This, from my Quaker meeting, seems relevant in these difficult times -

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This month's Advice & Queries for the Northwest Pacific Yearly Meeting:ADVICES AND QUERIES ON Mutual Care Our need for love and care, and our response to this need in others, make up a rich part of our lives. In an exchange truly grounded in love, each of us is both giver and receiver, ready to help and accept help. Neither pride nor fear keeps us from the unconditional love and care of God manifested through others. Let neither comfort nor self-centeredness blind us to the need of others. We listen to one another with openness of heart and in good faith, aware that greater wisdom than our own is required to meet our human needs. We lift up our hearts to the

Source of all wisdom and power. Are we charitable with each other? How careful are we of the reputation of others? Do we avoid hurtful criticism and gossip? Do we practice the art of listening to one another, even beyond words? How well are we able to love each other unconditionally? Are we sensitive to each other¢s personal needs and difficulties and do we assist in useful ways?