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<Once again, many thanks to all you caring and kind folks on the

Supertraining list who have continued to send us your prayers and best wishes.

I am so

pleased to be able to report that is now up and about, as lively as

ever and generally disobeying orders to " take it easy " . Her CAT scan is

entirely clear and she is now driving around the city in her adapted car and

revelling in being alive and being able to do whatever she can. She thanks all

of

you distant friends for your support and caring. Now she looks forward to

running her usual tough seated fitness session for those who are coming to

our next Strength Camp in a few weeks' time! >

Give my sincere regards to both you and your wife. It is wonderful to hear

that she is recovering so quickly and so well. I can only imagine how

frightening and trying it must have been for the two of you.

Kind Regards,

Frost

Taunton,MA

USA

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--- Mcsiff@... wrote:

> Once again, many thanks to all you caring and kind

> folks on the Supertraining

> list who have continued to send us your prayers and

> best wishes. I am so

> pleased to be able to report that is now up and

> about, as lively as ever

> and generally disobeying orders to " take it easy " .

> Her CAT scan is entirely

> clear and she is now driving around the city in her

> adapted car and revelling

> in being alive and being able to do whatever she

> can. She thanks all of you

> distant friends for your support and caring. Now

> she looks forward to

> running her usual tough seated fitness session for

> those who are coming to

> our next Strength Camp in a few weeks' time!

>

> We are very blessed that she survived and is so well

> on the way to her normal

> self. However, I shall never forget trying to open

> her almost lifeless eyes

> as she lay senseless on the concrete sidewalk just a

> few days ago - that

> image will be with me for the rest of my days! It

> will always remind me to

> be eternally grateful for our both being spared

> during recent years.

> Ironically, all of this happened almost exactly 4

> years after I had my near

> fatal coronary during a lecture to my engineering

> students.

>

> Mel Siff

>

> Dr Mel C Siff

> Denver, USA

> Supertraining/

>

>Hi Mel!

I have been in Scotland lecturing and visiting Mike

and Meg Stone so was unaware of your and 's

accident. I am most relieved that you are both

allright. Look forward to seeing you both in Spokane

at the NSCA conference.

Dan Wathen

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my wife has seen me go from a very active lifestyle to a lazy afraid

to bend the wrong way afraid to walk to much etc.. she thinks i be

better off without the pain meds she said meds alter your judgement.

I try to explain I been on fentaynl for pain since 1999. Sure I

started taking oxycontin then gradully went up. My doctor wants to

put the pain pump in me. He brings it up on several occasions. can

you have a pain pump alongside a stimulator. I also have epeliespy

spelling is terrible. and at one time they considered putting in a

brain stim. to slow down sezuires. but i have been sezuire free now

3 months. they up my lyrica by 2000mg and it stop the sezuires.

group please forgive me when it comes down to spelling i suck.

Mike-group owner

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Hi,

Yes you can have the Pain Pump and the SCS at the same time that

is what my doctor wants me to do.I am going to talk to him today June

12,2008 about it. I have been on so many medications it is sickening.

Right now I am on Kadian and Vicodin for break thru pain, along with

Topamax, Cymbalta and Baclofen and the Medtronic Stimulutor and I

still am in a great amount of pain. My doctor has been bugging me for

about 6 months now and I have been studying it on the intert now and

I think I am going to go through the trail it will mean a hospital

stay for the trail but is if means a clearer head and less meds going

though my liver and less pain I will try anything. I am only 43 years

old and I plan on living alot longer. They already have my trail

setup if i say yes it will be on June 23, 2008 But I will update you

guys more after my appointment this afternoon.

Kathy

>

> my wife has seen me go from a very active lifestyle to a lazy afraid

> to bend the wrong way afraid to walk to much etc.. she thinks i

be

> better off without the pain meds she said meds alter your

judgement.

> I try to explain I been on fentaynl for pain since 1999. Sure I

> started taking oxycontin then gradully went up. My doctor wants

to

> put the pain pump in me. He brings it up on several occasions.

can

> you have a pain pump alongside a stimulator. I also have

epeliespy

> spelling is terrible. and at one time they considered putting in a

> brain stim. to slow down sezuires. but i have been sezuire free

now

> 3 months. they up my lyrica by 2000mg and it stop the sezuires.

> group please forgive me when it comes down to spelling i suck.

> Mike-group owner

>

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> my wife has seen me go from a very active lifestyle to a lazy afraid

> to bend the wrong way afraid to walk to much etc.. she thinks i be

> better off without the pain meds she said meds alter your judgement.

> I try to explain I been on fentaynl for pain since 1999. Sure I

> started taking oxycontin then gradully went up. My doctor wants to

> put the pain pump in me. He brings it up on several occasions. can

> you have a pain pump alongside a stimulator. I also have epeliespy

> spelling is terrible. and at one time they considered putting in a

> brain stim. to slow down sezuires. but i have been sezuire free now

> 3 months. they up my lyrica by 2000mg and it stop the sezuires.

> group please forgive me when it comes down to spelling i suck.

> Mike-group owner

Hey Mike. I don't believe constant pain should ever be put in the

catagory of being lazy, don't be so hard on yourself. Your wife doesn't

understand because she's never been in constant, chronic pain, it's so

hard for them to know how you feel if they haven't been there. Great

news about how the Lyrica is helping you, wonderful. I don't think your

wife would want to see you in more pain and that's probably what would

happen if you stopped your meds, but that's up to you and your doctor.

You can have the pain pump and the SCS at the same time and maybe it's

something you could research and look into. And you're lucky that your

pain doctor does do them, many don't.

My pain doctor doesn't do pain pumps so if I need one I'll have to go

to another doctor and there's no other one in my town. I've been

dealing with my pain for over 10 years. My spine looked like an " L "

shaped spine and it wasn't any better after a fusion. Finally the

fusion failed and here I am with the SCS, it does some good but not a

lot. I'm thankful for small steps anyway.

Have you looked up any info on the pump yet? Maybe it will help you, I

hope you do get some relief.

Enjoy your vacation and try to relax, peace and relaxation is healing

too. And remember, no one knows how you feel as good as you do, they

haven't walked in your shoes...

Keep up the good work, this is a good thing you've started here.

Ginny

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HEY MIKE...WHO CARES ABOUT SPELLING...WE UNDERSTOOD ALL TOO WELL!!!

I HAD A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE WITH THE PAIN PUMP....I HAD MAJOR COMPLICATIONS

WHERE THE ALARM NEVER ALARMED...I WENT THROUGH WITHDRAWL OF MORPHINE,

BUBIVICAINE AND BACOLFEN...HAD HORRENDOUS SEIZUIRES .

I KNOW OTHERS WHO HAVE HAD THEM WITH GREAT SUCCESS ALSO....I AM NOT TRYING

TO SCARE YOU....BUT TRYING TO SHOW YOU ALL THE POSSIBILITIES.

I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK WITH THIS DIFFICULT DECISION.

KATHY

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Mike,

First off, just because you are afraid to bend the wrong way or walk too much

does not make you lazy. I have always felt that in our society it is easier on

women who beome handicapped than on men. Our society thinks nothing of a woman

who stays home while her spouse works but Heaven forbid the male stay home while

the wife works. Part of this problem is the man himself. He feels he is not a

real man if he stays home while his wife works. Believe me, most women know that

it takes a lot more than a man working to make a real man. A real man tries his

best and does what he is capable of. He is concerned about his children and

takes an active interest in what is going on in their lives. He listens to his

wife and really hears her. He tries to make her life easier. He makes sure that

their wives life would not be easier if they weren't in the picture. Remember, a

single mom would not only have to work but then come home and do the laundry,

the cooking and the cleaning herself.

You did not ask for this injury. You did not intentionally become the person

that you are now. Your marriage vows said in SICKNESS and in health. You have

nothing to feel guilty about this wasn't your fault. Your wife isn't the only

one who wishes that you were that big, strapping man you were a few years ago.

As for your spelling, I don't have any problems reading your posts. I have a

g'son who is in his 3rd year of college and I have all kinds of problems trying

to read a simple paragraph he writes. I just pray that his education earns him a

job with a secretary.

From what I havw learned of you, you are doing a great job with this group, you

are concerned about the way your problem affect your wife, you are involved with

your sons and in my eyes at least you are more than a real man.

I do think your wife is right about your oral meds affecting your judgeent. With

a pump the meds go to where your pain is rather than throughout your blood

stream and therefore you need a lower dose of meds. Also, there are no movement

restrictions with the pump.

Dorothy

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