin to twin transfusion, borderline gestational diabetes, high blood

pressure, severe edema, pre-term labor (which the doctors stopped 5 times,

yes 5 times it was stopped), partial bed rest, full time bed rest, protein

spilling into the urine, and finally pre-eclampsia where I was still on bed

rest for 24 hours after I delivered the girls at 34 weeks 3 days gestation

and Abbey was born 6 pounds 1 ounce, 7 minutes later a was 6 pounds 7

ounces and they were both 19 inches long and the funniest thing I remember

about the delivery part of it was the doctor saying, “Ummmm can you repeat

that?”, all because the girls came out full term size yet they were

premature, then the scary part happened. I delivered a double placenta and

my blood pressure went from 150/100 to the lowest number I heard a 24, then

waking up and coming to my complete senses a couple days later with all the

sticky things around where my heart is, and the OB telling me, “man you gave

us a tad bit of a scare”. 2 units of blood and a 5 day hospital stay they

finally let me go home and yes I did get to bring the girls home with me!!

Anyways back to the main guy, and off of my complicated

pregnancy. I just don’t know how to say thanks for everything that you have

done for , through all the phone calls, visits to school, IEP meetings,

mediation, trips to the different middle schools, to all the different

diagnoses that have come up in the past 5 years, to the letters that you

have written up for me (and will hopefully write me yet one more come fall

time to help me get into the nursing program, so far I’m pulling the grades,

now I am just going to need the letters of recommendation). Oh and yes your

letter did help get approved for a special needs stroller!! I’m super

excited. Just so you know and you can let Diane, Cheryl and Sam knows that

I am not going anywhere; the girls start Kindergarten there in the fall full

time. I know the visits, calls and emails won’t be as frequent. Just so

you know I will be turning to you for other advice, and I hope you turn to

me for it as well. I don’t know yet who will be the case manager(s) for the

girls next year – yes they have IEPs for speech delay and social problems

(plus they are also showing some of the same signs of sensory problems that

has I don’t remember what they were – I’m enjoying a fine glass of wine

right now it’s making it easier for me to write this up).

For contact use either .dusterhoft@... or

dust0043@... for email, I closed the @... to save a few

bucks for the year. loves his gifts, and can you imagine that he has

already opened them up? Does it surprise you? Not me once I saw them. As

the famous poem by Perl Kingsley Welcome to Holland (if you have never

read it check it out www.our-kids.org/Archives/Holland.html) you have helped

with my trip here to Holland, you have helped me check out different sites

and ventures (man this ethics class has me thinking quite differently), you

have made my trip so far to Holland more enjoyable than I would have ever

thought. You made my eyes open to the different options and different

aspects. I love this poem, just like the other 2 that I sent you.

So for now it is a goodbye but a short lived one. We are in

some ways bonded sisters but unlike the bonded sisters I don’t have to reach

out to find a face to the username; I have met the person in real life. So

from my family to yours enjoy your summer, I know the kids will enjoy theirs

all 3 are involved in some way for ’s wedding gets to help walk

down the aisle and the girls of course are the flower girls and yes I

am a bridesmaid the only person in the house that doesn’t have a role in the

wedding is my husband but he is playing an important role as my fashion

consultant, he is picking out my shoes for the wedding I can’t wait to see

what he picks out for me, over the past year he has bought me a bunch of

stuff off of eBay that 1. Is super cute, 2. Fits me perfectly, and 3. Is so

my style. As soon as I have pictures of everything I will send you pictures

(I’m about due for a refill here on my wine hehehehehehe).

If you are ever on Facebook I’m always on there (actually it

goes right to my blackberry, hubby told me last night that he is going to

take it away from me because it is always vibrating, well it has my main

email address now what else am I supposed to do? I have it programmed to

turn off at 11pm and turn back on at 6:15am so it’s not going off in the

middle of the night!! ) the email to find me on there is the Gmail address.

My home address (just in case someone throws you a baby shower, you better

invites me I love a good party) is 15599 Hedgehog St NW, Ramsey, MN 55303. You

have my cell memorized so I don’t have to give you that (I’ve had that phone

number since 2002 it’s not going to change at all).

If you ever need help watching those 2 little babies just

let me know I don’t know what my spring (Jan-May) schedule is going to be

until November, but if you need me I’m close by to the school (you can

Google or map quest it, I can make it in 8 minutes) and I don’t charge the

going rates either (when I was helping out a friend with his 3 kids, one

school age, one preschool and one toddler I was charging him $100 a week and

that also included transporting the school age child to school over 30

minutes away). Just let me know I’m always willing to help out (plus when I

do start the nursing program I’m doing it at night because I can’t do the

early morning clinicals during the week, on the weekend is a different

story), my kitchen is completely kid proof (I have proofed it I have so

child proofed it sometimes I forget where the magnet is and I can’t get into

the cabinets!!).

So like I said before yes this is a goodbye but it is also a

big hug and Welcome to that special club, the club of helping raise and

shape , and the club of being a mother of multiples! Thank you for

everything that you have done these past 5 years I don’t know what I would

have done without you being there (Ethics is starting to call me with 44

pages of reading and 7 meditation readings and my glass of wine is empty

dang it I tell you, I would have you come over and enjoy a bottle of wine

with me but your pregnant and can’t I think I’m going to refill!!!! Lol).

Dusterhoft

P.S. You better let me know what you are having as soon as you know so I

can have your present made (one of the ladies in the multiples group is a

jewelry designer!!) Oh and I didn’t know that this was going to be a page

and a half almost 2 pages. I ended up having to go through 2 ½ glasses of

wine to write this and a cry out to my husband, he reassured me that yes I

will see you again (sorry if this is not making sense I’m kinda

drunk….hehehehhehehe the only way I could make it through this whole process

without losing my mind – I don’t see my therapist for another week and a

half).

On Wed, Jun 9, 2010 at 6:41 AM, <loree5@...> wrote:

> send us a copy of your letter...we would love to read it! That will be her

> most prized gift. It is the words from your heart that count! I just

> spent a week and a half writing teacher and therapist letters because they

> mean so much.

>

> Loree

>

>

> Help needed

>

>

> What do you do for a person who has made a HUGE impact in your life and

> tomorrow is it? Tomorrow is 's last day as an elementary student yes I

> am allowing him to go to middle school. This is where it gets funny, his

> teacher of 5 years told me last week that in November she is going to have

> twins and she is going to join my multiples group. So I already bought her

> a book Chicken Soup for the Soul teachers edition and a beautiful basket of

> flowers and tonight with some liquid encouragement (I'm on my second glass

> of wine already about halfway through the 2nd glass) a goodbye but Welcome

> letter I read it to my mom and she cried. I included how much she has

> helped me through my trip to Holland (I included a link in case she has

> never read the poem) and I told her that we are bonded sisters but unlike

> most of my bonded sisters I do have a face to the username. Once I find out

> what she is having I'm going to have a friend design her a beautiful

> bracelet to include her current kids with her future kids.

>

> I just don't know more what to do, what to say? She got a sweet lap

> desk with all of his absolute favorites and the card she made was so -

> a picture of a blondie with headphones and his iTouch.

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Take the connecting tube with u and try to know the diameter of the opening in

the compressor and buy The Connection. Piece from. B & Q

On Tue Jul 20th, 2010 3:49 PM EDT priya tamboli wrote:

>Dear all,

> Can someone help me. I have a bambi compressor and dental unit.

>I need a connector to connect it. Do anyone have any idea from where to get

>it. I ordered it from Ebay but it does not fit.Please help me. Thanks.

[Guest guest]

Why does Aspergers have anything to do with it? What about CHOP? It's over the ricer but they have a great program for AS and tourette Syndrome. Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerryFrom: "xyxx" <roseemerald66@...>Sender: Autism and Aspergers Treatment Date: Wed, 13 Apr 2011 17:55:07 -0000<Autism and Aspergers Treatment >Reply Autism and Aspergers Treatment Subject: help needed Child age 12 w/ Aspergers and depression. He has been on numerous meds, to no avail, and is seeing counselor as well. The psychiatrist reccomends intensive out patient therapy. So far 2 hospitals accepting children say they can not take him , because of his Aspergers. Is there anyone in the NJ area, who knows of any facilities? Thank You.

[Guest guest]

I would also look into CHOP. I think that is your best bet!

>

> Why does Aspergers have anything to do with it? What about CHOP? It's over

the ricer but they have a great program for AS and tourette Syndrome.

> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

>

> help needed

>

> Child age 12 w/ Aspergers and depression. He has been on numerous meds, to no

avail, and is seeing counselor as well. The psychiatrist reccomends intensive

out patient therapy. So far 2 hospitals accepting children say they can not take

him , because of his Aspergers. Is there anyone in the NJ area, who knows of any

facilities? Thank You.

>

[Guest guest]

Just thought of this---you may not be able to get mental heath out of state.....hmmm....I would check out the big hospitals, or children's hospitals---not that I know any and go from there! Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerryFrom: "tara.blum" <mymollysue@...>Sender: Autism and Aspergers Treatment Date: Thu, 14 Apr 2011 01:16:24 -0000<Autism and Aspergers Treatment >Reply Autism and Aspergers Treatment Subject: Re: help needed I would also look into CHOP. I think that is your best bet!>> Why does Aspergers have anything to do with it? What about CHOP? It's over the ricer but they have a great program for AS and tourette Syndrome. > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry> > help needed> > Child age 12 w/ Aspergers and depression. He has been on numerous meds, to no avail, and is seeing counselor as well. The psychiatrist reccomends intensive out patient therapy. So far 2 hospitals accepting children say they can not take him , because of his Aspergers. Is there anyone in the NJ area, who knows of any facilities? Thank You.>

[Guest guest]

Does this work?

http://www.saintbarnabas.com/hospitals/childrens_hospital/medical_specialties/psychiatry.html

From: "srt12780@..." <srt12780@...>Autism and Aspergers Treatment Sent: Wed, April 13, 2011 10:16:35 PMSubject: Re: Re: help needed

Just thought of this---you may not be able to get mental heath out of state.....hmmm....I would check out the big hospitals, or children's hospitals---not that I know any and go from there! Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

From: "tara.blum" <mymollysue@...>

Sender: Autism and Aspergers Treatment

Date: Thu, 14 Apr 2011 01:16:24 -0000

<Autism and Aspergers Treatment >

ReplyAutism and Aspergers Treatment

Subject: Re: help needed

I would also look into CHOP. I think that is your best bet!>> Why does Aspergers have anything to do with it? What about CHOP? It's over the ricer but they have a great program for AS and tourette Syndrome. > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry> > help needed> > Child age 12 w/ Aspergers and depression. He has been on numerous meds, to no avail, and is seeing counselor as well. The psychiatrist reccomends intensive out patient therapy. So far 2 hospitals accepting children say they can not take him , because of his Aspergers. Is there anyone in the NJ area, who knows of any facilities? Thank You.>

[Guest guest]

Hi Kathleen,

I would just comment that magnesium supplement/powder in highish doses will cause bowel motility and is a much better option for constipation than any medication and has no side effects either. Sally xx

HI SHEILA AND ALLCan you offer any advice here. I was prescribed what I was told was MOVICOL, but on the packet it states LAXIDO (ORANGE) AND SUGAR FREE.The sachets contain MACROGOL, SODIUM CHLORIDE, SODIUM HYDROGEN CARBONATE AND POTASSIUM CHLORIDE other ingrediants are acesulfame potassium and propylene.My GP also knows of my problems with SALT INC Himalayan and Calcium.The first night caused painful cramp to retun in my feet and calfs, and a return of cloudy urine on the first morning after taking these sachets. I also experiance painful backpain. With the third sachet last night more cramp, headachy, a return of a dry mouth and a large bruise has arrived on the top of my leg. My BP has also been rising.I got in touch with the surgery, but they appeared to want to fob me off with a different GP, but my answer to this is that the GP who prescribed should be the one to be seen, so I have not been given an appointment, but have

told them I will not be taking any more.One can in fact suffer from salt overdose especially if the kidneys have problems handling salt. It has also been known for Mothers causing the death of children with overdosing with salt.I was prescribed this for constipation.The surgery have in fact just got in touch and mad an appointment for Wednesday, and I have in turn mentioned to them that I would like to trial out T3 even if I have to purchase from abroad, but that I would not treat myself with T3 as a previous Doctor did which was the whole dose 25mcg as a single dose which did free my bowels but too much so. I would gradually introduce it, but not as a single dose.My weight has also gone up.Kathleen

[Guest guest]

HI SALLY

I have just got into trouble with Lilian as I forgot to snip off the previous

messages. At the time her message came through I was in the process of ordering

some MAGNESIUM SUPPLEMENT POWDER, but it does state to take small doses several

times a day, and to build up gradually. Magnesium also keeps calcium in check,

but could sodium chloride be causing a problem with calcium.

I also recognise the symptoms given for magnesium deficiency, and although nuts

are good to take for magnesium taking these caused me to have worse symptoms.

Could these milia type spots also be an indication of magnesium deficiency.

Along with this the food industry are adding calcium to food without magnesium,

so from this adding anything to food may suit some but not others so the food

and drug industry may well be causing health problems.

Is it possible too that having movicol which has a high ammount of sodium in it

may also be upsetting my BP monitor, as when I am in trouble my monitor has

problems in getting a reading.

Sorry to Lilian as well as I was too eager at ordering some magnesium powder

that I forgot to snip off the previous message.

Kathleen

>

> Hi Kathleen,

> I would just comment that magnesium supplement/powder in highish doses will

cause bowel motility Sally xx

>

>

[Guest guest]

> Hi Kathleen,> That is excellent news. I do take nuts in my diet, but due to our hypothyroidism and western diet we need to supplement to get the amount of magnesium that is going to help us, since we start from a negative point.> Sometime the milia type spots are due to high cholesterol levesl and particularly if you are hypothyroid of course. If you know your cholesterol levels then you will know if this is the case if not it might be worth having them done for interest. However, I would resist taking Statin drugs and hopefully you wont be offered them since they are contraindicated with hypothyroidism.> Sodium does tend to cause calcium to leach out of the bones. I have just written a detailed piece addressed to both and Sheila in a discussion about suppressed TSH and osteoporosis. Without doubt the food and drug industry are causing us many health

problems. To start with the drug industry benefits financially from our ill health it is in their interest to keep us ill. The food industry do not care about our health they too care more about profit. Processed food allows them to charge excessive amounts of money for so called food.> You seeem to be quite knowledgeable Kathleen and I can't emphasise the need to educate yourself as much as possible. Kind regards Sally .> Best of luck with everything.

[Guest guest]

HI SALLY

I have learnt a lot through the TPA, and in obtaining my Mothers hospital

records. Before this I thought that I was the only one with the illness. Even

when I was told that I had Hypothyroidism I was told nothing about it, so with

so many symptoms you are not able to think that they are all connected to having

Hypothyroidism, but I did feel that there was something wrong in our family.

Most of us did not even have a computer, and even if Doctors do not like us

having this aid I think it is a boon to try to help ourselves, as Doctors get

angry with us if we keep going back, in turn they do not beleive us, but as TPA

expand how can they say this.

I have tried statins being on the lowest dose possible, but they caused me to

get angry, so I told my GP that getting angry will not do my heart anygood.

Sudden noises come into it too like the Doctors intercons that can sometimes

BARK, and yes dogs used to frighten me if they bark and jump up at me, and will

include Husbands, but the terrible rows that our parents had were one of the

worst and for our family bad due to the effect that my Mothers brain tumour had

on her.

Cholesterol problems are very evident in our family and my latest reading not

long ago was 7.0. They denied at one time that these milia spots were due to

cholesterol, but my younger Brothers face is covered in them and his heart is

very bad as one of the arteries are narrowed.

I had a scan done of the hip to see if my bones were OK and told that no

treatment was needed Prednisolone can also cause problems with calcium.

Antisychotic drugs prevent you from knowing if drugs or food are causing more

problems, and to spend time asleep including ones brain is not good. Once off

those I was able to learn more about the inside of a computer.

I also think Doctors tend to increase the dose of a drug when they should

decrease it especially when one gets older.

Magnesium phosphates are not good to take, so there is a difference in the types

of magnesiums, so a question what types of magnesium are there in nuts.

Kathleen

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone,

I have a 6 year old son who has a lot of sensory issues and is on autism

spectrum. We just started Masgutova therapy and i have been been reading posts

in the forum for sometime. My son needs a lot of oral stimulation and always

wants to chew on something. We used to give him chewy tubes but after I read

somewhere in the forum that Dr Masgutova does not recommend it and it may

develop tics in children i stopped it as i made the connection between my son

starting this tic using his neck over the few years. I wanted to ask if there is

some other way we can help and if its ok for him to eat a gum for oral sensory

issues or a gum is equally harmful as the chewy tube.

I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you for taking out time to read and

respond.

Reha

[Guest guest]

I will chime in about xylitol---I know dentists like it because some research indicates that it may prevent cavities. However, when it first came on the market you could find articles about the negative health impacts of xylitol--on kidneys, joints. and other body systems. This info is much harder to find now, I don't know why. Just to share this other point of view---I personally dislike any sweeteners that are heavily processed. I would suggest noticing for your own child if they seem to react well or not to this food product. Perhaps gum with sugar (also hard to find!) is not that bad a tradeoff. Most gum formulas have been changed, and it is difficult to even find gum with sugar vs corn syrup etc. Beemans is available online if you look for it---on old brand that they still make with the old recipe.SandyOn Sep 26, 2011, at 8:48 AM, Cecilia Palacios-Chuang wrote:

Janet and Reha, glad to hear about this since I had the same issues with my boys. I thought by giving them those teeth chewers it would help, but with your explanation Janet it all makes more sense to me. I know give them gum and they actually ask me for it for stimulation, and it has helped to prevent cavities. The only two things I would like to let you know is that my dentist did tell me to make sure they don't chew the gum for too long because with time you can use your mandibular bones too much. What is your imput on this Janet? Also we use a special gum without aspartame, which can affect children with sensory issues, and uses xylitol instead of sugar. It is called spry. I order a big container of 600 through amazon and you save a lot especially if you subscribe to subscribe and save through amazon prime.Good luck and let me know if anyone else has suggestions or observations on this matter.Cecilia Palacios-Chuang

New Light / ACPI Certified Parenting Coach

On Sep 26, 2011 8:57 AM, "Janet Mc" <janetomcdonald@...> wrote:> Hi Reha!> I have many clients who benefit quite a bit from chewing gum.

> The issue is where the pressure/stimulation and attention are for the> chewing items. It is best to get the molars engaged, activates less> aggressive, more calming structure/nervous system, sends off different

> neurotransmitter information . Frontal gum chewing will be as intensifying> as the chewy tubes....take a look at the adults/snappers who engage the> front portions of their mouths.> It might be worth a go...

> All best,> Janet> > On Sun, Sep 25, 2011 at 8:40 AM, Reha <dr_reha_us@...> wrote:> >> **>>>>>> Hi everyone,

>> I have a 6 year old son who has a lot of sensory issues and is on autism>> spectrum. We just started Masgutova therapy and i have been been reading>> posts in the forum for sometime. My son needs a lot of oral stimulation and

>> always wants to chew on something. We used to give him chewy tubes but after>> I read somewhere in the forum that Dr Masgutova does not recommend it and it>> may develop tics in children i stopped it as i made the connection between

>> my son starting this tic using his neck over the few years. I wanted to ask>> if there is some other way we can help and if its ok for him to eat a gum>> for oral sensory issues or a gum is equally harmful as the chewy tube.

>> I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you for taking out time to read>> and respond.>> Reha>>>> >>> > > > -- > Janet Olney Mc, M.Ed., LMT, CH

> Neurodevelopmental Therapist & Instructor> Licensed Massage Therapist (MA#64436)> Brain Gym Consultant / Instructor> Reflexes Integration Specialist / Instructor> Jin Shin Jyutsu Self-help Instructor

> Quantum Wave Laser Consultant> www.JanetOWellnessAndLearning.com

[Guest guest]

Thank you guys bring out this topic. This is really become a headache after I put my son on Dairy and Wheat diet. Might be recently we are doing Neruofeedback makes it worse too. Anyone has experience linking sensory seeking or tics with Diet and Neruofeedback?For my son, I found that, 1. TV and Video Game make his sensory seeking worse. 2. The

stress makes it worse.3. He was much calmer and almost stopped his sensory seeking after I increased his swimming class 3 times/week last session. CharmaineFrom: Cecilia Palacios-Chuang <cpnewlight@...> Sent: Monday, September 26, 2011 8:48 AMSubject: Re: help needed

Janet and Reha, glad to hear about this since I had the same issues with my boys. I thought by giving them those teeth chewers it would help, but with your explanation Janet it all makes more sense to me. I know give them gum and they actually ask me for it for stimulation, and it has helped to prevent cavities. The only two things I would like to let you know is that my dentist did tell me to make sure they don't chew the gum for too long because with time you can use your mandibular bones too much. What is your imput on this Janet? Also we use a special gum without aspartame, which can affect children with sensory issues, and uses xylitol instead of sugar. It is called spry. I order a big container of 600 through amazon and you save a lot especially if you subscribe to subscribe and save through amazon prime.

Good luck and let me know if anyone else has suggestions or observations on this matter.

Cecilia Palacios-Chuang

New Light / ACPI Certified Parenting Coach

On Sep 26, 2011 8:57 AM, "Janet Mc" <janetomcdonald@...> wrote:> Hi Reha!> I have many clients who benefit quite a bit from chewing gum.

> The issue is where the pressure/stimulation and attention are for the> chewing items. It is best to get the molars engaged, activates less> aggressive, more calming structure/nervous system, sends off different

> neurotransmitter information . Frontal gum chewing will be as intensifying> as the chewy tubes....take a look at the adults/snappers who engage the> front portions of their mouths.> It might be worth a go...

> All best,> Janet> > On Sun, Sep 25, 2011 at 8:40 AM, Reha <dr_reha_us@...> wrote:> >> **>>>>>> Hi everyone,

>> I have a 6 year old son who has a lot of sensory issues and is on autism>> spectrum. We just started Masgutova therapy and i have been been reading>> posts in the forum for sometime. My son needs a lot of oral stimulation and

>> always wants to chew on something. We used to give him chewy tubes but after>> I read somewhere in the forum that Dr Masgutova does not recommend it and it>> may develop tics in children i stopped it as i made the connection between

>> my son starting this tic using his neck over the few years. I wanted to ask>> if there is some other way we can help and if its ok for him to eat a gum>> for oral sensory issues or a gum is equally harmful as the chewy tube.

>> I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you for taking out time to read>> and respond.>> Reha>>>> >>> > > > -- > Janet Olney Mc, M.Ed., LMT, CH

> Neurodevelopmental Therapist & Instructor> Licensed Massage Therapist (MA#64436)> Brain Gym Consultant / Instructor> Reflexes Integration Specialist / Instructor> Jin Shin Jyutsu Self-help Instructor

> Quantum Wave Laser Consultant> www.JanetOWellnessAndLearning.com

[Guest guest]

My grandmother used to chew a small piece of beeswax(natural - local may be possible) all day long.  You might be able to mix/fold in stevia or lemon to start off with to satisfy the 'flavor' issue. I remember loving this as a kid, since gum was always too sweet, then too nasty.  It did not tire the jaw the way that gum can either.

All best,JanetOn Mon, Sep 26, 2011 at 4:47 PM, Kipper <sandrakipper13@...> wrote:

 

I will chime in about xylitol---I know dentists like it because some research indicates that it may prevent cavities.  However, when it first came on the market you could find articles about the negative health impacts of xylitol--on kidneys, joints. and other body systems.  This info is much harder to find now, I don't know why.  Just to share this other point of view---I personally dislike any sweeteners that are heavily processed.  I would suggest noticing for your own child if they seem to react well or not to this food product.  Perhaps gum with sugar (also hard to find!) is not that bad a tradeoff.  Most gum formulas have been changed, and it is difficult to even find gum with sugar vs corn syrup etc.  Beemans is available online if you look for it---on old brand that they still make with the old recipe.

SandyOn Sep 26, 2011, at 8:48 AM, Cecilia Palacios-Chuang wrote:

 

Janet and Reha, glad to hear about this since I had the same issues with my boys. I thought by giving them those teeth chewers it would help, but with your explanation Janet it all makes more sense to me. I know give them gum and they actually ask me for it for stimulation, and it has helped to prevent cavities. The only two things I would like to let you know is that my dentist did tell me to make sure they don't chew the gum for too long because with time you can use your mandibular bones too much. What is your imput on this Janet? Also we use a special gum without aspartame, which can affect children with sensory issues, and uses xylitol instead of sugar. It is called spry. I order a big container of 600 through amazon and you save a lot especially if you subscribe to subscribe and save through amazon prime.

Good luck and let me know if anyone else has suggestions or observations on this matter.Cecilia Palacios-Chuang

New Light / ACPI Certified Parenting Coach

On Sep 26, 2011 8:57 AM, " Janet Mc " <janetomcdonald@...> wrote:> Hi Reha!> I have many clients who benefit quite a bit from chewing gum.

> The issue is where the pressure/stimulation and attention are for the> chewing items. It is best to get the molars engaged, activates less> aggressive, more calming structure/nervous system, sends off different

> neurotransmitter information . Frontal gum chewing will be as intensifying> as the chewy tubes....take a look at the adults/snappers who engage the> front portions of their mouths.> It might be worth a go...

> All best,> Janet> > On Sun, Sep 25, 2011 at 8:40 AM, Reha <dr_reha_us@...> wrote:> >> **>>>>

>> Hi everyone,

>> I have a 6 year old son who has a lot of sensory issues and is on autism>> spectrum. We just started Masgutova therapy and i have been been reading>> posts in the forum for sometime. My son needs a lot of oral stimulation and

>> always wants to chew on something. We used to give him chewy tubes but after>> I read somewhere in the forum that Dr Masgutova does not recommend it and it>> may develop tics in children i stopped it as i made the connection between

>> my son starting this tic using his neck over the few years. I wanted to ask>> if there is some other way we can help and if its ok for him to eat a gum>> for oral sensory issues or a gum is equally harmful as the chewy tube.

>> I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you for taking out time to read>> and respond.>> Reha>>>> >>> > > > -- > Janet Olney Mc, M.Ed., LMT, CH

> Neurodevelopmental Therapist & Instructor> Licensed Massage Therapist (MA#64436)> Brain Gym Consultant / Instructor> Reflexes Integration Specialist / Instructor> Jin Shin Jyutsu Self-help Instructor

> Quantum Wave Laser Consultant> www.JanetOWellnessAndLearning.com

-- Janet Olney Mc, M.Ed., LMT, CH  Neurodevelopmental Therapist & Instructor  Licensed Massage Therapist (MA#64436)   Brain Gym Consultant / Instructor

   Reflexes Integration Specialist / Instructor   Jin Shin Jyutsu Self-help Instructor   Quantum Wave Laser Consultant   www.JanetOWellnessAndLearning.com

[Guest guest]

thanks for your input Sandy, I had heard about this as well. Will look into the Beemans gum...On Mon, Sep 26, 2011 at 4:47 PM, Kipper <sandrakipper13@...> wrote:

 

I will chime in about xylitol---I know dentists like it because some research indicates that it may prevent cavities.  However, when it first came on the market you could find articles about the negative health impacts of xylitol--on kidneys, joints. and other body systems.  This info is much harder to find now, I don't know why.  Just to share this other point of view---I personally dislike any sweeteners that are heavily processed.  I would suggest noticing for your own child if they seem to react well or not to this food product.  Perhaps gum with sugar (also hard to find!) is not that bad a tradeoff.  Most gum formulas have been changed, and it is difficult to even find gum with sugar vs corn syrup etc.  Beemans is available online if you look for it---on old brand that they still make with the old recipe.

SandyOn Sep 26, 2011, at 8:48 AM, Cecilia Palacios-Chuang wrote:

 

Janet and Reha, glad to hear about this since I had the same issues with my boys. I thought by giving them those teeth chewers it would help, but with your explanation Janet it all makes more sense to me. I know give them gum and they actually ask me for it for stimulation, and it has helped to prevent cavities. The only two things I would like to let you know is that my dentist did tell me to make sure they don't chew the gum for too long because with time you can use your mandibular bones too much. What is your imput on this Janet? Also we use a special gum without aspartame, which can affect children with sensory issues, and uses xylitol instead of sugar. It is called spry. I order a big container of 600 through amazon and you save a lot especially if you subscribe to subscribe and save through amazon prime.

Good luck and let me know if anyone else has suggestions or observations on this matter.Cecilia Palacios-Chuang

New Light / ACPI Certified Parenting Coach

On Sep 26, 2011 8:57 AM, " Janet Mc " <janetomcdonald@...> wrote:> Hi Reha!> I have many clients who benefit quite a bit from chewing gum.

> The issue is where the pressure/stimulation and attention are for the> chewing items. It is best to get the molars engaged, activates less> aggressive, more calming structure/nervous system, sends off different

> neurotransmitter information . Frontal gum chewing will be as intensifying> as the chewy tubes....take a look at the adults/snappers who engage the> front portions of their mouths.> It might be worth a go...

> All best,> Janet> > On Sun, Sep 25, 2011 at 8:40 AM, Reha <dr_reha_us@...> wrote:> >> **>>>>

>> Hi everyone,

>> I have a 6 year old son who has a lot of sensory issues and is on autism>> spectrum. We just started Masgutova therapy and i have been been reading>> posts in the forum for sometime. My son needs a lot of oral stimulation and

>> always wants to chew on something. We used to give him chewy tubes but after>> I read somewhere in the forum that Dr Masgutova does not recommend it and it>> may develop tics in children i stopped it as i made the connection between

>> my son starting this tic using his neck over the few years. I wanted to ask>> if there is some other way we can help and if its ok for him to eat a gum>> for oral sensory issues or a gum is equally harmful as the chewy tube.

>> I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you for taking out time to read>> and respond.>> Reha>>>> >>> > > > -- > Janet Olney Mc, M.Ed., LMT, CH

> Neurodevelopmental Therapist & Instructor> Licensed Massage Therapist (MA#64436)> Brain Gym Consultant / Instructor> Reflexes Integration Specialist / Instructor> Jin Shin Jyutsu Self-help Instructor

> Quantum Wave Laser Consultant> www.JanetOWellnessAndLearning.com

-- Cecilia Palacios-ChuangNew Light / ACPI Certified Parenting Coachfacebook.com/newlightcoaching