Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 Daryl I agree with , I just finished Dr. 's book and it was wonderful. My mother and grandmother basicly raised me with these ideas and they work. When I got sick from the implants my focus changed and I stoped treating my husband in these ways. I became so involved in my illness and didn't think about him and how he was feeling. We are now getting a divorce. I always treated him as my heoro and was his cheering section. I was always nicely dressed when he came home, I always fixed a wonderful meal for him and our kids, I would go out of my way to do nice things for him. Than I got sick. I know that he felt helpless. But I think there were things I could have kept doing or saying that might have made a difference. I know that I am not completly at faught. This appoarch will only work on a real man. One that knows what it means to be a real man. And believes in commitment. I know now that my husband was not really a man in fact one of his last words to me before he left is that he lost his manhood, being with me. We had ohter issues, like he couldn't keep a job. So I paided for everything, including his child support to his ex. He used to call me super women because I was so busy raising my 3 kids and doing my interior design buisness and selling designer cloths. After getting sick it was all I could do to take care of my three kids and he two. We went thru my savings and I had to sell my stocks just to keep us afloat. I am still in debt from be married to him. But he has a new profession that I paid for the education. I think I went of track here and am venting. Sorry about that. We did not have a child together which you do. It was very easy to seperate. But you and your husband have your son. Your son needs both his mom and dad to be together , this fight is worth fighting. Daryl read the book..........try these things no matter how sick you are if not for your husband do it for your son. I pray that things will get better for you and that your health will get better too. Love Cricket Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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