Re: Why doesn't someone respond? I know how it feels!

[Guest guest]

We have all said that at one time or another. I just said the same thing 2

days ago.

Lynda

At 02:33 PM 3/22/2004, you wrote:

>Hi. I know this is a little late as I haven't kept up with posts in

>the last couple days. I just wanted to say that I have pretty much

>quit replying to posts because it doesnt seem anyone cares what I

>have to say anyway. I feel my suggestions are ignored until others

>say the same thing and then their posts get replys and thank yous.

>If I share my feelings, that is passed by too. So, I guess I will

>leave the replying to the people on this site who everyone appears

>to be waiting for. And it does hurt to take several hours reading

>and replying to posts and then not be responded to while a few

>select ones are! I have been helped here so much over the last 3

>years that I just wanted to be able to do the same for someone else!

>kathy

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[Guest guest]

--- Kathy, you mean the world to me, and your advice and love and

caring.... please dont stop replying.... You are always there for

me, and Im sorry if I have not been there for you, Im just selfish

sometimes w/my illness, and I wallow in pity sometimes,,, YOu are a

branch of this network, whether you realize it or not,,,, do not cut

off that branch, Love you, Iggy

In , " mikat828 " <mikat828@y...> wrote:

> Hi. I know this is a little late as I haven't kept up with posts

in

> the last couple days. I just wanted to say that I have pretty much

> quit replying to posts because it doesnt seem anyone cares what I

> have to say anyway. I feel my suggestions are ignored until others

> say the same thing and then their posts get replys and thank yous.

> If I share my feelings, that is passed by too. So, I guess I will

> leave the replying to the people on this site who everyone appears

> to be waiting for. And it does hurt to take several hours reading

> and replying to posts and then not be responded to while a few

> select ones are! I have been helped here so much over the last 3

> years that I just wanted to be able to do the same for someone

else!

> kathy

[Guest guest]

Ladies I was feeling the same way and this caused me to kind of take

a leave from the group for a bit. I think that it is just hard to

respond to everyone, it gets difficult and the group really has

gotten so large and so much more active than it used to be. I felt

like no one even noticed or cared when I went away and that hurt, esp

after 3 years of being involved in this group and doing tons of

things to make it what it is today, I mean Patty founded the group

but I was also around along time. I am trying to pop in as I can and

not take things too seriously, I believe that we do the best we can,

it is just impossible to reply to every post.

Sorry that your all feeling ignored, I have too been there!

In , " iggyangel7 " <iggyangel@c...>

wrote:

> --- Kathy, you mean the world to me, and your advice and love and

> caring.... please dont stop replying.... You are always there for

> me, and Im sorry if I have not been there for you, Im just selfish

> sometimes w/my illness, and I wallow in pity sometimes,,, YOu are

a

> branch of this network, whether you realize it or not,,,, do not

cut

> off that branch, Love you, Iggy

> In , " mikat828 " <mikat828@y...> wrote:

> > Hi. I know this is a little late as I haven't kept up with posts

> in

> > the last couple days. I just wanted to say that I have pretty

much

> > quit replying to posts because it doesnt seem anyone cares what I

> > have to say anyway. I feel my suggestions are ignored until

others

> > say the same thing and then their posts get replys and thank

yous.

> > If I share my feelings, that is passed by too. So, I guess I

will

> > leave the replying to the people on this site who everyone

appears

> > to be waiting for. And it does hurt to take several hours

reading

> > and replying to posts and then not be responded to while a few

> > select ones are! I have been helped here so much over the last 3

> > years that I just wanted to be able to do the same for someone

> else!

> > kathy

[Guest guest]

Kathy I love all your posts and responses! As well as everyone else's here. just thought Id pass that on. You have helped me a lot! Love

Why doesn't someone respond? I know how it feels!

Hi. I know this is a little late as I haven't kept up with posts in the last couple days. I just wanted to say that I have pretty much quit replying to posts because it doesnt seem anyone cares what I have to say anyway. I feel my suggestions are ignored until others say the same thing and then their posts get replys and thank yous. If I share my feelings, that is passed by too. So, I guess I will leave the replying to the people on this site who everyone appears to be waiting for. And it does hurt to take several hours reading and replying to posts and then not be responded to while a few select ones are! I have been helped here so much over the last 3 years that I just wanted to be able to do the same for someone else! kathy