Common Sexual Saboteur is Ruining Relationships

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Common Sexual Saboteur is Ruining Relationships

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North America's most respected and credible authority on

sexual dysfunction, the Kinsley Sexual Institute, reports

that 60% of all relationships are suffering from the

emotional turmoil caused by premature ejaculation or PE.

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Common Sexual Saboteur is Ruining Relationships

Copyright © 2010 Pat Emmerson

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Is Your Relationship At Risk?

Over 75% of North American couples are silently struggling with a

problem so severe that it ends an estimated 65% of relationships

every year. If that wasn't bad enough, this deal breaking

harbinger of heart ache and emotional woe can enter into our love

lives at any point and leave them completely destroyed. Its

called premature ejaculation, and if you haven't experienced its

effects get ready because the odds are stacked against you. North

America's most respected and credible authority on sexual

dysfunction, the Kinsley Sexual Institute, reports that 60% of

all relationships are suffering from the emotional turmoil caused

by premature ejaculation or PE.

Identifying PE can be confusing without an accurate definition,

however today's sexual therapists agree that premature

ejaculation occurs whenever a lack of ejaculatory control

interferes with the sexual or emotional well-being of one or both

partners in a sexual relationship.

The Effects of PE on Your Relationship

The reason PE is so detrimental to the longevity of a

relationship is the result of bedroom activity effecting our

relationship outside the bedroom. When a man feels he has left

his partner sexually unsatisfied it can have a big effect on his

confidence levels. He may become depressed and unresponsive to

his partner.

On the flip side of the coin males may also lash out in

frustration and anger. Unable to face the issue, or, in some

cases even identify it the problem persists and snowballs until

the relationship is brought to a jarring halt.

Women on the other hand who experience sexual dissatisfaction

become unimpressed by, and disinterested in their partners. They

may even seek sexual satisfaction from another partner putting

their relationship in severe jeopardy.

At first glance it may seem the males responsibility to take

control of the problem and find a solution for himself. While

many men do this, sex experts agree that a females supportive

role can go a long way to ending PE due to the sometimes

emotional nature of the condition.

An Uphill Battle

Overcoming PE is challenging in part due to its role in nature.

The biologically driven goal of our existence is reproduction.

The joy of sexual stimulation has evolved to act as motivation to

achieve this end. The expectation for complete sexual

satisfaction is reasonable, but completely " unnatural " . Men

have been biologically programed to ejaculate quickly because of

the vulnerability created by, and necessary for, successful

sexual intercourse.

Does this mean this problem is without a solution? Fortunatly

this is not the case but before you can begin to treat PE you

have to understand it. There are 2 main contributing factors to

the occurrence of PE.

Factor #1 - Emotional/Psychological Problems

By far the most common cause of PE, emotional/psychological

problems effect 90% of sexual relationships at one point or

another. In the case of PE everything from temporary depression

to stress over financial matters can be the cause. Couples that

have unrealistic expectations about sexual performance also

experience problems. A history of sexual repression or an over

all lack of confidence can also cause PE.

In terms of your relationship premature ejaculation can be caused

by a lack of communication, hurt feelings, or unresolved

conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional

intimacy.

Factor #2 - Neurological Issues

The brain can sometimes play a significant role in both the

existence and prevention of PE.

It has been proven that low levels of serotonin, a chemical in

the brain, can be the root cause of premature ejaculation.

SSRI's (drugs that boost serotonin levels) can be taken to help

treat PE. It is also common for some men to simply have a faster

response neurologically in the pelvic region that results in

sudden ejaculation.

The natural process to finding a solution to PE is to examine

your relationship and talk to your partner to determine and

eliminate any emotional or psychological barriers preventing

sexual satisfaction. If you have trouble talking to your partner

there are guides available online that can help. These guides

also provide helpful tips and exercises to improve sexual

longevity and performance. If you've tried these solutions the

next step is to seek medical assistance.

Where to Go For Help

Sex Therapists

A sex therapist can be a valuable resource in treating PE.

However many men refuse to see them because they feel too

embarrassed. Sex Therapists can also be very expensive and

provide no guarantee they can solve your problem. If they can't

help, you will have spent a lot of money for nothing.

Your Family Doctor

If you have tried various solutions without much success chances

are that you or your partners PE is the result of a neurological

imbalance. Your doctor can prescribe medication to help solve the

problem.

The Internet

Due to the embarrassing nature of the condition few resources for

PE available at the book store. However there are many highly

informative and helpful resources available online that can be

purchased and immediately accessed on your computer.

If your relationship is being effected by premature ejaculation

don't ignore the problem. It won't solve itself and if left

unattended it could bring a premature end not only to your sex,

but to your relationship as well. Isn't a healthy and loving

relationship worth the effort? Take action now and find a

solution before you lose what you love the most in life!

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