was:Low about Ted's school situation, long, sorry, now under a microscope!

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.. << And yes, it seems to be okay for a " normal " kid to

roughhouse (jump on) another normal " kid - saw it myself when picking

up, but were they sent to office - NO! When I remarked about

those

2 " normal " boys, nothing was said or done. Give me a break! >>

Hi Sharon,

I agree! The _normal_ boys that are Ted age are so out of control

and violent that when I saw the one, kick another with cleats on sending

this boy to the ground crying, I took Ted home. It was one of the few

times I allowed Ted to cross the street to play with them. I hear them

call each other F***ing idiots and ...well I see a lot. I would never

let

Ted be with these kids unattended ever! I see it in my own house and

back yard. Two kids will be playing...one pushes the other. The pushed

one is crying and has a grass stain on his knee and the pusher says, " I

only

tapped him " he can state his position...he can say lots of words (they

are 4yrs

old) in their defense. Put Ted in the scene. He is just standing there

not saying

anything. Maybe even has a half-grin on his face. Well, it just changes

so

much due to the fact that Ted can't articulate his position. I have just

so

had it with double standards and Ted getting the short end of everything

and labeled aggressive. What can be done about this?

Gail