Thanks To Everyone of You

[Guest guest]

Thank You most kindly 'Good Times'. I had caught these same mistakes, but

thought best I waited until someone, other than myself pointed them out.

Mel and I, along with friends, are sitting here wondering how sick is

this man? He must need prayer. I guess we should never judge an ill-minded

person.

We hope that someone in his family, will find for him, professional

assistance. It is such shame too. I want to believe, that when this man was

normal, he led a very good rewarding life. I hope that he has not always

been this way. I've done research on the subject about mental disorders.

There are manic-depression, anxiety, or hypochondrias are thought to be

largely the result of personality factors. Some people for example. are by

nature neurotic. They irritate easily, are oversensitive, and may lack

energy. When under stress, such people sometimes become unduly depressed or

anxious. Many are cyclothymic. This means that the person have mood swings

from elation and energy to lethargy and withdrawal. Under stress a person

can become an manic-depressive.

Many doctor's will tell you that up to 5 % of patients that consult

them, are those people that have emotional problem, or more than one

emotional disorder. And in many of these cases this person will lash out at

others, because deep within the uncontrolled cells of the brain, is not

normal, and it triggers messages, that tell this person things normally they

would never have thought of doing, if they were not ill. A personality

disorder is by far incapable of accepting the restraints that are normally

imposed by the outside world. Or when the brain is un-normally off balanced

this normal world is to hard to handle, so this person then has to create a

world they at the time can relate to. They become uncaring,selfish, ruthless

and often cruel. They lie, cheat, steal, threaten to gain their own way. And

they try to get others to join them. When others do not take heed, they

again will do whatever it takes to bring others down to their way of

thinking. It is so sadly sick isn't it? A personality disorder is nothing to

sit back and laugh about..it is as serious as CANCER. And in this disorder

these people will draw unto themselves other depressed people, this is

called 'Bird of a Feather Stick Together'. And being in this depressed mind,

these people are never satisfied. They jump from one situation right into

another, or they go back and forth, with a habitual un-break.

To treat such a person, is not easy..for the chance of them being this

way, started out in childhood, they may have been extremely antisocial, and

as they matured grew more this way. Or were the opposite, to overly

aggressive when in a crowd trying to draw attention. They would do anything

to get others around them to stop what they were doing, just to watch them.

Let me give you an example. Carly, was such a sweet man. He loved to (be the

center) of the attraction in a room. Carly, would start to sing, while other

people were talking. He interrupted by getting up from his seat, and maybe

go over and play with a window blind, making noise, or prancing back and

forth in front of people talking.In so doing he would begin to say things,

like maybe to a person at random, about the way they were dressed, and he

disagreed with that. Or he didn't appreciate the conversation, if they were

not including him in it. Nothing was not right, unless Carly, had suggested

it first.Everybody was wrong but Carly. Then he would try his best to get

everyone to side with him,whether you wanted to or not. If you didn't this

gave to him the right in his own way of thinking that he could lash out at

you full force, making snappy aggressive remarks. Sometimes bringing up the

craziest things that didn't have anything at all to do with the moment.

So it is, I'm sorry to say. The list site is the showroom. And we are

all sitting around talking about Cancer, when in creeps an un-normal

unbalanced person. I think our best bet is to ignore, and hope that a family

out here can reach out to help them. Our duty as human beings, for helping

another person such as this is to use the time, for prayer. And in

kindness, try to uplift, the site, and not to bring down strife to another

human being. Keeping on the Cancer, and other diseases that are very

important to be learning about at this time.Mel and I, are so thankful that

we have learned, and will continue to learn, from everyone of you on this

list, about how to stay Healthy. All we have to do, to achieve this, is to

read, and to listen ..to what you post. And then, continue, ( to walk ), in

the other persons shoes. Taking their posting at the time, about the things

they have found that works for them. Then study that testimony.

Folks you have got to research, and not judge what another has found

that is working for them. What some of us are doing, is not all

experimental.... Many of these preventive medications, etc, have been around

for hundreds of years, and people like ourselves have had great results.

Don't ever shun,one away until you are certain, that they do, or don't work

for you..that is not saying it won't for someone else.

Mel and I found out in our earlier part of marriage, that I would

have died early, if I had continued using his products: such as some foods

and supplements,etc. I was not able to consume, Vinegar , cheese and milk

..It took me years to figure this out..And Cliff, and his Honey, well that

was another story. Ha.Ha. But if I'd ate as much honey as Cliff, and Mel,

had.. I'd looked like the other half of the 'Rock of Gibraltar'.

I Need a Flower in my Fall Garden, May I borrow YOU? Love Miz Judy