Guest guest Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 That is terrible!! Do you think the aide caused the aggression? One of karac's aides was fired and we think it was because she abused Karac. He had some brusies on his arms that we couldn't figure out where they came from. So what did you do? Pat K Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 The aide developed the Rage Tantrum in CB,we file suit against the school and the aide.The school pays for CB's private school, unfortunately, we are still to this day living with the damage. CB's Granny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 Hi there, Meg! Greetings from Columbia County! Glad to have you aboard! nne http://bathtubjunkie.star-shaped.org/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 Hey Meg! Welcome again! It was great meeting you and seeing you at the show! Thanks for the compliments on my space. I love estate sales! Bedroom set sounds awsome! Well, ttya soon Shaye New member intro Hello All-- I have been lurking for a while since I am new at soapmaking and have only done MP so far. But this weekend I met Shaye so I decided to introduce myself to the group. My name is Meg and I am married with 4 kids and 6 grandkids. I work full-time so don't have much time for crafts but I have been making simple candles and MP soap the last few months. I want to try CP soap very soon. I picked up some MP base from Shaye and also visited with her a little at a craft show. She had nice items and very professional looking packaging. I only wish there had been more customers there to see it. I wanted to go to the Hilton Apple Festival too but we ended up buying a bedroom set at an estate sale so we had to go home and clear out the old stuff to make room for it. Boy, are my muscles sore tonight! I am looking forward to learning more from all of you and hopefully meeting more of you in the future. Meg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 In a message dated 10/2/2004 10:49:58 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ckoutqn@... writes: I have been lurking for a while since I am new at soapmaking and have only done MP so far. But this weekend I met Shaye so I decided to introduce myself to the group. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Welcome, Meg! I've found this group to be a great bunch of people and I'm sure you will too. :-) Beth from Rochester Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 Welcome Meg! This is an awesome group! Your going to love it here. .... in the middle of the Adirondacks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2004 Report Share Posted October 4, 2004 Checkout Queen wrote: > I picked up some MP base from Shaye and also visited with her a little at a craft show. She had nice items and very professional looking packaging. I only wish there had been more customers there to see it. > > I wanted to go to the Hilton Apple Festival too but we ended up buying a bedroom set at an estate sale so we had to go home and clear out the old stuff to make room for it. Boy, are my muscles sore tonight! > Meg Hi Meg, I'm sorry you didn't get to the Hilton Apple Fest--I love to meet my list mates in person! I'm , I live in Spencerport. Saturday was a huge " washout " for the Applefest----torrential rain has that effect on outdoor shows. : ( But on the bright side, now I know just where to apply the waterproofing to my EZ up!!!! Sunday was the most gorgeous day to do an outdoor show, sales nearly made up for the losses on Saturday. I did get to meet Cindi and Judy Blair from Hawkmoon Soaps, very nice ladies. We shared some laughs and I asked them to pop in here if they would like to meet a group of wonderful people. : ) Shaye, which show were you at? I guess I didn't realize you had one this weekend too. Are you doing the RMSC again? I thought you said you were, but I seem to be losing my marbles these days, so I could be mistaken. LOL! Anyway, enough rambling----Welcome to our group Meg, I'm glad to have you and I think you'll like us just fine! : ) Ehrhardt Body & Soap ***coming soon*** www.bodyandsoap.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 Welcome Amy - you'll love it here. I have family in GA - so pretty there. you're doing great - keep up the good work. congrats on being an ex-smoker - 1 day I may get there too. New Member Intro Hi everyone,I'm Amy. I just joined the group today. I'm a SAHM to -2, and -1. My older daughter's (--11, and --9) are with me part time (the rest of the time they are with their dad). I'm married to Lew and we live in Virginia (recently transplanted from Georgia).I started out needing to lose 101 pounds, but so far I've lost 8--YAY! Today I weigh 273, and I want to be at 180 (where I was before I had kids and after the Army ). I also quit smoking last month, so I'm feeling pretty motivated right now.I'm not really using any plan, just walking almost everyday (2 miles/day right now), and eating about 1500-1800 calories a day. I'm trying really hard to eat healthy foods, and not just low calorie, low fat, low carb, etc., because I want to be able to keep eating healthy after I lose the weight.Anyhow, I look forward to getting to know everyone.AmyIf I give in to food today, I will not punish myself. I will forgive myselfand keep reaching for my goal. - - - 100-Plus Files page 100-plus/files100-Plus Links page 100-plus/links No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.6.11 - Release Date: 1/12/2005 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.6.11 - Release Date: 1/12/2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 Amy welcome. Quitting smoking and losing so cool. Pat yourself on the back. Sounds like you are on the right track. DONT forget water. NHMom to Abby Liz 10/25/94 Anne 7/1/99 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2005 Report Share Posted January 14, 2005 > I started out needing to lose 101 pounds, but so far I've lost 8--> YAY! Great start! >Today I weigh 273, I fluctuate between 269 - 274. This past Monday I was at 273 again. > and I want to be at 180 (where I was before > I had kids and after the Army ). My goal weight is around 220 - the weight I was also at pre-pregnancy (over 21 years ago). No military service, though, just hospital nursing, which could be just as dangerous sometimes in the inner city hospital where I worked. > I also quit smoking last month, More than anything else, this was the best thing you could have done to improve your, and your family's, health. I stopped August 1985, myself, after smoking since the late 1960's. >because I want to be able to keep > eating healthy after I lose the weight. Like they all say, it has to be a lifestyle change, not a temporary "diet", to be effective long-term. Sue in NJ finally eating breakfast while the TV says there are tornado watches out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2005 Report Share Posted January 14, 2005 Welcome Amy: sounds like you fit right in with what people are striving for in this group! Faye <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< > so I'm feeling pretty motivated right now. > I'm not really using any plan, just walking almost everyday (2 > miles/day right now), and eating about 1500-1800 calories a day. > I'm trying really hard to eat healthy foods, and not just low > calorie, low fat, low carb, etc., because I want to be able to keep > eating healthy after I lose the weight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2005 Report Share Posted February 17, 2005 Welcome Kay! It's been a few years now since we met at your house when a friend of mine and our children and I were getting some spinning fiber for a fiber block! And I just saw your husband at the City of Lakes Holiday Fair in Dec! Welcome, welcome! Peace, ¸..· ´¨¨)) -:¦:- ¸.·´ .·´¨¨)) ((¸¸.·´ ..·´ -:¦:-Mara -:¦:- ((¸¸.·´* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2005 Report Share Posted February 17, 2005 > > Hi Folks- > > I have just joined the group and was asked to write an introduction--- > > I am self-employed - my business is Earthsong Fibers, Hi Kay! I've ordered the Stella Natura calendar from your business for a few years running. Nice to see you here! ) Welcome. ~Joe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Kay, First of all, my mother's name is also Kay. Welcome. You said that you used to live by La Crosse. Where are you living now? What a wonderful experience it must have been to live off the land like that. Where did you find these people? I'm jealous. I sure hope you can make it to the next food swap so that we can meet you. Therese Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 > > Hi Folks- > > > At the end of this year, my husband will retire from teaching and we will move to our new > little small-holding in Wisconsin where we have a small organic apple orchard (we have > about 200 trees planted), grow a big garden, will have a few animals, and sell fibers. > > > > Kay, Where in WI? My husband Botan & I live on the eastern edge of St. Croix County. We have 20 acres & are working on establishing a permaculure based, bio-diverse farmstead. We are very pleased to be connecting with a growing network of like minded people in the area. Our 14 year old daughter has taken up knitting & we just purchased a loom for our 9 year old daughter. We would be very interested in a good source for sustainably produced fiber. How can we find out more about your products? Patti Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 8, 2005 Report Share Posted March 8, 2005 You say that he is not incompetent- so you/he are pretty much SOL concerning services. He is an adult- and can do as he pleases- no matter how much it upsets the apple cart. -S GA New member intro Hello.My name is , and my situation is a bit different from what I've been reading here in this board. I hope some of you can lead me in the right direction.I am 47, and live in Colorado. The rest of my family lives in Atlanta (East Point area). I believe that my younger brother (age 43) probably has Asperger's. He has been "different" his whole life, and his behaviors are pretty textbook, now that I've been doing some reading on this. However, because my mother has a "blind spot" when it comes to him, he has never been diagnosed or treated in ANY way. He lives with my mother (now 73). While he does help her around the house some, and drives her to doctor's appts, etc. (she can't drive anymore due to vision problems), their normal operating "dynamic" is not all that healthy. Since she doesn't think there's anything wrong with him, she constantly "picks" at him to get a job, pick up his room, etc., etc. He has not held a job since I left Atlanta over 10 years ago. He has no bank account, no health insurance, no nothing really.My concerns are many, of course. What is going to happen to him when she dies? I don't mean to sound cold, but he can't come and live with me. My mother has left her house to all 4 of her children (me, this brother, my sister, and my youngest brother, ages 41 and 39, respectively), and now there is a mortgage on the home that will have to be paid, so if she passes in the near future, the house will probably have to be sold, as my brother has no way of making payments, etc.Additionally, if there is the least suggestion that he might get some "help", i.e., therapy, whatever, he simply goes ballistic. It's impossible to talk to him, to get him to consider that any of us might be concerned about his welfare, rather than just trying to make fun of him, etc. He's not incompetent, he does have a social life, but he's never written a check, never used a computer, never done so many of the things adults need to do because my mom refused to see there was a need to get him any kind of special assistance.Since he's an adult, I don't know where to start looking for services. My mom could probably claim him as a dependent, but he's never been listed has having any kind of disability.My mother is in decent health, but she is 73, and recently was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. I am the oldest and the executor of her estate, etc., so I'll have to deal with most of this when she passes. If anyone can lead me to agencies, resources, etc., I would be VERY grateful.Thanks in advance, in Colorado Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 8, 2005 Report Share Posted March 8, 2005 You say that he is not incompetent- so you/he are pretty much SOL concerning services. He is an adult- and can do as he pleases- no matter how much it upsets the apple cart. -S GA New member intro Hello.My name is , and my situation is a bit different from what I've been reading here in this board. I hope some of you can lead me in the right direction.I am 47, and live in Colorado. The rest of my family lives in Atlanta (East Point area). I believe that my younger brother (age 43) probably has Asperger's. He has been "different" his whole life, and his behaviors are pretty textbook, now that I've been doing some reading on this. However, because my mother has a "blind spot" when it comes to him, he has never been diagnosed or treated in ANY way. He lives with my mother (now 73). While he does help her around the house some, and drives her to doctor's appts, etc. (she can't drive anymore due to vision problems), their normal operating "dynamic" is not all that healthy. Since she doesn't think there's anything wrong with him, she constantly "picks" at him to get a job, pick up his room, etc., etc. He has not held a job since I left Atlanta over 10 years ago. He has no bank account, no health insurance, no nothing really.My concerns are many, of course. What is going to happen to him when she dies? I don't mean to sound cold, but he can't come and live with me. My mother has left her house to all 4 of her children (me, this brother, my sister, and my youngest brother, ages 41 and 39, respectively), and now there is a mortgage on the home that will have to be paid, so if she passes in the near future, the house will probably have to be sold, as my brother has no way of making payments, etc.Additionally, if there is the least suggestion that he might get some "help", i.e., therapy, whatever, he simply goes ballistic. It's impossible to talk to him, to get him to consider that any of us might be concerned about his welfare, rather than just trying to make fun of him, etc. He's not incompetent, he does have a social life, but he's never written a check, never used a computer, never done so many of the things adults need to do because my mom refused to see there was a need to get him any kind of special assistance.Since he's an adult, I don't know where to start looking for services. My mom could probably claim him as a dependent, but he's never been listed has having any kind of disability.My mother is in decent health, but she is 73, and recently was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. I am the oldest and the executor of her estate, etc., so I'll have to deal with most of this when she passes. If anyone can lead me to agencies, resources, etc., I would be VERY grateful.Thanks in advance, in Colorado Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 8, 2005 Report Share Posted March 8, 2005 Ok, thanks for the help! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 Dear , I'm in the same situation, believe it or not, but my brother is 41. You will need to go through your local mental health agency for an evaluation for services. It is based on income, sliding scale in most states. The problem is, an adult is harder to diagnos. My brother finally got a report that stated he had aspergers syndrome, but it was written up in such a way that a disability judge requested more information. We still have hopes of getting disability for him, though, because he cannot care for himself, and my mom is not getting any younger. He was not happy about our suspicions, but he doesnt rock the boat much, and may now get the help he deserves. Go apply for disability for him now. It takes a long time to complete the paperwork and the journey to decision, and you may have a dx before then. Backpay will be paid from the day you applied to the date he was approved. You should file no less than three times to get disability. It often takes that to get it paid. Once you start, you will find what services are available through the agencies you are working with. For men, there just arent any services without a diagnosis for disability, though. As much as you are worried about your mom, realize that it is likely that they have a very co-dependent relationship, even when it seems she is demeaning. He may blow up more in reaction to all he hears from mom, rather than because he thinks nothing is wrong. Even my brother would admit he didnt have typical relationships, but posed with the question why, he couldnt answer. He doesnt answer any why questions:0). I do hope this helps, if only to let you know you are not alone. I doubt we two are either. Our brothers are an example of systems failed, not of our brothers' failures. If he can get set up with a diagnosis, he may be able to work under supervision. This would be very good for his self=esteem, and allow him a sense of independence, and hopefully allow him to secure more meaningful relationships. hugs, scarlett > You say that he is not incompetent- so you/he are pretty much SOL concerning services. He is an adult- and can do as he pleases- no matter how much it upsets the apple cart. > > -S GA > > New member intro > > > > > Hello. > > My name is , and my situation is a bit different from what I've > been reading here in this board. I hope some of you can lead me in > the right direction. > > I am 47, and live in Colorado. The rest of my family lives in > Atlanta (East Point area). I believe that my younger brother (age > 43) probably has Asperger's. He has been " different " his whole life, > and his behaviors are pretty textbook, now that I've been doing some > reading on this. However, because my mother has a " blind spot " when > it comes to him, he has never been diagnosed or treated in ANY way. > > He lives with my mother (now 73). While he does help her around the > house some, and drives her to doctor's appts, etc. (she can't drive > anymore due to vision problems), their normal operating " dynamic " is > not all that healthy. Since she doesn't think there's anything wrong > with him, she constantly " picks " at him to get a job, pick up his > room, etc., etc. He has not held a job since I left Atlanta over 10 > years ago. He has no bank account, no health insurance, no nothing > really. > > My concerns are many, of course. What is going to happen to him when > she dies? I don't mean to sound cold, but he can't come and live > with me. My mother has left her house to all 4 of her children (me, > this brother, my sister, and my youngest brother, ages 41 and 39, > respectively), and now there is a mortgage on the home that will have > to be paid, so if she passes in the near future, the house will > probably have to be sold, as my brother has no way of making > payments, etc. > > Additionally, if there is the least suggestion that he might get > some " help " , i.e., therapy, whatever, he simply goes ballistic. It's > impossible to talk to him, to get him to consider that any of us > might be concerned about his welfare, rather than just trying to make > fun of him, etc. He's not incompetent, he does have a social life, > but he's never written a check, never used a computer, never done so > many of the things adults need to do because my mom refused to see > there was a need to get him any kind of special assistance. > > Since he's an adult, I don't know where to start looking for > services. My mom could probably claim him as a dependent, but he's > never been listed has having any kind of disability. > > My mother is in decent health, but she is 73, and recently was > diagnosed with congestive heart failure. I am the oldest and the > executor of her estate, etc., so I'll have to deal with most of this > when she passes. > > If anyone can lead me to agencies, resources, etc., I would be VERY > grateful. > > Thanks in advance, > in Colorado > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 The problem seems to be Scarlett- is that her brother is not interested- if he is not legally incompetent- it is for him to decide if he desires services- she cannot apply/submit him for anything unless he has been declared incompetent- and she holds the paperwork as his legal guardian. -S GA New member intro> > > > > Hello.> > My name is , and my situation is a bit different from what I've > been reading here in this board. I hope some of you can lead me in > the right direction.> > I am 47, and live in Colorado. The rest of my family lives in > Atlanta (East Point area). I believe that my younger brother (age > 43) probably has Asperger's. He has been "different" his whole life, > and his behaviors are pretty textbook, now that I've been doing some > reading on this. However, because my mother has a "blind spot" when > it comes to him, he has never been diagnosed or treated in ANY way. > > He lives with my mother (now 73). While he does help her around the > house some, and drives her to doctor's appts, etc. (she can't drive > anymore due to vision problems), their normal operating "dynamic" is > not all that healthy. Since she doesn't think there's anything wrong > with him, she constantly "picks" at him to get a job, pick up his > room, etc., etc. He has not held a job since I left Atlanta over 10 > years ago. He has no bank account, no health insurance, no nothing > really.> > My concerns are many, of course. What is going to happen to him when > she dies? I don't mean to sound cold, but he can't come and live > with me. My mother has left her house to all 4 of her children (me, > this brother, my sister, and my youngest brother, ages 41 and 39, > respectively), and now there is a mortgage on the home that will have > to be paid, so if she passes in the near future, the house will > probably have to be sold, as my brother has no way of making > payments, etc.> > Additionally, if there is the least suggestion that he might get > some "help", i.e., therapy, whatever, he simply goes ballistic. It's > impossible to talk to him, to get him to consider that any of us > might be concerned about his welfare, rather than just trying to make > fun of him, etc. He's not incompetent, he does have a social life, > but he's never written a check, never used a computer, never done so > many of the things adults need to do because my mom refused to see > there was a need to get him any kind of special assistance.> > Since he's an adult, I don't know where to start looking for > services. My mom could probably claim him as a dependent, but he's > never been listed has having any kind of disability.> > My mother is in decent health, but she is 73, and recently was > diagnosed with congestive heart failure. I am the oldest and the > executor of her estate, etc., so I'll have to deal with most of this > when she passes. > > If anyone can lead me to agencies, resources, etc., I would be VERY > grateful.> > Thanks in advance,> in Colorado> > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 I believe in the state of Alabama three family members testifying to incompetence is all it takes, so i would think Georgia would be similar. A judge, and incompetency hearing, and the number of people required. I dont know the guy, but i would hope his sister is attempting to do what is best for him. Regardless, it is not the norm for someone his age, and he should have someone help him find out why. Whether he wants to or not, lest he become homeless. Too many people are homeless and on the streets because no one would step up and say " but you dont know how to take care of yourself " . Moms die. And sisters live too far away. I cannot blame this woman for trying to find a way to prevent what could be a tragedy. > > You say that he is not incompetent- so you/he are pretty much SOL > concerning services. He is an adult- and can do as he pleases- no > matter how much it upsets the apple cart. > > > > -S GA > > > > New member intro > > > > > > > > > > Hello. > > > > My name is , and my situation is a bit different from what > I've > > been reading here in this board. I hope some of you can lead me > in > > the right direction. > > > > I am 47, and live in Colorado. The rest of my family lives in > > Atlanta (East Point area). I believe that my younger brother > (age > > 43) probably has Asperger's. He has been " different " his whole > life, > > and his behaviors are pretty textbook, now that I've been doing > some > > reading on this. However, because my mother has a " blind spot " > when > > it comes to him, he has never been diagnosed or treated in ANY > way. > > > > He lives with my mother (now 73). While he does help her around > the > > house some, and drives her to doctor's appts, etc. (she can't > drive > > anymore due to vision problems), their normal > operating " dynamic " is > > not all that healthy. Since she doesn't think there's anything > wrong > > with him, she constantly " picks " at him to get a job, pick up > his > > room, etc., etc. He has not held a job since I left Atlanta > over 10 > > years ago. He has no bank account, no health insurance, no > nothing > > really. > > > > My concerns are many, of course. What is going to happen to him > when > > she dies? I don't mean to sound cold, but he can't come and > live > > with me. My mother has left her house to all 4 of her children > (me, > > this brother, my sister, and my youngest brother, ages 41 and > 39, > > respectively), and now there is a mortgage on the home that will > have > > to be paid, so if she passes in the near future, the house will > > probably have to be sold, as my brother has no way of making > > payments, etc. > > > > Additionally, if there is the least suggestion that he might get > > some " help " , i.e., therapy, whatever, he simply goes ballistic. > It's > > impossible to talk to him, to get him to consider that any of us > > might be concerned about his welfare, rather than just trying to > make > > fun of him, etc. He's not incompetent, he does have a social > life, > > but he's never written a check, never used a computer, never > done so > > many of the things adults need to do because my mom refused to > see > > there was a need to get him any kind of special assistance. > > > > Since he's an adult, I don't know where to start looking for > > services. My mom could probably claim him as a dependent, but > he's > > never been listed has having any kind of disability. > > > > My mother is in decent health, but she is 73, and recently was > > diagnosed with congestive heart failure. I am the oldest and > the > > executor of her estate, etc., so I'll have to deal with most of > this > > when she passes. > > > > If anyone can lead me to agencies, resources, etc., I would be > VERY > > grateful. > > > > Thanks in advance, > > in Colorado > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 Oh- do not get me wrong- I certainly commend her for trying to do something- it is just not that easy when the person in question wants nothing to do with it. New member intro> > > > > > > > > > Hello.> > > > My name is , and my situation is a bit different from what > I've > > been reading here in this board. I hope some of you can lead me > in > > the right direction.> > > > I am 47, and live in Colorado. The rest of my family lives in > > Atlanta (East Point area). I believe that my younger brother > (age > > 43) probably has Asperger's. He has been "different" his whole > life, > > and his behaviors are pretty textbook, now that I've been doing > some > > reading on this. However, because my mother has a "blind spot" > when > > it comes to him, he has never been diagnosed or treated in ANY > way. > > > > He lives with my mother (now 73). While he does help her around > the > > house some, and drives her to doctor's appts, etc. (she can't > drive > > anymore due to vision problems), their normal > operating "dynamic" is > > not all that healthy. Since she doesn't think there's anything > wrong > > with him, she constantly "picks" at him to get a job, pick up > his > > room, etc., etc. He has not held a job since I left Atlanta > over 10 > > years ago. He has no bank account, no health insurance, no > nothing > > really.> > > > My concerns are many, of course. What is going to happen to him > when > > she dies? I don't mean to sound cold, but he can't come and > live > > with me. My mother has left her house to all 4 of her children > (me, > > this brother, my sister, and my youngest brother, ages 41 and > 39, > > respectively), and now there is a mortgage on the home that will > have > > to be paid, so if she passes in the near future, the house will > > probably have to be sold, as my brother has no way of making > > payments, etc.> > > > Additionally, if there is the least suggestion that he might get > > some "help", i.e., therapy, whatever, he simply goes ballistic. > It's > > impossible to talk to him, to get him to consider that any of us > > might be concerned about his welfare, rather than just trying to > make > > fun of him, etc. He's not incompetent, he does have a social > life, > > but he's never written a check, never used a computer, never > done so > > many of the things adults need to do because my mom refused to > see > > there was a need to get him any kind of special assistance.> > > > Since he's an adult, I don't know where to start looking for > > services. My mom could probably claim him as a dependent, but > he's > > never been listed has having any kind of disability.> > > > My mother is in decent health, but she is 73, and recently was > > diagnosed with congestive heart failure. I am the oldest and > the > > executor of her estate, etc., so I'll have to deal with most of > this > > when she passes. > > > > If anyone can lead me to agencies, resources, etc., I would be > VERY > > grateful.> > > > Thanks in advance,> > in Colorado> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2005 Report Share Posted April 28, 2005 I'm here in CA too and its not that hard to live with. I just signed my son up for kindergarten with no problems. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2005 Report Share Posted April 28, 2005 HI Brieanne! Welcome to the group..Thanks for sharing your story..your dog must be very wise. Be sure to avoid thimerosal at all costs..It is very easy to join the mercury-autism community but very hard to leave it. Tim New Member Intro Hello list, My name is Brieanne and I am a new member. Here is what brought me here: I am 24 and I live in CA with my husband and my cattle dog, Belle. Belle is the one who really showed me the light when it comes to our goverment and the big coorporations who have all of the power. One day when I tried to apply some flea medication to her skin, she ran and hid, and was mad at me for a couple of days. I googled the ingredients of the topical, and I was horrified to find out that dogs were becoming sick and dying from a product that was supposed to be safe for our pets, and she knew it was bad stuff!!! Now, I don't vaccinate her anymore, nor do I use any sort of poisons, cleaning chemicals, or beauty products in our house. We are all being treated by a Classical Homeopath, and I am just fascinated with the results I have seen so far!!! When I realized that I was lied to about the safety of something like " Advantage, " I wondered what other lies I was being fed. When I researched the ingredients in vaccines and learned they contribute to many, if not most chronic dieases, I made a vow to make my family as healthy as I can, and only support those businesses who truely do care about our health, and to quit poisoning my family with food full of hydrogenated fats and horomes/antibiotics. Money talks!!! I am 27 weeks pregnant, and we have made a decision to not vaccinate this baby. When I found out I was RH-, of course the doctor wanted to make me take the RhoGam injection during pregnancy, to prevent something that has a 1% chance of happening. The chances that I will receive heavy doses of poison from the injection are 100%. The chances that my baby will be affected by these poisons-100% Needless to say, refusing RhoGam was not a hard choice for me to make. I know we have a long journey ahead of us if we want to continue to fight for what we believe in, but I also know that being a member of a list, like this one, can make it a little easier. I will really need help once my children are old enough to attend school:( Thank you for approving my membership:) Brieanne and Belle ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2005 Report Share Posted April 28, 2005 At 05:39 PM 4/28/2005 -0000, you wrote: > >Hello list, > >My name is Brieanne and I am a new member. Here is what brought me >here: > >I am 24 and I live in CA with my husband and my cattle dog, Belle. >Belle is the one who really showed me the light when it comes to our >goverment and the big coorporations who have all of the power. One >day when I tried to apply some flea medication to her skin, she ran >and hid, and was mad at me for a couple of days. I googled the >ingredients of the topical, and I was horrified to find out that dogs >were becoming sick and dying from a product that was supposed to be >safe for our pets, and she knew it was bad stuff!!! Smart dog! Now, I don't >vaccinate her anymore, nor do I use any sort of poisons, cleaning >chemicals, or beauty products in our house. We are all being treated >by a Classical Homeopath, and I am just fascinated with the results I >have seen so far!!! Who do you see in California? So glad! > >When I realized that I was lied to about the safety of something >like " Advantage, " I wondered what other lies I was being fed. When I >researched the ingredients in vaccines and learned they contribute to >many, if not most chronic dieases, I made a vow to make my family as >healthy as I can, and only support those businesses who truely do >care about our health, and to quit poisoning my family with food full >of hydrogenated fats and horomes/antibiotics. Money talks!!! > >I am 27 weeks pregnant, and we have made a decision to not vaccinate >this baby. When I found out I was RH-, of course the doctor wanted to >make me take the RhoGam injection during pregnancy, to prevent >something that has a 1% chance of happening. The chances that I will >receive heavy doses of poison from the injection are 100%. The >chances that my baby will be affected by these poisons-100% Needless >to say, refusing RhoGam was not a hard choice for me to make. EXACTLY. I will send you some RhoGam info I have put together. Smart choice. The US is the ONLY country that I know of that also gives during pregnancy. A move to double their money. > >I know we have a long journey ahead of us if we want to continue to >fight for what we believe in, but I also know that being a member of >a list, like this one, can make it a little easier. I will really >need help once my children are old enough to attend school:( Yes, it will help tons And all states have exemptions of some sort for school. And California you just say no. Sign the back of the form and refuse. Period. Very easy > >Thank you for approving my membership:) >Brieanne and Belle > Welcome> -------------------------------------------------------- Sheri Nakken, R.N., MA, Classical Homeopath Vaccination Information & Choice Network, Nevada City CA & Wales UK $$ Donations to help in the work - accepted by Paypal account vaccineinfo@... voicemail US 530-740-0561 (go to http://www.paypal.com) or by mail Vaccines - http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/vaccine.htm Vaccine Dangers On-Line course - http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/vaccineclass.htm Homeopathy On-Line course - http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/homeo.htm ANY INFO OBTAINED HERE NOT TO BE CONSTRUED AS MEDICAL OR LEGAL ADVICE. THE DECISION TO VACCINATE IS YOURS AND YOURS ALONE. ****** " Just look at us. Everything is backwards; everything is upside down. Doctors destroy health, lawyers destroy justice, universities destroy knowledge, governments destroy freedom, the major media destroy information and religions destroy spirituality " .... Ellner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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