Re: Re: Relationships/Loviatar,

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Lucy Lu: If he is your significant other, I think you need to be able to talk to him about this. Just because he is not effected by the mites, doesn't mean there is not a problem at your home. If you cannot talk to him about this, then who can you talk to? I don't suggest that you always remain upbeat. Afterall, you are SUFFERING. And he is not. If he is your true significant other, then you should be able to share anything with him. I would not worry about driving him away. If you feel he is being driven away, or that he talks to you about leaving, well, then it is time for him to leave. If he loves you and wants to share his life with you, then you should have nothing to worry about. mel Lucy Lu <lucylu62@...> wrote: Loviatar,Your message was so bittersweet!!!I want you to be human again...I know exactly what you mean by saying that....I am sosorry we have to feel this way....LL--- loviatar3 <loviatar3 > wrote:> Although it may be hard, maybe if you don't talk> about it. This can > be hard since I'm sure you think about it a lot. > > I have friends who know I have the mites and are not> afraid of them, > so I feel happy that I can talk with them about it> and still hang out > with them. Other friends

said they wanted nothing> to do with me > until it is done, and yet others I have never told> and I see them > pretty much every day and they haven't gotten them,> so with them I > talk about anything but the mites--which I think> helps me since it > get my mind off of them and I feel less stressed,> although sometimes > I feel a bit jealous since they have normal lives> and sometimes I > wonder what would happen if they knew. > > Since some people have gotten these mites from me> before, I'm > avoiding relationships entirely, which is sad, but I> don't see any > choice if I don't want someone I care for to get> mites. Two > households are now infested from mites I carried> there. Both had pre-> existing rodent problems, the house I got the mites> from had rats, > but I don't understand why I still have them

and why> so many people I > spend time with don't get them. Along with my great> battle, I still > put out rodent bait, repellant noise makers, and> traps, but I don't > see any signs of rodent activity. I guess I'm their> rat now and I > wonder if I'll ever be a human again.> > > >> > > > Hi everyone,> > > > Just wondering how you all succeed at not driving> away> > your sig/other??> > > > My depression from this crap is really effecting> my> > relationship w/my live/with boyfriend....he does> not> > feel a thing.> > > > I try to be happy and enjoy things.....but i am so> > preoccupied by this

disease(?)> > > > love your advice- LL> > > > > > >__________________________________________________________> ______________> > Be a better friend, newshound, and > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. >http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ> >> > > > ------------------------------------> >