Fw: Money owed suggestion

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From: Carie Bumbarger <cariebum@...>

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Cc: nancy bumbarger <b1234a2000@...>

Sent: Saturday, June 9, 2012 4:14 PM

Subject: Money owed suggestion

Ok here is my proposal and what I am willing to do but this is my final straw

and I don't want to make threats so just accept these terms and be happy. 

The money you owe ME  not in reference to child support but the money loaned in

October and missing Verizon payments can be paid in full Nov 1 2012.  No

" payments " just the full amount by Nov 1, 2012.  I believe you owe $110

including June payment for verizon, please let me know your figure.  That gives

you 5 more months and 13 months since you borrowed the money.  Starting July no

future Verizon payments can be missed.  You may address the issue with me but

not paying at all will void this contract out. 

Miss Angie, Trevor's therapist.  I will receive a new Bill on What you owe after

Tuesday visit.  I believe this will be  around $300.  I will pay this but this

is the condition..... You will have to pay the full amount (again no partial

payments) by March 2013 to me and must not be cash but a check to protect us

both.  However again, I will not cover any future visits  (From July 2012) at

this time.  Should Trevor's future visits not be covered by you, again this will

void this contract.   I have cancelled Trevor's July visit to hopefully help get

things " caught up " . 

Trevor is having a special assessment done that is not being covered by

medicaid.  I have authorized this since I am beating my ahead against the wall

with the school.  I have fought and fought all by myself with numerous appeals,

letters and meetings.  However, I know this is a high priority for Trevor. 

According to our divorce agreement you will be required to pay half but I am

going to pay all of it because honestly I am so sick of the whining how unfair

things are for you, it's not worth it to me.  I am selling jewlery to cover the

cost. 

Although I have been more then generous you get pissy at me to stop yelling

at you (which I haven't) and how unfair.  I gave my money away, I helped with

the car, getting you to PA, didn't press charges for unauthorized use of my

credit card, Did your taxes, paid your taxes and the prep fees, re-do your

resume.  My generousity is now officially over.  If I don't " lend " you money

then I won't have to ask and feel like I am worthless for asking, that is why I

no longer will cover your half of anything.  This is a shame this has come down

to this and we cannot be parents that can help each other in time of need. 

Please let me know if you accept this agreement with a reply.  I am having this

in writing to officially protect both of us.  Less arguments because it is

clearly defined.  Please let me know if my calculations are correct on the

amount owed to me.  If you do not understand then ask now and do not say

later... " .I thought you meant " ..... 

Carie Bumbarger